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Too many sexual partners is okay, basta namimili naman. For example, the girl is obviously pokpokish and not pretty, but he had sex with her pa din. I'll get turned off for sure. Even if I liked him at the onset, I'll be discouraged to pursue it na. Yukky na kse yun. I feel that my reputation will get tainted once patulan ko that kind of guy. Something like that.

 

I hope I got my idea accross na. ;)

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Too many sexual partners is okay, basta namimili naman. For example, the girl is obviously pokpokish and not pretty, but he had sex with her pa din. I'll get turned off for sure. Even if I liked him at the onset, I'll be discouraged to pursue it na. Yukky na kse yun. I feel that my reputation will get tainted once patulan ko that kind of guy. Something like that.

 

I hope I got my idea accross na. ;)

of course naman!

 

it's always nice to get feedback from the gals! bihira kasi yun sumasagot.

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Too many sexual partners is okay, basta namimili naman. For example, the girl is obviously pokpokish and not pretty, but he had sex with her pa din. I'll get turned off for sure. Even if I liked him at the onset, I'll be discouraged to pursue it na. Yukky na kse yun. I feel that my reputation will get tainted once patulan ko that kind of guy. Something like that.

 

I hope I got my idea accross na. ;)

A... parang female version ego.

Male= kpg marami nang naka sex ang babae e hindi na worth it seryosohin

Female= kpg ang QUALITY ng girl na naka sex ng partner e hindi maganda e not worth it...

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Too many sexual partners is okay, basta namimili naman. For example, the girl is obviously pokpokish and not pretty, but he had sex with her pa din. I'll get turned off for sure. Even if I liked him at the onset, I'll be discouraged to pursue it na. Yukky na kse yun. I feel that my reputation will get tainted once patulan ko that kind of guy. Something like that.

 

I hope I got my idea accross na. ;)

 

Gets ko to. It also applies sa sex appeal ng guys. If magaganda mga ex girlfriend mo or de-kalidad, mas madali ma "curious" ang mga girlies sayo that can lead to attraction.

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Hmmm.....

 

The past shouldn't matter, especially in this day and age. Natatawa nga ako at sa panahong ito, may mga lalaki pa ring naghahanap ng babaeng sila ang makakauna. Seriously? Tinatanong ko naman sila, "Ikaw, ilan na ang natikman mo before you settle for that virgin of yours?"

 

Of course it's okay if you end up with a virgin! Aside from the obvious reason na masikip pa, mas maliit rin ang tsansa ng promiscuity on her part. Mas maliit. I'm not saying imposible.

 

So yeah, di na importante kung pang-ilan ka sa buhay ng partner mo. However, minsan may mga bagay na dapat mong isipin rin. Like... if a girl had many BFs in the past, di ba reflection yun ng ugali niya? I mean, di kaya may masama siyang ugali kaya siya hiniwalayan ng ganoon karaming lalaki o kaya siya nakipaghiwalay? I'm not saying lahat ng babaeng nagkaroon ng maraming boyfriend, masama ang ugali. But it's one thing to consider if you're gonna settle down for good, as you're gonna be spending the rest of your life with her.

 

Second, speaking of promiscuity, has she ever had two or more boyfriends at the same time? Men and women sleep around all the time, I know. But if your partner has a "liberated" past, isn't there a chance that she'd keep doing it even when you're together? You could say it's okay --- na ginagawa mo rin naman yun --- but can you really handle it?

 

And this is not just a male thing. Ang mga babae rin puedeng magkaroon ng pagdududa sa partner niya na dating babaero. Ganun talaga, di maiiwasan. But if both of you agree that it's all in the past, that starting today it's just the two of you and no one else, I think it's all gonna work out in the end.

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A... parang female version ego.

Male= kpg marami nang naka sex ang babae e hindi na worth it seryosohin

Female= kpg ang QUALITY ng girl na naka sex ng partner e hindi maganda e not worth it...

parang pag guys = iwas quantity, tapos girls = nakatingin sa quality

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Gets ko to. It also applies sa sex appeal ng guys. If magaganda mga ex girlfriend mo or de-kalidad, mas madali ma "curious" ang mga girlies sayo that can lead to attraction.

oo nga no.

 

should we consider "appeal" under behavior?

di ba may mga di talaga maganda o guwapo pero nadadaan sa personality and they attract more than their share of admirers.

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Hmmm.....

 

The past shouldn't matter, especially in this day and age. Natatawa nga ako at sa panahong ito, may mga lalaki pa ring naghahanap ng babaeng sila ang makakauna. Seriously? Tinatanong ko naman sila, "Ikaw, ilan na ang natikman mo before you settle for that virgin of yours?"

 

Of course it's okay if you end up with a virgin! Aside from the obvious reason na masikip pa, mas maliit rin ang tsansa ng promiscuity on her part. Mas maliit. I'm not saying imposible.

 

it's hard to change our culture, diba? even with the changes, it's still at a slow pace.

 

one of the reasons bakit ko nasimula yun thread, pag babae are they expecting virgins mga guys nila? mas tanggap ata nila na pag lalaki may history.

or is it preferred nila guys na may konting history?

 

 

But if your partner has a "liberated" past, isn't there a chance that she'd keep doing it even when you're together? You could say it's okay --- na ginagawa mo rin naman yun --- but can you really handle it?

 

napaisip ako diyan. paano pag ang liberated part ay kasama drugs? nagkataon lang na madami partners kasi spaced out siya at di niya alam madami na pala siyang lalaki o sumama na rin pala sa babae?

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Before you ask your partner that question, review your past first

 

 

Exactly ...

 

Not really. But if it's more than the fingers can count, you gotta have second thoughts.

 

THIS ... what about you MEN? You f#&k around and "it doesnt MEAN anything" ... Shouldnt we have SECOND thoughts about you?

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For me ... IMPORTANT regarding the person's HEALTH. Not so ... when I prefer someone is SEXperienced, as I am. So, we can DO the HORIZONTAL MAMBO ... ;) :P :D :lol:

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Exactly ...

 

 

THIS ... what about you MEN? You f#&k around and "it doesnt MEAN anything" ... Shouldnt we have SECOND thoughts about you?

 

 

 

What is good for the goose is also good for the gander. Yes... such principle applies both to females and males. You should also have second, third, fourth and maybe, even, a fifth thought about men who are sexually hyperactive, i.e., those whom you called "screwing around."

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Exactly ...

 

 

THIS ... what about you MEN? You f#&k around and "it doesnt MEAN anything" ... Shouldnt we have SECOND thoughts about you?

I find this strange.

 

my question was for everyone. it would be nice to get an opinion or a thought process.

 

if the question is just directed to a specific group, it does not really reveal much.

 

the only thing i can glean from this is that it's unfair that guys can get away with multiple partners while girls may be scrutinized for it.

 

 

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For me ... IMPORTANT regarding the person's HEALTH. Not so ... when I prefer someone is SEXperienced, as I am. So, we can DO the HORIZONTAL MAMBO ... ;) :P :D :lol:

 

then this statement says? health is important? or it's up to the individuals' preference?

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