Why Sex Work Is Integral To Society

[babymaker]

Lets discuss the POSITIVE angles of why sex work, sex industry, sex workers are integral to society.

 

I will begin this thread with this video. Just maximize the volume on your player.

 

 

Listen... matters of the heart... this is on topic.

 

Feel free to submit your hypothesis and positive experiences.

[Dang456]

This feels like some college research assignment.

[Sir Galahad®]

Hmmmm.... is this topic a trend now? I just saw Buwayaman discuss this over in twitter.

 

Here is something amusing I saw posted yet very apt.

 

"I would rather pay for sex then go to a bar trying to pick up a woman with lies and empty promises for free sex"

 

[babymaker]

Hmmmm.... is this topic a trend now? I just saw Buwayaman discuss this over in twitter.

 

Here is something amusing I saw posted yet very apt.

 

"I would rather pay for sex then go to a bar trying to pick up a woman with lies and empty promises for free sex"

 

 

I am not familiar with buwayaman over twitter. I was inspired to post this when I stumbled on that video above.

 

When you get a massage / spa therapist it's usually 1 hour, but the sex is usually short, so the rest of the time, there is a lot of talk.

 

The talk is therapeutic for many men, men who are lonely, men who need to be hugged, touched, kissed, or need sex because they can't get sex the way society expects them to get sex. There is also sex education, the newbie young man who just needs to know how to f*ck or learn female anatomy hands on.

 

Where I'm coming from is this... women reproduce with the top 20% of men... that is why the genetic stats show a global average norm that we are the descendants of 1 man impregnating 5 women. So what about those poor other men who are the bottom 80%? Instead of being frustrated, rape, or become violent, these men can avail of the services of sex workers.

 

Not saying the top 20% of men do not patronize sex workers... just saying the bottom 80% of men have a consolation prize they can afford... sex workers are affordable... much cheaper than wives or mistresses... the bottom 80% have a chance at some sanity... it keeps the peace.

[babymaker]

Monogamy, blue pill Filipino style goes like this:

 

Husband is expected to be monogamous.

But monogamy is monotony.

So some Filipino husbands are guilt free when in the yearning for some different pussies, they patronize sex workers, with a proper capped budget, he is happy, wife is happy. Monogamy is achieved.

[Supa.Chill'n]

Hmmmm.... is this topic a trend now? I just saw Buwayaman discuss this over in twitter.

 

Here is something amusing I saw posted yet very apt.

 

"I would rather pay for sex then go to a bar trying to pick up a woman with lies and empty promises for free sex"

 

I agree with that.

 

From a moral standpoint, lies are just repugnant in general. Though there are exceptions, most lies are used as a means of deceit.

 

Also, emotional damage is some of the worse damage a person can experience. A bad experience in relationships ruins future relationships.

 

Even when you're just trying to have casual relationships, you're investing time and money for that coochie. If that's fun for you, go ahead, but thinking its better than paying for sexual relations is like saying self service restaurants are better than ones with waiters and service charge.

 

My main argument departs from the thesis "Sex work is integral" a bit, since mine is "sex work is more acceptable than moral obliquity in human relations (via lies and deceit)"

 

P.S. I haven't watched the video, yet

Edited October 17, 2019 by 2:30

[babymaker]

Economic opportunities...

 

... most sex work business is organized ORGANICALLY.

 

... everyone involved are like worker ants building the business, they "know" their roles.

 

... I even know a legit spa owner who was not able to visit her spa for a month due to family duties, when she came back, the therapists she had trained had organized the legit spa to a spakol!

 

... In the Philippines, we have no established student loan program, sex work becomes that program for some college students

 

... In the Philippines, we have no viable socialist welfare program to save single mothers from their bad decisions / bad choices, sex work offers them an income when these MILFs have no other profitable skills.

[billybong]

RELEASE: A desperate man who badly wants s*x needs a release, else there is a high probability that a crime of rape will be committed. I supposed that going to a prostitute and pay for s*x is the better option.

 

CONTROL: Men pay for women since we can choose whatever and whoever we want (on the line-up). We go to prostitutes so we can do our sexual fantasies with them, that most women would not agree to do.

 

BASIC INSTINCT: Men buy s*x because we like it. People are willing to pay for things or activities that they enjoy, and I supposed that the same principle also applies to s*x.

Edited October 18, 2019 by billybong

[khantan]

Thanks for sharing.

 

This is also good: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VJRBx0JjM_M

[Brian214]

I agree with that.

From a moral standpoint, lies are just repugnant in general. Though there are exceptions, most lies are used as a means of deceit.

Also, emotional damage is some of the worse damage a person can experience. A bad experience in relationships ruins future relationships.

Even when you're just trying to have casual relationships, you're investing time and money for that coochie. If that's fun for you, go ahead, but thinking its better than paying for sexual relations is like saying self service restaurants are better than ones with waiters and service charge.

My main argument departs from the thesis "Sex work is integral" a bit, since mine is "sex work is more acceptable than moral obliquity in human relations (via lies and deceit)"

P.S. I haven't watched the video, yet

that was a nice analogy sir. Also, I'd like to add that there are men who patronize sex workers to save themselves the time one could waste when engaging in casual sex. So to those who says that casual relationship is the same or better than hiring a sex worker, please stop. You don't know what you are saying. Like he said, if you like it and you have the time to spare, then by all means.

[Hellmarch]

Without our lovely sex workers I would probably be dead now no pun intended

[babymaker]

Without our lovely sex workers I would probably be dead now no pun intended

 

I believe... I do not have the studies to back this up... but hey, I believe a lot of lovely sex workers have pulled men out of DEPRESSIONS they have been in... na busted ng girlfriend, nag hiwalay ng asawa, namatayan ng loved ones... sex therapy, or a shoulder to cry on... yung mga sex workers na makakapag sabi nyan.

[RuPong]

Great topic

[chessboxin]

When you think about it, a guy who spends 5000 pesos on sex probably does more good to society than a guy who spends 5000 on shoes he doesnt need. Yung 5000 na binigay nya, a huge portion of it goes for the bills of the escort. Whereas yung 5000 mo sa sapatos, foreign company at wealthy local businessmen lang kumita.

 

I can understand the argument that it has pulled a lot of people out of depression. It's inevitablr that there will be days and nights which are simply unbearably depressing and you just need to get past it until things become better.

[big_sean]

When you think about it, a guy who spends 5000 pesos on sex probably does more good to society than a guy who spends 5000 on shoes he doesnt need. Yung 5000 na binigay nya, a huge portion of it goes for the bills of the escort. Whereas yung 5000 mo sa sapatos, foreign company at wealthy local businessmen lang kumita.

 

I can understand the argument that it has pulled a lot of people out of depression. It's inevitablr that there will be days and nights which are simply unbearably depressing and you just need to get past it until things become better.

 

I understand the feeling of wanting to escape pain, suffering, and responsibility even if it's just for an hour or two.

 

I also believe it's more progressive to allow people to conduct sex work in a lawful, respectable, and socially acceptable manner.

 

Sex work is difficult work. The argument that people selling their bodies is moot, as everyone who exchanges labor for money (and that is literally every human being) is doing the same thing.