What Comes To Mind When Your Gf Is Not A Virgin?

[arelim]

haaaayyyyy...... tsk tsk tsk...

[gig0l0]

reaction to the last line of the first post.....

 

i agree....nakakasira ng utak ang magseryoso sa babae.

 

pero....nakamamatay naman kung walang babae....hahaha!!

 

---sorry na OT. i'm just breaking the ice.---

 

[masi]

where have you been? last time i checked iilan na lang ang mga kastila at prayle sa Maynila?

 

come on! are you serious? how on earth could you even think that you want to be serious with that girl if you CAN'T even accept her, and her past?

 

if you want a virgin, try courting a NUN!!!

[gig0l0]

...or a 12 year old.

 

 

in fairness, there are really those who wanted to preserve their virginity....and i admire them for doing that. ang hirap gawin nun at this point in time. can you just imagine the discipline....i know someone pa nga who works in a club...but believe it or not....she's still not yet taken. she's so pretty and all....but she couldnt bear losing her virginity with just anyone. Man....i tell you...sasambahin ko yun...

 

[Belly Dancer]

i do agree with most of those who posted here. and to think that majority of those who responded were men! just to show you that maybe you need to re-think your convictions. at this day and age, it is admirable to meet someone who has kept his/her virginity. why is your girlfriend's virginity so important to you? if she is not a virgin anymore, does this make her less of the woman that you fell in love with? if you are thinking of what other people think, it's none of their business if your girlfriend is a virgin or not. i doubt if they even ask.

[Wacky Dreamer]

It's "living hell" when she remembers her past experience/s whenever we 'bang'.

How would I know? Of course I do too, don't we?

 

Now I guess I just have to live by it - I love her, and I understand

(and she must too, I got lots of memories to cherish hehehe)

[Guest Camerie]

Is virginity the basis why you are marrying the girl, of course not... You're marrying her because you love her and you want to spent your life with her... Virgin or not, it shouldn't matter... You should love her for who she is and accept her totally. :hypocritesmiley:

[valentino rossi]

My question is, does being not a virgin makes her less of a woman?

[hon_23]

Naguguluhan ako mga tsong. Me mahal na mahal akong girl pero feeling ko inde na siya virgin. Balak ko pa naman siyang seryosohin alam niyo na. Pakasalan balang araw.  Sabi niya virgin pa siya kaya lang pag nag mamakeout kami something tells me she's not and i can tell she knows some things.  one time i got shocked becaused she sat on me facing me and started gyrating hers to me while kissing her.  We still haven't had sex and i don't why.  I have other girls who i can have sex with anytime i want but i really do love her.  She's the one i would want to bring home to my mom. 

 

Please mga tol, kahit sino. Hindi ko masabi sa barkada kasi alam ko pintasero ako nuon saka mapili sa tsiks.  t*ang*na, nakarma ata ako.  Grabe pare mahal na mahal ko siya at talagang pinaghirapan ko un. Pahirapan talaga.  Nalulungkot akong di ko maintindihan.  Nagdadalawang isip kasi ako.  Kaya ba ayokong nagsseryoso sa babae nakakasira ng utak eh.

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Hey silverhand, virginity should not be an issue in a relationship..what matter most is that u love her...grw up man![/size]

[gig0l0]

if you cannot accept her as a virgin....to make your life simpler....just leave her alone. she doesnt deserve a non-virgin either.

 

[black cat]

Hmm.. are you sure you really love this girl? I think you have the wrong notion what love truly means. I would suggest that you reassess your feelings for this girl before you would even claim that she's the one you want to marry.

[silverhand]

Thanks sa lahat ng nag post. I just....I don't know. But i believe the majority is right. I't doesn't really change anything. I still love her. I really do.

 

Thanks people.

[bullseye2x]

oo nga just love her nalang...

[Zerreit]

Naguguluhan ako mga tsong. Me mahal na mahal akong girl pero feeling ko inde na siya virgin. Balak ko pa naman siyang seryosohin alam niyo na. Pakasalan balang araw.  Sabi niya virgin pa siya kaya lang pag nag mamakeout kami something tells me she's not and i can tell she knows some things.  one time i got shocked becaused she sat on me facing me and started gyrating hers to me while kissing her.  We still haven't had sex and i don't why.  I have other girls who i can have sex with anytime i want but i really do love her.  She's the one i would want to bring home to my mom. 

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Is your mom going to inspect your gf's vagina for any lacerations? Is your mom some kind of psychic or clairvoyant to notice just by looking at your gf if she's a virgin or not? Dude with the kind of mentality that you have, you're not ready for any kind of relationships, especially a serious one. Again, it shouldn't matter whether she is one or not. Sheesh...

 

Thanks sa lahat ng nag post.  I just....I don't know.  But i believe the majority is right.  I't doesn't really change anything. I still love her.  I really do. 

 

Thanks people.

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It took a bunch of strangers on the internet to make you realize that? If I were your girlfriend, I'd dump you.

Edited November 25, 2005 by Zerreit

[MA]

Is your mom going to inspect your gf's vagina for any lacerations? Is your mom some kind of psychic or clairvoyant to notice just by looking at your gf if she's a virgin or not? Dude with the kind of mentality that you have, you're not ready for any kind of relationships, especially a serious one. Again, it shouldn't matter whether she is one or not. Sheesh... 

It took a bunch of strangers on the internet to make you realize that? If I were your girlfriend, I'd dump you.

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Right on, Zer

 

Silverhand, as much as I want to be sympathetic to your crusade of "pagseseryoso sa Virgin lang", I simply can't. You see, what you're doing is discriminating against women who have had previous sexual relationships. And that, to me, is downright incongruous.

 

Really, what does it matter that your girlfriend's no longer a virgin? Is she any less of a person - and therefore unworthy of your "prized" love and commitment - because she has had her hymen ripped by someone else? Besides, why would you let your friends' opinions sway your decision to love and respect your girlfriend? They're not the ones in a relationship, you are.

 

This double-standard which you oh-so-obviously subscribe to, is giving you a myopic view of love and relationships. And i'm telling you now, if you can't be mature enough to look past your girlfriend's (past) sexual experiences, then maybe you don't deserve to have her - or any other decent non-virgin girls for that matter. And I know this is a stretch, but maybe you'd do well if you'd just stick to the "other girls you have indiscriminate sex with". Because my dear, questioning your girlfriend's character on account of her sexual experiences is doing her a disservice - which, to my think, she doesn't deserve.

Edited November 25, 2005 by MA