love Do You Let Your Partner Read Your Text Messages?

[PartPastTime]

She can read it by all means... Got nothing to hide. During the times that Im in a relationship, I stay faithful... Im single right now so I can do whatever I want....

[silver_ff]

ako pakialamera ako at magaling mangkalkal ng cp,,pero ako ayoko binabasa cp kasi may may kalokohan..hehe..joke separate yun cp na pangkalokohan at yun cp na matitino lang para walang sabit..

but seriously madami na nasirang relasyon yang cp na yan eh,,ang text kasi minsan iba dating sa iba kaya nagkakaron ng misunderstanding..the way they read the message is a diffrent meaning to them..kaya maganda wag na lang pakialaman,,

[Sakristan]

I dont mind at all. Pero kapag sya nabasahan ko ng message na ng 2 2 time. Papalunok ko cellphone nya. Joke

[frontsight]

NO! personal yun

[_Honey_]

Kahit ayaw ko, mapilit sya eh. lol.

[superbaboy]

i don't let wifey read my cel nor look inside my wallet. but it works both ways, i also don't look at hers. mag-away na kung mag-away.

 

technically, if you need to read each others' messages or check each others' calls, then why do you have to have separate phones pa? isa na lang at share na lang kayo, kasi yun naman ang end result ng ganun set-up.

[bethoven]

ok lang cguro mabasa as long as wala ka namang ginagawang masama, minsan kasi un ang pinagmumulan ng tampuhan......

[jgc813]

Cellphones, just like diaries, or toothbrushes for that matter, are really very personal stuff. No matter how close you are, you don't share toothbrushes. Likewise, you don't let your diaries be read.

 

Just as I don't check others' cellphones, I don't expect mines to be checked either. Besides, even the most innocent text message could be a source of misunderstanding. (How much more if the messages are "not innocent?")

[klaus]

no pero pag gusto nya ok lang sa akin..hehehe

[nicky'sback]

 

 

okay lang. tha's not an issue with us. kaya lang medyo selosa sya, tanong agad kapag may nakitang bagong number ng girl sa cp ko..hehehe;)

 

 

[veinshard]

ako okay lang basahin niya. mas okay nga yon, may PA nako

[Miggz]

No choice. She'll think I'm fooling around if I don't allow her to look

[rockchic]

i check his phone, he checks mine. i have habit of checking his call lists too. i'm equally allergic to the nakasilent mode.. hahah fishy pag nagtatago ng cellphone hahaha

[RED2018]

I always assume that she reads all my cp's messages...for my part, I see to it that the messages won't put our bond in peril (either I erase messages with unexplainable 'perception' or won't allow possible 'naughty' texters to get my cp number)

 

Havin' said that, transparency is paramount- eventually this same transparency will breed trust and firmer bond...

[kira21]

Its fine with me... and a lot of my exes have than that to me, peeking without me knowing it. anyway I always grant them the privilege to do that to gain their trust.

[infrasound]

No for me. I told my gf once na we have our personal lives other than us being a couple. So respect for privacy is important too.

[Mr_man]

I have nothing to hide and besides, letting her check my phone does away with petty rows.

[robsalvador]

My wife only selectively..

 

My GF always, yes..

Edited November 4, 2010 by robsalvador

[bitoysworld123]

Most of the time I have my phone with me... Rarely that I would let my gf look at it or even let her read my messages hehe. But if she insists, had no choice but to let it be. Anyways, I delete the messages which are not supposed to be read by anyone than me

[orionquest]

hindi dapat. ang problema pag pinakialaman.

[ThUgZtaH]

it's like this. if you've got nothing to hide, why bother trying to keep her off your phone?

[jays0n]

nope

[Ja_07]

no way honey....hindi pwede un ..cel pati wallet..hindi pwede pakialaman....maliban na lang kung walang pera at lalgyan nya...or nagtext si kumareng SMART and si Kumpareng GLOBE at SUN....pababasa ko pa sa kanya...I have the right to privacy...no trespassing...

[tequila5]

Hindi naman sya yung type na nagchecheck ng phone, maybe because he thinks that it's a personal or private thing. I also do that before -- i don't read his cp. But after I've discovered a couple of ugly things just recently.. t@ena no way he can keep it from me. Trust is an issue now.

[erato]

I won't read text messages on anyone's phone, even if it was lying there and no one's watching. Really. I expect to be accorded the same respect. I don't want anyone touching my phone (and my laptop, and my stuff) without first asking me. It's an invasion of privacy. As for trust issues, I am not the suspicious type. And in the same way I want people to take my word, I just take other people's word, even if it's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. I'd like to think that it doesn't make me a fool; it makes me understanding.