El_Mariachi Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 actually this is where you cross the line when it comes to privacy. one has every right to have his privacy and this is a perfect example of it. even married couples "shouldnt" be reading their partner's messages. unless of course with permission. having to secretly view your partner's messages runs smack of disrespect. its another way of saying you dont trust the person youre with. Quote Link to comment
peep_tom Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 I let my wife read or get when i have text msgs or even answer my phone. The same way she lets me with her phone. Bottomline is if you have nothing to hide theres no reason for anyone not to allow their wife (i dunno about gf or other kinds of partnership) answer thier cellphone wether it be text msg or call. Husbands and wives are considered as one and i dont think privacy should be present between them. Thats is only my personal opinion. Kse what if yung wife mo ang meron nag text at ayaw ipabasa sa iyo what would you think? I know sasabihin ng iba na if you trust her di ka magdududa, pero cmon lets be realistic here. PEACE Quote Link to comment
speedy22222002 Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 Know what.. why does it automatically mean na "may tinatago" if you just want your privacy? I don't agree that if you're in a relationship, you completely own each other as in you have the right to invade each other's privacy. Que may tinatago o wala.. respect each other's privacy dapat. If you're too paranoid on what your partner is up to.. it's not true that you love your partner so better breakup with him/her. Pero ha.. I've noticed that guys love to pry.. sa tutuo lang.. dahil ba gawain nyo kse yun? <{POST_SNAPBACK}>i agree with u black cat. Quote Link to comment
speedy22222002 Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 nope....hehehehe...magiging cause lang ng away yung ganon eh.... some thingsn are better kept in silence,,,,,tska rights of privacy,,.......... :mtc: :cool: :hypocritesmiley:<{POST_SNAPBACK}>i do agree with, its better not to let your partner read your txt messages, to avoid trouble. :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
Direct Hit Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 She can read my messages, I got no problem with that. I'm not hiding anything naman. My advice, kung may tinatago kayo, get another fone and hide it hehehehe Quote Link to comment
caps lock Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 Wala akong tinatago, pero I wouldn't let my BF read my text messages. If he cannot trust me enough, ayaw ko na sa kanya. Quote Link to comment
occam Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 I don't mind. She can read it all she wants. I have nothing to hide on that phone. I have another phone she doesn't know about. Quote Link to comment
DiStUrBeDAnGeL Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 He does it... But I really get pissed off everytime he do that... Reading msgs and scrolling down to every number from my call register... I mean, I have nothing to hide but... GIMME PRIVACY!!!... Quote Link to comment
Guest Dobermaxx Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 I really don't have anything to hide when it comes to messages on my phone so she's free to take a look whenever she wants. Out of respect she always asks me first before even picking up my phone. Quote Link to comment
Dr_PepPeR Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 I never willingly let her read my text messages. To set the example, I never read hers even when I have the chance. Even if I have nothing to hide. Quote Link to comment
sweetie Posted March 7, 2006 Share Posted March 7, 2006 I never willingly let her read my text messages. To set the example, I never read hers even when I have the chance. Even if I have nothing to hide.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> same here.. Quote Link to comment
husband and wife Posted March 7, 2006 Share Posted March 7, 2006 I can read or answer my husbands cellphone the same way he does with mine, i dont find anything wrong with it. were partners anyway and my privacy is his privacy and vise versa. We dont want to keep anything from each other. - Irene Quote Link to comment
_Steroid_ Posted March 7, 2006 Share Posted March 7, 2006 it's alryt.. unless may tinatago kayo na hindi dapat malaman ng partner niyo... on the other side, each of us has a privacy din to enjoy and be priveleged of... Quote Link to comment
babypinkgirl Posted March 7, 2006 Share Posted March 7, 2006 I think reading each other's text messages isn't the main issue for me...I think it has something to do with security!!! I never read my ex-boyfriend's text messages...i didn't even asked for his password in his e-mail accounts simply because i trust him and he never gave me a single reason to doubt him!!! In my case, i dont care at all if my partner wants to read my text messages or even e-mails!!! What i care about is how i can make him feel how much i truly love him!!! Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted March 7, 2006 Share Posted March 7, 2006 It's so tempting to browse through your partner's inbox. You can learn a lot about a person just by reading his/her mails and text messages. Quote Link to comment
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