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Why Do Beautiful Women Fall For Ugly Men?


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I've actually written a paper on this subject in college

 

Matching Hypothesis

 

1-10, 10 pinakamaganda

 

Kung 5 ang beauty mo,

mga 4-6 din na level ang pipiliin mo.

 

Reason?

 

For guys: takot mareject,

mas konti ang effort sa panliligaw,

at hindi high maintenance.

 

For girls: takot sa competition, selos.

 

Tsaka mas masaya iyong mga malalalapit

ang hitsura, kahit hindi siyota,

kahit mga magkakaibigan.

 

Kaya ang nag-iibigan

habang tumatagal

nagiging magkamukha.

 

Economics of Love

 

Kung 5 ang beauty mo,

at gusto mo ng say 9,

may karagdagang presyo

 

guys: - maaring sa pagod,

panliligaw, gastos,

at sangdamukal na kabaitan.

 

girls: siyempre kailangang,

supersweet ka.

 

Ngayon maari kang magtanong,

paano naman iyong mag-asawa,

o magsingirog na hindi naman

mayaman ang lalaki, o di naman

kagandahan ang babae?

 

Loan Theory

 

Magpapautang ka muna,

kung baga kung babae ka,

heto hiramin mo muna ang

aking kagandahan

habang ako'y bata pa,

pero babawi ka,

may karampatang lista sa utak

ng bawat mag-irog.

 

Kaya kung di nakapagbayad

ng utang ang isang nangutang,

siguradong, hiwalayan ang bagsak.

 

Ayoko sanang gawing,

parang kalakalan,

na ginagaya sa pagbebenta

ng laman ang pag-ibig,

ngunit ito ang matigas na katotohanan.

 

 

Mga halatang aria-arian (obvious assets)

 

1. Pisikal na hitsura (guwapong mukha, matipunong katawan, mahaba at matabang titi)

2. Antas sa buhay (social class)

3. Kasalukuyang Kita (annual income)

4. Mga maaring ibenta (liquid assets: car, house, etc.)

 

Mga di-halatang aria-arian (intangible assets)

 

1. Talino

2. Personalidad (Humor, Wit, Temperament)

3. Di halatang pisikal (boses)

4. Angking Galing (Great in Sex, Massage, Cooking)

etc...

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My own experience

 

Lahat ng nabanggit ko sa itaas

ay walang kuwenta,

kung puro theory.

 

Ako'y hindi guwapo,

ngunit di rin naman pangit,

nasa 6 hanggang 7 ako,

depende sa tumitingin.

 

Nagkaroon ako ng girlfriend,

na magada, mestiza, at mayaman,

mga 9 ang kartada,

umabot kami ng 4 na taon.

 

Masakit sa bulsa,

palagi akong dapat maasikaso,

at ingat ako sa kilos.

 

Nagkaroon naman ako

ng girlfriend,

mataba, hindi kagandahan,

at mahirap,

mga 4 ang kalidad.

Umabot kami ng 1 taon.

 

Para akong hari,

ako ang inililibre,

ako ang bine-baby,

ako ang minamasahe,

binibilhan ng damit,

ang sarap.

 

Ngunit hindi ako masaya.

Parang pakiramdam ko,

sugar mommy ko siya,

kahit na mas bata siya sa akin.

 

Magkaiba kaming tao,

hindi lamang sa hitsura,

ngunit pati sa antas ng pag-iisip,

pagkilos, mga hilig, at panananaw.

 

Sa wakas,

nakahanap ako ng kapareho ko,

sa hitsura, sa kita, sa pananaw,

sa hilig.

 

Tama lamang ang gastos ko,

tama lamang ang pagod ko.

 

Ngunit sa huli iniwan niya ako,

nakahanap siya ng 9 ang kartada,

sa hitsura at sa kita.

 

Tawag siya sa akin palagi,

nakakapagod daw ang bago niyang boyfriend,

sa gastos, sa kita.

 

Gusto kong matawa.

 

Bilog ang mundo. :upside:

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a friend of mine met a 6-rated woman ... at friendster. they went out twice. then the girl started getting clingy. he stopped replying to her SMSs.

 

i told him that's rude. he said a 6 type woman is only good for that -- sex. he gave her the chance to interact intelligently with him but she's just not made from that stuff. the girl thinks that what my friend needs is just sex, and more sex. apparently she is very wrong. a not-so-pretty woman can be beautiful in so many ways. an ugly woman can aspire to be a goddess in bed, but most men don't spend the rest of their lives just lying down, unless the men fancy dying with bed sores.

 

and to answer the question again (as i have already replied to this thread weeks ago) -- SOME beautiful women fall for ugly men, because...because.

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ganito lang yan eh.

 

kadalasan kasi pag yung may itsura, sila yung may mga di kagandahang ugali. samatlang yung mga di masyado pinagpala sa itsura, ang iniisip nila ang kanilang maipagmamalaki na lang eh yung personality nila at kanilang achievements.

 

habang tumatanda ang babae, yung preference nila nagbabago. pag mga bata bata pa, unang nakikita yan yung physical aspect pa lang..... pero as we mature, mas pinipili namin kung saan kami komportable kasama, masaya kasama at iba pang kadahilanan. regardless kung gwapo man o hindi. pero usually sa di kagwapuhan namin nahahanap yung mga qualities na gusto namin.

 

pero syempre plus factor kung may itsura yung guy :D

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i dunno...

 

i'm no looker...

 

i'm not rich...

 

i don't have a car...

 

so beats me...

 

ask my girlfriend... she chose me over the rich and good looking guys... :wub:

 

must be my magnetic personality.... :unsure:

 

hmmm.... maybe because to some women... looks doesn't matter that much...

 

just voicing out... :mtc:

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i dunno...

 

i'm no looker...

 

i'm not rich...

 

i don't have a car...

 

so beats me...

 

ask my girlfriend... she chose me over the rich and good looking guys... :wub:

 

must be my magnetic personality.... :unsure:

 

hmmm.... maybe because to some women... looks doesn't matter that much...

 

just voicing out... :mtc:

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Guest dopleganger
No guts to glory, normally kasi kung sino pa ang panget sya pa ang malakas ang guts.

 

Ang tayong mga gwapito torpe naman kasi masyado tayong confident, ayun puro na lang panghihinayang!! :angry:

 

I wouldn't say that this rule apply to everyone, most especially since there are more than just a handful of good looking couples scattered around the Metro. It doesn't really have anything to do with the physical aspect, some people just really click. Malas lang nya kung sa pangit sya tumama.

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alam nyo, nataon lang na hindi agad nakilala nung beautiful girl yung good looking guy, tipong wala siyang mapagpilian sa mga manliligaw nya kaya, just settle for anyone nalang sila, kaysa wala silang boyfrend. tama ba? bwahahaha. kaya mga gwapo guys, dapat magkalat tayo..este kayo ng lahi naten, ninyo pala :P

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pardon me guys pero i think dapat namang pagbigyan natin ung mga less fortunate people (tulad ko) to obtain such high standards kz isipin nyo na lang kung parehong pangit ang nagpakasal at nagkaanak eh ano na lang ang sasabihin ng anak nila... baka isumpa na sila nun hehehe!!! dapat me equilibrium di ba!

 

 

this is a question intended for "beautiful women", posted by a man, i suppose. but most replies came from men - ugly or otherwise. i wonder why.

 

this thread is so full of standards, weeding out women who aren't beautiful, and limiting to men who aren't ugly.

 

and it reeks with generalization.

 

pardon me.

 

but to answer your question, SOME beautiful women fall for dermatologically-challenged men probably because the apollos and adonises either turned gay, fat, high-and-all-mighty or got married. 

 

but you see like beauty, ugliness is only skin-deep. there are quite a number of ugly people in divine packages. and a lot of beautiful people hidden in simple to shabby clothes.

 

 

 

seriously, as what ive quoted here, mostly kz ng beautiful people are filled with so much air, arrogance and yabang. they think that being such would mean that all the opposite sex would run around their world na sila lang ang center of their universe. its not really a generalization but its close to reality.

 

tsaka, why wouldnt you be happy with that scenario. arent you glad on the possibility of us, less fortunate and less endowed people, to acquire such gem of a lady?! let it be so that there would be something worth aspiring, hopin and dreamin for!

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hindi lang naman kasi sa look yan eh .... nsa nagdadala yan

 

 

syempre ako panget na nga, dapat explore ko sarili ko kung saan ako aangat at mapapansin.. kasi kung panget ka na at tutunganga ka lang e di ka makakabingwit ng maganda

 

 

kaya kailanagn madiskarte ka

 

just my 2 cents

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who knows what goes on inside a person's mind? walang nkakaalam diba? malay nga natin kung anu talaga ang reason why they fall for them. why not ask the ones who is in that situation, ang maaaring makasagot sa katanungang ito ay yung mga beautiful girls lang mismo, why they chose, like what the topic says "ugly men". lets hear their explanation kaya? anyone?

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beautiful people dont just simply fall for somebody of the same species because they know that there is something to see not just from the beauty without but also from the beauty within. this mentality isnt possible since as persons blessed with such head-turning beauty, they know that there was more something to see. another thing is that, one's physical beauty doesnt mean that he/she was blessed with a yummy cerebral head too.. and as ive noticed, the excitement in the relationship due to being stunning doesnt last for long for it is not only what dictates the strength of the relationship over the passage of time.

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