Howdy Doody

5 hours ago, jonlennon said:

Four letters : DON’T

Yup. DON'T FALL FOR A THERA!

Us men should view having sex with a pok pok as merely a biological release. You cannot go any deeper in these relationships, unless you are a wimp and are programmed to be a loser. 

12 hours ago, Ice Lover said:

well I remember thera's playfully calling each other pokpok so no use choosing softer words they're numb to it.

but brother remember you cant save those who don't want to be saved.

Sometimes, I feel that most of these girls do not want to be respected. Of course, there is a big difference in being rude and brusque with them and still treat them as a lady, but you always put them in their proper places. Sometimes, they are even delighted when I call them "pok pok". Like, " hoy pok pok, halika rito". Or even playfully curse them, like " tang na mo, iyutin kita ngayon."

I define SIMP as someone (typically a man) who shows excessive sympathy and attention towards another person (typically a woman) who does not only  reciprocate the same feelings but even takes advantage of the relationship financially, emotionally, psychologically,  in pursuit of affection or sexual favours. 

For me, Do Not Be A SIMP. If you are in anyway in a relationship with a Thera, give them the due respect any human being deserves. But you should always know your boundaries with them. BODY COUNTS still matters. No valid reason for any Thera to justify it, whether for financial or economic reasons. Much worse is to when they do it in order to live a certain lifestyle. 

On 1/8/2023 at 2:49 PM, AngGwapo said:

I agree with @Summer of Belle Ame

We are all human beings. In fact, in other countries, it is very normal to have relationships regardless of what people do, their SEC levels in society, race, religion, beliefs, or anything for that matter. Huwag lang ibang species.

Your and others' opinion are yours though. God also gave us the ability to discern, think for ourselves, and act on what we hold dear @Howdy Doody.

Have a good afternoon!

For some men, a girl with a BODY COUNT of 10 within a lifetime is already considered promiscuous. An ideal girl to marry is someone a virgin. However, realistically a girl may have several boyfriends before getting married. So a girl who gets married at age 30 may have 3 or 4 relationships. But someone at 30 with 20 sexual relationship is already being a sex nympho or sex addict. And now, just imagine a Thera. Some does 5 to 10 in a day. Imagine the BODY COUNT of some of the Top girls. They can go 3000 in a year. 😊

Of course, we guys are to each his own. You are entitled to your own belief. As they say, "whatever tickles your fancy". But getting serious and falling for a Thera and knowingly she has a yearly BODY COUNT of 3000 is beyond my imagination for me. These guys are total SIMPS! Talagang nakakaawa. 😞

Who can anyone even think of falling in love with a theraphist, I shrudder just thinking about their body counts.

Kukuha ka lang na i po "pokpok" mo sa ulo mo sa taas at baba.

8 hours ago, Emigen said:

The reason you feel like you fall in love with theras
- is most likely because you feel you are accepted and cared for without judgement and without any effort on your side. Theras secretly want to find that person who accepts them without question.

But, that is the service you are paying for. It is what every man pays for.

The nurturer or carer is a powerful and important role women have.
- Theras all have times of feeling alone, cut off, unsure with no support. A lot of them will choose a woman first to share. It is therapeutic. But in a sex work booking, people commonly ignore the therapeutic process that can happen.

Women already get the interaction and attention for free.
- They meet their girlfriends, who create a similar space ,as they create for their clients, so they can talk it out.

Men have a different code and version, but it’s different not as open.
- They can’t really let themselves go with their friends or others. You can see the difference watching guys interact and girls interact. So what women gets for free, a man has to pay for the same thing unless he has a partner who will listen. But the payment keeps it confined to the time that’s needed, like a therapist.

When you book a thera, the money exchange is not just about the physical.
- It quickly creates a bubble around them. When you respectfully step into that room, you are also stepping into a space made up of:

• No judgements, no one to impress, no expectations of labels put on you
• Acceptance of who you are, not what you look like or your financial worth
• A persons undivided attention given without having to earn it or prove yourself
• Someone who will listen when you speak
• Aim to ensure you are happy
• It is a safe space where you can be or explore the ‘real you’.

The fallacy lays with the idea that booking is just about a physical need.
- A psychologist may be a specialist carer for your mind. A thera is more broad in her services using different methods working also with the natural symbiotic need of connection between men and women.

Even outside of work, you see the difference it makes to a guy to hang out with a girl.

Although you may feel other girls are boring and repressed. It’s not true. Outside work hours, you would think the same of them. They may care about you in a professional manner but that is their job. At home, theras are part of all those other girls. You have to put effort in to have the same result.

- Talya De Fay

Bro, you certainly gave some serious thoughts on this subject. Very good insight about relationships going beyond the physicality which opens new perspectives.

7 hours ago, babygurlmooo said:

I finally saw the thera that I was looking for more than a year. 

I fell in love with this thera kasi parang naligaw lang siya in the industry. 2 months lang ata. We lost touch after she didn't report sa GL. Naaalala ko halos araw araw ako tumatawag para magtanong kung pumasok ba siya. For more than a year halos every weekend ako umiikot sa MPs hoping to see her. Yesterday, I saw her at a mall in Makati. I saw her sliding down a giant inflatable. I couldn't believe what I was seeing para bang nag slowmo as she was sliding. Bumilis pagtibok ng dibdib ko. I quickly glanced sa mga kasama niya. She was with her son, and 2 yayas (ata) pero walang asawa. 10 minutes siguro ako watching from a distance. Ni hindi ko alam kung lalapit ba ako para kausapin siya pero parang stuck in the moment ako. Naunahan ako nang takot na baka hindi niya ako pansinin. It looks like maayos naman buhay niya. Masaya. Ok na siguro ako makita siya na nagtatagumpay sa buhay.

To Celina, 

Malamang wala lang ako sa iyo pero sobrang laki ng impact mo sakin. Araw araw kita naiisip. Masaya ako nasilayan ko muli ang mga ngiti mo. Wala akong ibang hangad kundi ang kasiyahan mo. Sana makita at makausap kita muli. Sana makarating sayo ito. Kung sakali magbago ang isip mo, pwede mo pa rin i-take ang offer ko. 

 

I don't really know your relationship with her before she ghosted you but you should have at least approached her in order to have your some closure. 

Hypergamy for women. It's hypogamy for men. Women will always strive for more status, that is a fact. Even a rich woman will still seek a richer man than her, otherwise she settled for less. Men on the other hand usually settles for someone below his status, unless he is a gigolo.

Attracted with their eyes while I am aroused with their legs and feet/toes.

2 hours ago, Jakolngjakol said:

Sarap naman 

Btw, to qualify my statement " free sex", as we all know that there is no such thing as free sex. What I mean is she have sex with you not for the money but probably for your time spent together, emotional support, dining out, etc. So technically for us men, there is no such thing as " free sex".

46 minutes ago, YoMyDudeTopG said:

Tama toh kaibaganin mo lang

Yes, you can be friends with them. But don't expect to have sex with them for free. However, if you have a true friendly relationship with them and you mutually enjoy your company, it sometimes develop into something more intimate. Right now, I have a Thera friend short of being my "jowa" but we are close enough to support each other emotionally without attachment. Then, free sex just happens.

Sometimes it's very hard not to fall for them, specially if you receive more from them than what you give them. 

I had a Thera/jowa during the lockdown of the pandemic who always surprised me with small token gifts. She always volunteered to pay for expenses and was genuinely concern for me. I knew in my heart that I couldn't give what she wanted but she was still all out in pleasing me. I felt so "awang awa" for her.

2 hours ago, Medicus said:

I definitely agree sir. Nothing wrong with falling for a thera but definitely you shld ask her to stop para wala na usapan and support her  financially. In my opinion, kaya naman "napilitan" siya mag work sa industry is due primarily for financial reasons. Kaya if both of you are really serious on your relationship, pull her out from the industry ASAP and support her. My 2cents advise

The problem of raising her out of the quagmire is her living standard may be higher than yours. If she won't change her lifestyle, she'll be forever mired in that shit hole. Not unless you are so damn affluent that you'll be foolish to find someone to love in that rat hole. 

The mantra of this game is: f#ck and move on. Never, never get emotionally involved with anyone for any reason.

You delve in this hobby for momentary pleasure but can be unwittingly sucked in to its vortex, by those very well accomplished providers. You then find yourself in a very surreal world of pain and pleasure. Depending on how much time and treasure you spend, the pattern just continuous to go in cycles. Such is the paradox of this entertainment.

" .... looking for love in all the wrong places....".

9 hours ago, thelastguest said:

I fell for a therapist.. nung una may times na di ko alam kung linalandi lang ba ako o may feelings din ba sya para sakin. May times na pag linalabas ko sya on dates feeling there was something special that only the two of us shared. Pero may isang beses na umiinom kami napatingin ako sa phone nya, magkatabi lang naman kasi kami, tapos may ka chat sya, at dun ko na realize meron pala syang hinihintay na tao. Apparently our dates and moments were just ways that she was trying to be happy and distract herself from someone she couldn’t be with.. masakit nung una pero I eventually accepted na ako lang pala nag fall at nag assume lang ako na ganun din sya. Naging friends pa din naman kami pero that’s a story for another time. Haha. 

Pamasak butas ka lang pala. Hehehehe. Oh well, bro. If I were you, just take everything that comes to you. Savor every minute and live for the moment. There's no future with these theras. You'll only be disappointed at the end.

Handsome men are lazy. They are usually served by women. They always get the first choice of the litter. Whereas, an Ugly woman will bend over backwards to get what she wants. She will work hard to get her man. Most of the time she is the more successful of the partnership and even be the bread winner.

55 minutes ago, Chiananicole said:

Karamihan sa mga therapist single mom, maraming marami therapist single mom,dahil sa mga lalaki makipg relationship panandalian kaligayahan lang. Now sasabihin ko talaga ang totoo karamihan sa mga therapist single mom, Ngtyatyaga mg trabaho sa maduming trabaho para sa future nya at future ng anak nya dahil mg-isa lang sya nghahanap buhay sa anak nya, kahit ayaw nya mgtrabaho sa maduming trabaho,dahil sa pang araw araw at buwan buwan ubligasyon binabayaran at para sa anak nya papasuk sya sa maduming trabaho makaraos lang. Karamihan talaga sa Therapist single mom mg-isa nghahanap buhay para sa anak nila.

This is the sad truth. The teen age pregnancy in the Philippines is one of the highest in the world. Also children borne out of wedlock is about 50% of babies born. This is also one of the highest, if not the highest in the world. These are very sad reality. Thus, the proliferation of unwed mothers amidst our society. It's probably because of our Christian upbringing too that children are considered true blessings. Also, pro life and anti abortion also makes a very big factor. Abortion is illegal in the Philippines. But a lot of young people too, specially girls are influenced by pop culture and social media exposures that depicts single motherhood as acceptable and even fashionable among their péers. Just watch the many TikToks on the subject.

In the final analysis, it takes two to tango. The responsibility of bringing a child into this world is a shared responsibility between a boy and a girl.

Unfortunately, this profession is sometimes referred to as "white slavery". It is really a form of continuous bondage. Men and women in this business is perpetually spun into its vicious cycle. Only those who are determined and strong willed will eventually overcome its tentacled clutches. 

Really, pitiful. Kawawa rin talaga.

4 hours ago, Pen15 said:

Agree ako dito. Kasi kung tunay na mahal ka ng bf mo iaahon ka nya at ilalayo sa ganyang trabaho. Susuportahan at poprotectahan bibigyan ng bagong buhay at magandang kinabukasan. Kasi kung discount at free sex lang habol eh,,, wag na tayo maglokohan hindi girlfriend ang hanap nyan. Gusto lang makaisa. Sige nga kung tunay mo mahal si thera ipakilala mo sa mga magulang mo at mga kaibigan.

Pero on the otherhand, may mali din si thera, bakit naman di ginamit ang isipan. Alam naman nya siguro kung ginagamit cya o hindi. Peace sa mga gents na meron gf na thera. Sa mga thera na meron bf na client ... Gamitin ang isipan. Good luck po.

Some thera's life style are programmed to fail. Whatever help or assistance you provide them they will still not achieve financial independence and emancipation from their work. 

Some of them are already earning managerial level salaries tax free and still upto their necks in debts and obligations. Why?

It's just their mindset, their lifestyle, their naiveness, their lack of financial responsibility, and just a lack of ability to handle money.

They are prone to wasteful material consumption, perpetual consumers without any satisfaction. They always desire for more, for bigger things, the latest things and keeping up with their neighbors and socmed influencers.

Sometimes, they are very frustrating to help. In fact, sometimes they will even think you are trying to stunt their growth and happiness.  "Pagsabihan mo sila ng tama,  sila pa ang galit, at ikaw ang masama".

Mahirap rin sa therapist to compartmentalize nila buhay or ang pakikitungo nila sa kanilang " Guest". There is a very thin line if she will consider her "Guest" as a Client or as a BF. Both of them can play the game. 

My suggestion for the GM is consider every sexual encounter as a business transaction. That's their work and business. We should understand that.

In my experience, during the pandemic lockdown, there was one Therapist who became close to me. Since, she had no job and I have no where to go (all MPs & Spa were closed) we became regular at a point that the relationship was almost a BF & GF. We went out shopping, eating out and having fun. It was mutual for both of us. If ever we would have intimate moments, I would indirectly pay for such encounters. I'd say " baka kailangan mo or pandagdag mo sa gastos" knowing fully well that she didn't have any other source of income and was relying on her savings. This went on for more than a year. For both of us the relationship was mutually fulfilling. Until, when everything started normalizing. She again found work in one of the established MP and started earning her usual income. Her work and hours were just too constricting for my schedule so we slowly drifted apart. She is back again in her old work and lifestyle. We both know where the line separates the personal life and business life. The separation is very amicable and civil. There was no hard feelings between the two of us.

Until now, I still visit her once in a while in her work. The sex is always great. You know you earned a special place in her. I still pay her but the sex is always incredible. If there's anything you get it's just Your Mileage is just astronomical.

Your mindset should always be to make the most of your relationship with them. Sometimes, in order to increase your mileage you have to give a little. But, always bear in mind to give only what is commensurate to what she gives you.