Moving On

[accountnamin]

stay on your lane

[Amadeuuss]

focus on what you can honestly

[AI blogger]

Find  yourself and embrace who you have become  and see if you want the old,  present  or new you.

[franczbob]

Ready to take new challenges

[anGL babies]

Focus in your life and always smile 😊 and stay humble to others 🙏 

[accountnamin]

its time

[Nacht Faust]

Hone your skills for the better you.

[Taktarov88]

Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance you must keep moving.

                                                                                              - Albert Einstein

Ride your bike  or your women doesn't matter just move on move forward till you drop, it's great for the soul. 

                                                                                                                                                       - Taktarov88

[sOin2you]

I suggest na don't force yourself to get over it in a week or in a month nang ganun-ganun lang. It's not easy, specially if the cut was too deep. Let yourself hurt. Cry if it hurts. Keep on crying and letting it out. One day mapapagod ka din nang kakaiyak at kakaisip ng mga gusto mo itanong or malaman pa.

Kasi when you start healing, you'll just wake up and feel nothing at all. Or it doesn't hurt as hell anymore. Yung hindi na yun ang una mong maiisip.

Walang pattern or tamang timeline sa healing. Mahirap din kasi na pilitin mo sarili mo magheal, when in reality hindi pa pala talaga OK. You'll end up fooling yourself. And don't do rebounds... You'll only drag another person into your trauma or still existing pain. Do not close your doors, but don't try to use other people din.

I remember yung isang ex ko nun, took me 4 years. There's this guy I've been seeing. We were physically into each other, and he kept on asking if "kami na ba?" And I keep saying na hindi pa ako OK to jump into one. Then one day, I woke up na OK na ako. Na hindi na ako affected by any of that past. Naaalala ko, yes, but it didn't hurt like it used to. Actually there was no pain na, not even a single tear. So I accepted the new guy na.

[hongthai]

Don't rush; healing takes time. However, if an opportunity for love arises, seize it. In the meantime, focus on improving yourself. Engage in hobbies you couldn't pursue or didn't have time for while in a relationship. Also, work on developing a skill or advancing in a job that will increase your income. While money won't directly aid your healing process, it makes it easier to engage in activities that can help you heal, such as new hobbies, travel, and meeting new people.

[Charliemike]

Face the reality.

[JosephKeys]

Moving on involves a process of healing and self-growth. Here are some steps that can help:

1. Accept Your Feelings: Acknowledge your emotions and give yourself permission to feel them. It's okay to be sad, angry, or confused.

2. Reflect and Learn: Understand what happened and why. This can help you gain insights and avoid similar situations in the future.

3. Seek Support: Talk to friends, family, or a therapist. Sharing your thoughts can provide comfort and different perspectives.

4. Focus on Yourself: Engage in activities that you enjoy and that make you feel good about yourself. This can help rebuild your confidence and happiness.

5. Set New Goals: Look forward to new opportunities. Setting personal or professional goals can give you something positive to work towards.

6. Stay Positive: Remind yourself that moving on is a process and that it's okay to take your time. Focus on the positive aspects of your life and the new opportunities ahead.

 

"Sometimes you have to accept that some people are a part of your history, but not a part of your destiny."

[neilgayuman]

It takes time, but it does happen. Just find productive ways to spend your time. Use the pain as motivation to better yourself.

[Farrel]

after 4yrs, broke up with an ex, pero kahit ako yung nakipag break, sobrang na depress din ako and had to move on. realized na siya narin pala yung best friend ko. just not enough for me to continue as lovers.

..after some time, accidentally nagkita, had been good friends who cares for each other ever since. walang milagrong nangyayari. after we both moved on, we were able to bring back the friendship. kaya na namin pag usapan ang good and bad times nuon.

so yes, pwede maging friends with an ex. I'm friends with 3 of my ex's (not all ex's), not very close na araw-araw nag uusap, just someone you can trust and knows he/she genuinely cares. period.

Edited July 8, 2024 by Farrel

[BrookBackMT]

Nagkaroon ako ng x before na sobrang minahal ko. sa mga previous ko sa kanya lang ako tumagal ng 2 years. the rest months lang tinatagal. ng break kami dahil sa LDR. after 5 years bigla syang nag reach out through my fb and nagulat ako dahil ibang name gamit ko yet nahanap nya ako. Naka move na ako yet happy ako na nag effort syang hanapin ako. nagkita kaming dalawa at naging masaya ang kwentuhan. hanggang sa napadalas at sa di inaasahan ay may nangyari sa amin. we're both drunk sa condo nyan that time and i felt sad pag gising sa umaga. inamin nya sa akin na