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    Suicidal Lovers

    in Matters of the heart

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    I briefly dated (like 2 to 3 platonic dates) this guy and when I told him that we can see each other

     

    anymore he got so drunk and made a scene in his dorm threatening to jump off his 5 story window.

     

    His friends called and told me to see him. He was so drunk out of his mind and when I tried to talk

     

    to him he would try to have sex...yun ba ang attitude nang gustong magpakamatay? So

     

    I told him one last time I was leaving...jump na naman daw siya sa window...we've been doing

     

    this stupid dance for like 4 hours and by this time it was about 5 a.m. I got tired of this stupidity

     

    so while he was by the window threatening to jump, I kinda nudge him while holding on tight to

     

    him and told him to go ahead and jump...I'll even push him to his death...natakot!

     

    When I got him to lay down on his bed...I borrowed someone's handcuff and handcuff him

     

    to his bed and tied his legs...then I went home and went to sleep.

    Be Honest, Have You Hurt Someone?why? How?

    in Matters of the heart

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    Back when I was about 15 y/o there's this Pinoy guy that courted me but

     

    he was 25 y/o na. My parents let him court me inspite of the age difference since

     

    he was really nice but he couldn't go any further than make ligaw.

     

    Although maybe in his eyes, we were a couple.

     

    We got stationed somewhere else and he would

     

    still communicate with me. Then after 3 or 4 years, he went to visit me. At this time

     

    me masugid na manliligaw din sa akin noon na ka MU ko na. I had to explain to the

     

    guy naka-MU ko that he has to lay low for awhile until this other guy leaves (sa bahay pa

     

    namin kasi siya nag-stay..I slept beside my parents the whole time).

     

    At the end of his vacation and his last night, he asked my parents for my hand in

     

    marriage ...ngeeee...you'd think he would discuss this with me first.

     

    Talk about putting me on the spot and surprising me! Needless to say, we had to

     

    have one emotional serious talk...yun even sa airport he was so emotionally distraught.

     

    Tingin nang tingin ang mga tao sa amin... even our barkada we're uncomfortable with his

     

    emotional outburst sa airport.

     

    Muntik na akong pumayag kahit hindi ko siya mahal. For years, pinagsisihan ko na nasaktan ko

     

    siya thinking na karma yun and I would have my heart broken like that too. But it's taught me

     

    that you can't really teach your heart to love someone kahit gusto mo. And when that time came

     

    na someone broke up with me, naintindihan ko and made the break up more amicable.

    Falling in Love with Someone When You Cannot...

    in Matters of the heart

    Posted

    move to another state...get a new life, make new friends that are not connected with him

     

     

     

    I actually did a stupid thing to forget someone my first love (my ex-fiancee)

     

    and nurse a heartache..

     

    I got married just out of the blue...no thoughts about it...just woke up one day and

     

    said I'm marrying whoever can show me they love me the most, regardless of how

     

    I feel for them. I didn't sleep with him...basta sabi ko whoever would love me enough to

     

    marry me without sleeping with me first then siya na yun....ngeee big mistake!

     

    Talk about taking rebound relationship to a different level..

     

    I thought I would learn to love him but

     

    after 5 years of tumultuous marriage, we finally got a divorce.

    We Broke-up Because...

    in Matters of the heart

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    Race..different cultures/traditions...at the end hindi ko matake yung gusto niyang

     

    kalimutan ko ang pagka-Pinay ko...and the ironic thing is that sabi nya he was

     

    attracted to me because hindi ko makalimutan kahit dito ako sa states lumaki ang

     

    ating kultura. At the end yun ang pinagaawayan namin.

    What Women Want?

    in Matters of the heart

    Posted

    As women mature our qualifications for an ideal men changes...

     

    dati I look for the porma, good looks and bod, nice car, money

     

    but now that I've dated those with these qualities, I realized

     

    that they are "good" for dating. What I was looking for as life

     

    partner is something more substantial than the car he drives.

     

    I didn't have a list before but now that I found my hubby, he's got

     

    all the wonderful qualities that I didn't even think of. He does

     

    everything to make me feel special, beautiful, sexy...just

     

    makes me feel like a princess...spoils me rotten. Loves my

     

    imperfections, doesn't mind my tantrums and finds them cute

     

    instead. He loves me for who and what I am and does not try to

     

    change me. Doesn't say an unkind word to me even when we

     

    argue. Helps and supports me in everything I want to do.

    How Would U Know If He/she Is Cheating?

    in Matters of the heart

    Posted

    Tell tale signs of cheating from my own experience...

     

    my ex-husband started wearing nice brief undies in all pattern

    not the usual tidy whities, tight wearing shirts and jeans,

    getting obsessed with working out, putting gel on his hair...

     

    he's not a vain person but all of a sudden he started paying

    attention to his appearance. Even to the point of him taking

    a shower without me telling him to.

     

    But he wasn't subtle in his philandering ways, he had the audacity

    to conduct his "affairs" in our house while I was there. Maybe he

    needed me to please his girls...?

    What's Your Favorite Song Now?

    in Music

    Posted

    I'm Going Down...Mary J. Blige...

     

    something about that song...miss ko na kasi si hubby

     

    I'm into a lot of "missing you" songs since I just downloaded and burned

     

    a load full of them and send them to my honey...

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