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TanglewoodBoy

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  1. Thanks for the advice bro as always :)

     

    With regards to the cellphone, she didn't ask me to buy it right out. She told me if I knew someone who had a credit card we could borrow to buy the cellphone. Probably just a more subtle way of saying "I want you to buy me a cellphone". <_< I told her I don't have the money and expected her to ignore me after that. She said we could share the cost and she would help me out. There was also this one time she wanted to introduce me to her friends as her new bf. This was before I told her I had a stable gf.

     

    She was great when things were great but then when I couldn't give her commitment, she turned into a totally different person.

     

    My friends ask me why I am so nice with these girls. I don't know, even if they are in that situation, I can't help but respect them. There's also a part of me that feels sad and wants to help them out. She's a working student by the way and her friends and family don't know her real "work".

     

    well, i really can't say if she's really serious about you, also, she may be just looking for the right one and given the chances and experience you have given her, only time can really tell if she's really serious about you..

     

    it's because of the way you were brought up bro, we have the same qualities na madaling maawa though sometimes i tend to just turn a blind eye pag mga ganyang bagay kasi nga masakit sa huli...

     

    good luck bro on whatever your decision may be..

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    The thing about these girls is that one night everything can change. It is like a race where you need to be always in contact with them physically and through constant communication. Just one night at her "work" with a guy can make her forget all about you. It's unfair because now I'm stuck with trying to move on again.

     

    Bro,

     

    my 2 cents on your situation....

     

    first of all, you were right in not giving into her demand, i mean, you are not that close and yet she's already asking for a cellphone??? the girl seems so shallow to me, not unless you were not giving her due tip in the times you have been getting her in the MP....

     

    but it's best to walk away bro, my assumption as always if the girl truly loves you, di manghihingi sayo yan, not for any other material things pwera na lang kung emergency or talagang kailangan....

     

    i have assumed you to be a very very nice person, so nice na madali ka siguro bumigay agad, sometimes bro, pretend not to care sa kanila and always have the advantage...

     

    just my thoughts and good luck bro!!

  3. Astig! I envy you TWB :)

     

    nyahahahahaah no bro, don't.....

     

    didn't have time to roam around because i usually go here because of my sister, we might be back by FEB 2011 to check out MARINA BAY SANDS -- haven't been there though..want to see the swimming pool there, sa 54th floor as what my dad told me..

     

    :)

  4. Thank you sir....medyo na relieve ako....150 to 250K ang annulment.. no plans of getting married anyway thanks

     

    yeah bro, we are on the same boat, the 150-250K, may share yung asawa mo dyan and it's going to be a long process...

     

    at least for legal separation, all your future assets will be secured...

     

    :)

  5. How much for legal separation....thats all i can afford...

     

    bro,

     

    my lawyer told me it' around 70K more or less....

     

    you just have to bring your marriage certificate...

     

    maybe you can hire a lawyer who charges less....

     

    hth sir

  6. I am married in my early 40's and this is my story about how i fell for an MPA. I met her 4 years ago at an MP in Q. Ave. it was like at first sight, not yet love, the moment she entered the room i was enamored, she was the most beautiful MPA that i have ever seen. She was very tall and chinita and the conversation with her was not like with other MPA's, she was very educated. Then came the service..she was soo good..and from then on i was already crushing on her. Not yet in love, but i couldn't get her off my mind. From my first visit, i started visiting her twice a week..this was a lot considering that before her, i might have gone to an MP a total of 20 times my entire life...i kept coming twice a week for two months..and i knew that i had already fallen for her..i told her i loved her and after 2 weeks..she told me she loved me too. She told me she was separated and a single Mom. Her dream was to work as a Medical Transcriptionist, i financed her studies and gave her an allowance. Since we met at an MP i did not expect everything she had told me about her to be true...true enough things unraveled..that she was still married and living with her husband. At first i thought everything was a lie, and that all she wanted from me was money. Maybe in her case she's thinking that all i want from her is sex. But since i felt i really loved her, i overcame all the lies..we are still together after four years..however...her income as a Medical Transcriptionist is not enough, i still give her some support. By the way her husband also has a girlfriend and my girl and he still live with each other for the sake of convenience. We see each other once a week and i give her 6k a month.

     

    Now my question is this..you think she would still see me if not for the support i give her?..if that's the case then this is just like a PSP scenario..like paying her 1.5k per session....although i would readily give that to her to help her, at the back of my mind. i still wonder if that's what she's only after. Of course 6k a month is a small amount, when she worked as an MPA, she took in 50 to 70k a month, but of course working as an MPA is quite dangerous and puts her health at risk. And when we make love it's so real..feels so real..she makes me very happy sexually and emotionally...we do things that only lovers in every sense of the word will do...however it's strictly a once a week affair, since she lives in her husband's house(although the husband also has a girlfriend she doesn't want to be caught because he might kick her out of the house).For me..i ask myself..is this just about sex?..our once a week session does wonders for me..it recharges me physically and emotionally. How long can we keep this up? And for her is this only about money or you think she has real feelings for me? Just wondering....

     

    you know bro, honestly speaking, i think she really loves you pero not whole heartedly, in a 100% quantity, i think it's on;y around 60-70% though to get to 100% you might need some major adjustments... kaya the question i ask you is.. do you really love her for you to leave your wife and be with her and vice versa?? di niyo ba kayang magsama sa iisang house?? you said you have been together for 4 years, that's a long time bro, that's the years me and my ex wife have been married and for me that is considered a lifetime,

     

    it's really complex bro, ask yourself analytically, wag puso pairalin mo kundi utak, ask yourself if she truly loves you and if you do, then stick with your situation (you being with each other's partner) or make major adjustments like what i stated above...

     

    i do hope i made some sense in your situation bro and best of luck!!

     

    :ninja:

     

    if she can leave her husband for you then, all your "fidelity" questions will be solved but

  7. ^

     

    its a little older than 4 yrs and has traveled ~55k kms.

     

    can you suggest a place preferably in q.c. where i can have those possible problems a look see?

     

    thanks btw for taking the time to answer. really appreciated. :)

     

    try bringing your car sa RUBBERVOLT WEST AVENUE bro, they have good mechanics there though mahal lang sila sumingil.....

     

    just try it bro then decide for yourself....

     

    :)

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