How Important Is The Sexual History Of Your Partner?

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Is disclosure of your partner/s sexual history a deal breaker? Is this something you consider before

 

hooking up? How much information do you need and how much do you get?

Edited January 7, 2016 by FleurDeLune
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[Ms.Gabby]

For me.. i dont care about the past.. i just want us to last

[Jay Alle]

Past is past.

 

1 important key to a good relationship is 'acceptance'.

 

Once you have decided na siya na talaga gusto mo. You have to accept everything bout her.

[pedroz]

agreed.. you are not part of her past and if you can't accept who she is then time to let her go. sasakit lang puso mo...

[BennyChang]

Acceptance is good but reputation is also important. What if yun gf mo nalaman mo nagpatira pala dati sa buong baranggay basketball team including coach and ball boy?

[contractor]

Yah, it actually depends on how sever and frequent are the encounters

[gabius]

@ topic pwede cguro pero kailangan malalim na ang pag uunawaan nyo sa isat isa.. saka dapat maging mas malawak na ang pag iisip nyo.. and if ever na malaman nyo kung ilan yung naging partner nya dapat cguro wag na pangalanan kasi hindi maiiwasan ang mga insecurities and comparisons..

 

 

Acceptance is good but reputation is also important. What if yun gf mo nalaman mo nagpatira pala dati sa buong baranggay basketball team including coach and ball boy?

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i think sir malaki yung chance na malalaman mo agad kung may reputation sya sa simula pa lang nung nag babalak ka pa lng mangligaw sa kanya.. kasi diba bago tyo manilgaw nag scout/nag research tyo sa mga target natin so malaki ang chance na makakaamoy ka kaagad kung may reputation sya na ganun.. just my two cents worth

[j]

magandang halimbawa yun. kahit medyo extreme siya.

 

sabihin natin alam mo na sa simula. itutuloy mo pa ba?

[j]

also...

 

isnt history usually used to determine patterns or tendencies?

 

 

[bananaman1331]

it depends if my partner is not braging about it

[j]

it depends if my partner is not braging about it

may sense rin ito. mahirap din yun pataasan ng ihi

[Hari ng Spakol]

i'm not interested to know it anymore...

[BB-8]

past determines future as they say. if shes an easy lay, one misunderstanding and shes in the arms of another man. think how you 2 have met and that will detemine how she treats other men also.

[Mr_man]

By learning your partner's past you can then see tendencies, weaknesses and strengths that you can work on or help you decide whether to hit it or pass.

Ignoring such facts is a recipe for trouble later on. If you cannot accept your partner's past, then it would be best to let them be and not get emotionally involved.

 

The most important reason is to protect your health. Philippines is currently the country with the highest H.I.V. infection rate. Remember, people with H.I.V. don't always look sick, most don't even know they have it until several months have passed. Condoms are no guarantee that you are protected.

Be wise and put the ignorance on hold.

[FleurDeLune]

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also...

 

isnt history usually used to determine patterns or tendencies?

 

 

This will earn a varying degree of answers...

 

Generally, the topic is clearly about trust particularly between the two of you or partners. And when we say trust, it's a universal thing. In fact, it applies not only in the context of any romantic relationship but also within a group of people or any service-oriented organization where basically its productivity depends on the basic rule -- honesty.

 

But let's just focus more on the former. Trust is a crucial issue in which each partner has to assure the other partner by telling his/her past especially if it has something to do with sexual involvement regardless of the degree it had been. However, cliché as this may sound different strokes for different folks. Some tend to shrug this off while the rest are so conventional.

Edited January 8, 2016 by FleurDeLune