arelim Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 haaaayyyyy...... tsk tsk tsk... Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 reaction to the last line of the first post..... i agree....nakakasira ng utak ang magseryoso sa babae. pero....nakamamatay naman kung walang babae....hahaha!! ---sorry na OT. i'm just breaking the ice.--- Quote Link to comment
masi Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 where have you been? last time i checked iilan na lang ang mga kastila at prayle sa Maynila? come on! are you serious? how on earth could you even think that you want to be serious with that girl if you CAN'T even accept her, and her past? if you want a virgin, try courting a NUN!!! Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 ...or a 12 year old.  in fairness, there are really those who wanted to preserve their virginity....and i admire them for doing that. ang hirap gawin nun at this point in time. can you just imagine the discipline....i know someone pa nga who works in a club...but believe it or not....she's still not yet taken. she's so pretty and all....but she couldnt bear losing her virginity with just anyone. Man....i tell you...sasambahin ko yun... Quote Link to comment
Belly Dancer Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 i do agree with most of those who posted here. and to think that majority of those who responded were men! just to show you that maybe you need to re-think your convictions. at this day and age, it is admirable to meet someone who has kept his/her virginity. why is your girlfriend's virginity so important to you? if she is not a virgin anymore, does this make her less of the woman that you fell in love with? if you are thinking of what other people think, it's none of their business if your girlfriend is a virgin or not. i doubt if they even ask. Quote Link to comment
Wacky Dreamer Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 It's "living hell" when she remembers her past experience/s whenever we 'bang'.How would I know? Of course I do too, don't we? Now I guess I just have to live by it - I love her, and I understand (and she must too, I got lots of memories to cherish hehehe) Quote Link to comment
Guest Camerie Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 Is virginity the basis why you are marrying the girl, of course not... You're marrying her because you love her and you want to spent your life with her... Virgin or not, it shouldn't matter... You should love her for who she is and accept her totally. :hypocritesmiley: Quote Link to comment
valentino rossi Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 My question is, does being not a virgin makes her less of a woman? Quote Link to comment
hon_23 Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 Naguguluhan ako mga tsong. Me mahal na mahal akong girl pero feeling ko inde na siya virgin. Balak ko pa naman siyang seryosohin alam niyo na. Pakasalan balang araw. Sabi niya virgin pa siya kaya lang pag nag mamakeout kami something tells me she's not and i can tell she knows some things. one time i got shocked becaused she sat on me facing me and started gyrating hers to me while kissing her. We still haven't had sex and i don't why. I have other girls who i can have sex with anytime i want but i really do love her. She's the one i would want to bring home to my mom.  Please mga tol, kahit sino. Hindi ko masabi sa barkada kasi alam ko pintasero ako nuon saka mapili sa tsiks. t*ang*na, nakarma ata ako. Grabe pare mahal na mahal ko siya at talagang pinaghirapan ko un. Pahirapan talaga. Nalulungkot akong di ko maintindihan. Nagdadalawang isip kasi ako. Kaya ba ayokong nagsseryoso sa babae nakakasira ng utak eh.<{POST_SNAPBACK}>  Hey silverhand, virginity should not be an issue in a relationship..what matter most is that u love her...grw up man![/size] Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted November 24, 2005 Share Posted November 24, 2005 if you cannot accept her as a virgin....to make your life simpler....just leave her alone. she doesnt deserve a non-virgin either. Quote Link to comment
black cat Posted November 24, 2005 Share Posted November 24, 2005 Hmm.. are you sure you really love this girl? I think you have the wrong notion what love truly means. I would suggest that you reassess your feelings for this girl before you would even claim that she's the one you want to marry. Quote Link to comment
silverhand Posted November 24, 2005 Share Posted November 24, 2005 Thanks sa lahat ng nag post. I just....I don't know. But i believe the majority is right. I't doesn't really change anything. I still love her. I really do. Â Thanks people. Quote Link to comment
bullseye2x Posted November 24, 2005 Share Posted November 24, 2005 oo nga just love her nalang... Quote Link to comment
Zerreit Posted November 24, 2005 Share Posted November 24, 2005 (edited) Naguguluhan ako mga tsong. Me mahal na mahal akong girl pero feeling ko inde na siya virgin. Balak ko pa naman siyang seryosohin alam niyo na. Pakasalan balang araw. Sabi niya virgin pa siya kaya lang pag nag mamakeout kami something tells me she's not and i can tell she knows some things. one time i got shocked becaused she sat on me facing me and started gyrating hers to me while kissing her. We still haven't had sex and i don't why. I have other girls who i can have sex with anytime i want but i really do love her. She's the one i would want to bring home to my mom. <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Is your mom going to inspect your gf's vagina for any lacerations? Is your mom some kind of psychic or clairvoyant to notice just by looking at your gf if she's a virgin or not? Dude with the kind of mentality that you have, you're not ready for any kind of relationships, especially a serious one. Again, it shouldn't matter whether she is one or not. Sheesh...  Thanks sa lahat ng nag post. I just....I don't know. But i believe the majority is right. I't doesn't really change anything. I still love her. I really do.  Thanks people.<{POST_SNAPBACK}>It took a bunch of strangers on the internet to make you realize that? If I were your girlfriend, I'd dump you. Edited November 25, 2005 by Zerreit Quote Link to comment
MA Posted November 25, 2005 Share Posted November 25, 2005 (edited) Is your mom going to inspect your gf's vagina for any lacerations? Is your mom some kind of psychic or clairvoyant to notice just by looking at your gf if she's a virgin or not? Dude with the kind of mentality that you have, you're not ready for any kind of relationships, especially a serious one. Again, it shouldn't matter whether she is one or not. Sheesh... It took a bunch of strangers on the internet to make you realize that? If I were your girlfriend, I'd dump you.<{POST_SNAPBACK}>  Right on, Zer  Silverhand, as much as I want to be sympathetic to your crusade of "pagseseryoso sa Virgin lang", I simply can't. You see, what you're doing is discriminating against women who have had previous sexual relationships. And that, to me, is downright incongruous.  Really, what does it matter that your girlfriend's no longer a virgin? Is she any less of a person - and therefore unworthy of your "prized" love and commitment - because she has had her hymen ripped by someone else? Besides, why would you let your friends' opinions sway your decision to love and respect your girlfriend? They're not the ones in a relationship, you are. This double-standard which you oh-so-obviously subscribe to, is giving you a myopic view of love and relationships. And i'm telling you now, if you can't be mature enough to look past your girlfriend's (past) sexual experiences, then maybe you don't deserve to have her - or any other decent non-virgin girls for that matter. And I know this is a stretch, but maybe you'd do well if you'd just stick to the "other girls you have indiscriminate sex with". Because my dear, questioning your girlfriend's character on account of her sexual experiences is doing her a disservice - which, to my think, she doesn't deserve. Edited November 25, 2005 by MA Quote Link to comment
MTBCommuter Posted November 25, 2005 Share Posted November 25, 2005 Another result of the wrong notion of society.Every one expects a girl to be a virgin, yet be able to perform great in bed upon marriage, how on earth will a woman do that? heheheIf you really love the girl, go for it dude. What is important is that the woman loves you much. Virginity is not an issue. Move on pre Quote Link to comment
perriwinkle Posted November 25, 2005 Share Posted November 25, 2005 hey common' men...dont be like that.so do you mean all na hindi na virgin e walang 'k' na seryosohin at pakasalan? lahat ng tao ay nagkakamali,kung talagang mahal mo sya ay wala ka nang denial reason,"love is blind" ika nga....why,are you still a virgin to pick someone na virgin din?I dont want to hurt your feelings...either your loved ones.PEACE Quote Link to comment
lomex32 Posted November 25, 2005 Share Posted November 25, 2005 Mga hijos hijasLet us help this fellow think why, naguguluhan na nga, most if not all of the post here are logical, doable, workable, practical and probably the only way through life Sliverhand, what seem to be the problem kung sabi nya virgin and hindi na sya virgin? 1. Becasue you suspect her as being a liar? A girl who will just take advantage of your care/love? 2. If indeed hindi na siya virgin? Do you find her as damage goods? Marumi? Di karapatdapat mahalin? 3. So ano ang criteria mo ng dapat mong mahalin? 4. Ano ba ang mga values mo sa buhay mo? MUST Ano naman ang pwedeng negotiable sa iyo? MAYBE ACCEPTABLEAno naman ang talagan hindi pwede sa iyo? UNACCEPTABLE 5. Ang sagot ay nasa iyo silverhand Example for your guide :Ano ba ang mga values mo sa buhay mo? MUST - Dapat may takot sa DiyosAno naman ang pwedeng negotiable sa iyo? MAYBE - Pwede na rin kahit naninigarilyoAno naman ang talagan hindi pwede sa iyo? UNACCEPTABLE - Ayoko sa lahat ang sinungaling at magnanakaw  Naguguluhan ako mga tsong. Me mahal na mahal akong girl pero feeling ko inde na siya virgin. Balak ko pa naman siyang seryosohin alam niyo na. Pakasalan balang araw. Sabi niya virgin pa siya kaya lang pag nag mamakeout kami something tells me she's not and i can tell she knows some things. one time i got shocked becaused she sat on me facing me and started gyrating hers to me while kissing her. We still haven't had sex and i don't why. I have other girls who i can have sex with anytime i want but i really do love her. She's the one i would want to bring home to my mom.  Please mga tol, kahit sino. Hindi ko masabi sa barkada kasi alam ko pintasero ako nuon saka mapili sa tsiks. t*ang*na, nakarma ata ako. Grabe pare mahal na mahal ko siya at talagang pinaghirapan ko un. Pahirapan talaga. Nalulungkot akong di ko maintindihan. Nagdadalawang isip kasi ako. Kaya ba ayokong nagsseryoso sa babae nakakasira ng utak eh.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Quote Link to comment
heavygatin_but_cutie Posted November 25, 2005 Share Posted November 25, 2005 i agree to what the peeps here say.... virginity should not be a gauge for you to love and seriously consider a girl. it is not a measure of her character. and so what?! kung di na sya virgin...you yourself..di na rin virgin. masyado naman atang nagigin double standard yan eh. kapag ba ang babae di na virgin, di na worth seryosohin at iharap sa dambana, di na worth mahalin at respetohin? i dont think so. eh di dapat ganun din sa inyong mga lalaki. if you really love the girl..you will love her no matter what. and in the first place .. ikaw nga di na virgin..hanap ka ng virgin? hmm unfair. Â if you love her...love her for what she is and for what she has become...that is true love. kung "preserve" mo sarili mo and virgin ka pa...yun dun..may right ka to look for another "virgin"..but if you are no longer one...wag naman na maghanap...quits na yun. Quote Link to comment
Mike Chester Posted November 25, 2005 Share Posted November 25, 2005 For me, I think tingnan mo na muna ang naging dahilan kung bakit niya naibigay sa iba ung virginity nya.  Kung naibigay niya yun dun sa tao na talagang minahal niya, well you have to admire and acept her kasi that means she can give everything, as in everything, to the one she loves. Pero kung ang dahilan naman ay dahil sa pagiging palikera niya, or ung masyado siyang liberated, then that's the time na kailangan mong timbangin kung kaya mo pa rin ba siyang tanggapin as she is. Especially kung ang character mo ay ung tipong sensitive, mas maganda na hanap ka na lang ulit ng iba. Quote Link to comment
Wacky Dreamer Posted November 25, 2005 Share Posted November 25, 2005 Thanks sa lahat ng nag post. I just....I don't know. But i believe the majority is right. I't doesn't really change anything. I still love her. I really do.  Thanks people.<{POST_SNAPBACK}>This is really a matter most filipino men look-up to, truth is this has been a biased conversation. The other side of us never had the guts or balls to state their point (who can stand the bombardment of "Hindi mo siya talaga mahal") heheheAnyway, I'll share my point why you are miserable: It is ideal to marry a virgin. Yes, ideal. But it is not miserable not to marry one.Ideal:1) she does not have any past that are not worth cherishing2) she took good care of herself and you get the rewards3) fresh is always good4) she doesn't know much about sex (maybe theoretically) so it'll be a venturous tour in weeks or months5) the experience will all start from you and if anything happens it will only be you to blame (like when she gets cancer)6) there is a very slight or zero chance it might come to her mind to have an affair7) she definitely do not nor surely did not have STD'sJust a few of how it become ideal Quote Link to comment
clarkraven Posted November 25, 2005 Share Posted November 25, 2005 Now a days...wer in 20th cenruty and its very rare to find a genuine Virgin woman. I guess your mom is still on the stage of "Oldies tradition" what important is you loved the person kahit hindi na sya VIRGIN! and babae hindi sinasaktan minamahal Niligawan mo yung girl w/o hesitation whether or not she's still a virgin diba. Quote Link to comment
best_X_girlfriend Posted November 26, 2005 Share Posted November 26, 2005 Naguguluhan ako mga tsong. Me mahal na mahal akong girl pero feeling ko inde na siya virgin. Balak ko pa naman siyang seryosohin alam niyo na. Pakasalan balang araw. Sabi niya virgin pa siya kaya lang pag nag mamakeout kami something tells me she's not and i can tell she knows some things. one time i got shocked becaused she sat on me facing me and started gyrating hers to me while kissing her. We still haven't had sex and i don't why. I have other girls who i can have sex with anytime i want but i really do love her. She's the one i would want to bring home to my mom.  Please mga tol, kahit sino. Hindi ko masabi sa barkada kasi alam ko pintasero ako nuon saka mapili sa tsiks. t*ang*na, nakarma ata ako. Grabe pare mahal na mahal ko siya at talagang pinaghirapan ko un. Pahirapan talaga. Nalulungkot akong di ko maintindihan. Nagdadalawang isip kasi ako. Kaya ba ayokong nagsseryoso sa babae nakakasira ng utak eh.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> I'm Confused: Pano Kung Di Na Sya Virgin --- SO?!?  Nalulungkot akong di ko maintindihan.you're disappointed 'cuz yung pinaghirapan mo e nakuha na pala ng iba [yung gusto mo]. dont you think that more than anything else, you won a very big prize because you got her heart? not just like the guy/s she had, what he/they got is just a small piece of her.  feeling ko inde na siya virginpresumption mo palang, jinudge mo na. tsk love isnt the right word to describe your feelings towards that girl. because if you really 'love' her, you would accept her despite of all her imperfections. people who thinks the same as you do is very rare... as rare as finding [you] a virgin bride nowadays. so what if she's no longer a virgin? would that make her a lesser person? dont you think that you're already degrading her? to think that you're telling us that you love her, sheesh  virginity is a long gone issue. and it never is, was, and will never be an issue to those people who really love their partners. she deserves a guy who would accept her as for whatever happened to her, for whatever she is. i think she should be the one who's more confused... if she deserves you or not. :thumbsdownsmiley: Quote Link to comment
MaDaMe_PeeYaa^ Posted November 27, 2005 Share Posted November 27, 2005 what the... ika ilang siglo ka ba ipinanganak? sampu, onse anyos nalang ang birhen iho :goatee: Quote Link to comment
ladybug Posted November 27, 2005 Share Posted November 27, 2005 bakit inisip mo ba kung virgin sya bago mo sya ginalaw? Quote Link to comment
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