Iceman7

Falling for a thera is loss-loss proposition. You end up either broke emotionally or financially or worse both. I have just been thru a 6 month roller coaster ride with a top thera. I am deeply hurting and I need to get my s@%t together. I think I will just go back to walking instead of lying down. Over the years I have established a good contact list with the coffee community which I have put aside for the thera. I hate this love thing. Never again will I spend so much time and money just to get a pussy. Free sex is the most expensive sex. You cannot simply price the emotions involved.

The key is to be the BF that receives money from the Thera not the one giving it 😆

How I fell for a Therapist

I can actually relate to Leotigers ex-husband to an extent except for me not be married or tied down 😂. I am a decent guy I have no problems getting an attractive women attention and actually women pursue me. But I dont have the best of luck in this department. Especially when someone trys to set me up. I always meet woman who are materialistic social climbers and ones that look down on the less fortunate. This is like a big turn off for me because I view life differently. Lucky for me I just a short walking distance from the now closed Bellagio Spa and NPS which is now closed as well😔.

I go to these places since I dont have to go thru the courting process and hassle to get what I want and when the deed is done I can just go back home and relax.

One day I went to Bellagio Spa when it was at its prime and saw they had a newbie fresh in the industry and already the top most requested Thera at the Spa. She was the GT or SGT I forgot this was 2015.

Lets call her Ms.P. As soon as she passed thru those doors my eyes nearly popped out of their sockets. She was way better looking in person then in the pictures.(Not like nowadays where the pictures are heavily photoshopped and when you show up you get disappointed) This is the first time I got the wow factor and not only that she had that feisty attitude calling all the shots (but she turned submissive once we got close) I was so smitten by her that I went across the street to the family mart to buy her drinks and snacks to get on her good side. Just from that small gesture she was glad to see me the next day. ( I guess gifts have effectiveness at the Spas😆)

Fast forward. I was able to get her number the next day and we started texting. I finally asked her out for dinner because I wanted to see her outside the Spa. One day she wanted me to meet her Auntie and to get on her good side I offered to take them to Century City Mall for food and shopping. Her Auntie was amazed that a guy like me was taking out her niece. (A possible benefit for working at the spa besides the big money is meeting a certain kind of guy they would have never met in their every day life) Even though she was the top Thera all the money she was making was being saved and sent to her family in pampanga. She didnt own anything that was worth much, even her cell was the cheapest one can purchase. I offered to buy her clothing at the mall but she refused, I was able to buy a couple of boxes of chocolates for them but they just saved them so they can share it with their family back it pampanga .

She was a simple woman, didnt know much but I kinda liked that. Little things like showing her how to use chopsticks and teaching her to put the napkin on her lap before we eat made her really cute to me 😙and the fact that I know quite a bit and have traveled to many places made her look at me in a different light(I guess opposites attract).

I wasnt looking to get into a relationship but our feelings towards each other grew as time went on. Everything I did for her she appreciated it. Making her happy made me happy and that was the only thing that mattered to me at the time.

But of course😞

The bells have rung the time has come

I cannot find the words to say my last goodbye

You've always been so dear too me

I wish that I could dry your tears

I had to leave for overseas for a extended period of time. She wanted to join me but she does not understand the there is a visa process and I know how Filipinas will get depressed when they are away from their family to long. And I would be working most of the time.

Long distance relationship hardly work out, so I rather just leave in good terms. I just told her maganda ka mangyaring makahanap ng isang mabuting tao na maaaring alagaan mo Of course she was hurting but I was probably hurting even more.

Of course faith had its own plans. When I returned I lost my phone(no cloud backup then) and she was out of the industry and that is that 😞

I am not going out to the spas to look for a relationship. It is not a fetish of mine to be the BF of a Thera nor is looking for a challenge. (Even though I joke about competing for the hearts of the top Theras 🤣) Its is just something that happens naturally. There is no need for me to intentionally try and get into a relationship with a Thera so I can provide more content for this thread 😆

And if I ever get into this situation again sadly I will be more careful. (thanks to the Thera who tried to scam me. Back read if u want more info) like look for red flags. I guess I have been a victim of both sides. A victim of love ❤ and just a plain victim 🤣 But now that I think about it I would just rather just be friends in and out of the spa if I meet a Thera to my liking. Less complications and I dont want to have to deal with the hurt and pain like that ever again.

Ms.P from pampanga this is for you! I hope you are doing well I miss you 😘 and wish I could have handled things differently

So close but yet so far 😞

This would only happen if you pursue it but nonetheless all of them are trained to be gfe they can always claim they miss you because of onething only money

 

 

But if you are lucky that she really loves you then would you stop tasting other thera's and concentrate on her alone and get her out of the trade ?

 

How are you going to compensate for her loss

 

 

Are you willing to provide for her entire family if your answer is yes then go ahead indulge just don't forget once you run out of money her love may eventually fade

This would only happen if you pursue it but nonetheless all of them are trained to be gfe they can always claim they miss you because of onething only money

 

 

But if you are lucky that she really loves you then would you stop tasting other thera's and concentrate on her alone and get her out of the trade ?

 

How are you going to compensate for her loss

 

 

Are you willing to provide for her entire family if your answer is yes then go ahead indulge just don't forget once you run out of money her love may eventually fade

If you truly love and care for your Thera I think the best thing to do is help them become self sufficient. Especially if you fall for a Thera who is ambitious and matalino.

By directly supporting her family can be financially and mentally draining. Let's say one gives 50k a month for financial assistance, all you are doing is giving the family easy money and they will get use to and become complacent with the money flow. And how long will it be till your family members start wondering where your money is going? And how long will it be where she starts asking for more? Like if a family member needs medical treatment.

It won't be long until you start asking yourself why are you doing this. Past BF of hers never shouldered this burden why you. It will put a strain on anyones relationship unless one is extremely wealthy and 50k is just pocket change, but most of those guys have mistresses.

With some Theras especially the top Theras it would be easy to fall into the knight in shining armor trap. Any true gentleman that would see a beautiful woman in a situation where she is selling her body for a better life for her and her family would say kawawa dalaga.

If I where to fall and fall hard. I would rather just either just support them in other ways like opening a business or some from of schooling at least this way I will have the satisfaction of knowing she will be ok even if her or myself where to part ways

With that being said one should ask himself "Is the high worth the pain"

 

What really turns most of them on is money, but that's another discussion.

That would be an excellent discussion, because I use to believe that Theras where turned on by money 💰 but then I found out about the true love BF who some Theras are actually supporting.

But also mentioned here was about Theras having multiple BF as well, the true love, the vacation guy and the suckers that buy presents 😆 So I am guessing its just what each individual is looking for in life. The gold diggers/hopeless romantics.

I know there are guys here who know the top Theras in QC very well. So what really turns on a Top Thera?

I will try and get to know the top ones in QC myself to find out because this is an interesting subject matter to me 😄

there are theras that were really hard to resist especially if she intended you to fall for her. she'll dictate terms after you fall for her. i was a victim & there were others too since she's a top thera. i missed those moments with her. a bit glad that someone took her out in the industry. i hope she's doing great.

I wouldnt consider yourself a victim. In my eyes a victim would be one who was lied to or deceived.

Its seemed from what you are saying that she was upfront with her demands. At least she was being honest with the situation. So all is fair in love and war and may the best man win, and from what you mentioned a GM was able to prevail among the others 😁

Unless you are considering yourself a victim of love ❤ 😆

Any hotels close to the Banawe area that has a spa in their premises or a few blocks walking distance?

TIA

I'm kinda more interested on who planned on scamming you sir.

 

In her defense I think I am her only victim I just made myself an easy target, if she was in the business of scamming GMs she would not be a top Thera

 

 

 

 

If she supports her BF and his extensions (like his kids from other women), AVOID at all costs. Sayang lang pera dyan. Hahaha.

 

I agree

 

 

 

 

That can be true until such time she would be in dire need which the GM with less money may not provide enough, hence most likely sasama sya dun sa GM that can provide her better. Haha.

 

My thoughts on the matter.

Just my background. I been doing the spa/ktv since 2015 and have not been active here till this year. I have always had good relationships with Theras until this year which one tried to scam me. It was no big deal small potatoes compared to some of the other guys here who lost up to 500k haha. But since it was new to me and got me confused and I have the kind of personality where I dont make the same mistake twice I started back reading this thread the old thread falling for the GM thread which I learned a lot and I found interesting as well. I am trying to learn as much as possible so it shall never happen to me again. I have also talked to Theras outside to spa as well to get more insight on the matter.

What I have learned

If you really want to get a Theras attention or love what it comes down to is what you can bring to the table. Sure a lot of Theras have BF that are broke but good looking. But as long as you are decent looking or above average even better for you. The BF can only go so far with telling the Thera how much he loves her while he receives money from her. Its bad enough that she is the bread winner supporting her family and she is also supporting her BF. In some cases she is also paying for the care of his child from a another women.

So having a decent guy who can afford to take her out and buy her things would and not be a financial burden on her would be quite a change for her and if you really want to force the issue just tell her you love her and make her feel loved as well. Because thats all her current BF can offer(besides his good looks)😁 that should put you ahead of him. And then there are those with deep psychological issues where their BF exploits. These I wouldnt even bother chasing would just be to much of a head ache.

I met a Thera where I can tell she likes me more then just a customer and I was going to try my theory out on her. I saw her BF didnt have much to offer and he was not better looking then me so I was pretty close to taking her away from him. But 2 wrongs does not make a right. And even though there are stories here where the Theras are playing mind games with the GMs. I just cant mess with somebodys heart ❤ like that.

Competing with guys with deep pockets

There are Theras who are just about the cash 💵. Even though gold diggers are frowned upon here they get more respect from me compared to the Theras who take care of their broke BF. In my mind they are just being practical. The broke good looking guy is not gonna improve her life. They have been poor once and they dont want to go through that again. They know they have the looks to get them out of poverty why not make that work for them? The one that I have met are matalino and educated. So instead of calling them gold diggers maybe they are just smart women that want to improve their lives for the better

Lucky for us the real big players dont even mess around here since they dont like sharing haha. They just pull them out of the business and keep them to themselves. I could be wrong. I have yet to frequent the Quezon City area and have not heard of any GMs buying cars for Threas haha designer bags yes cars no.

But for the rest of us what its comes down to like I said before is what we can bring to the table and since since gold digger are usually on top they have many options.

But what I believe is when they decide to chose it will come down to who ever they are attracted to more. If one guy has less money then the other but can still provide for her and she is attracted to him. He will win over the guy with more money. And speaking of money I noticed if the Thera finds out one has deep pockets her attitude changes to that individual and his mileage has just increased haha.

I noticed that guys here buy Theras gifts but a lot other GMs do the same. So even though they think they are special for doing so, others are doing the same as well. I myself will only buy presents after we see each other outside the spa. Because by going out with me on her free time makes me believe she thinks of me differently then her other clients

These are just my own opinions

Fall Inlove with a Thera, you'd end up on the losing end most of the time.

 

Fall Inlove with a Top Thera, all of you would end up on the losing end except for one.

May the best man win!

For Amecca spa to reopen

Say something - A great big world

Say something, I'm giving up on you

I'll be the one if you want me to

Anywhere I would've followed you

Say something, I'm giving up on you

And I... am feeling so small

It was over my head

I know nothing at all

And I... will stumble and fall

I'm still learning to love

Just starting to crawl

Say something, I'm giving up on you

I'm sorry that I couldn't get to you

Anywhere I would've followed you

Say something, I'm giving up on you

And I... will swallow my pride

You're the one that I love

And I'm saying goodbye

Say something, I'm giving up on you

And I'm sorry that I couldn't get to you

And anywhere I would've followed you (Oh-Ooh)

Say something, I'm giving up on you

Say something, I'm giving up on you

Say something...

Liars!

I can deal with gold diggers naggers, and conceited women, but liars I cannot deal with

Nice! I am glad to see success stories like yours. If you back read a few pages back we would have needed to start a separate thread called (victims of the Therapist) haha 😂. From some of the sad stuff the guys where posting

Having a Victims of the Therapist or Therapist victims thread would be interesting. We can compare with each other how much money we lost . How did we find out about the other BF or real BF. And what she did to snare you in her web HaHa 🤣

Answering this via mobile so pardon the format

 

 

Nice! I am glad to see success stories like yours. If you back read a few pages back we would have needed to start a separate thread called (victims of the Therapist) haha 😂. From some of the sad stuff the guys where posting

A bit of advice coming from someone still in this process, 7 months and counting.

 

First off, I want to say that I happened to be extremely lucky to have found this thera but the more I think about it, there are a number of factors within my control that helped me along the way:

 

1. Manage your expectations - Be realistic. We know what we came here for and why thera's ended up here in this line of work.They show you affection (or may not) because you paid for it. Face the fact that what transpired could be real or not and it goes both ways. Thera's don't exactly know how real you are towards them as well even after a few visits. They met you in this industry after all. Be fair, no one likes to be short-changed.

 

2. Be a good judge of character - More for yourself than the thera you're gunning for. It's okay to be skeptical towards them but be mindful that they meet all sorts of people, probably more than you ever will. They are in most likelihood, more adept at reading you than you are them. Some might have had bad experiences that prompts them to act a certain way, or it is really just a means to an end for them, so get the read on your thera. It might take some time but how is that any different from falling in love with a woman outside of this industry? Get to know her, and don't get lost with the facade of what you paid her to do.

 

3. Not in a relationship (GF/Wife) - How the heck do you expect them to feel the same way about you when it would bring them more trouble than you're worth? At that point, you won't even be able to re-assure them you won't do the same. You're probably in love with the "thrill" and not the actual person and you're not man enough to admit it.

 

4. Know your playing field - Ask yourself if you can take it. If yes, then go. If not, then go home. You will experience all sorts of feelings and you'd probably ask yourself if you can take it, many times over.

 

The only reason I could say all of the above is because of how special this thera really is as a human being. She opened my eyes in the reality of what I'm getting myself into and I was able to think twice about going for it. If in the end, it doesn't work out for us, no regrets. I did my due diligence.

 

Peace.

Hey Bro since you have experience in this matter maybe you can answer some questions

1.Do you receive an allowance or gifts from your Thera like the other Theras BF

2. How you know for sure there is nobody else like a a sponsor or true love? Most Theras I meet always claim to be single but 9/10 times for me they lied

3.Do you ever go to the spa tread where your GF works and read her FR?

Thanks for the feedback in advance and kudos to you for being brave and man enough to pursue a Thera 👍🏽

yan ang tinatawag na karma sir hehehe

 

sumasakit ulo ni gm, sumasakit din ulo nila sa jowa

 

its a tie!

I had a awkward situation at a spa one time. I was the Theras last client and when I was leaving the spa I see her BF outside waiting for her in his motorbike. I recognize him from her FB since she is always flaunting him and saying stuff like sorry po he is mine 😆. Anyways when I walked passed him I game him that look I just got done with your girlfriend and he just grinned at me and gave me that look you just gave me your money 😑

Yun sinasabi marami bfs understood na yun sa thera mula sa gms sponsorship pakapalan na ng mukha yan ng thera kahit maging kabit pa sila basta magkapera sila ng mabilisan. Kung may "TRUE" lover sila na ALAM ang nature na industry na nagwork sila GINAGAMIT rin sila para pagkakitaan rin. Parang tinatawag yan na "BIG FISH EATS BY BIGGER FISH" concept.

And whats really sad is when the bf is receiving money from the Thera and he is seeing other woman as well

thera has a lot of options

 

they can have many bf as they want

 

one sponsor (financial), the other one the true love (tambay), the other one for vacation purposes, other one for sweet (flowers and chocolates)

I wouldnt mind being used for vacation purposes by that special Thera from QC 😄

thera has a lot of options

 

they can have many bf as they want

 

one sponsor (financial), the other one the true love (tambay), the other one for vacation purposes, other one for sweet (flowers and chocolates)

So true, that why one shouldn’t put all their eggs in one basket and have options as well

You cannot buy love; pero they can pretend to love you for your money

And to make it worst meron BF na talagang nagmamahal siya nang walang pera. And you are just there to help her out financially😞

Sad to say madami thera na mas mautak sa gm; yung barkada ko napatigil na niya thera loves niya for almost a year; full support; like cellphone; rent electricity food allowance pati pagamot sa lola and panlibing din; i think he spend more than 500k during that period; even paid plastic surgery on her nose kasi insecure si thera loves; then nalaman may iba naman pala na BF so basically alam niya mag bf gf sila pero sponsor lang pla; so guys wise up do not follow the steps of my friend; his thera loves is now back sa business; just be carefull sa kanila especially pag sa pera

Oh s@%t forget that! For now on if a Thera ask me for more then 5k I walk away 🤔 or even 2k maybe

So finally inamin din niya sakin at sa harap ng friends niya kailangan lang niya ako dahil sa mga nakukuha niya sakin..

Ang sakit, Nararamdaman ko para sa iyo 😞

All this talk about losing money and getting played is making me miss my first Thera ❤️

A beautiful girl from pampanga top Thera at her spa. The only thing she wanted was just to be around me, never asked for money. I did buy her gifts but that was because I wanted too. Even after we where done with our 🥘 at the greenbelt I would offer to buy her nice clothing since we where just strolling around and she refused my offer.

I guess I was able to find a rare gem or a diamond in the rough. 😞 I hope she is doing well

 

 

 

Ahhh, so you are looking for excitement? Ung tipong magpapakulo sa dugo mo right? Fair enough, I guess we can all use some blood curdling once and a while. I guess mabibigay ko lang na opinion ko (not advice) when it comes to finding out if the thera is really sincere (I'm not saying "in love" kase napakalalim nun and it's really hard to tell unless madaming taon na kayo magkasama through thick and thin) is when she decides to be totally honest with you, I mean lahat ng baho and basura sa buhay nya ikekwento nya at hindi itatago. Also if it were possible to let you come to her house and meet her family, papayag din sya or sya mismo magsasabi na bumisita ka. Ipapakilala ka nya sa friends nya whether they are working in the industry or not and she will introduce you as her BF. Payag sya na lumabas kayo sa public place na holding hands kayo at wala sya tinataguan (but this has to be reciprocal, meaning dapat ung GM hindi din nagtatago kase the girl will sense it). Since they are making good money, minsan sya din manlilibre sayo and hindi sya manghihinayang, unless talagang nangangailangan sya for some reason. Also malalaman mo pag lumalalim na ang relationship nyo, pag iisipan na nya na mag iba ng work and not continue as a thera. This is crucial kasi she is sacrificing good money just to please you and to have a more serious relationship with you.

 

KASO LANG... sometimes mejo mautak si thera kase she can all do these things to manilpulate you into thinking that she is sincere but in reality ginagamit ka lang nya. I can't say who is doing this unless personal ko na kilala ung thera pero ikaw na bahala mag decide kung totoo ba sya sayo or may ibang motive sya. These are the risks of involving yourself with someone who deals with men's feelings everyday, professionally. They can actually scam you into believing everything they say and turn you into a cash cow if you're not careful. I guess for some guys, that's the exciting part, trying to catch a thera's true motives.

 

Anyway, these are just some of the things you can look out for but I'm quite sure some GMs have their own opinions based on their experiences.

No matter how many times we argue back and forth GMs are still going to fall for Theras thats why this thread exist. I half jokingly mentioned about writing about how to tell if a Thera truly like you or not is because thats what this thread is for to help each other out. I wish I can write that so the others wont get into that situation where they will get scammed and made a fool out off.

You are doing the right thing by discouraging us to pursue the Theras but the fact is GMs will still fall regardless