What Do You Talk About On Your First Date?

[tisoybrown]

in the first place,u tried to meet the person because of curiosity and interest.might as well kep that pace going.make her keep the ineterest on you by making her feel comfortable and happy.first impressions really last. :headsetsmiley:

[pinocchia]

first blind date tanung sa aken, "what is your career plan for the next 10 years?". as in serious!

e di ako nag-review!

last blind date ko na rin yun...

[Guest Yavanna]

first blind date tanung sa aken, "what is your career plan for the next 10 years?". as in serious!

e di ako nag-review!

last blind date ko na rin yun...

 

hahaha... this made me laugh...

 

i am reminded of a semi-blind date (semi kasi sya ung nagpa-setup... ako lang pala ung blind)...

first question nya sa akin pag-upo palang ng sasakyan, "Are you a catholic?"

nung sumagot akong oo, ang laki nung smile nya...

teka... engagement na ba ang nasa isip mo, iho?

last ko na din date un sa kanya...

 

a no-no for guys, please.

[YeN_TaW]

hmm...

 

This is the easiest part of dating... daming question that you can ask.

 

avoid very personal topics though.. start with work, school etc.

[ligtasan]

First dates are recon missions. I always ask general questions and let a conversation start from there. The usual stuff: any common interests, what does she like to do, favorite songs, movies, etc.

 

YeN_TaW is right though. No personal questions, this is only the first date.

 

First dates are a time to get to know a person better and, if they make a good enough impression, a time to ask for a second date .

[BallBreaker]

First dates are a time to get to know a person better and, if they make a good enough impression, a time to ask for a second date .

does this mean that if a guy asks you out for the second time, it must be something good? always thought na they ask you out the second time kasi they didn't score on the first.

 

 

on topic: common interests maybe. and his views on certain topics. no use putting my best foot forward. if I get comfortable with a guy on a first date, that must mean I like him.

[ligtasan]

does this mean that if a guy asks you out for the second time, it must be something good? always thought na they ask you out the second time kasi they didn't score on the first.

 

Heh heh, that depends if you got a manyak mutt instead of faithful hound

 

on topic: common interests maybe. and his views on certain topics. no use putting my best foot forward. if I get comfortable with a guy on a first date, that must mean I like him.

 

Isn't that the whole point of a first date? Finding out if you're comfortable enough to say yes to a second date ? To see if he piques your interest enough that you want to find out more about him? At any rate, if the first date falls through, no harm no foul *shrug*. If it doesn't, who knows? The possibilites are endless.

Edited January 3, 2008 by ligtasan

[reachard]

for me it's more on the "getting to know stage" both of us ask questions about each other at the same time tell stories about ourselves (family, school, work, etc)

 

I think to know if there's chemistry between the two of you

[jojobata]

whether I have food stuck between my teeth

 

seriously, whether there's something there between us. I'm usually very straight forward in a less than subtle way - does that make sense? Like the previous poster....just feeling her out to see if there's a connection...a spark if you will.

[machogwapito69]

Usually the common "Getting To Know You" Stuff........

 

1.)Where did you study during H.S. and College?(Assuming she is working/graduate)

2.)Ilan kayong magkakapatid?

3.)Family Business? Work/Means of income?

4.)Hobbies? Things you Like/Dislike?

5.)Common Friends?

 

After asking these questions(In any order)......madali nang pahabain yung conversation eh.......

 

Based on her answers dun ka magkakaidea on what kind of a person she is........

 

Usually kapag mga 3rd or 4th question palang medyo hindi na interesado sumagot or puro mga 1 comment answers......

I don't pursue to lengthen the conversation kasi alam ko medyo hindi siya interested sa akin That is one of the advantages of being a good conversationalist........

 

Pero sometimes.......Meron din naman mga girls na very friendly lang talaga kaya mahilig makipag kwentuhan

[jakeyjunkie]

Everything personal information, tapos kwento-kwento about life's happenings, after which e malalaman niyo na ang mga likes and dislikes niyo.

[Megan]

First date...yes I agree blind date muna,then the following days face to face na..hehehe

[poip0i]

all about her.. nakikinig lang ako

[gandararugu]

well, im a girl and so i usually do most of the tlkin and i dont care what guys think of me cuz i feel so comfortable around them so i talk about random things such as: "did u know they cant put the word gun on the radio?" and then that leads to music and that leads to movies which leads to sports....and if its really awkward, just say "im sry im not really good at this.." she SHOULD completely understand, if not then end the date short by ur cell "ringing"....

[revi]

well, im a girl and so i usually do most of the tlkin and i dont care what guys think of me cuz i feel so comfortable around them so i talk about random things such as: "did u know they cant put the word gun on the radio?" and then that leads to music and that leads to movies which leads to sports....and if its really awkward, just say "im sry im not really good at this.." she SHOULD completely understand, if not then end the date short by ur cell "ringing"....

 

.."if not, then end the date short by ur cell 'ringing..'" - hahahaha...

 

Para hindi OT: I talk about almost anything under the sun.. Whatever interests us.. Music, sports, contemporary events, education, politics, family and even trivial matters.. But I am not the type who would just let the girl talk.. I am also a talker and I would like the gal to listen to what I have to share/talk about.. But I don't argue on a first date.. Kung mukhang hindi tugma ang utak namin, I just let the date pass by.. But there would be no more 2nd date.. Making my cell ring is not really my cup of tea.. hahaha...

[cadbury007]

i always makes her lough.. make her feel comfortable as if you've known yourselves for so many years..and yes..most important is Sense of Humor...pag wala ka nun...hmmm kelangan mag-enroll muna un guy sa DATE 101 subject hehehe. :thumbsupsmiley:

Edited January 22, 2008 by cadbury007

[HeinrichCu]

i talk about things like jokes, funny events that happened to me,maybe she can relate with..my interests

 

and sex

[fm316]

virtually everything about your date and virtually nothing about yourself unless he/she insists on talking about it.

 

p.s. well, actually my answer is on the presumption that you like your date and you want to impress on him or her

[alteclansing]

very informative topic we have here. Havent been on a date for ages kinakalawang na ako

[icymyk]

buhay buhay

work - studies

anything except sex panget un eh hehehe

[tequilasunrise]

Lahat naman ng naka-date ko, kilala ko na one way or the other (kahit through chat or text), so when we first met personally, usually, "kumusta ka na?" or dig something from the previous topics discussed and take it from there.

[RuinasLasCorazon]

likes, anything under the sun without the sleazy topics unless i know she's into that..

[cleanpinoy]

find a common topic between you and her. That will start the free-flowing conversation.

[ca5an0va]

nothing in particular but i guess more about urself and herself...the getting to knw thing :headsetsmiley:

[pixel888]

talk about anything but yourself. Dont talk about the me ,me , or I yet. Leave that out for the next date. Listen to her more. Be attentive to her expressions,body language and gestures.