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Posted 17 October 2019 - 09:27 AM

Lets discuss the POSITIVE angles of why sex work, sex industry, sex workers are integral to society.

I will begin this thread with this video. Just maximize the volume on your player.

https://youtu.be/r7xLfeTytns

Listen... matters of the heart... this is on topic.

Feel free to submit your hypothesis and positive experiences.

#2 Dang456

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Posted 17 October 2019 - 05:19 PM

This feels like some college research assignment.

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Posted 17 October 2019 - 06:24 PM

Hmmmm.... is this topic a trend now? I just saw Buwayaman discuss this over in twitter.

 

Here is something amusing I saw posted yet very apt.

 

"I would rather pay for sex then go to a bar trying to pick up a woman with lies and empty promises for free sex" 

 

:D



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Posted 17 October 2019 - 09:21 PM

Hmmmm.... is this topic a trend now? I just saw Buwayaman discuss this over in twitter.

 

Here is something amusing I saw posted yet very apt.

 

"I would rather pay for sex then go to a bar trying to pick up a woman with lies and empty promises for free sex" 

 

:D

 

I am not familiar with buwayaman over twitter.  I was inspired to post this when I stumbled on that video above.

 

When you get a massage / spa therapist it's usually 1 hour, but the sex is usually short, so the rest of the time, there is a lot of talk.

 

The talk is therapeutic for many men, men who are lonely, men who need to be hugged, touched, kissed, or need sex because they can't get sex the way society expects them to get sex.  There is also sex education, the newbie young man who just needs to know how to f*ck or learn female anatomy hands on.

 

Where I'm coming from is this... women reproduce with the top 20% of men... that is why the genetic stats show a global average norm that we are the descendants of 1 man impregnating 5 women.  So what about those poor other men who are the bottom 80%?  Instead of being frustrated, rape, or become violent, these men can avail of the services of sex workers.

 

Not saying the top 20% of men do not patronize sex workers... just saying the bottom 80% of men have a consolation prize they can afford... sex workers are affordable... much cheaper than wives or mistresses... the bottom 80% have a chance at some sanity... it keeps the peace.


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Posted 17 October 2019 - 09:26 PM

Monogamy, blue pill Filipino style goes like this:

 

Husband is expected to be monogamous.

But monogamy is monotony.

So some Filipino husbands are guilt free when in the yearning for some different pussies, they patronize sex workers, with a proper capped budget, he is happy, wife is happy.  Monogamy is achieved.



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Posted 18 October 2019 - 12:32 AM

Hmmmm.... is this topic a trend now? I just saw Buwayaman discuss this over in twitter.
 
Here is something amusing I saw posted yet very apt.
 
"I would rather pay for sex then go to a bar trying to pick up a woman with lies and empty promises for free sex" 
 
:D

I agree with that.

From a moral standpoint, lies are just repugnant in general. Though there are exceptions, most lies are used as a means of deceit.

Also, emotional damage is some of the worse damage a person can experience. A bad experience in relationships ruins future relationships.

Even when you're just trying to have casual relationships, you're investing time and money for that coochie. If that's fun for you, go ahead, but thinking its better than paying for sexual relations is like saying self service restaurants are better than ones with waiters and service charge.

My main argument departs from the thesis "Sex work is integral" a bit, since mine is "sex work is more acceptable than moral obliquity in human relations (via lies and deceit)"

P.S. I haven't watched the video, yet

Edited by 2:30, 18 October 2019 - 12:35 AM.


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Posted 18 October 2019 - 09:06 AM

Economic opportunities...

 

... most sex work business is organized ORGANICALLY.

 

... everyone involved are like worker ants building the business, they "know" their roles.

 

... I even know a legit spa owner who was not able to visit her spa for a month due to family duties, when she came back, the therapists she had trained had organized the legit spa to a spakol!  

 

... In the Philippines, we have no established student loan program, sex work becomes that program for some college students

 

... In the Philippines, we have no viable socialist welfare program to save single mothers from their bad decisions / bad choices, sex work offers them an income when these MILFs have no other profitable skills.



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Posted 18 October 2019 - 10:15 PM

RELEASE: A desperate man who badly wants s*x needs a release, else there is a high probability that a crime of rape will be committed. I supposed that going to a prostitute and pay for s*x is the better option.

 

CONTROL: Men pay for women since we can choose whatever and whoever we want (on the line-up). We go to prostitutes so we can do our sexual fantasies with them, that most women would not agree to do.

 

BASIC INSTINCT: Men buy s*x because we like it. People are willing to pay for things or activities that they enjoy, and I supposed that the same principle also applies to s*x.


Edited by billybong, 18 October 2019 - 10:28 PM.


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Posted 19 October 2019 - 12:06 AM

Thanks for sharing.

 

This is also good:  https://www.youtube....h?v=VJRBx0JjM_M



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Posted 19 October 2019 - 01:11 AM

I agree with that.
From a moral standpoint, lies are just repugnant in general. Though there are exceptions, most lies are used as a means of deceit.
Also, emotional damage is some of the worse damage a person can experience. A bad experience in relationships ruins future relationships.
Even when you're just trying to have casual relationships, you're investing time and money for that coochie. If that's fun for you, go ahead, but thinking its better than paying for sexual relations is like saying self service restaurants are better than ones with waiters and service charge.
My main argument departs from the thesis "Sex work is integral" a bit, since mine is "sex work is more acceptable than moral obliquity in human relations (via lies and deceit)"
P.S. I haven't watched the video, yet

that was a nice analogy sir. Also, I'd like to add that there are men who patronize sex workers to save themselves the time one could waste when engaging in casual sex. So to those who says that casual relationship is the same or better than hiring a sex worker, please stop. You don't know what you are saying. Like he said, if you like it and you have the time to spare, then by all means.

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Posted 19 October 2019 - 07:01 AM

Sex Work (for both producers and consumers) wouldn't be one of the oldest profession in the world if it wasn't integral...meaning that there is a real need that births functional economies...whether those economies be legal or illegal...whether the consumers or products involved are virtual or actual, it cannot be denied that this industry moves wealth (and influence) in both micro and macro levels...and the movement of wealth is key to our development...it is as religious, social or political in its influence over our human mores and norms...it is something that both overtly and covertly influence both the poor and rich...even the living and the dead...

 

Sex is integral...because procreation is the goal of all life...and to keep living...the work of sex is never done...so SEX WORKERS of the world..."UNITE" (;P)

 

brother GM...that is why we have manilatonight...this is like a Sex Worker's "Union" and networking center...we are doing the world some kind of "serbis"...



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Posted 19 October 2019 - 08:45 AM

Without our lovely sex workers I would probably be dead now no pun intended

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Posted 19 October 2019 - 05:57 PM

Without our lovely sex workers I would probably be dead now no pun intended

 

I believe... I do not have the studies to back this up... but hey, I believe a lot of lovely sex workers have pulled men out of DEPRESSIONS they have been in... na busted ng girlfriend, nag hiwalay ng asawa, namatayan ng loved ones... sex therapy, or a shoulder to cry on... yung mga sex workers na makakapag sabi nyan.



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Posted 19 October 2019 - 06:55 PM

Great topic

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Posted 19 October 2019 - 09:43 PM

When you think about it, a guy who spends 5000 pesos on sex probably does more good to society than a guy who spends 5000 on shoes he doesnt need. Yung 5000 na binigay nya, a huge portion of it goes for the bills of the escort. Whereas yung 5000 mo sa sapatos, foreign company at wealthy local businessmen lang kumita.

I can understand the argument that it has pulled a lot of people out of depression. It's inevitablr that there will be days and nights which are simply unbearably depressing and you just need to get past it until things become better.
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Posted 20 October 2019 - 11:05 AM

When you think about it, a guy who spends 5000 pesos on sex probably does more good to society than a guy who spends 5000 on shoes he doesnt need. Yung 5000 na binigay nya, a huge portion of it goes for the bills of the escort. Whereas yung 5000 mo sa sapatos, foreign company at wealthy local businessmen lang kumita.

I can understand the argument that it has pulled a lot of people out of depression. It's inevitablr that there will be days and nights which are simply unbearably depressing and you just need to get past it until things become better.

 

I understand the feeling of wanting to escape pain, suffering, and responsibility even if it's just for an hour or two.

I also believe it's more progressive to allow people to conduct sex work in a lawful, respectable, and socially acceptable manner.

 

Sex work is difficult work. The argument that people selling their bodies is moot, as everyone who exchanges labor for money (and that is literally every human being) is doing the same thing.



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Posted 20 October 2019 - 02:02 PM

Monogamy, blue pill Filipino style goes like this:
 
Husband is expected to be monogamous.
But monogamy is monotony.
So some Filipino husbands are guilt free when in the yearning for some different pussies, they patronize sex workers, with a proper capped budget, he is happy, wife is happy.  Monogamy is achieved.

But that's still cheating. A full monogamous relationship means you stick with one partner to the end.

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Posted 20 October 2019 - 03:56 PM

 

I understand the feeling of wanting to escape pain, suffering, and responsibility even if it's just for an hour or two.

I also believe it's more progressive to allow people to conduct sex work in a lawful, respectable, and socially acceptable manner.

 

Sex work is difficult work. The argument that people selling their bodies is moot, as everyone who exchanges labor for money (and that is literally every human being) is doing the same thing.

 

Yes. And the nature of the profession is a very very constructive one actually. Worker gets her much needed finances and maybe sometimes pleasure too. And client gets his release and gets to help someone in need as well. As long as the workers are not coerced / kidnapped and forced to do it and as long as they are not minors then it should be fine. Also helps that if it is legalized, the state would be able to impose sanitary and health requirements that would not just prevent disease but set higher standards actually.



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Posted 20 October 2019 - 06:24 PM

But that's still cheating. A full monogamous relationship means you stick with one partner to the end.

 

Are you a teenager to be so naive that "full monogamy" really exists?

 

Genetic statistics show the global population as the result of 1 man impregnating 5 women... "full monogamy" is an idealistic fantasy brought about by some religions... reality is a totally different matter.



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Posted 20 October 2019 - 07:24 PM

Redpill Bomb:

It is vital.

For the very reason of our reptilian brains.

Ego, id, superego. All that s@%t. Tama si freud. Everything is sexual. Everything is alo political, Thomas Mann. Then sexual=political.

Although it is immaterial kung anong side itatake mo sa issue na ito kasi ang tao ay tao lang. kung gusto gawin, gagawin.
Kung pinilit ang sarili, masisiraan ng bait. Masiraan ng bait= less alaga sa trabaho at pmilya, magsisimula ng gulo sa buhay, magiging pabaya etc.

Ang lalaki di dinesign ng mundo para maging monogamous. Kung relihyoso ka, then maniniwala ka sa kabaliktaran nito.
Ang babae rin di dinesign na maging monogamous. Hypergamous sila. Mahirap intindihin pero meron talagang naniniwala na monogamous dapat ang lahat ng magasawa kunyari. Gusto ko rin sana mangyari yun, buong-puso kong gusto yun.

SUBALIT

HINDI GANYAN ANG MUNDO EH.

Okay lang kung may negative view ang tao sa sexwork. Ang di nila nakikita ay ito ang paraan pano maregulate ang inner animal ng mga tao. Lalaki man o babae. Women like sex too. Dont forget. Never forget. And like men, gagawa sila ng paraan to get it. Kahit na kasal kayo. Loyalty only exists between men (in my convinced opinion).

Pansinin mo rin kung kumausap ka ng mga theras. Bakit nilang ayaw lisanin ang trabahong yan kung sa tingin nila immoral yan?

It is not irresponsible to want sex. Its human, kahit saan man yung source of the sex. Kahit na anong rationalization gusto mo gawin sa sarili mo. Kusang katawan mo na ang magpapahiwatig na gusto nito ng laman. Uuwi ka sa bahay para tumikim ng putahe, pero magsasawa ka rin kung adobo ulam mo araw araw.

What is responsible is that you protect your health, finances, and sanity. Mas lalo na kung may pamilya ka. Kayo na bahala doon.




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