Moving On

[godjihyo]

focus lang sa sarili

[redhood]

Be a better person.  Nablock ako sa social media and other communication pero hindi naman social media naikot ang buhay.

[DB10]

just try to be a better person every day. little steps. inch by inch, life is a cinch. yard by yard, life is hard.

[accountnamin]

stay on your lane

[Amadeuuss]

focus on what you can honestly

[AI blogger]

Find  yourself and embrace who you have become  and see if you want the old,  present  or new you.

[franczbob]

Ready to take new challenges

[anGL babies]

Focus in your life and always smile 😊 and stay humble to others 🙏 

[accountnamin]

its time

[Nacht Faust]

Hone your skills for the better you.

[Taktarov88]

Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance you must keep moving.

                                                                                              - Albert Einstein

Ride your bike  or your women doesn't matter just move on move forward till you drop, it's great for the soul. 

                                                                                                                                                       - Taktarov88

[sOin2you]

I suggest na don't force yourself to get over it in a week or in a month nang ganun-ganun lang. It's not easy, specially if the cut was too deep. Let yourself hurt. Cry if it hurts. Keep on crying and letting it out. One day mapapagod ka din nang kakaiyak at kakaisip ng mga gusto mo itanong or malaman pa.

Kasi when you start healing, you'll just wake up and feel nothing at all. Or it doesn't hurt as hell anymore. Yung hindi na yun ang una mong maiisip.

Walang pattern or tamang timeline sa healing. Mahirap din kasi na pilitin mo sarili mo magheal, when in reality hindi pa pala talaga OK. You'll end up fooling yourself. And don't do rebounds... You'll only drag another person into your trauma or still existing pain. Do not close your doors, but don't try to use other people din.

I remember yung isang ex ko nun, took me 4 years. There's this guy I've been seeing. We were physically into each other, and he kept on asking if "kami na ba?" And I keep saying na hindi pa ako OK to jump into one. Then one day, I woke up na OK na ako. Na hindi na ako affected by any of that past. Naaalala ko, yes, but it didn't hurt like it used to. Actually there was no pain na, not even a single tear. So I accepted the new guy na.

[hongthai]

Don't rush; healing takes time. However, if an opportunity for love arises, seize it. In the meantime, focus on improving yourself. Engage in hobbies you couldn't pursue or didn't have time for while in a relationship. Also, work on developing a skill or advancing in a job that will increase your income. While money won't directly aid your healing process, it makes it easier to engage in activities that can help you heal, such as new hobbies, travel, and meeting new people.

[Charliemike]

Face the reality.

[Shinju]

Normal ba na I am still stalking my ex? We’ve been together for 1year and 5months. We broke up nung 2022 and it’s been 2yrs na. Private yung account nya and were not friends anymore, pero gumagawa talaga ako ng way na makita parin updates sa life nya and usually sa account ng wife nya ngayon ako nakakakita ng mga life update. So yun talaga ang madalas kong ini stalk.

 

Even sa Mobile legends, may satisfaction pag nakikita ko syang online kahit alam ko namang hindi kami mag uusap. Haha pinush ko pa magpa mythical immortal kasi baka mapansin nya na yung dati na laging iniiwan nya sa legend-mythic grading. Nag rank up ng wala sya haha. Even pagbili ng mga limited time edition na skin kahit mahal haha.
Pero hndi ko na rin sya nakikitang online ngayong season.

 

hays. hindi ko naman na sguro sya mahal. Siguro ego ko nalang to kasi feeling ko pabigat ako sakanya noon kasi succesful and financially stable na sya tapos ako that time, hinahanap pa kung para san talaga ako o kung anong career path ang tatahakin ko.

there were times na nasasaktan ako dati pag nag oopen up ako sakanya tapos uunahan nya na ako ng wala syang pera kahit di naman ako humihingi kahit pa 6-7digits yung earnings nya per project nya. Gusto ko lang ng comfort.

Ako yung walang ambag financially kaya ako yung laging sumusunod, umiintindi, nagmamakaawa. Tapos pag gusto ko na umalis, ilolove bomb ako. Pag okay na kami, papamukha nya na naman na mukha akong pera hahahahaha 😭 porket mas matanda sya ng sampung taon lagi nalang syang tama. Pero mahal ko siya. (Minahal) past tense haha.

Parang there’s part of me na nagtatanong parin, “What if ngayon tayo nagkakilala?” Ngayong stable na ako. Ngayong hindi na ako pabigat. Ngayong matibay na ako. 

 

 

 

[JosephKeys]

Moving on involves a process of healing and self-growth. Here are some steps that can help:

1. Accept Your Feelings: Acknowledge your emotions and give yourself permission to feel them. It's okay to be sad, angry, or confused.

2. Reflect and Learn: Understand what happened and why. This can help you gain insights and avoid similar situations in the future.

3. Seek Support: Talk to friends, family, or a therapist. Sharing your thoughts can provide comfort and different perspectives.

4. Focus on Yourself: Engage in activities that you enjoy and that make you feel good about yourself. This can help rebuild your confidence and happiness.

5. Set New Goals: Look forward to new opportunities. Setting personal or professional goals can give you something positive to work towards.

6. Stay Positive: Remind yourself that moving on is a process and that it's okay to take your time. Focus on the positive aspects of your life and the new opportunities ahead.

 

"Sometimes you have to accept that some people are a part of your history, but not a part of your destiny."

[neilgayuman]

It takes time, but it does happen. Just find productive ways to spend your time. Use the pain as motivation to better yourself.

[cynophile]

This was 2yrs ago,

Few months before the break up palang, nagmomove on na ako eh. Palagi na kong umiiyak sa lahat ng mistreatment at pambabalewala nya. Until one day, napagod nalang din ako magmakaawa palagi, napagod nalang akong sabihin yung nararamdaman ko kasi mag aaway lang kami, napagod na kong ako lagi ang sumusuyo kahit wala naman akong ginagawang mali.

So I pretended na okay na lang lahat,  hinayaan ko sya sa mga gusto nya kahit masakit. hindi na ako nagtatampo pinakita ko na kong okay lang lahat while actually preparing myself until Im mentally ready to leave.

So nung araw na naghiwalay kami, hindi na masyadong masakit. May mga araw na naalala, namimiss kasi at one point of my life minahal nya naman ako at masaya naman kami. Nagbago lang talaga sya nung huli and I will never forget the disrespect.