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TanglewoodBoy

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  1. TWB, when we all got married that is when our life became complicated

    and when it ended it get more more more more ..... aaaahhhh

     

    yeah bro,. cheers to that...hahahaahah

     

    :)

     

    marriage will always have it's ups and downs, it's how you deal with the downs that counts.....hahaha

  2. Maybe karma... maybe... but there's also another point-of-view which, I feel, is a more plausible explanation.

     

    In the good book, there's this adage: "love thy neighbor as thy self."

     

    Very often, we focus on the "thy neighbor." We have forgotten about THY SELF.

     

    Look at the whole sentence. How should we love our neighbor? The loving of thy neighbor should be the same as the loving of self.

     

    In short, it is important to LOVE THY SELF. If we do not know how to love ourselves, we will never know how to love our neighbor.

     

    What's my point? I feel, complicated relationships happen because we ourselves are in a "complicated situation." There's no stability in our life. Hence, we seek out ways and means to stabilize ourselves, to pacify ourselves, to fulfill ourselves, etc...

     

    And we think, the solution is outside of us. But it doesn't happen. Why? Because there's no foundation in us. We are not stable, we are not at peace, we are not fulfilled.

     

    I really think that when we come from a major break-up, or from an immediate troubled experience, we shouldn't try to look for a solution outside of us. Maybe, the first thing to do is to "allow the dust to settle." Then, we can see more clearly.

     

    Only when there's some form of stability, that's the time to move slowly outside. When the complications in our own lives have found the resolution, it will only be then our relationships outside will be stable.

     

     

    yeah bro, in those relationships, i still have some issues yet that i feel the need to resolve siguro kaya nagka ganun but it doesn't mean i loved them less.....siguro, in a right frame of mind, mas tumagal sana kami....but i do think i tried hard....so, maybe the next time, i would try harder as they say....

     

    :)

     

    thanks for the inputs sir!!

  3. when my marriage ended, i do had complicated relationships after that....

     

    the first one was we are both on the rebound so it's bound to fall, she does love her ex bf so much.....i was just looking for some company as well...

     

    the second one was i didn't truly loved her but she was so nice so that's why i took her along for the ride...

     

    the third one, due to certain circumstances, the relationship is not yet ripe...

     

    the fourth one, was just a one night stand, wahahahahaha

     

    the last one, i truly loved that lady, but again, due to certain circumstances the relationship is bound to end sooner or later....

     

     

    maybe karma is rearing it's ugly head on me this time......haha

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