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Mike Chester

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  1. ack! this is kinda hard to accept. if this is the case and he cant give me a good explaination...i'd have to say goodbye to him

     

    So, you mean that pride is going to prevail more than the love you have for him? Siguro kaya hindi sya makapagbigay ng explanation, kasi para hindi na lang lumaki pa at ma-ungkat ng ma-ungkat pa ung gulo.

     

    Kasi kung ung guy naman ay willing na talagang hindi na niya gagawin ulit yun, mas okey na wag na lang pag-usapan ung nangyari na yun. Instead, gagawa na lang ng sya nga mga bagay kung saan para maibalik nya ung trust nung partner niya.

     

    I agree with Honey. It is hard to accept Mike. Men like [you] ( no offense meant) makes it hard for women to trust.

     

    Its ok Ms. Swit. That's my opinion, and if a girl will find it hard to trust and understand me, then i also have no reason to stay with her. Kahit na gaano mo siya kamahal, its better to let her go na lang, at baka mas makahanap pa siya ng lalakeng "hindi manloloko" sa kanya.

     

     

    You have the choices, mag-i stay ka dun sa partner mo na gumawa ng kalokohan sa iyo, pero willing siyang magbago, or iwanan mo na lang siya at mag take ng risk na makahanap ng bagong partner without the assurance na hindi ka rin lolokohin nung bagong partner na iyon.

  2. i guess you're right on the part that you're just trying to avoid hurting her more if ma-confirm nga. pero dapat noh before mo pa ginawa yun, inisip mo na ayaw mo sya ma-hurt and that should've stopped you from doing it.

     

    Korek! I mean dapat sa una pa lang i try mo nang i avoid na masaktan ung partner mo. But most of the time, it is easier said than done.

     

    Kaya my answer is applicable only kung nakagawa ka na ng hindi maganda sa partner mo. Minsan gumawa man ng kalokohan ang lalake, it doesn't mean naman na hindi na nila mahal ung girl nila, kaya para hindi lang lalo masaktan ung girl, wag na lang aminin di ba.

     

     

    eh what if super huli mo talaga? as in you've seen clear proofs, there are witnesses, and the third party says na nagkaganun nga...nde pa rin dapat aminin?

     

    yup hindi pa rin, kahit na anong mangyari B) ....

  3. ... i know men have this unwritten rule pag nahuli ng mga girlfriend na nanloloko, wag na wag aamin kahit anong mangyari. for some girls, this works...but for me, best na sabihin or aminin mo na yung totoo. it's more insulting kasi he cheated na nga tapos magsisinungaling pa.

     

    but that's just me. im sure kanya-kanya yan...

     

    Mas ok pa rin talaga ung wag kang aamin kahit na on the spot e nahuli ka na...

    hindi naman sa gusto mong magsinungaling sa girl, pero ayaw mo lang saktan

    lalo ung feelings niya.

     

    Kasi kapag hindi mo aaminin, ire-retain mo pa rin ung "feeling of doubt" sa girl

    na baka nga hindi tutuo na niloloko ka niya, at kahit paano mas okey na ung

    feeling na ganyan, kesa kapag totally inamin ng guy, mabubuo na talaga sa

    girl ung notion na niloko mo talaga siya, and mas masakit sa girl yun.

  4. Sometimes, by giving a second chance it will make your relationship more stronger..... Kasi the more your partner will realize na hindi mo siya ganun kadali i give up, the more love and respect you can get from him.

     

    Kasi if you will go and find a new partner, how will you be sure na ung new partner mo will not do the same?

     

    Unlike kung mag stay ka na lang, andyan na ung foundation ninyo e. Minsan talagang mapanukso lang talaga ang buhay.

     

    Just try to find out what precipitated him to do that, baka naman kasi ikaw din ang may pagkukulang.

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