Chi-Chi Posted June 9, 2004 Share Posted June 9, 2004 shouldnt matter.. its a silly thing! Quote Link to comment
Jourdan Posted June 10, 2004 Share Posted June 10, 2004 won't matter...it's a bonus though. Quote Link to comment
kundera Posted June 10, 2004 Share Posted June 10, 2004 mas ok pa nga na di na virgin para di mamantsahan yung bedsheet ko Quote Link to comment
itikbitik Posted June 10, 2004 Share Posted June 10, 2004 it matters to me para ma iba naman hehehehe honestly every guy wants to be the first. pero i think i would rather be the last kung hindi na sya virgin when we became bf/gf then fine with me. as long as honest sya. na alala ko tuloy conversation namin ng be ko btw kundera nice sig. st agustin - give me chastity but now now Quote Link to comment
kundera Posted June 10, 2004 Share Posted June 10, 2004 st agustin - give me chastity but not now that's my prayer every night Quote Link to comment
Guest event_horizon Posted June 11, 2004 Share Posted June 11, 2004 if i were still, then it would matter... but seriously, i don't think it will matter.... Quote Link to comment
prito_bandido Posted June 11, 2004 Share Posted June 11, 2004 In my point of view, a woman's virginity specially if she is your girlfriend and plan to seetle with her for life, the ideal is she has to be a virgin. A high standard is aimed at since you are talking for a companion, partner, friend, soulmate, and everything that would complement you. One aspect is her virginity. Ideally, that is the dream. Realistically, when the ideal is tempered with reality, the gap between the two has to narrow down and even to fill the gap to make sure there is agreement. When one sets his dream to state wherein one's life for the future is at stake, we should have the best that life can offer. Lowering your standard for such a lifetime engagement would mean the ideal no longer exists in your criteria. Hence, the attitude would be if she a virgin well and good. If she is not, well at least naman you should love her. You should have a lot of love to understand who she no matter what she has been. To accept her as she is and have the great faith that inspite of what she is not, love goes beyond the merely phisical and material. You transcend the vulnarable and fragile condition of human nature and proceed to higher level of being human. Hence, one's perspective is raised to a level of the metaphysical, the beyond, the spiritual. We there have to consider that what matters most is your ability to transcend, to go beyond the merely now and project to longer time frame of the future that is the beyond. We really do not know what will happen to the future since we cannot hold the future, but at least we know Who Holds the Future. You can call Him bey many names. Hi edtc..first of all...Peace brather...Medyo comment lang ako wbout high standard(virgin) and low standard(not virgin)...ako kasi i don't look at virginity in that sense..na isa syang basehan ng standard...kasi for me sex(love making for couples-married&unmarried) is something that is natural in every relationship...i don't and never have looked at sex as something to give or be given only on or after marriage...for me it's as natural as breathing...so no need to wait for marriage kasi baka di kana umabot at malagutan na ng hininga..mwahahaha...from reading the thread i find that the guys here are thinking more on what IS important and not on what WAS important...medyo nagmo-move na ang thinking ng guys..kasi dati mga kasabayan ko double standards...sila mga di na virgin pero they want that their partner be a virgin...shet...super double standard...so guys...have a healthy sex life.....and always...safe sex.... Peace.... :mtc: Quote Link to comment
undextrois Posted June 12, 2004 Share Posted June 12, 2004 nothing beats the first time Quote Link to comment
Randerthall Posted June 12, 2004 Share Posted June 12, 2004 doesn't really matter to me mas gusto ko nga pag hinde eh, kasi tuturuan niya pa ako :evil: Quote Link to comment
Ice Posted June 12, 2004 Share Posted June 12, 2004 Lets just say that every man has his opinions with regards to virginity. But personally though, we shouldnt be hypocrits, saying that virginity is an issue when we are the cause why women loose them dont you think? Quote Link to comment
a_ngel Posted June 12, 2004 Share Posted June 12, 2004 Lets just say that every man has his opinions with regards to virginity. But personally though, we shouldnt be hypocrits, saying that virginity is an issue when we are the cause why women loose them dont you think? well said Quote Link to comment
kjmm Posted June 13, 2004 Share Posted June 13, 2004 sympre mas maganda kung virgin pa yung gf mo,d na rin issue kung may nakauna na sa kanya,ang importante is syo siya napunta at you both love each other,mas panget kung kayo na tapos nagpapayari siya sa iba.. TAMA BA YUN!!!! Quote Link to comment
touch21 Posted June 13, 2004 Share Posted June 13, 2004 It doesnt really matters to me , whats important is we enjoy each others company sexually , emotionally, physically and spiritually Quote Link to comment
Forumwalker Posted June 13, 2004 Share Posted June 13, 2004 It doesnt really matters to me , whats important is we enjoy each others company sexually , emotionally, physically and spiritually idol.. good one! :cool: Quote Link to comment
angel_danielsb Posted October 11, 2004 Share Posted October 11, 2004 it's so important for me the virginity of a girl. that what makes everything special when it comes to your honeymoon day.honestly, when it comes to serious relationships, virginity will be important.. Quote Link to comment
dakkon blackblade Posted October 11, 2004 Share Posted October 11, 2004 i actually dont care about it...sa kung birhen cya o hindi, i dont care...what really matters is that you love each other at nagkakasundo kau and you enjoy each other... tapos. Quote Link to comment
Ferrari_360 Posted October 11, 2004 Share Posted October 11, 2004 as long as she's honest about it(virgin or not) its fine by me..what counts is we get along fine Quote Link to comment
ryc100 Posted October 12, 2004 Share Posted October 12, 2004 tama kayo guys! its not important if she's not a virgin anymore. it doesnt matter if ur not the 1st guy she's done it with,whats important is ur the last guy she'l do it with. :goatee: Quote Link to comment
muff_lover Posted October 13, 2004 Share Posted October 13, 2004 I don't care whether she's a virgn or not. What I care about is if she lied to me about it. Quote Link to comment
Bayushi_Aramasu Posted October 13, 2004 Share Posted October 13, 2004 Corny mo kung ganun a. Kung girlfriend mo, therefore mahal mo, dapat wala kang pakialam sa past life. She is who she is right now despite, in spite, and because of whatever happened before you even met her. It counts, but not in the way that it's like it should matter now.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> i hav 2 agree... i hav my hand up... that statement alone sez it all Quote Link to comment
Pure Logic Posted October 13, 2004 Share Posted October 13, 2004 to me the question sounds as irrelevant as asking whether your boyfriend has ever eaten a Big Mac before Quote Link to comment
hsmeilop Posted October 13, 2004 Share Posted October 13, 2004 virginity is irrelevant. want is important is that we love each other. also if she's no longer a virgin then she knows about her sexual wants na. Hehehe... maybe she can even show you so tricks and skills she has acquired. :evil: Quote Link to comment
batang_yakult Posted October 13, 2004 Share Posted October 13, 2004 Well mukhang hinde na nga uso yung famous line naAng gift ko sa asawa sa unang gabi namin ay ang virginity ko... Most of the guys I read here are Ok with the thought kahit hindi na virgin girlfriend nila. Kudos to you! Quote Link to comment
R@v3n Posted October 13, 2004 Share Posted October 13, 2004 If ever my girlfriend isn't a virgin anymore, it matters not since it was her decision to lose it anyway. Kung virgin pa siya, di mas okey! We'll learn together! :cool: Quote Link to comment
sayber_x Posted October 13, 2004 Share Posted October 13, 2004 it doen't matter.... matters most is the love that you have for each other...... Quote Link to comment
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