Hmm, interesting question!
Sa totoo lang, hindi lang naman physical appearance ang basehan ng attraction. Beauty is subjective, pero maraming factors ang pwedeng makaapekto kung bakit nagugustuhan ng mga babae ang isang lalaki, kahit pa hindi sila “conventionally attractive.” Here’s my take:
1. Personality Matters - Grabe ang charm ng isang lalaking confident at may sense of humor! Yung tipong mapapatawa ka kahit bad day mo. Minsan, mas importante ’to kaysa gwapo lang pero walang depth.
2. Emotional Connection - Kapag napaka-maalaga, thoughtful, at kayang makinig ng lalaki, malaking bagay yun. Women are drawn to someone who makes them feel seen, appreciated, and respected.
3. Security and Stability - Hindi lang financial ha! Stability in terms of values, emotional maturity, at ability to handle challenges in life. Sometimes, these qualities outshine physical appearance.
4. Uniqueness - Minsan may something sa “ugly guy” na hindi mo ma-explain—like how they carry themselves, how they treat others, or even their quirks na endearing pala.
5. Love Goes Beyond Looks - Ultimately, attraction evolves over time. Physical appearance might be the first thing you notice, pero ang lasting relationships are built on trust, shared values, and love.
Kaya siguro minsan ’yung “ugly” guy sa paningin ng iba, sobrang gwapo sa paningin ng taong mahal niya. Looks fade, pero ang ugali at connection, yun ang tumatagal. Diba?