love Do You Let Your Partner Read Your Text Messages?

[abiakak]

same as simpatiko... NO CHOICE EH hehehe

 

What do you mean there's no choice? There's always a choice. In your case, you just made the choice to let her read it.

[angel_by_day]

he can read mine, anytime....no qualms about that. But i wouldn't read his, unless he asks me too. As mentioned, it's just a matter of trust, and being secure with where i stand

[saeed]

when i was back home, i just leave my celphone in our room or anywhere accesible area im at in the house. my wife can use or navigate it anytime. i have nothing to hide anyway, hehe.

 

if you keep too much attention to obvious "douobtful" actions, lets say, being "too protective" of your mobiles, then that leads to more suspicion. the more your in for trouble, my man.

 

privacy?yup,there should be space, but once your married, whats yours is your wives too (of course, somethings are better off not known by the wifey SOMETIMES).

 

better, try to find other ways, if you have some "extras' on the side. finding another sim, email, some other "signage" such as miss calls, or, tell your "xtra" to use special message patterns... maybe, "how are you pare, better prepare for the meeitng and presentation on friday---translation--> "i miss you, baby, can we meet and present me your d**k on friday?" :thumbsupsmiley:

 

anyway, THATS IF you have some hanky panky...back to topic, yes, my wife reads my text messages, not all, but sometimes. i have nothing to hide anyway :evil:

[chicblossoms]

i don't have anything to hide, he can read whenever he likes...basta gusto pababasa nya rin sakin ung sa kanya

[hydro_chloride]

Kung wala ka naman talagang tinatago. Baket hindi mo pabasa?

[rea_listic]

sure thang.. but dont blame me after...

[Guest jeyg]

ako pinapabasa ko kasi pag nakahulata siyang ayaw ko pabasa or tinatago ko cell ko she gets suspicious or mad.. siyempre I read hers also..

[andrewfordmedina]

I let her read my messages if it so happens that she was holding the phone (like when I am driving, or doing something else) when the message came.....

 

Alam naman niya wala ako tinatago eh......

 

As much as possible, she doesn't go through my mobile and more often than not, asks permission to open the message.

 

I also do the same.....I respect her privacy as much as she respects mine.

[shaggy]

sure got nothing to hide. for me in a relationship only 2 things are important. Honesty and and being open in everything. If you have both, you have covered all the bases you need to be in a perfectly good relationship.

[LickMeDownThere]

yes i let him check my phone pero syempre i always make it a point na ala na mga ibidensya.. hahaha

[kHaY3g4Rci4]

uhmm... as much as possible ayoko sana... but for the sake of the relationship and since we're trying to get each others trust and loyalty.. openness is one of the factors for a good and better relationship... kaya kung titingnan niya rin lang fon ko, i also must see his fon too.. :hypocritesmiley:

[discount_card]

ok lang sakin kung basahin nya yung mga text messages sa phone ko pero ako I never read the text messages on her phone maliban lang kung siya mismo ang magpapabasa sakin. =)

[maya]

Nah. It's too private. You have to respect each other's privacy.

[darling]

No. I'm out of the relationship if she thinks it's her right.

[SilverWings]

kung wala ka naman tinatago eh di pabasa mo pero nandun pa rin yung line ng privacy.. diba?