TanglewoodBoy Posted January 22, 2010 Share Posted January 22, 2010 My 2 centavos....Seems to me a lot of us are in this "complicated" situations....Can't be lovers but will not settle to be friends...No solution either...nothing quick and painless that is. All I can say to console you people is to say the you are not alone in this..hindi ka nag-iisasighThanks bro, we are all in one club pala, hahahahaha that's the cross we have to bear bro, hahahahahaha Quote Link to comment
silentkilla Posted January 22, 2010 Share Posted January 22, 2010 HOW WOULD YOU STAY AWAY FROM SOMEONE YOU LOVE SO MUCH? IF... ...YOU'RE ALREADY MARRIED ... YOU HAVE KIDS ... AND YOU DONT WANT TO HURT HER ... AND SHE/HE IS YOUR FRIEND'S BF/GF ... AND SHE/HE LOVES YOU SO MUCH just do the right thing and part ways... Quote Link to comment
complicated8 Posted January 22, 2010 Share Posted January 22, 2010 ^^who said it's right? Quote Link to comment
dokitty Posted January 22, 2010 Share Posted January 22, 2010 dont really know... im also in that situation and it sucks..haha Quote Link to comment
hilong_talilong Posted January 22, 2010 Share Posted January 22, 2010 sabi nga ng isang member...walang madali sa sa simula...just keep ur self busy lang Quote Link to comment
heavygatin_but_cutie Posted January 23, 2010 Share Posted January 23, 2010 speaking from my recent experience...how do I stay away from someone I love so much...i just cut all communcations...deleted all contacts..and most of all ..pray that soon you'll be able to totally forget the person and move on. if that person caused you so much pain...learn to love yourself more..and leave some pride sa sarili mo....have the will power to control yourself not to make the first move even..or if the person keeps bugging you do best to ignore! Quote Link to comment
daredevil67011 Posted January 24, 2010 Share Posted January 24, 2010 Ignore everything she does. It may be difficult, pero magsasawa rin yun. Quote Link to comment
rain29 Posted January 24, 2010 Share Posted January 24, 2010 mahirap if ksama mo sya sa office..pag uwi mo same lang kayo ng street.. Quote Link to comment
Guest biancaanne Posted January 24, 2010 Share Posted January 24, 2010 i guess don't lose hope in you and him being together dear though don't expect it also, we have the same situation though it's good to be at peace with yourself, make the most of what you have with him.....masakit nga lang tanggapin ang katotohanan na di magiging kayo, but hey, nobody has an easy way in life... di mo naman siya kayang tiisin na di makita, di makausap so i guess what you decided was the best for you, not for him but for you.... I never expected. That's always rule number one: No expectations. And I agree, we all should make the best out of what we have... My 2 centavos....Seems to me a lot of us are in this "complicated" situations....Can't be lovers but will not settle to be friends...No solution either...nothing quick and painless that is. All I can say to console you people is to say the you are not alone in this..hindi ka nag-iisasigh The hardest part is if one does not have enough resolve to be a friend or not... Quote Link to comment
eya Posted January 24, 2010 Share Posted January 24, 2010 hey .....avoid her than getting hurt later on ......there are pleanty of us ladies around find your own match Quote Link to comment
ladyboy Posted January 24, 2010 Share Posted January 24, 2010 mahirap makalimot talaga pag mahal mo isang tao Quote Link to comment
kisserfoxygirl Posted January 24, 2010 Share Posted January 24, 2010 mahirap makalimot talaga pag mahal mo isang tao correct!!! so hard talaga makalimot kpg minahal mo ang isang tao tapos naging parang best frend mo pa.. maging busy ka lahat sa ng bagay .. lahat ng memories burahin.... Quote Link to comment
Sigmundo Posted January 25, 2010 Share Posted January 25, 2010 I never expected. That's always rule number one: No expectations. And I agree, we all should make the best out of what we have... The hardest part is if one does not have enough resolve to be a friend or not... That's the hard part, trying to be friends with someone you loved....Walking away totally would be (seems to me) easier since you won't have to meet her/him on a regular basis. Quote Link to comment
Guest biancaanne Posted January 25, 2010 Share Posted January 25, 2010 That's the hard part, trying to be friends with someone you loved....Walking away totally would be (seems to me) easier since you won't have to meet her/him on a regular basis. Easier said than done if you enjoy enjoy his/her company, and if the two of you are kindred spirits/like souls... Quote Link to comment
TanglewoodBoy Posted January 25, 2010 Share Posted January 25, 2010 Easier said than done if you enjoy enjoy his/her company, and if the two of you are kindred spirits/like souls... well, you can do it if you want to and if you're looking for a new one in the near future, be prepared to lower your expectations, hahahah because you said that it's hard to top your ex, so, there's your misery right there, hahahaha Quote Link to comment
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