Iceman7

7 hours ago, WhosThere said:

@Iceman7 or asawa.

Not sure if married but they live together 

19 minutes ago, ricardo23 said:

Sometimes men fall for a thera bec they make him feel special and attractive , kumbaga s normal world walan nman magandang babae na papansin sakin , pero pag andun ka they make you feel na you are special ,pero minsan di n maseperate ng guest yung fantasy, nakakalimutan nila kaya kanya minemessage and nilalambing kasi customer ka.

Wala nmn masama sa ginagawa ng thera kasi yun nmn talaga good customer service, na mimisinterpret lang ng guest.

The trick for you guys to find out the difference is if she really likes you. She will go out with you to dinner. Spend the night with you at your place or hotel. kissing and no use of condom.

 

But I have experienced all that to find out there still is a real BF in the background  😂

2 hours ago, HappyPill said:

Hindi laging ganyan. May mga thera na ang BF nila eh mga GM din. Hindi laging palamunin ang bf nila gaya ng sinasabi mo Sir. 

May thera na araw2 kung sunduin ng bf nya ng magarang auto. Meron naman ganon din, mayaman n GM. Pero tuloy p dn nman sa biz si Thera. May mga bawal lng gawin. D ko lng sure bkit di n lng sila mgsama. Malamang may sbit dn si GM.

Meron dn nman siguro n kumplikado ang sitwasyon. O kya desisyon n dn ng thera n ituloy ang trabaho for financial reasons.

Of course not all of the theras situation I mentioned is like that. I am just speaking from what I have seen. Just to use as an example since this thera is no longer active.

Demi Lousissa would be seen with wealthy GMs. They would pick her up with their fancy cars and take her to nice restaurants. So from a distance one might think ok here is a thera with rich bfs and even dating doctors. She had a wealthy sugar daddy as well.

But the reality is her baby daddy is this broke ass that just plays computer games all day that she supports.

I remembered she even lied to a Dr. GM that she would go out with. She told him she needed money to help out her mom. The GM gladly gave her 10k later to find out she took her real bf to Boracay at the expense of the GM.

This is just how the majority of the theras situation are like. The GMs would just believed their lies. I did once.

But of course not all are like that. I been involved with top theras that know their worth and will not get into a relationship with one that does not have a certain amount of money. But those are few and are at the top

On 12/1/2023 at 12:12 AM, KlayTrey11 said:

First time to try this thread. Pero napaisip nga ako no. Pano mga bf ng theras. Some knows it while some doesn't. 🤔🤔🤔🤔

Most are ok with it since they won't have to work just sleep and watch their child. And there are good benefits to the BF as well. Some GM simps will bring food to the Thera or give the Thera extra in hope for increasing their milage. In turn the Thera will bring the food back home to the BF or give the extra money she received from the simp GM to add to her BF allowance.

The BF is the true winner while the GM gives his hard earn money to the Thera and the BF not only gets an allowance but gets sex for free and as much as he wants. Also with his allowance he sometimes spends it on other woman 🤯

On 10/26/2023 at 4:03 AM, Rolf.go.06 said:

Yaah right, but as a man I think we are required to be a financial stable.

Most of their boyfriends are broke and receive an allowance from them. Once you guys realize this you will learn that the GM is on the losing end of the stick. Why spoil and shell out money when their real BFs receive money from them

For all the newbies even thinking about pursuing a Thera for a stable relationship all you need to do is back read there is plenty of stories of failure and hurt and loss of money.

To keep things simple. GM gives money to Thera. Thera gives money to real boyfriend. This here is the reality!! 

Like just today one of my regulars BF tag her on a post thanking her for the new nike shoes she bought him saying that he was going to give her sex when she gets home for as a reward 😂 Not like she gets enough of it at her work place.

What is really troubling if you guys can find it. Someone here bought a Thera a car. And of course who is the one driving it? The real boyfriend.

Not saying it's always like this there are high value Theras that know their worth won't mess around with broke asses. I myself somewhat pursued a legendary top Thera but kudos to the guy she is with now because I don't think I could spend the kind of money to keep her. Because I also had to consider the big family as well. Not sure if he is a GM and knows about her past but so far they been together for a while now.

Other high value Theras I spoke to told me this was their dream to be swept off their feet and taken cared off by a GM. Like what happened with Ms.Gem at tokyo Spa and I think Mariel. 

But to each his own you have been warned. If you don't have to deep pockets to play this game. Best to just be a regular customer.

On 10/4/2023 at 1:59 PM, arclight1296 said:

been there done that. its really hard. daming emotions and thoughts na nabubuo which lead to paranoia and distrust. 

Yup same here I am 2/2 2 of them where actually good hearted and honest and the other 2 where just liars haha. But I am don't think I will do it again. It was just during the time many GMs where chasing the Top Theras and I wanted to play too haha

But I have a new gripe now. in order for me to increase my YMMV and good service I would get close to my regulars. By doing so they let you in their personal lives which means I can see their personal lives on social media. 

I know one of my regular has a boyfriend and just looking at him on  her social media I am actually getting jealous of him. Just watching him do nothing but drink and smoke. Does not have a job she supports him and he does not have to pay her and gets money from her. Makes me think wow what a lucky guy.

And on the other side of things its kinda of a turn on for me thinking that I am doing these things to this  guys girlfriend 😂

16 hours ago, MartinAvedis3 said:

Tried that before bro, sales lady sa SM and cashier sa Nlex toll gate, waitress sa isang fine dining resto..naging GF/Fubu..but at the end..nakaka guilty. Serious relationship gusto nila not fair for them..at the end naka sakit lng ako ng mga babae. 

I agree I picked up a SM sales lady and of course I just wanted sex and she couldn’t provide the PSE. Not only that she would text me everyday and wanted me to meet her family and meet mine so when I broke it off she ended up crying. 
 

It was my fault I should have told her from the beginning that was all I was looking for and no more.

not sure if anyone here has tried making a sales lady a FUBU and no more then that

1 hour ago, handsomebob said:

ahh make her jealous bro and see how she reacts ahahaha

I have done that in the past haha some theras don't like sharing their regulars with their co-workers hehe

2 minutes ago, SDMNXIX said:

I also give small gifts and sometimes bring food for the special ones. It doesn't always bring additional benefits but thats not the main reason nmn why I give them. Talagang appreciation ko yun sa kanila kse I was really happy with the time I spent with them.

Luckily, I have never encountered getting asked for money by any of them. Mejo turn off na yun if that happened and I would think twice getting that thera again in the future.

Idk how much she asked from you but if it was a significant amount, I dont think youre gonna get it back. I hope I'm wrong tho and it works out well for you.

When I mean higher mileage lets say when you met a thera for the first time and her don'ts are no bbbj or cim kissing nip suck etc. I also look at this as a challenge or obstacle to overcome. But handsome bob is correct if you are gwapo it will happen without gifts

6 hours ago, handsomebob said:

I do think you have to keep your distance to her bro and when you are going on a self improvement journey, hindi mo na kailangan to spend an extra more just to get your high mileage if you become desirable enough to the opposite sex (ex: geting fit, putting on nice clothes, smelling good etc..) you will get the mileage that you want IN MOST CASES kasi hindi naman lahat ng thera nadadaan sa ganyan but mostly in my experience mga 8/10....

mahirap kasi sa situation mo, clearly there will be some time na ma compromise ka but my best advice is MAKE KNOWN YOUR ABSENCE!!

 

Thanks for the advice bro, she actually contacts me to come visit her and gets jealous when the other theras try to flirt with me. But you are right. I do go to the gym and even though I don't have a Brad Pitt body its better then being obese 

1 hour ago, courtesanhunter said:

i have been in almost the same kind of situation before. in my case i never asked for the service since the lady already retired. but after continuously borrowing money from me she then offered me her service and told me she was back in the business. but the brutal reality is that a lot of women are good in pretending. they will tell what you wish to hear so that they can get what they want from you. i was even threatened about sextortion despite her being the one who offered me her services.

so my suggestion is just look for service providers who are not asking for extras. and don't spoil them by voluntarily giving them such. there are ladies who already go with the complete package of services. but if you are referring to raw intercourse? then better not practice that inside the industry because that won't be good for the entire community.

 

I been seeing her for about a year and this is the first time she has ask me for money. I do have PTSD from the past theras when if comes to finances and I will always remember the incident with the Thera and GM who gave her money because she said her mom was sick and she ended up using that money to take her baby daddy to Boracay instead. So I am quite hesitant. 

But I look at it this way if she does not pay me back she will end up losing money in the long run and I already have my eye on a different thera at her location so I will see what she decides to do.

I no longer participate in the vicious cycle but in order to obtain higher mileage with my regulars I still do buy them food and take them out and give them small gifts.

The only problem with that is once they get comfy with your relationship I will get that text late at night asking for financial assistance.

Of course I would like to deny their request but worried that I would lost my high mileage status as well.

If any other GMs has been in this situation I would like feedback on how to deal with Theras that ask for financial assistance while still keeping your high mileage without providing any.

On 12/3/2022 at 1:21 PM, handsomebob said:

you can only control the things you can, some things are out of your reach, meaning hanggang kaya mo suportahan mo siya, if she goes back to her work -- that is on her, at least you can live with yourself you did everything you can to make it work,

all the best bro!

He deleted his post, this situation sounds familiar, I wanted to ask him how much is a paying to support the ex Thera and her siblings. I know of Theras who have many siblings so I am guessing it can get costly

On 8/3/2022 at 5:23 PM, handsomebob said:

wait, binili mo ng kotse???? damn bro,

what happened to the car when you broke up? I hope you got that back,

Most likely the BF is driving it around 😂

22 hours ago, DIRTY HARRY said:

agree... it's more fun to have plenty of thera friends... you could invite them out for dinner, on leisure trips etc....  you can always visit the spa  where they  work for your pleasure. it's logical... 

This is the way

On 11/26/2021 at 6:49 PM, Cartof said:

I hope so too. I really do. He was fairly overweight when they were together, but he started eating healthy and exercising regularly to be better for her. He looks great now actually - having shed somewhere around 20 or so pounds from what I've seen, and he still does that consistently even up to now, thankfully. But, I can't shake the feeling that he's only really going through the motions. He often complains in our nightly group voice calls about having trouble sleeping. Among our friends there, I'm probably the only one that knows the reason.

Dude used to go to spas about once every week up to about 3 times in one week. We would share recos so I've been with some of the theras he's tried and vice-versa. I only stopped visiting that one thera he was with out of respect for his feelings. He'd be a common talking point for me and some of those theras on account of him being nice to them. Some stories about him are his getting them breakfast since he visits early, buying lunch for the entire spa (including the boys who he got along with), takes them out on friendly no sex dates when they're down, doing them favors, and for some of those that have stopped working in this industry I later learned that he had a hand in helping a few of them get out and establish themselves outside - whether school or business. Another common thing about him is that he was sexually insatiable. In spas, he'd always go for 2 rounds. Sometimes he can manage 3 with one thera, or 4 if he got a twin service. If they meet outside, the most that was told to me was 7. Fucking 7. I can only really manage 3 even for outcalls. What the fuck. So it was hard for me to fathom that he went no sex with this one thera. Just goes to show how much he cared for her.

The guy deserves better, in my opinion. Some of the theras that have stopped still ask about him from time to time, I wonder if I should hook him up with one of them if only to boost his self-esteem. Might help him get out of the slump he's in.

What do you guys think?

The best way to get over someone is to replace them with someone else especially if she is a upgrade. But of course the vicious cycle will continue.

I live alone and won’t have it any other way 😌

 

Tru dat. From experience had a relationship with an ex-MPA turned student. Unbeknownst to myself, she was spinning plates and monkey branching and eventually let go of my branch when she got a good hold on another.

 

Fell bad, devastated. Should have found this piece of advice earlier.

Sorry to hear about that bro, time will heal wounds and if you want to heal faster best find another to get your mind off her.

 

And just learn from the past so it will never again

its ok to fall in love..to admire...just know when to let go. know your limits

Yes Sir! Its best to set a stop loss. Especially since most of the relationships between the GM and Thera are based on how much the GM can offer.

 

Also for those who are willing to play the fools game, my advice to you is have another. Most Theras are going to have multiple guys in their life. The regulars, the fubu, the true love etc. If you know this it will lessen your chance of feeling devastated when things go sour. And the other can comfort you when things go sour😂

I have been hearing stories about GMs trying to play the role of the White Knight by offering financial assistance during these hard times to their Thera Loves. But only to ask for their money back later.

 

My thought on this is if you are not able to part with the money why offer it in the first place? Is one trying so show they have wealth when they really don't have that kind of cash to spare?

 

There are some instances where I can see when the GM would get angry and want their money back, like if one where to offer 20k to help with the mother and child of the Thera only to find out her BF/Pimp baby daddy is doing nothing but playing games on the computer getting free sex and the possibility of part of that 20k goes to the BF/Pimp baby daddy weekly allowance.

Or the possibility of the 20k really being used so the Thera and her BF/pimp baby daddy can go on vacation somewhere.

 

I would get mad AF myself and make a big deal about it as well and want my money back.

 

But what I am getting at is if you know you can't part with the money don't bother offering it.

 

Times are tough right now and I know there are going to be more situations where money is going to be asked for.

better get a condo thats directly attached to mrt

Thanks it might cost more but it should be worth it

I dont know if this is the right place to ask, but I am looking to purchase a condo in the south triangle area. Is that place pretty safe to walk to the MRT-3 stations? I been there during the days seems safe to walk around. I dont want to rely on Grab too much.

Stars - Callalily

I kept the right ones out and let the wrong ones in