Sitti of TVS

in my 'career' madaming klase ng tao na kong nakakaharap, madaming stories na naririnig, bat ganun, some or most of them always use their hearts, sabi sakin dati if you follow your heart daw you will be happy.. pero bakit whenever these people follow their heart they get hurt. they give too much, then they get nothing in return.

follow your heart til when...? before, i was like that. sobrang innocent, all i do is ifollow lang sia ng ifollow i dont know that i have to stop na. because i dont know when to stop. hanggang one day narealize ko kakafollow my heart ko, i have it broken, torn into pieces. almost nothing left, so with my heart na shattered into a million pieces, pag finollow ko pa sia i dont know which way to follow na.. and what if maging ashes na sia. natatakot ako, last time someone told me na wala daw akong puso... wala na nga ba... ? im not heartless maybe im just starting to use my heart less. dati may nagsabi sakin na sana di ako magbago, di mawala yung kainosentehan ko.. panu yun... sa lahat ng heartaches, sa lahat ng hirap, is it possible not to change..?

there is a saying na ' always follow your heart daw ' and before naririnig ko lagi yun.. hmmmmm... may mga bagay na iniisip ko minsan if tama or mali, if dapat or hindi, if i should turn back or just move forward, if what's going on sa isip ng ibang tao, if anong purpose nila, if anong tumatakbo sa isip nila whenever they did something. whenever they say something. sometimes di ko maintindihan yung mga bagay bagay. whenever we make a decision, ano ba talaga ang dapat..? gamitin ang heart..? yung iba sa kagagamit ng puso ayun lagi sila nasasaktan, yung iba naman kagagamit sa 'mind' nasasabihan nating 'heartless'. and madalas hindi sila nagiging masaya.. sabi nila 'follow your heart' eh hanggang kelan dapat ifollow yung heart ..? hanggang magkadurog durog na..? i wish they are some who share the same thinking as me... let's have a discussion here.. mag analyze ng mga bagay bagay..

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realizing that im too young pa and its ok to be single... because yung iba nga 60's na pero single pa din.. i still have a sweet life with konting konting bitterness , there's no need to be sad . im still lucky..

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sa tingin mo, WEAK minded ba ang mga guest na madaling ma in love sa thera dahil lang naka experience ng physical intimacy mula sa therapist? hindi ba infatuation yon at hindi love pwede mo ring tawagin Libog lang or Lust. naisip ko na parang katulad lang yan sa isang club pag may nakilala kang babae at nakasayaw mo at natapos ang gabi na nakahalikan mo pero hindi mo na makikita ulit yung babae dahil one night stand lang. hindi ba pwede ring ganito ang nangyayari sa sa spa? Walang love involved pero hindi yata marunong mag distinguish ang lalake between love and libog.

 

at saka dahil hindi niya mapigilan sarili niya, naging ADDICTED siya sa therapist na yon. hindi ba pagiging weak minded yon? sa point of view ng therapist, siya ang panalo dahil nagtagumpay siya na magkaroon ng consistent source of income dahil may regular guest na siya. habang yung lalake under the spell siya ng therapist na yon.

 

may kilala akong therapist na ganoon nangyari sa kanya. in love na in love yung lalake. nagpopost pa nga dati sa thread na ito yung lalake pero nawala, kasi iniiwasan na siya ng therapist dahil hindi daw niya trip yung lalake. masasabi mo nga bang WEAK minded yung lalake.

*sigh* sorry sir but im really finding it hard to compherend po if ano ibig mo sabihin. or if ano po exactly yung point mo po... binabasa ko na sia paulit ulit mjo blurred padin dating talaga sakin. i dont know if it's because of my migraine lang.

in this statement of yours of i somehow strongly disagree.

im just wondering, how can you be so sure of a therapist's point of view po..? may kilala kang therapist na ganun, you mean. tingin mo yung point of view nung girl is tagumpay sia dahil under ng spell nia yung client and that she have a consistent source of income. kaso iniwasan nung girl yung client kasi hindi nia trip..? hmmm mjo magulo po.. kasi in that post of yours parang you are referring sa dalawang klase ng therapists.

one, a therapist who could cast a 'certain charm' for her client, ( eto yung sinsasabi mo pong may point of view na winner sila dahil may regular guests na sila) and they will just continue to make paasa the client para may regular client sia.

second kind of thera, is yung pag naramdaman niang you truly love her she will just choose to push you away. kahit mawalan sia ng client.

( this is really so magulo. )

and answering your question po. if i think clients who fall for a thera are weak. my answer is NO.. capital N-O i dont find them weak. In fact i really admire them. And those client na truly love a thera unconditionally and stand for her, gosh! i really love them! My bestfriend, (a client ) let's just make him a tago sa codename na " gwardya sibil " i really love him as a bestfriend! im willing to cross burning bridge for him hahahahah why..? kasi i see how a stone can break. i saw him cry. i saw everything na ginawa nia for her. without asking anything in return. kung alam nyo lang kung ano ginawa nia for that thera, well. malulula kayo sa sobrang grabe. but i never heard him make sumpa that thera, i never heard him say super harsh and bad words sa kanya. i never heard him sumbat everything he did and he give even if sinaktan lang sia nung thera. and i believe that those kind of people are for keeps! sabi ko nga sa mga co-theras ko. siguro if i dont love part-e pa. baka nako ginayuma ko na si bestfriend! lol hahahaah just kidding.

Purist din pala si Ms. Sitti...

no sir im not. sorry for giving you a wrong impression...

I have two theories.

 

First, it is unusual, but possible that a guy expresses his suppressed love by saying hurtful words. Think of the mischievous boy who bullies the prettiest girl in class. He is a bully, yes, but the pleasure or happiness comes not from bullying but from getting attention from the girl. He is immature and he can only express his love by bullying.

 

Same with the guy/s in your life. He is immature, perhaps and doesn't know how to manage feelings. If you truly love someone, the hurtful words you say to the beloved will hurt the speaker even more. Could it be that he's saying those words to hurt you, to hurt himself, and hopefully erase whatever feelings are left?

 

The second possible explanation is he never loved you, and looked at you as a trophy. And trophies are supposedly there just for display, just there to give him prestige, bragging rights and social acceptance. And once you broke out of that trophy mode, it is easier for him to break you.

thanks sir, this really makes me think much more deeply til now im thinking about this.

'hopefully erase whatever feelings are left' - makes sense.. im a lil bit guilty dito... pero ako i talk to myself lang..hahaha convincing myself lang na i should stop but lagi default ko is mahalin padin sia hahaha para siang gravity lagi ako hinihila. lol. yeah maybe ganun nga siguro..... other people say awful words para iconvince yung sarili nila that they shouldnt love that person. this really makes sense gosh!

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so there's a possibility that maybe some client who claims to love a thera is not really inlove with her na baka he just consider her as a trophy right..? tapos when they fail to get that 'trophy' they get angry and frustrated... hmmmmm

 

Hmmm I am not defending those people saying bad things about their previous loved ones..

 

But I think, I understand how they were able to say those things to them..

 

nasa stage na kasi siguro sila nung Anger.. tsaka pag galit naman talaga kahit anong nalabas sa bibig. kahit sa away lang ng mag jowa diba (and still mahal padin naman nila isat isa).. di naman siguro sa hnd nila minahal or iba yung definition nila of love... minsan talaga nangingibabaw ang galit... natatabunan na yung love.

 

nasa tao nalang nag kakaiba iba... kung kaya mo kontrolin galit mo, maiiwasan mo mag sasalita ng kung ano anong masasakit na salita tularan mo nalang si Alma hahahaha DASAL LANG TALAGA hahaha!! ...

may iba kasi na di nila talaga makontrol or sobra siguro talagang kagaguhan ginawa..

 

(wag lang sana umabot sa physical na pananakit pag galit kasi kabaklaan na ang manapak ng babae.)

there is only a thin line between love and hate... hmmmm i agree... thank you for explaning sir .. sabagay..

Did the thera lead client 1 on? Yes, i understand life is indeed unfair and that we should choose to fight our battles. Pero kung pinaasa ka naman, medyo blind sided naman siguro ung nangyari dun. Client 1 was really caught off guard. If client 2 succeeded ede good for them. Wala naman kasi talagang mablablame e kasi kanya kanyang way lang yan ng pag deal sa pain. May iba, mag rarant, may iba, tatalikuran nalang, may iba, makikipagaway, maglalasing or what not pero in my opinion, di ko lang rin masisi kung paano mag react ang isang tao sa isang pangyayari. Meron kasi tayong sasarili way of coping. Nasaktan ung tao alangan naman right of the bat masabi niyang masaya siya para sa taong nagbreak ng heart niya. (Implying on the person who has really loved the person; ung taong tunay na nagmahal at nasaktan.) Hirap kasi mang blame sa part man ng client or ng thera sa opinion ko kasi ang hirap din naman talagang masakaktan.

 

Love is unconditional, selfless, and complete acceptance -- yes, i agree with this on a certain level or maybe a certain time frame kungdi magiging martyr na tayo niyan.

 

Basta at the end of it all lahat naman tayo ay deserve magmahal at mahalin. We just have to seek the right person who is worth it and who would give you happiness that would outweigh the pain.

 

Just wanted to vent out.

We just have to seek the right person who is worth it and who would give you happiness that would outweigh the pain. - i agree 100%..

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i cant deal with 'hate'. well, i dont care if i get hated. what i cant really deal with is when i start to feel hate. because narealize ko. those moments when i start to hate something or someone, its the same moments when i fall apart. when i feel like my whole world is collapsing. thats why i cant hate.

i cant deal with 'hate'. well, i dont care if i get hated. what i cant really deal with is when i start to feel hate. because narealize ko. those moments when i start to hate something or someone, its the same moments when i fall apart. when i feel like my whole world is collapsing. thats why i cant hate.

and also what if, what if someone's nightmare can become someone's dream..?

i mean, someone or sige sabihin na nating a 'monster/veteran/heartless' thera , minahal ni client one, binigay lahat, ginawa lahat chuvacheness chuvacheness kaso di pa din sia kayang mahalin ni thera. so ending. naging 'nightmare' sia ni client one. what will happen next kaya..? kasusuklaman kaya sia ni client, kamumuhian kaya sia? some cases, yes. or baka naman magmove on nalang si client.

same thera, may nakilalang client two. she just loved him. given her best for him. love him as much as he loved her. happy ending. and she ended up being someone's dream..

unfair..? yes. because life is really unfair. and all we can do is accept it.

kung sinasabi ng iba sa inyo na ' they fall for a monster, na nagkamali sila sa pagmamahal dun sa thera, na napakawalang kwenta nung thera, ' why dont you just blame yourself.. ? just think about it. it's your choice naman. di ka naman puppet ng kung sino diba. it's your mistake, nagkamali ka. that's just it. sinasabi pinaasa nung thera, panong pinaasa..? hmmm... sinabi ba nya na ' sige ibili mo ko ng ganto ibili mo ko ng ganyan tapos i will love you back ! ' wew.. or did she just make parinig na she wants something or make you lambing to buy her something... eh shunga ka, dun palang di mo na nagets.. dapat back off ka na nun diba...? but instead some of you pinili magpakatanga. the keyword again is 'pinili'.

andaming nag claclaim na nagmahal daw sila ng thera , pero nasayang lang, niloko lang daw sila, ginamit lang daw sila. wala daw kwenta yung thera na minahal nila. Sorry i really can't understand. what does love really means ba for some of you..?

mine kasi eto.

credits to NOAH ELKRIEF.

how can you claimed that you had love someone, kung kayang kaya mo naman magsalita ng super harsh things about her..? is that love..? you are hurt. ok i understand. pero is it enough para saktan or pagsalitaan mo ng kung ano ano yung taong kiniclaim mo na minahal mo..? hmmmmmm... is it really love..?

please can someone help me understand..?

just imagined a client ( a sincere one ) to fall for a ( super duper broken ) thera. ano magiging outcome....?

*it's either the client will be broken too. emotionally and financially. (lol)

-yes im aware of this naman. im aware that 'some' . SOME theras really dont deserve everything a prince charming can offer. i dont know their reasons. pero lahat naman siguro may story.

*or the client will have to endure so much pain din for loving her. exert too much effort. proved his love for her. do everything just to make her complete again. ( maybe not complete kahit just to make her heart 'function' again ) then maybe there will be a little chance na it will work.. hmmm.. but still imagine yung magiging hirap nung client to have her.

in everything. or i might say in this kind of situations asahan mo ng masasaktan ka. you just have to choose what kind of pain you wanna feel. or what kind of pain you think you can endure. if its the pain caused of regret. the pain caused of fighting. the pain caused of loving.

yeah, hnd ka naman gigising isang araw tapos naisipan mo, "Mainlove kaya ako ngayong araw, punta ako sa spa" hahahaha!! nakakatawa lang i-imagine haha

 

May part lang siguro na hnd natin nahahalata na nahuhulog na tayo... tapos pag narealize natin too late na. hnd na madaling umakyat sa pag kaka hulog..

 

"everything that falls gets broken"

-unless may sumalo (sana may kutchon sa kamay nya hahaha para mahimbing, diretso bagsak mo tulog ka haha)

pag naman may sumalo, may tendency na masaktan din sia sa pagsalo.

no one wants to fall, its unintentional. both parties. no one plans naman siguro na pumunta ng spakols para humanap ng forever diba? ganun din kami we dont plan to fall for a client. clients go to spas for release and yung iba para sa companion.. kami namin we go here for work. ang weird lang eh noh... kasi siguro dapat we dont fall in love nalang... kasi almost everything that falls gets broken diba..? maybe we should love. gulo haha. another super lalim na gabi for me. *sigh*

never. ( coz i have a tendency to start a fight to anyone or annoy anyone when i get drunk ) haha

cant sleep..?

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