~sexy_gurl~ Posted April 10, 2006 Share Posted April 10, 2006 This really sucks and really sad situation to be in. I have been in this situation one point of my life... everything was perfect.. i thought my bf den was my soulmate ( child hood sweetheart ksi eh), accepted sa family kasal na lng ang kulang until this guy came and changed everything that i felt for my bf ( feeling ko nun... this new guy is much better than my bf.... merong mga bagay na meron cya na kulang sa bf ko ) but too late... we're engaged to be married... sad!!! so kylangan kalimutan 'tong s new guy and but the sad part is!!!! wlang marriage na nangyari waaaaaaaaa.... nung wla na si new guy sa picture saka naman dumating 'tong new girl na kinalokohan ng soon-to-be-husband ko..... what sucks is! pinagpalit nya ko dun sa gurl na un.... ASAR!!!! but wel!!! i guess karma really exists! ksi niloko lng rin cya nung gurl! and our fairy tale lovestory had a very tragic ending! ( si new guy? asan na?? aun! nsa hongkong.. called me one time and told me sayang! It's really sad to belong to someone else when the right one comes along Quote Link to comment
jamesyap18 Posted April 11, 2006 Share Posted April 11, 2006 This really sucks and really sad situation to be in. I have been in this situation one point of my life... everything was perfect.. i thought my bf den was my soulmate ( child hood sweetheart ksi eh), accepted sa family kasal na lng ang kulang until this guy came and changed everything that i felt for my bf ( feeling ko nun... this new guy is much better than my bf.... merong mga bagay na meron cya na kulang sa bf ko ) but too late... we're engaged to be married... sad!!! so kylangan kalimutan 'tong s new guy and but the sad part is!!!! wlang marriage na nangyari waaaaaaaaa.... nung wla na si new guy sa picture saka naman dumating 'tong new girl na kinalokohan ng soon-to-be-husband ko..... what sucks is! pinagpalit nya ko dun sa gurl na un.... ASAR!!!! but wel!!! i guess karma really exists! ksi niloko lng rin cya nung gurl! and our fairy tale lovestory had a very tragic ending! ( si new guy? asan na?? aun! nsa hongkong.. called me one time and told me sayang! It's really sad to belong to someone else when the right one comes along<{POST_SNAPBACK}> kawawa ka naman. pero nakakalungkot man tanggapin, pero dapat. we have to move on. be strong. di pwedeng tumigil ang mundo ng tao sa pag ibig lamang. ang masama lang kasi double black eye ka. nawala ung isa dapat, pero ang masakit kasi parang luge ka sobra, parang ikaw sinacrifice ung feelings mo, pero un ex soon to be husband mo nde. dats fate... well maybe they really arent for u.. malay mo?? may darating pang mas ok sa yo ?? who knows?? only God knows Quote Link to comment
frithjoanne Posted April 11, 2006 Share Posted April 11, 2006 well you really just have to choose one between the two Quote Link to comment
anonymousse Posted April 11, 2006 Share Posted April 11, 2006 When my wife and I were still just bf-gf (we were an item for nearly eight years before we got married), not once was I tempted to leave her for another girl. I was attracted to a few girls, but I knew it was just lust and I never really made any serious moves towards any of them. Now the funny thing is, now that we're married, I can't seem to shake off this feeling that I might be falling for this new girl in our office. I know it sounds corny, but I feel a certain "kilig" whenever she arrives. It's not just physical attraction on my part; I feel like I want to really become close to her. It's tough to resist because she's a real looker and she's got a great personality. We have a lot of things in common and we talk all the time when we're taking our yosi breaks. Sometimes even when I'm with my wife, all I do is think about her. I haven't felt this way towards someone since, well, since when I first met my wife 10 years ago. But I know nothing will ever come out of this because I still do love my wife and can't stand the thought of losing her. What's more, this new girl is engaged to be married soon. When I heard It's Sad to Belong a few days ago, it's the first time I ever felt a connection with the lyrics. I just hope this is just a temporary thing. Quote Link to comment
nicomambo Posted April 11, 2006 Share Posted April 11, 2006 I think this is something that a lot of people go through. We will never know if that other person is really better until we try "being" with that person-but risking losing our current partner forever!DAMN! Quote Link to comment
~sexy_gurl~ Posted April 11, 2006 Share Posted April 11, 2006 kawawa ka naman. pero nakakalungkot man tanggapin, pero dapat. we have to move on. be strong. di pwedeng tumigil ang mundo ng tao sa pag ibig lamang. ang masama lang kasi double black eye ka. nawala ung isa dapat, pero ang masakit kasi parang luge ka sobra, parang ikaw sinacrifice ung feelings mo, pero un ex soon to be husband mo nde. dats fate... well maybe they really arent for u.. malay mo?? may darating pang mas ok sa yo ?? who knows?? only God knows<{POST_SNAPBACK}> yah.. nagmove on na ko hehehhe.... i'm much happier now and learned a lot... learned to love my self first before anything else... kya lng.. i guess im the same old me that i give everything pra in the end magkasumbatan man tau.. wla akong gnawang mali saio.. kaw lng... trying to be a perfect gurl friend kuno hehehhehe Quote Link to comment
tsunade Posted April 11, 2006 Share Posted April 11, 2006 For me kase it's an excuse ... yeah, it's sad really but if you are married na why look for someone else... but if you're single then what's stopping you??? Regrets are only for wusses or just a line... So, if a guy/girl says that too bad I didn't meet you earlier... well then you should reconsider the relationship/attraction coz it might just be an excuse... Quote Link to comment
pitik101 Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 typical cliche for those who look for something that their spouse dont have. rule of thumb, if married, just play! Quote Link to comment
mc_darklight Posted July 14, 2006 Share Posted July 14, 2006 just choose the best from the two Quote Link to comment
Blue_Harbour Posted July 14, 2006 Share Posted July 14, 2006 When my wife and I were still just bf-gf (we were an item for nearly eight years before we got married), not once was I tempted to leave her for another girl. I was attracted to a few girls, but I knew it was just lust and I never really made any serious moves towards any of them. Now the funny thing is, now that we're married, I can't seem to shake off this feeling that I might be falling for this new girl in our office. I know it sounds corny, but I feel a certain "kilig" whenever she arrives. It's not just physical attraction on my part; I feel like I want to really become close to her. It's tough to resist because she's a real looker and she's got a great personality. We have a lot of things in common and we talk all the time when we're taking our yosi breaks. Sometimes even when I'm with my wife, all I do is think about her. I haven't felt this way towards someone since, well, since when I first met my wife 10 years ago. But I know nothing will ever come out of this because I still do love my wife and can't stand the thought of losing her. What's more, this new girl is engaged to be married soon. When I heard It's Sad to Belong a few days ago, it's the first time I ever felt a connection with the lyrics. I just hope this is just a temporary thing. I had the same situation, experience... we are left with no choice but to let go. I get jealous when i see her with someone else, and ending up heavy chested after. You seemed to compare it to the one you have, pero mind over matter, dun na siguro papasok yung contentment and security. Kc ma iisip mo what if i gave her up for her, and ending up breaking apart, where am i to go? Lose-lose situation. Weight things out... who will love you more, who understands you more, who inspite your glitches stayed, through thick and thin there was she... Im recuperating from my confusion... I get to think of her once in a while, especially pag malungkot... but, i have friends who cheers me up, and just enjoy my girls company, para di mo sya maiisp. Good Luck... -------------- Quote Link to comment
motorider Posted July 14, 2006 Share Posted July 14, 2006 hay hirap talaga umibig sa dalawa.... pano pa kaya kung marami tatlo.... apat.... pwede bang mangyari yun? how can we know if it is really love? Quote Link to comment
guano_man2002 Posted July 14, 2006 Share Posted July 14, 2006 Mahirap Talaga!!!! Kahit na gusto mong kontrolin mahirap. Nowadays, people seemed to just accept and not say anything which makes it so easy and at the same time difficult. Madali pa naman akong magka gusto and i have ways to make the girl like me back as well. Sana nga dalawa... Quote Link to comment
imokru09 Posted July 15, 2006 Share Posted July 15, 2006 one thing i dont get is bakit pag committed na ang tao eh naiinlove pa rin sa iba ... i mean its not bad na humanga sa iba but when u fall for a different person and your married eh its a diff thing. it sucks kasi both of you masasaktan and of course your husband/wife or bf/gf when they found out, sana lang our hearts has a mechanism na if your committed na you don't fall in love again not unless ofcourse one of you passed away. its not just a matter of getting two hearts kasi yung iba nga fall for more than that ... tsk tsk tsk Quote Link to comment
kitzsen18 Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 sana nga, pero imposibleng mangyari 2, pero kung pde MASAYA 2...........hehehehehPEACE Quote Link to comment
lordraven12 Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 kulang lang sa pag uusap siguro yan o mabilis ka lang talagang mag sawa sa partner mo kaya nararamdaman mo na sana dalawa ang puso mo... Quote Link to comment
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