blue+george

1. nissan gtr. (latest one, since it changes yearly)

2. nissan concept 2020

3. chevrolet camaro zl1

4. ford everest (high end) kahit eto na lang

MJ. walang katulad.

maybe sa mga generation ngayon si lebron

or maybe c steph curry (currently)

billiards

1. efren reyes

basketball

1. troy rosario

2. christian standhardinger

3. terrence romeo

4. johnny abarrientos

bowling

1. biboy rivera

shooting

1. jethro dionisio

when i spend it without any returns. when money is used without growth...

as a personal note, syempre may personal expense din na important, food and shelter. (basic lang) cannot bargain. (food like mcdo or higher is not basic, shelter like a hotel, is not basic) others can be bargained na. car, travels, school, tuition, lahat important. maraming pwedeng pag lagyan ng pera, may degree ng importance. and quantity. the best on is investment, pero mas madami pa din ang pipiliin magbaksyon (ako din naman) kaysa mag invest. hirap. promise. hirap bugahin attitude ko (kahit ngayon ganun pa din) tigas pa din ulo ko, just bought a 65 inch tv 2 weeks ago. hehehe sarap gumastos. pero I do try to clamp it down. basta! complicated! hehehe

i talk s@%t, i talk based on experience. i walk my talk. hehehe i dont talk big, but i do love small talk my most memorable talks are the small talks

i dont feel rich. definitely not looking rich. i cant claim to be rich. i look more of a slave hehehe

if i stand together with makati/ bgc people i'd look like a mess. a puddle of mud in a well dressed society. hehehe

while everybodys wearing nice leather shoes, im wearing my sandals

while everyone looks over their shoulder for gorgeous men and women, i cant even turn one head hehehe even the guy thats trying to give out credit cards. hehehe "walang pera to" hehehe

buti pa yun charity girl lumalapit hehehe

i am like the rest of us. i am pobre

i simply can't. besides, I do count the years, and its been worth it (i'm not that old! i can do sex marathons if i wanted to )

regrets I have some, failures a lot! rejections a lot! but even though life is tough and rough, i have my way of getting through.

i believe in marriages. its sanctity. its meaning.

what i dont believe is people. changing minds. changing actions.

touch? xbox controller

pangit na mayaman.

wala naman sa hitsura yan. nasa diskarte yan. having money, its easier to move, decide, make progress. having money, makes things easier. (thats why a lot of hot women "gold diggers" love rich people) pero may not neccesarily be the case. having gives a person better living. better health, better choices in life. no need careers since mayaman na. love life na lang. love life is easier kung kaya ibigay lahat ng pangangailangan ng partner mo

pag mahirap na gwapo, well hindi lahat maging coco martin. hehehe its one in a million. hard work may not be enough to succeed.

these for me are all gambling and I do play

1. stocks

2. relationships

3. edsa, c5, manila

4. bus or taxi

5. assets and liabilities

6. my heart

make money first, so you acn chase your passion. once you have money (say a year worth of expenses) then you have a year to chase for your passion.

i miss being a teen age crash test dummy.

i miss cramming. i miss the daily early morning (5am) commute house to school. and late commute (11pm) commute school to house

i miss playing basketball in the rain with my barkada

i miss playing arcade tecmo! (ewan ko lang sino nakakaalam kung saan yun) hehehe nandun pa kaya? I doubt it.

I miss playing competitive basketball...

I miss playing billiards

I miss playing need for speed ps2 with my friends

I miss eating kwek kwek with my classmates (mga walang pambili hehehe)

I miss playing starcraft, counter strike with my friends with all the trash talk and all

I miss talking to that pretty girl classmate of mine back in college. gf ko sana wala lang talaga funds to support a relationship

I miss getting stuck in the rain with my ex..

I miss a lot of things

one retired phone asus zenphone2?

one iphone 6s plus

i have new room.

queen size bed.

big pillows

seating pillows

65" tv

xbox

ps3

iphone 6s

pc

hard disk

jansport bag

g tec pens black blue red green

pilot vtec pens

zebra name pens

staedtler pencils hb, b2

ruler

paint brushes

nikon dslr d90

laptop

wall clock

electric fan

aircon

flourescent lamp

extension cords

starbucks tumbler

car keys

passport

house keys

noodles, pork and beans, corned beef, luncheon meat, (takot magutom) hehehe

nike shoes, skechers shoes, crocs (kaya ang sikip eh)

ck one

credit card

sangkaterbang labahin

dirty socks and briefs! hahaha

i now live in a condo... no choice na hehehe

pero better both.

a condo in the city and a house in tagaytay or baguio. yun ang the best. i'm trying my very best para makaipon for that

quiet.

goes for a road trip

stress eating

beach, tagaytay

beach, baguio

boracay

relax sa condo, ps3 or xbox, pc, youtube...

chill sa pool.

meet with friends. (pag d sila busy) hehehe

sa fx noon sa likod. tangkad kasi ako. dali unat ang mga binti. ngayon sa harap. i want the 2 front seats. para maluwag hehehe

sa jeep noon sabit! kasi libre hehehe 123, hehehe now sa dulo sa likod. ayaw ko mag abot ng bayad. wala naman salary, helper ng driver hehehe. system need to change.

sa city bus, basta malapit sa exit. sa provincial bus, malapit sa likod, para less hilo.

sa plane aisle. malapit sa exit. hassle pag bababa.

sa ferry center aisle and malapit sa exit. hassle pag bababa.

tricycle - no change. sa likod ng driver.

overload!

1. xbox - dunno... nba 2k, lego... cguro...

2. a long hot shower.

3. movie dunno... anything worth watching. maybe top gun in 4k

4. music, ewan, cguro playlist sa youtube.... some house~beach music cguro pampa relax....

5. kung mag skype sa akin cguro.

yun po!

condo - 35k

credit card - 50k

plane tickets - 20k

car payment - 28.5k

i think my salary cant handle anymore hehehe #gastospamore

dickies (big shirts) noon nun college days

la coste (knitted polo shirts) nun may pera hehehe

bench (pag meron kasya, mura and matibay)

polo sport (polo shirts and long sleeves and office jackets) ganda color, tibay and yabang ng dating

columbia (utility pants) tibay and magaan

im 6 feet tall...

for me doesnt matter.

pero pagnapapagusapn ng mga friends, girls, classmates na girls, friends of friends, sa mga ex's lahat sila, gusto matangkad. (not because of big endowment) sabi nila they feel secured pag matangkad kasama nila, kaya hilig nila hug and magpa akay. (ginagawa nyo ako bodyguard!) asar. hehehe anyways for me doesnt matter, better na magkasundo kayo sa mga bagay bagay. (dont make each other trophies na pinagmamalaki nyo sa mga friends family nyo!) hehehe been like that since high school. haaayz.

to think of it hindi pa ako nag ka girlfriend na mas matangkad sa akin. (jaja santiago) na iimagine ko.... nakakaintimidate nakakaslam cya hehehe

Hello po sa mga lawyers dito... I am in a very tight situation that i think its too complicated and needing a legal consultant.

 

I am married with 3kids. We've been together for 12yrs na.

At first hindi na po talaga malalim yung pagmamahal ko sa kanya.

But i tried to work it out since nabuntis ako.

For the past 12yrs ilang beses ko ng binalak humiwalay, pero di natutuloy kasi everytime nabubuntis ako.

Wala akong work, so i needed him for financial assistance.

Then tinanggap ko na lang na siguro this is my destiny.

Pinilit ko na lang sarili ko na maging masaya with my kids.

From 2011 to 2016, he worked at Singapore to provide for us.

May mga away kami pero naoovercome naman.

I was given a big break last year and 2015, i succeeded in my business..

Last year October pinauwi ko na sya since kaya naman na.

But before ko sya pinauwi nagheart to heart talk kami.

Knowing his flaws, i tried to talk it out.

Sabi ko, you have to support me in everything I do.

You have to say yes to all my decisions, because arguments are the last thing i want to have when i am tired.

You have to improve your hygiene, as i am so disgusted everytime.

Dahil dalawa lang ang mangyayari sa marriage natin pag umuwi ka.

Either we separate or mabond pa yung marriage natin.

Of course he was part of my success too. He is the father of my kids.

And i wanted to at least have that happy family thing.

So yun umuwi na sya.

The 1st month i tolerated his katamaran kasi iniisip ko need din nya magrelax.

November, December kinakaya ko pa yung nakababad sya sa facebook, late na pumapasok ng kwarto.

Same room kami with our kids so nabwibwisit ako pag late na sya pumasok sa kwarto at nadadamay mga bata.

I am sleeping at 10pm and wake up at 4am. I am tired all day kasi because of too much work.

January, i drifted away, we don't share bed anymore, we're no longer intimate.

Wala syang babae, wala rin akong lalake.

The only thing he does is facebook dito facebook dun.

Ang kinakabwisit ko mahilig sya sa mga exotic animals pero di ko na pinayagan mag alaga matagal na since nakakatakot naman talaga.

Tapos sa facebook admin pa sya ng mga groups at kung meron mga tinatanong akala mo kung sinong VETERINARIAN ang p#tang %na.

Since i manage to buy multiple cars. We have Revo, Navara, Everest, Patrol.

Ang gago nagpamember sa lahat ng car clubs. Akala mo kung sinong mekaniko na nakasagot sa lahat ng post.

Eh ang totoo yung Revo lang naman ang gamit nya. Since brothers ko nagamit ng Everest at Navara tapos ako sa Patrol.

King ina di nga marunong magdrive at minamasahe nya manibela at pag long drives at mga zigzag eh ako talaga driver.

Pasikat ang hayup hayun kala mo nga kung sinong magaling na driver nakasagot lagi sa enquiry ng mga car clubs di naman admin.

So hayun araw araw na akong naiistress. Minsan tumatakas ako to breath some air.

Like i go out of town. Tang ina eto na ang malalang sitwasyon since may GPS tracker yung Patrol ko.

Wala na ginawa yung hayup kundi itrack ako ng itrack sa cellphone sa sasakyan.

Magugulat ka na lang kaconvoy mo na ang hayup.

Grabe na yung stress ko. I am running a small company with a total of 32 employees.

Sa totoo lang, supposedly yung uwi nya is to help me manage our business pero wala nganga.

Since wala sya pakinabang sa management he could have at least bumawi na lang to serve and pamper me.

Pero wala madalas nakaglue sa facebook ang hayup.

As an entrepreneur ayaw na ayaw kong may nasasayang na oras sa walang pakinabang na bagay.

So fast forward sa sweet naming kwento..

He can no longer make me happy. Puro stress at disgust araw araw nararamdaman ko sa kanya.

March pa lang this year hinihiwalayan ko na but he continues to ignore my demands.

Kasi the house were living is ako bumili. Makapal pa gusto ako ang aalis.

Kasi ayaw daw nyang mahiwalay sa mga bata. Dinadahilan nya pag umalis sya baka di na nya makita mga bata.

Eh willing naman ako sa shared custody at payag naman akong magchild support pati na financial support so he can stand on his own again.

Basta maghiwalay na lang kami kasi ayaw ko na talaga.

Pero matigas, sobra na away namin araw araw minumura ko na araw araw.

HIndi na ako naniniwalang mahal nya ako, mas naniniwala na akong pera na ang habol nya at

ayaw nyang iba ang makinabang since ang mentality nya eh sya namuhunan sa success ko.

So eto inabot pa nga kami ng June. Eto na last straw, i went to Bulacan para mag abot tulong sa namassacre yung buong family

since same town kami galing. I was with my bro and my cousin.

Tang ina nanjan na naman yung hayup at trinack na naman ako.

Binuntutan kami hanggang Fairview at dahil nagpagas kami sumunod hayun pinapagalitan na ako.

Bakit daw ako di sumasagot eh hindi naman talaga kami speaking terms kumbaga dinededma ko na sya matagal na.

Palagi na lang ako napapahiya sa kakabuntot nya sa mga kameeting ko kahit makita pa nyang babae or pamilya ko.

susunod sunod pa rin na parang aso.

Nagiging demonyo na ako kakaisip pano idispatsa.

Gusto ko na ipatira talaga or lasunin. Sobrang luhod ko na rin sa Dyos na sana alisin na sya sa buhay ko sa kahit anong paraan.

Hindi ko na nakikilala sarili ko pag sya usapan. Nagiging demonyo na talaga ako.

Hindi ko alam kung hanggang kelan ko makokontrol sarili ko, impulsive and aggressive akong tao kaya

natatakot din ako na balang araw di ko na makontrol sarili ko at mapatay ko sya or mapatay nya ako.

So eto na pinalayas ko sya yesterday, with matching throwing out his things and handing out money.

Sabi ko lumayas sya, kung di sya aalis pati yung 3 kids namin i will throw out their things at bitbitin na nya.

Dahil suko na talaga ako, na feeling ko kaya ko ng mawala kahit yung mga anak ko mawala lang din sya sa buhay ko.

Siguro sasabihin nyo how can a mother do that? Pero yes, he turned me into an evil that even me i can no longer control my hatred.

Desidido na ako. Do or die na to.

As part of our hiwalayan agreement, i promised child support and financial support para makabangon sya ulit.

Bibigyan ko sya ng half million and he can get anything he wants basta makatarungan.

At gusto kong nakapirma sya ng agreement pero ayaw nya.

Ang gusto lang eh i'll hand it to him like nothing.

I have several properties na napurchase like townhouse, condo and lots.

Natatakot akong maghabol sya. Dahil seriously ginapang ko talaga tong negosyo ko with the help of my brothers sa managing.

I gave him 3 days ultimatum to completely leave the house.

He can bring the kids and the yayas if he wants to.

Sabi ko sa 3 days na yun he can come at day time and fix his things but at night kailangan umalis sya kasi di ako makatulog.

Napaparanoid ako na baka dahil madepress since may pagkapsycho patayin nya ako.

Kaya i am well guarded by my staff and bros.

 

MY QUESTION IS:

1. Kelan ako pwede magfile ng annulment?

 

2. Mafifile ko ba annulment case kahit di sya pumirma?

 

3. May chance of winning ba ako kung ayaw nya makicooperate?

 

4. Pag hinand out ko yung pera and ibang financial support, kelan ko pwedeng itigil?

 

5. Ano po masusuggest nyo sa situation ko? Please lang yung hiwalay po. Not to fix it.

 

I know you guys think my case is still premature.

Pero hindi po. Naiinis ako na walang nakakaintindi how i feel inside that i am slowly dying of sadness and depression.

hindi lang ngayon, pero noon pa man binabalewala ko lang.

Lumalala lang ngayon. Triny ko na din sya kinausap. I begged and cried na palayain na nya ako.

Pero para syang bingi. Ayaw ko ng magcompromise kami dahil paulit ulit lang.

Compromise then kinabukasan gagawin nya ulit.

Pagod na pagod na ako. Ayaw ko na. Parang gusto ko na lang lumayo pero maraming tao ang umaasa sakin.

dear madam,

since magkalapit lang tayo ng lugar (and malamang nakapaggitgitan na tayo sa mga pinch points from bulacan to sm Fairview) hehehe, i am an entrepreneur, i spent time abroad, I feel u, and I have a slightly different approach to your problem.

1. since may pera u, seek a good lawyer. I can suggest one. if you would like. pm na lang.

2. rather than annulment that takes time and a lot of money, file for legal separation. that's easier.

3. terms and conditions can be discussed with your lawyer then you can have a separate discussion with your hubby.

4. for me... think of the kids... they are always the most affected. they are in between... if there is a way to patch things up, ayusin, if not then put some distance first. wag biglaan... kawawa mga bata.

5. if you both think of the kids, separate when all of them reach 18, where its not so traumatic. if you think about your own happiness, then separate now.

6. have a mutual understanding about the issue.

7. annulment means you can marry again. legal separation means just putting a wall between the two of you. make a choice. (yun isa costs like a Nissan patrol, and the other cost like a rev0) since you have all the finance, I guess you need to shoulder a lot if you want it to push thru

8. takes time. a whole damn patience hehehe like 1 year~5 years?

9. check the law books on what are the legal basis for annulment and do you have these bases? can you prove it in court? etc.

Hi!

 

Gusto ko lang po sana humingi ng tulong kung ano ang mga karapatan ko bilang babae at ina..

 

Mula po ng akoy nabuntis, ako po ay nakatira na sa aking mga magulang. Wala po akong trabaho at sya po ay paminsan minsan meron at minsan po ay walang trabaho. Nung nanganak ako, half ng bill po ay nabayaran ng mga kapatid ko. Yung half po ay promissory note at nakahiram po kami sa kaibigan nya na hanggang ngaun po ay hindi pa po namin nababayaran worth 50K. Ngaun po two years old na anak namin, dito parin po kami nakatira sa parents ko at sya po ay sa caloocan. Dumadalaw po sya sa amin pag may sweldo or pera po sya. Ngaun medyo nahihirapan po ako pakisamahan sya dahil sa sobrang seloso po nya, bawat txt nya sa akin puro bintang at hinala, nakakapagod na po sagutin, kahit madaling araw po ay di ako tinitigilan sa mga ganung txt nya. Pag lalabas po ako ng bahay para bumili ng needs ng baby ko, gusto po nya ittxt sya kung ano mga ginagawa ko at kung nasaan na ako. Kahit pagsakay ko ng shuttle ay gusto nya ittxt ko pa. At last week naman ay umalis ako nag apply ng trabaho ay sinamahan pa nya ako kahit hindi naman sya nag apply doon sa company. Nasasakal po ako sa pagiging seloso nya. Hindi po kami magkasama sa isang bunong dahil narin po sa pinansyal, wala po syang stable job. Pag ayaw nya po sa pinapasukan nya ay magreresign ito kahit wala pang kapalit, kayat lagi po ako may utang sa mga kapatid ko pang gastos sa anak namin. Noong May 10 po ay sumugod sya sa bahay ng parents ko at madami sya tinanong sa father ko kung umalis daw ba ako ng bahay. Pagkatapos po ay nagkasagutan kaming dalawa, nahampas ko sya ng face towel sa likod sa inis ko at humarap sya sa akin at sinugod ako. Napaatras ako dahil sa takot, mukha syang papatay noon, agad nyang hinwakan kamay ko at ginapos ako. Sa takot ko ay napasigaw ako at ang pamangkin ko na 15 yrs old ay natakot at tinawagan ang sister ko sa office kayat nagpatawag ng security guard ang sister ko. Nanginginig ako sa takot noon, dati po noong mag bf-gf plang po kami ay nananakit na po sya, tinatadyakan at kinakaladkad po nya ako sa kwarto. Pero dko akalain na mauulit ito noon May 10 kaya Nagmakaaw kami sa kanya na umalis na pero pinilit nya magstay. Pero sa pulit ulit naming pakiusap ay napaalis din namin sya. Sa takot ko at galit sa kanya, tnxt ko sya na di na nya kami makikita ng anak nya. Ang ginawa nya ay nagpunta sya ng abogado at sinabi sa akin na mananalo sila sa kaso at kukunin nila sa kin ang anak ko! Dko po alam kung ano ang ikakaso nila sa akin, dko po alam kung ano ang karapatan ko. Nakiusap po ako sa kanya na wag ituloy ang kaso. At nitong mga nakalipas na araw, pag hindi nya gusto ang sagot ko sa mga tanong nya ay ginagamit nyang panakot sa akin yung pag file ng case.. Ano po ang dapat kong gawin? Lagi po may takot sa isip at kalooban ko, ayaw ko po mawalay sa akin ang anak ko. Tulungan nyo po ako. Salamat po

bakit ang tamad ng Pilipino tumingin sa law books... may google naman... may public attorneys office naman. anak mo na yun pinaguusapan. titipid ka pa ba? rather than taking advices online. go to a lawyer. kung may pera ka punta ka sa accra. pag wala sa PAO nearest you. usually nasa city hall mga yun. anyways use google to search their exact location. get a consult. magpasoftdrinks after. hehehe