Iceman7
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In my opinion it is all just another business transaction. You go in there do your thing then get the hell out feeling a lot better about yourself with no strings attached. Why so many guys try to romanticize their experience is beyond me. Guys you don't need to complicate things, it´s all so simple. God gave men 2 heads, after using the one bellow use the one on your shoulders !
I dont think guys go to the spa with the intention of looking for romance. Unless you are a robot, one can develop feelings for the Thera like being captivated by her beauty or liking the way she smells or touches you or one just like her company and being around her and since Theras are human as well they can develop feelings for the GM. Its not that we want to complicate things as you can see here a lot of guys end up getting hurt because its a dangerous game. But if you like her and want to be with her its hard to control those emotions.
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You can be friendly while Loving your Therapist.
You can give but dont give all and expect nothing in return unless she does the same to you.
Be her guide during her Spa Journey making her stay as memorable as she fulfills her dreams.
Make good memories and learn from the not so good ones.
And as said Above Choose A Thera whos Worth Loving and Worth Fighting for.
The only Thera I would fight for is Super May, the other Theras I will be like on to the next one 😂
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Be friendly or love her, but teach yourself not to expect anything in return. Give it all, but take nothing. Appreciate if there is something but take a pause. Let it grow slowly whatever it is. Do not try to win. Cherish the good, forgive the bad. Believe the good in her. Rinse and repeat.
But before doing the above, choose wisely.
Said very wisely!
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even though the rich ugly guy gets the girl there is also that possibility that she has a broke good looking boyfriend on the side
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Falling for a thera is a free fall...
Regardless who catches who?
Theras are women, they are humans...
they deserve the things that everyone deserves to have.
In my case, i love my thera, i respect her and take care of her as much as possible...
I dont mind about what she does from time to time... i met her there... i respect that...
Now, if she want to get out from the industry, i'll do everything in my power to help her out.
Mahalin nya man ako o hindi, who cares...
It's falling for a thera, not falling for a Guest...
Im a guest... who wants to make her special in some ways...
It’s gonna be quite the ride, most are in this situation due to life circumstances and of course they would liked to be loved like any other woman and this how we met them thru the spa or ktv. The first time I feel for a Thera and we got close I couldn’t bear the fact that she giving up her body to other guys and I lost many nights sleep because I cared for her that much. I was willing to take care of her, but ended up taking care of her family as well. It basically was just to much for me to handle and I just had to back off. So kudos to you for wanting to help her out as much as you can.
I won’t let my good and bad experiences with falling for a Thera discourage me in the future if I where to fall for a Thera again.
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shared body is not acceptable! It hurts badly and make you lose your mind!
A lot of guys are ok with it as long as they don’t have to work hard and the girlfriend pays the bills
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humph, ganun talaga ang buhay siguro kailangan mu na i let go yan and tanggapin ang masamang pangyayari.., look forward, palagi may bagong umaga, kung mabubuhay ka sa nakaraan nyo sa masasakit n ngyari sayo di ka magiging masaya... love your self this time
Ur absolutely right 😄
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I take back what I said last. Because I know not every guy can support a Thera. And I know a lot of Thera are working to support their families and to better their situation or save for a business.
When I fell for a Thera in the past it broke my heart and had many sleepless nights and I just had to intervene. But what I said is not fair to the guys who fallen for the girl but just cant do anything about it.
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Just remember ladies if a guys truly loves you he wouldnt want to share you with anyone else. Just my words of advice 😉
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simple lang, yung mas mahal ako, kesa masmahal ko sya, ayoko na kasi masaktan ehhhhh
Oh lucky guy I am so jealous
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I am afraid to visit Supermay. After reading her past post on the old falling for a therapist thread I might end up falling for her 🥰 Then I am gonna have to compete with the other GMs here for her heart ♥️. 😄
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I wrote the last post was because of after reading this thread it got me thinking of a incident I had in the past with a thera. She told me one day that her Lola fell of her chair and hit her head and needed 10k for medical expenses. But she lied and planned to use that money 💴to take her boyfriend on vacation. I was like wow one would go that low and use their Lolas name to get money
And it got me wondering how much power a guy can have over a woman to go that far so she can take him on a vacation. What is this guy doing? Or saying! Who knows.
But luckily this is only one incident. Most Theras are sweet and nice. Just like there are bad GM there will be bad Theras
But it makes me wonder what kinda guy a woman truly wants.
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I dont know if this is the right place to post. But I see that a lot of ladies here like a certain good quality of guy. But from what I seen in the real world is different.
My question to the ladies are for the ones that financially support their boyfriends. Is it because they are sobra nan gawpo, or they tell you how much they love ❤ you.
I know not everyone can find a rich man. It seems like the so called chickboys get the upper hand. Even though they have kids with other women and dont bring anything financially to the table. But any insight on this would be nice 😄
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This is a true story...
DUMBSTRUCK
They were worlds apart.
He was an ordinary looking refined gentleman- descended from a lineage of educated and well-to-do families. A product of one of the best schools who likewise shows passionate interest in classical music and the visual arts. Smart and intellectual who at a young age was already earning double as those twice his age. He’s a guy who smirk’s on the Black Eyed Peas’ music, a voracious reader, and has golf and water polo as sports.
She was a product of a broken family… grew up in diverse shanties under the care of a drug-pushing foster parent. Perhaps, her only saving grace was her drop-dead ravishing looks, too voluptuous she can get away as a sexy starlet. Circumstances forced her to make use of her assets to earn and dupe gullible moneyed gentlemen. She loves Beyonce Knowles and J. Lo; and is a karaoke habitué, preferring RNB sound than pop.
But they were fated to meet.
He had come from an art painting session featuring nude subjects. Together with some mischievous colleagues who wanted to fittingly cap the juicy showcase they just witnessed, they hied off to a nearby neon-lighted street in Quezon City. Leo reluctantly joined because he didn’t want to disappoint his friends.
“And now, the star of the night- from Davao City, Ms. Paula Perez.”
As the group settled for a table near the bar’s stage, a goddess-like mortal came-to-life and started gyrating, her shapely legs and flawless complexion complementing a very pretty face. The usually conversant Leo became oblivious to his friends’ chitchat and had since been engrossed to the sensual swing of Paula’s hips.
Even after Paula’s number, Leo followed her discreetly where she dressed back into her tight short jeans topped a by seductive white sleeveless shirt. He saw her sat down near their table with another customer. He found himself sneaking a glance every now and then, utterly fascinated by the fact that she looked even more impressive and sexier in clothes than out of them.
Three days later, he was jolted by a text message: “Ako si Paula ‘yung sa Pegasus -pls. col me…”
It turned out that his unsubtle gestures that fateful night did not pass unnoticed by the ‘bandit’ and she realized Leo was a green prospect. She found out that one of his colleagues was a habitué of the bar, and Paula was able to somehow got hold of his cellphone number.
Initially, he ignored the message, but was thrilled no end by an adventure in the offing with a great crush- a pretty young thing in a woman’s body. A little past 5 p.m. of that same day, he called her at his office. He chatted with her briefly because he was swamped with workloads, but doggedly asked when could he call back to talk to her longer. Alas! after a few more phone conversations, she offered that they meet on a videoke date one night. Amid the prospect of savoring non-classical sounds the whole night, he agreed nonetheless, for he was thrilled no end in meeting the ‘goddess’ once again. Given her track record, her disarming charm, his gullible human instinct, and his disastrously short romantic history; she was in command all night- flirting with savvy. And so her mission was expectedly accomplished.
From thereon, Leo’s woes started- and kept pouring until he chose to be with Paula:
He shouldered her expenses- house bills, trendy clothes, facial and hair treatments, dental check-ups, and even groceries. His friends were amazed at how could an intelligent gentleman like him be easily gypped by a relatively new acquaintance. There were other things that Leo would discover about his lover. She would splurge on expensive wines and dine with her shady friends on fine restaurants using his credit card, and would indiscriminately use his cellular phone on trivial calls resulting to mounting bills.
Nevertheless, he drew out wonderful plans that made Paula starry-eyed just like Julia Roberts in Pretty Women. He was a dutiful and blindly devoted boyfriend to her. But as days passed by, she would almost always disappear for days without notice. There were a lot of days when he had no inkling where she was. She would, however, call him every end of office hours to appease him but wouldn’t disclose her whereabouts. and she would certainly make up by frolicking with him the whole night as she returns from a ‘vacation.’ It didn’t help that she never introduced to him any of her acquaintances and friends. Most of the time, he was left wondering as to her whereabouts. She’s in command… he’s entranced and puzzled at the same time.
One day, failing to get the regular call at 6:00 pm, he rang her cellular phone ‘coz he terribly missed her. A man answered but immediately hung up when he asked for her. Suddenly, he regained his wit even as his ego was shackled. He called again and angrily asked her who was the guy she was with. His mental faculty somewhat regained, all her petty explanations went to naught. Instead, he asked her to lay down her cards once and for all. Paula, sensing she was cornered, just put off the phone. It broke his spirit… his morale took a dive. He never expected that she could be that mean, awful, and silly.
He was devastated… Suddenly, he realized he was such a fool…
End of the affair…
He still passes by that bar every now and then. But he can only stare at the neon lights as the sound from within swirl through his head.
“And now, the star of the night- from Quezon Province…”
There are hundreds of Paulas lurking in the dark just waiting for any Leos- ready to disarm his wit and sanity by her lethal charm…
Truly, ‘Women are dangerous creatures, but men cannot live without danger.’
So sad if it where not for stories like this I might have done the same. That’s why we got to learn from each other so no one will repeat the same mistake
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best way to control falling is divert attention to other thera...wag ma trap sa isang fantasy
So true
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After reading the other post I am feeling good about myself. The reason I get in relationships with Theras is because I dont have time for a real relationship and its just nice to go out to dinner and see them outside the spa. But of course being human feelings just happen and we just have to learn how to deal with it
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On the bright side the majority of Theras I have encountered are warm hearted and just want to help out they families or improve their situation in life.
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The situation I was in was new to me. I admit I have given Theras and other workers in the industry in the past money for tuition their kids and families back in the province and I felt good to do so. But in this case the only winner here is the boyfriend. I am sure there are guys like me here that work long hours get in stressful situations so we can succeed in life. So while the boyfriend pimps out his girlfriend so he can live well, then we the hardworking office workers give our hard earned money to the Theras then they give it to their boyfriend. Its really bothers me. I get pleasure from helping out others but to be lied to is something else
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Guys don't fall too hard. I met a Thera that looked like somebody I cared about so when I saw her I wanted to take care of her for some reason. I guess to make up for the mistake I made in the past. She must have sense it and started telling me how hard her life is and so and so. She looked so innocent so I wanted to help her out. I didn't see the signs at first because I don't really care about the money because all I wanted to do was help. But lucky for me I have good intuition and sensed that she has a boyfriend or husband she is taking care of and every time I speak or message her she always seems to have some kinda of hardship. I already knew something was wrong because I been out with other theras and they never asked me for money or tell me how hard their life is so this was new to me. But it was my fault because I didn't take the time to know her better and I just did stuff without really thinking about it. If I didn't catch what she was trying to do early only the Lord know how much she could have got from me and just to give the money I gave her to her boyfriend
The lesson here Bros is take your time to know her better first before making any commitments and feel her out because girls can be like guys and tell you what you want to hear to get what they want.
I am not bitter about what happened and all it did was give me more experience so if I fall for a Thera again I will know next time around if she is being sincere or not
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June 24 here!
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Wasted most of my day in traffic during the apec summit
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Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread
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I can't argue with you as well because you are absolutely right the Theras main goal to to make as much money as possible since they only have so many years to make the amount of money they do now. I am that guy you see at the all you can eat Korean BBQ restaurant with 3 woman and yes they are Theras and the only reason they are going out with me is because I am paying. But I do so because I find their lives quite interesting and yes the stories about the top Theras making 15k to 30k a day is more than true.
The sad part about it is that even though they are trying to get as much money from us as possible. Some I believe are getting scammed by guys which just turns into a vicious cycle. If you ask them why do you take care of that guy they say stuff like "yung mas mahal ako, kesa masmahal ko sya, ayoko na kasi masaktan" so it goes both ways except the GM are in the losing end because the Boyfriend get his motorbike paid for and bills and gets free sex and if you really think about it we are giving them that money haha.
With that being said I have been in situations where in Thera liked me more than I liked her, Theras just when the deed was done thank you see next time maybe and of course the Theras who are liars and try and scam you if they can sense weakness in you. But lucky for me that was just one Thera
But even though the GM should be warned about getting into this. They use to have a falling for a client thread as well. Even though I ran into a liar/scammer I will still not let that discourage me because I did experience the Thera Love as well.
If only I had more experience in this matter I would write something so my fellow GM more of an advantage in this situation. Like how to tell if a Thera truly likes you or signs that she truly likes you. and of course how to spot a liar/scammer haha.
But you right about the best thing to do is not fall of the Thera. I will say the same to the other GMs as well, but the other GMs will agree with we that sometimes it just can't be helped
I ask myself sometimes I should just find myself a good beautiful simple girl from the province and bring her back with me to Makati, but then where is the excitement in that