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Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance you must keep moving.

                                                                                              - Albert Einstein

Ride your bike  or your women doesn't matter just move on move forward till you drop, it's great for the soul. 

                                                                                                                                                       - Taktarov88

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I suggest na don't force yourself to get over it in a week or in a month nang ganun-ganun lang. It's not easy, specially if the cut was too deep. Let yourself hurt. Cry if it hurts. Keep on crying and letting it out. One day mapapagod ka din nang kakaiyak at kakaisip ng mga gusto mo itanong or malaman pa.

Kasi when you start healing, you'll just wake up and feel nothing at all. Or it doesn't hurt as hell anymore. Yung hindi na yun ang una mong maiisip.

Walang pattern or tamang timeline sa healing. Mahirap din kasi na pilitin mo sarili mo magheal, when in reality hindi pa pala talaga OK. You'll end up fooling yourself. And don't do rebounds... You'll only drag another person into your trauma or still existing pain. Do not close your doors, but don't try to use other people din.

I remember yung isang ex ko nun, took me 4 years. There's this guy I've been seeing. We were physically into each other, and he kept on asking if "kami na ba?" And I keep saying na hindi pa ako OK to jump into one. Then one day, I woke up na OK na ako. Na hindi na ako affected by any of that past. Naaalala ko, yes, but it didn't hurt like it used to. Actually there was no pain na, not even a single tear. So I accepted the new guy na.

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Don't rush; healing takes time. However, if an opportunity for love arises, seize it. In the meantime, focus on improving yourself. Engage in hobbies you couldn't pursue or didn't have time for while in a relationship. Also, work on developing a skill or advancing in a job that will increase your income. While money won't directly aid your healing process, it makes it easier to engage in activities that can help you heal, such as new hobbies, travel, and meeting new people.

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Normal ba na I am still stalking my ex? We’ve been together for 1year and 5months. We broke up nung 2022 and it’s been 2yrs na. Private yung account nya and were not friends anymore, pero gumagawa talaga ako ng way na makita parin updates sa life nya and usually sa account ng wife nya ngayon ako nakakakita ng mga life update. So yun talaga ang madalas kong ini stalk.

 

Even sa Mobile legends, may satisfaction pag nakikita ko syang online kahit alam ko namang hindi kami mag uusap. Haha pinush ko pa magpa mythical immortal kasi baka mapansin nya na yung dati na laging iniiwan nya sa legend-mythic grading. Nag rank up ng wala sya haha. Even pagbili ng mga limited time edition na skin kahit mahal haha.
Pero hndi ko na rin sya nakikitang online ngayong season.

 

hays. hindi ko naman na sguro sya mahal. Siguro ego ko nalang to kasi feeling ko pabigat ako sakanya noon kasi succesful and financially stable na sya tapos ako that time, hinahanap pa kung para san talaga ako o kung anong career path ang tatahakin ko.

there were times na nasasaktan ako dati pag nag oopen up ako sakanya tapos uunahan nya na ako ng wala syang pera kahit di naman ako humihingi kahit pa 6-7digits yung earnings nya per project nya. Gusto ko lang ng comfort.

Ako yung walang ambag financially kaya ako yung laging sumusunod, umiintindi, nagmamakaawa. Tapos pag gusto ko na umalis, ilolove bomb ako. Pag okay na kami, papamukha nya na naman na mukha akong pera hahahahaha 😭 porket mas matanda sya ng sampung taon lagi nalang syang tama. Pero mahal ko siya. (Minahal) past tense haha.


Parang there’s part of me na nagtatanong parin, “What if ngayon tayo nagkakilala?” Ngayong stable na ako. Ngayong hindi na ako pabigat. Ngayong matibay na ako. 

 

 

 

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