What Women Want That They Don’T Tell You

[theoneandonlymistressmia]

I no longer have patience for certain things, not because Ive become arrogant, but simply because I reached a point in my life where I do not want to waste more time with what displeases me or hurts me. I have no patience for cynicism, excessive criticism and demands of any nature. I lost the will to please those who do not like me, to love those who do not love me and to smile at those who do not want to smile at me. I no longer spend a single minute on those who lie or want to manipulate. I decided not to coexist anymore with pretense, hypocrisy, dishonesty and cheap praise. I do not tolerate selective erudition nor academic arrogance. I do not adjust either to popular gossiping. I hate conflict and comparisons. I believe in a world of opposites and thats why I avoid people with rigid and inflexible personalities. In friendship I dislike the lack of loyalty and betrayal. I do not get along with those who do not know how to give a compliment or a word of encouragement. Exaggerations bore me and I have difficulty accepting those who do not like animals. And on top of everything I have no patience for anyone who does not deserve my patience. _ Meryl Streep quoted it as words she lives by!

Update: originally written by José Micard Teixeira.

 

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[GM_Marty]

theres only few girls who likes a guy and not his pockets.. pretty rare nowadays

[jojo67]

from my experience. i am 47 yr old already. i studied in a very good university. we came from a relatively poor family, i worked hard during my school days while courting cute girls in the university.

I dont agree with the statement na generally gold diggers mga girls. while i was still studying wala akong pera. kaya ko lang magpa jollibee hehe. nililigawan ko was a 8 to 8.5 smart and rich sya. we ended becoming bf/gf sya pa gumagastos and parate ako invite nya sa mga family affairs nila being held in phil plaza o other 5 star hotel o resto. di ako masyado gusto ng kuya and father hehe.

tool ko lang before sa panliligaw ko is kapalan lang ng mukha and lots of time spent with her. effort lang talaga kaso we eventually parted ways and niligawan sya ng friend ko na mayaman and sila naging mag asawa.

i am now i think a successful businessman. i am married to my beautiful wife also. i have a beautiful big hse in one of the posh subd near robinson galleria. di ko na kaya ligawan style dati pera pera na gamit ko rega regalo na kasi i dont have time and cant be seen with the girl in public.

I think younger girls kaya daanin sa ligawang breezy basta presentable and neat ka and madami ka time and load. pero kayang mautakan ang younger women using flashing of wealth basta never be a dick

if older women they use more of their heads rather than heart.

[Deadinside]

I no longer have patience for certain things, not because Ive become arrogant, but simply because I reached a point in my life where I do not want to waste more time with what displeases me or hurts me. I have no patience for cynicism, excessive criticism and demands of any nature. I lost the will to please those who do not like me, to love those who do not love me and to smile at those who do not want to smile at me. I no longer spend a single minute on those who lie or want to manipulate. I decided not to coexist anymore with pretense, hypocrisy, dishonesty and cheap praise. I do not tolerate selective erudition nor academic arrogance. I do not adjust either to popular gossiping. I hate conflict and comparisons. I believe in a world of opposites and thats why I avoid people with rigid and inflexible personalities. In friendship I dislike the lack of loyalty and betrayal. I do not get along with those who do not know how to give a compliment or a word of encouragement. Exaggerations bore me and I have difficulty accepting those who do not like animals. And on top of everything I have no patience for anyone who does not deserve my patience. _ Meryl Streep quoted it as words she lives by!

Update: originally written by José Micard Teixeira.

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theres only few girls who likes a guy and not his pockets.. pretty rare nowadays

Yes, bihera nalang talaga yun mga babae ng ganun sa panahon more of them sobrang practical yun iba Wala na sa lugar.. basta pera goo na agad!

[FleurDeLune]

I no longer have patience for certain things, not because Ive become arrogant, but simply because I reached a point in my life where I do not want to waste more time with what displeases me or hurts me. I have no patience for cynicism, excessive criticism and demands of any nature. I lost the will to please those who do not like me, to love those who do not love me and to smile at those who do not want to smile at me. I no longer spend a single minute on those who lie or want to manipulate. I decided not to coexist anymore with pretense, hypocrisy, dishonesty and cheap praise. I do not tolerate selective erudition nor academic arrogance. I do not adjust either to popular gossiping. I hate conflict and comparisons. I believe in a world of opposites and thats why I avoid people with rigid and inflexible personalities. In friendship I dislike the lack of loyalty and betrayal. I do not get along with those who do not know how to give a compliment or a word of encouragement. Exaggerations bore me and I have difficulty accepting those who do not like animals. And on top of everything I have no patience for anyone who does not deserve my patience. _ Meryl Streep quoted it as words she lives by!

Update: originally written by José Micard Teixeira.

 

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...which is a timely reflection.

Try to search this post on google / yahoo and the search will lead you to "What Women Want That They Don't Tell You", Page 2, Matters of the Heart, ManilaTonight.com.

[Mango Man]

Thanks, ephemeral and Jessie, for the fantastic insights 😀

[jojo67]

a very simple test. time and time madami hot girls na roadblock ng mga mayayaman na older guys but almost always nasisingitan sila ng younger breezy and maybe pogi na girls. so it shows na not always pera habol ng girl. pero it helps a lot to get the girl but to keep her will take a lot more than just money

pogi na guys pala sorry

[FleurDeLune]

But sometimes it turns the table on the "boys". If you know what i mean.

[*Jessie*]

In the concept of money, one's drive really varies depending on the type of girl ur dating. If ur dating someone who could either be a psp, chances are, money is a huge factor for them. This might be a sensitive topic for some of the guys but we are just keeping our feet on the ground.

 

If ur dating some smart girl who works hard and has dignity in making her own finance, she may not be exactly after ur money but ur financial intelligence. It is actually the way u handle money which she will be after.

 

On a personal note, I used to date a guy who was earning only 1/4 of what i was earning. But he is very frugal, no vices, low maintenance and he saves alot! He may not have had a car or his own house then but i know he has a bright future. Fast forward, he now has a car, a small business and has a better life than before. Money is only a manifestation of someone's financial literacy. Even if ur a rich kid and a smart girl sees ur just a dope wasting ur parents' money, she will drop u either way

Edited June 6, 2017 by *Jessie*

[jojo67]

peruviandog

I think the gold digger thing only applies to girls who cant earn for themselves. If the hot girl is very capable of making or earning for themselves and for their family then the money thing is not in the equation. Lalo pa if the girl has simple needs and not materialistic but this is very very hard to find nowadays.

Lalo pa mga 25yo up na. alam na nila na gusto lang nating mga guys e body nila so might as well get something out of it hahaha

[*Jessie*]

i kinda disagree with this. Hot, independent women, in general, dont want to be with broke, loser guys. Gusto nila yung malapit or, better , higher sa level nila financially.Can you blame them ? no. Madame silang options and madalas mas maayos pa yung itsura ng guy na mapera kaysa sa wala, so theyll go with the former.

True. Or at least a guy with good financial values. U can not expect a successful woman to waste time with loser guys. Because successful women don't have a loser mindset. You attract who you are in the relationship. Very few exceptions happen not to follow the same path but do not be a fool to always count on rare exceptions. Work hard to follow the natural law of attraction.

Edited June 18, 2017 by *Jessie*

[DorkVader]

There are always exceptions. I cannot really say for certain what goes on inside a girl's head. I know some real sensible, successful ones who say one thing then do the exact opposites after a while... As far opposite as it gets! I think girls' are influenced more by emotions than men, thus the reason for flip flopping. But hey, I am not complaining. Who wants a girl who's too predictable? That would be too boring. Masarap din yung may konting toyo, adds to the excitement and to a girl's appeal. Huwag lang crazy bitch, siyempre.

[theTONI]

Don’t expect a woman to tell you, “I like you being here,” or, “I want you to leave.”

[Stopasking]

Women just want their men to make them feel important. They want to feel secure. Why would a man cheat on a woman if he was already satisfied with her? And vise Versa.

The real question is, what are we all really after?

[jepjepoy1]

Thank you for this wonderdul and sensible thread. Very helpful. Good job