Sitti of TVS

i love mtc, because here i can express what i think, and this is my escape.

 

I'd just like to add that there is a difference between a client claiming that he's in love with a Thera and a client actually going a mile further to show her that he's in love with her. Just saying that a lot of men go to spas because they're lonesome. In that circumstance, falling in love with a Thera is inevitable. What are therapists to do when GMs are confessing to them left and right? Should she reject them all and feel bad after breaking all their hopes and perhaps also sabotaging her profits? And what about those other GMs with less than good intentions? Those GMs that played theras for the fun of it? So in a way, I understand why some theras have walls built so high around them. I understand why they they are afraid to trust the wrong person. They are already vulnerable.

 

are you a male version of me..?

isa pa yan, someone text me " i miss you" well in the past i almost give him a chance, until i realized i cant pa and baka magamit ko lang sia as a " panakip butas '' so i told him to interact with others outside ng industry, i hope he's ok now. back to the story, he text me " i miss you'' i didnt reply, he text again " i miss you so much'' i reply, '' dont tell me you miss me, tell me you are on the way to see me.'' dati kasi mr.e ( the client that i love) when he miss me, he will just text me " im on my way" then there he is. he's more on action kasi.. words means nothing naman kasi talaga lalo na samin sa araw araw ba naman. imagine araw araw binobola kami, araw araw kung ano sinasabi samin. do you think we will easily believe you sa mga salita and promises if puro salita lang talaga...

love and misadventures by lang leav

Sitti,

 

Dear can you change your font so 50 year old dudes like me can read it? It is difficult for me, just being honest. I am interested in the topic but following your posts is next to impossible

awww sorry for that.. i just really find comic san really cute.. sa laptop po kasi ok nmn sya..pero sa phone oo nga hirap basahin...but ok request granted .. sorry again.. done. i change it na.

Therapists should follow your lead. Enjoying what you do would manifest itself in how you service and treat clients.

thank you.

O may gas, 30k... well from what I have experienced e talagang dapat may pera ka to be with a thera, kung wala okey lng dn. Mas mahirap lng talaga kasi mas bilog na bilog na sila sa dami ng nambobola sa kanila. Hindi naman sa high maintenance cla its just that by default ang labanan nating mga gms e how we can provide for them. I think and correct me if I am wrong, kung ung thera na type na type mo e asa peak of her game, ung batang bata e talagang mapapalaban ka sa financial, OR may kahati ka talaga (because its her job) pero cympre kung mdyo pababa na ang career e mas maganda na cguro chances mo. Its not like their job is until they are 60.

But I have come to realize when you are willing to sacrifice then it must be real love, and for me you have nothing to be ashamed weather it be successful or not. Or niloko ka o hindi. It just means you loved someone, you tried but failed. Its really about you as a person who wants to love and to be loved. Hindi nmn dahil thera sila e wala na clang K na pumili.

that's really nice ms.sitti

 

sige kukunin kita next time para ma-meet mo yung nawawalang 85% pasaway :P

thank you.

grabe sia!! haha..

Ang ginagawa ko pag mahirap basahin ang font ay copy ko muna tapos paste sa note/notepad

^^ yan ang effort... pero ako basta galing kay sitti binabasa ko talaga.... ,,,

happy easter everyone...

Thank you for providing us with an insight on how it's like to be in your situation. I don't judge clients that fall in love with theras and vice versa because in spite of all the complications that come with it, both parties involved are still human and are capable of feeling and giving love. Sadly, being hurt is also a possibility, but hey, we can always hope for the best, right?

 

It's great knowing that there are theras that genuinely enjoy giving GFE to clients (I always thought they were a bit forced because who would be affectionate to someone they just met? Or don't find attractive?) but you give me hope that it's possible. Most men that come to these spas are looking for affection they don't get in their lives, it's imperative that they feel worthy of someone's time and attention. In a way, a void in their lives gets filled during a 1-2 hour session with their theras. That's probably why clients fall in love quickly and easily.

 

Successful relationships within this industry are very inspiring. It makes us realize that for the theras, it's not only about the money, and for the clients, it's not just physical satiation. When love gets involved, things can get complicated and relationships can even turn sour.

 

But it can also be the sweetest thing when you find the one. When that time comes you will know. Best of luck to those about to fall, and to those that have fallen. Love may be good to you, or may not be good to you. If it's good, you're one of the lucky ones. If its not good, just let love be and leave it aside for the meantime. And when you're ready you'll find love where you left it. It was just waiting for you to give it another chance. Now you can move forward and love again.

i really dont know where you are coming from but i really admire your posts... happy easter sir..

insomia and hypersomnia.. both.

will be looking for eggs ..?

bugs,

just because we cant be together doesnt mean I wont love you.

tet.

when i provide gfe. it doesn't mean im making you paasa... it doesn't mean im intentionally making you fall to the what you so called 'trap'. my lambings and sweetness are not fake. that's just me. i dont know hmmm maybe because i have no one to make lambing and no one to show my sweet side. and it's super nag uumapaw na. baka matapon lang. haha lol. so imbes na masayang why dont i give it to my clients nalang diba. if there is one thing im enjoying being a therapist. it's the lambingan session. the hugs. the kulitan. the heart to heart kwentuhan. hearing other people's frustrations and stories. sabi ng mga co theras ko why am i making 'mtc' my facebook daw. maybe. because dito i can escape. my life outside somehow feels so tragic sometimes. im just so lucky for almost a year ko dito sa industry mga 15% lang yung na eencounter kong pasaway na client. so my point here. why dont we all just help each other nalang .. WORLD PEACE. HAHAH. kidding. pero seriously iniisip ko minsan siguro kasi kadalasan misunderstanding nalang din. misconceptions. grrrr. why am i so malalim. why kayo nagpupunta sa spa..? for release ba.,.? for companion..? then lets not make things complicated nalang din kasi diba. believe me, we dont wanna fall for a client din naman. kasi napag uusapan namin yung mga possiblities. pero me. most of you know naman that i fall for one (client.) di ko naman plano yun. nangyari lang din bigla. pero kahit once. i never condemn him. i never condemn his kind (clients.) inaacept ko lang. ilang balde iniyak ko. pero i still love him. nasaktan ako oo. pero wala eh lahat naman ng ginawa ko choice ko yun. di nia naman ako force to do it. and to feel this. kaya di ko maintindihan why some of you. super grabe makasalita on my kind (therapists) . sinasabi nung iba. pinerahan sila. just wanna ask. did she force you to give her all the things na sinusumbat nung iba ngayon..? na hypnotize nia ba kayo or na budol budol nia ba kayo. diba choice nyo naman ibigay lahat yun sa kanila. dear, dont blame others for your mistakes. instead of hating. just move na lang diba. im not telling everyone na you should fall for us. i make it clear din naman sa mga previous posts ko na aminado naman akong may mga not worth it din sa love nyo na therapist. just be vigilant and read between the lines.

and just in case you want to hear one of the success stories sa thera/client love. may nabalitaan ako kailan lang. she's one of the top theras sa one of the branch nung previous spa ko. dalaga. bata. mga two years sia sa spa. yung client nia, not so pogi, not so mayaman. older than her. bigla nalang nawala yung thera eh . then nabalitaan namin pinahinto sia nung client. i talk to her one time. sabi ko. " magkano binibigay nia sayo..?" sagot nia " 30k a month" ( that's so small compare sa kinikita niang 100k to 200k a month considering na one of the top sia. i ask her. '' why did you stop? what did he tell you to convince you to stop? '' and i really admire her sa answer nia. sabi nia. " may ipon naman ako ate. tsaka iba kasi si ___ yung love na pinakita nia iba po talaga. kaya one day naisip ko nalang ayoko na po. kasi nakonsensya na ko. we dont have to talk about it naman na din tumigil nalang ako . pag gising ko ayaw ko na eh. mahal ko sia. mahal nia ko.at alam kong totoo po yun. ok na yun nakakasurvive naman po kami. "

they are 10 months now. and they are having a baby na. she's 1 month preggy! and in fairness naman dun sa client. friend ko sila sa fb pareho and they looked so happy..

hmmm eh kasi mukang okay na ulit sila.. kakalungkot lang kasi siguro this is it pansit.. pero at the same time masaya din kasi yun lang din naman gusto ko maging masaya sya..

It's when you think of that someone's happiness besides your own. When you give and expect nothing in return. When you would do anything for that person's sake. That is genuine love.

exactly what im thinking.. and its when no matter how hurt you are because of her/him. you just cant hate them.. even if they say that they dont love you. and you knew it naman in the very first place. you still love them.

men are polygamous by nature. and they are born to admire women DAW. just accept the fact, or ikulong mo nalang sia sa kwarto and locked him up forever. haha

pssst,

i've been through hell, and you're one of those who put me there.

i ask for just a hug. but you refused. is it too much kapalit ng paglalagay mo sakin dun..? hmmmm. well.

me.

bipolar

Share ko lang na... Epic yung eksena kanina sa bus hahhaha kala ko crush ako ni kuyang nasa harap kasi tingin sia ng tingin sakin... Hanggang napansin ko halos lhat pala ng tao ng bus tingin ng tingin sakin. Hahahahah panu nagcoconcert na pala ako sa bus, akaheadset kasi ako.. Damang dama ko pagkanta hahahhaa lol.. Jahe!!

no sense of belonging hays.

who's going next week..?

someone send me a voice recording while he's singing like crazy.. lol. til now i cant sleep kasi paulit ulit ko pinapakinggan yung recording haha

natutunan ko lately,

that even if meeting him, knowing him and loving him makes me cry every night and makes me suffer from nightmares,....

i will still love him even if wala kaming forever. lol. kasi he's the only one who can make my sanity intact. even if he dont love me. knowing that he cares. even if sometimes he intentionally try to hurt me emotionally i cant hate him. ughh!!!! what kind of power does he have na he can easily lift my spirit high even if i wanted to die..? really one of a kind bugsie..

me too.. im a loser.. loser = me...

maya na tayo bangon.. antok pa ko ihhhh... payakap..... wag kang gagalaw jan.. jan ka lang......zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.........

tequila shots.

books or movies..?

bugs,

I miss you. I'm too afraid to text you na kasi natatakot ako umiyak nanaman knowing na there is a chance na ul ignore me lang ulit.. kaya eto I'm just waiting nalang.. waiting for you to miss me. if I could only borrow you from her kahit one whole day lang before I go... haysssssssss... but I know I couldn't.. ive been dreaming about you every night nanaman...and well every time I sleep,..... tsk.... and I don't wanna wake up..

tet.