Mike Chester

Sometimes, by giving a second chance it will make your relationship more stronger..... Kasi the more your partner will realize na hindi mo siya ganun kadali i give up, the more love and respect you can get from him.

Kasi if you will go and find a new partner, how will you be sure na ung new partner mo will not do the same?

Unlike kung mag stay ka na lang, andyan na ung foundation ninyo e. Minsan talagang mapanukso lang talaga ang buhay.

Just try to find out what precipitated him to do that, baka naman kasi ikaw din ang may pagkukulang.

Sometimes, by giving a second chance it will make your relationship more stronger..... Kasi the more your partner will realize na hindi mo siya ganun kadali i give up, the more love and respect you can get from him.

Kasi if you will go and find a new partner, how will you be sure na ung new partner mo will not do the same?

Unlike kung mag stay ka na lang, andyan na ung foundation ninyo e. Minsan talagang mapanukso lang talaga ang buhay.

Just try to find out what precipitated him to do that, baka naman kasi ikaw din ang may pagkukulang.

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La Defense, Paris. The building in the middle is our office.

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Ok yata, tingnan nyo na lang nangyari kay Dawn Z. Medyo mabigat lang sa bulsa talaga.

Ung doktor namin sa lourdes Hospital, his name is Dr. Semilya.

Also office mate ko from Turkey, si Mr. Prekam (pre-cum) naman

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Normally kse kung ikakasal ka na, super pre-occupied ka na at super busy weeks before your wedding date. Kaya imposible mangyari to tutuy. Pwede pa cguro kung dati mo ng mahal tapos nagkita kayo ulit bago ka ikasal.. yun pa kaya!

Hindi naman siguro imposible, meron naman kasing nagpapakasal na hindi pa naman talaga handa, most common is ung nagpakasal kasi nabuntis ng guy ung babae.

To answer the question, kung talagang mahal ko siya at alam ko naman na mahal niya rin talaga ako, then I will just ask her to re-consider ung pagpapakasal at pag isipan nya ulit mabuti. Kasi the fact na na-i-in love pa sya sa iba days before her wedding day is already a sign na baka hindi mag work out ung marrried life nya at baka mauwi lang sa hiwalayan later on.

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Seoul, Korea

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Hindi naman kasi nila siguro ginusto ung ganung trabaho, at wala naman sigurong nangarap na babae na magkarun ng ganung career. Sa hirap na lang kasi ng buhay kaya sila nakapasok sa ganun, kaya hindi masamang ma in-love, ang importante lang ay hindi na siya dapat bumalilk sa ganung buhay after na maging kayo na talaga. Mas gugustuhin ko na ung alam mong pok2 at napabuti mo kesa naman dun sa kala mo disente, pero mas masahol pa sa pok2 ang pag uugali.

Yes I will. But only if my partner has started to be honest with me and is not telling lies anymore. If my partner is truly sorry about that she cheated on me then I should forgive them over time.

It takes time to be able to forgive such action. But not everyone who cheats is a bad person. And she can't just expect me to just forget about it overnight or even over a year. It takes months and even a year or so to get over something like that.

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Itaas ko lang, natabunan na pala.

You're Beautiful by James Blunt

here comes the rain again

falling from the stars

drenched in my pain again

becoming who we are

By: Greenday

Profession: Conract Administrator

Age: 33 yrs. old

Location: Georgia (soon to be in Paris, France then to Ulsan, Korea)

School: UST

Course Graduated: Civil Engineer

IMHO ... love is not possible without trust.

 

How can I rest secure in the so-called love of my partner when at the back of my mind I  would constantly worry and fret about whether or not he is fooling around or not?

 

Thats not love. Thats a torture chamber.

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Hi Wyld!

How can we assure to our partner that we are no longer cheating them? Ang hirap kasi pag nagkarun ka na ng history of infidelity, tama ung isang nagsabi dito na ang isang relationship parang baso, pag nabasag maibalik man ulit, may lamat na.

Curious lang ako, can you expound more on how does a woman feels when she is in that state of the so called "torture chamber"?

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sana ako ay gisingin mo

at sa aking paggising akoy iyong yakapin

at sabihin mong akoy mahal mo rin

By: Ogie Alcasid

i appreciate your thoughts, mike chester.

but marriage is a decision, a commitment.

i made a vow - for better or worse, etc, etc...

i made that vow and God was my witness.

how could i even dare cheat  God of that?

i am hurting, yes...

hell, i'm cut  too deep

but that hurting and pain must stand for something that's relevant to me, my kids, my husband

 

in my heart of hearts i know i deserve better

but i still have that hope in my heart

that the good Lord will touch my husband's soul

and in His good time, He will enlighten my wayward partner

and i will be happy again

with a family that's whole

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As I've mentioned on my previous posts, I believe that everybody deserve to have a 2nd chance, as long as the person will prove that what happened was just a mistake, at ikaw talaga ang loves nya. Pero kung halos everytime na lang e lolokohin ka, and everytime e mag su-suffer ka, then you have to consider to live your life without him.

Maiksi lang ang buhay natin dito sa mundo, kaya I think we have to live our life to the fullest. Kaya kung may ibang person na magbibigay sa iyo ng sufferings, kahit na asawa mo pa siya, let him go para naman ma-realize niya na you deserve someone better. I'm sure kung talagang andun pa naman ung love nyo sa isa't-isa, in the end magkakabalikan din kayo kasi you have all the factors para magsama ulit (kids, your home, your family), and this time it will be for good na.

when there are children involved,

one is left with little or no option but to stay with a cheating partner.

being cheated upon is like going through hell.

i've been through a lot of hells and am still going through one right now.

p*tang*na, i sure am so emotionally all battered black and blue

yet, i persist in staying.

it's all because i want to shield my kids from the trauma that a broken family brings.

i love my babies too much.

i have tried many times to get back at my partner's waywardiness...

but in the final analysis, i've realized sleeping around leaves a nasty aftertaste

it isn't the answer.

but i'm not losing hope.

just recently,

i've decided to make peace with my God.

and giving prayer a chance now.

it just might work.

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If you are not happy anymore with your cheating partner, you deserve to have another life without him ha. Siguro naman with a proper explanation and caring sa mga kids, hindi naman sila mata-trauma kung maghihiwalay kayo ng partner mo in a good way. Mas traumatic sa kanila kapag nakikita nila na nag su-suffer ka dahil sa ginagawa ng tatay nila, at kahit na hindi mo sabihin sa kanila yun, I'm sure na nararamdaman nila yun.