Falling For A Client - The Other Side Of The Coin.

[phlip24]

On 6/10/2025 at 12:36 PM, unodostresdale said:

Had this happen. Never had to pay for services but we had to part because her lifestyle just wasn't something I can accept for a partner. Sucks. 

How long did it last for bro? When you are not paying anymore iba na expectations...

[Andy chai 2023]

On 8/2/2025 at 1:18 AM, Amour said:

 

Hi. I just wanna share some of my story.. I'm a retired thera/recep from years ago. I earned and learned a lot from this industry. I retired because I fell inlove to my regular client. Why I fell inlove? He was my regular client for years, he treated me like a queen.. can't elaborate much but whatever you may think a queen like, it's like that.. and he was not shy or not even hiding it to anyone. From the guard of the building where the spa was and from the other sister company of the spa. He respected me as a woman, and respected my job as a thera/recep. One day I realized that I am really in love with him but it was not right. Then after weeks of thinking about it, I did'nt go back to work because of that. I only told my boss I'm not coming back to work as thera/recep coz of some reason.. I left my phone with my clients contact numbers and other stuff to the other theras.. After less than a week, some of my regulars went to my unit, they got my address from the other thera to check on me... what's funny was they said the same thing. After less than a month I  decided to leave the building where I live and transferred to another place...

During my time, luckily most of my clients specially my regulars were nice, kind, clean, tall, and good looking. As a woman, it's not hard to fall inlove to those kind of GMs. But because I was a thera and I knew to myself that in reality this job is not decent so I'd rather leave than to continue falling inlove to my client.. 

Theras are theras, clients are clients.. It's normal to fall in love, everyone deserves to love and be loved. Let's just be realistic, cautious, be strong and be prepared, that if we continue to have a love or serious relationship (thera and client), It's very possible that time will come that in a misunderstanding one of you will reproach or bring up the past and then might end up the relationship because of that issue or issues.. And to be honest, for a woman it really hurts, dahil maiisip natin na throughout the relationship di pala tayo tanggap just because.. For those thera and client that are in a strong relationship, well good for both of you 😊

Please don't get me wrong, I may not explained it clearly or maybe I used some words thats not appropriate but I didnt intend to hurt anyones feelings both thera and GMs.

Now, I'm a single mom but I can say that I am successful in the path I chose.

Just a friendly reminder that regardless of whether we make the right or wrong choice, there's always a valuable lessons to be learned ☺️

You’re right, it’s normal for us to fall in love, we’re still human after all. Pero tama ka rin na we have to be realistic, kasi minsan the past can be thrown back at us in the middle of a fight or misunderstanding. Ang sakit isipin, pero totoo.🙈🙈Hearing your story reminded me of mine, and it feels comforting to know na may ibang naka experience din. In the end, we just have to be strong, make the best choice we can, and keep the lessons with us. Saludo ako sau, sis, for being brave and choosing yourself.😘😘

[Amour]

16 hours ago, Andy chai 2023 said:

You’re right, it’s normal for us to fall in love, we’re still human after all. Pero tama ka rin na we have to be realistic, kasi minsan the past can be thrown back at us in the middle of a fight or misunderstanding. Ang sakit isipin, pero totoo.🙈🙈Hearing your story reminded me of mine, and it feels comforting to know na may ibang naka experience din. In the end, we just have to be strong, make the best choice we can, and keep the lessons with us. Saludo ako sau, sis, for being brave and choosing yourself.😘😘

Love makes us stronger and weaker at the same time. We just need to be confident and trust ourselves whatever path we want to choose.

Madaming thera ang depressed dahil sa pagiging thera or because they are in a relationship but they still need to continue being a thera. There are many reasons na hindi lahat maiintindihan. Thank you pa din sa ibang GMs kasi meron naman nag bibigay ng magandang advice to the theras how to handle the situation. 

Maybe it's not good to fall in love to a client but being friends to a client,  sometimes it's okay.. but always be cautious specially to the intention. 

Btw, I have Thera and GM friends until now. We still hang out as friends. 

Edited August 20 by Amour

[Unknown Hunter]

On 6/10/2025 at 12:36 PM, unodostresdale said:

Had this happen. Never had to pay for services but we had to part because her lifestyle just wasn't something I can accept for a partner. Sucks. 

 

On 8/2/2025 at 1:18 AM, Amour said:

 

Hi. I just wanna share some of my story.. I'm a retired thera/recep from years ago. I earned and learned a lot from this industry. I retired because I fell inlove to my regular client. Why I fell inlove? He was my regular client for years, he treated me like a queen.. can't elaborate much but whatever you may think a queen like, it's like that.. and he was not shy or not even hiding it to anyone. From the guard of the building where the spa was and from the other sister company of the spa. He respected me as a woman, and respected my job as a thera/recep. One day I realized that I am really in love with him but it was not right. Then after weeks of thinking about it, I did'nt go back to work because of that. I only told my boss I'm not coming back to work as thera/recep coz of some reason.. I left my phone with my clients contact numbers and other stuff to the other theras.. After less than a week, some of my regulars went to my unit, they got my address from the other thera to check on me... what's funny was they said the same thing. After less than a month I  decided to leave the building where I live and transferred to another place...

During my time, luckily most of my clients specially my regulars were nice, kind, clean, tall, and good looking. As a woman, it's not hard to fall inlove to those kind of GMs. But because I was a thera and I knew to myself that in reality this job is not decent so I'd rather leave than to continue falling inlove to my client.. 

Theras are theras, clients are clients.. It's normal to fall in love, everyone deserves to love and be loved. Let's just be realistic, cautious, be strong and be prepared, that if we continue to have a love or serious relationship (thera and client), It's very possible that time will come that in a misunderstanding one of you will reproach or bring up the past and then might end up the relationship because of that issue or issues.. And to be honest, for a woman it really hurts, dahil maiisip natin na throughout the relationship di pala tayo tanggap just because.. For those thera and client that are in a strong relationship, well good for both of you 😊

Please don't get me wrong, I may not explained it clearly or maybe I used some words thats not appropriate but I didnt intend to hurt anyones feelings both thera and GMs.

Now, I'm a single mom but I can say that I am successful in the path I chose.

Just a friendly reminder that regardless of whether we make the right or wrong choice, there's always a valuable lessons to be learned ☺️

 

20 hours ago, Andy chai 2023 said:

You’re right, it’s normal for us to fall in love, we’re still human after all. Pero tama ka rin na we have to be realistic, kasi minsan the past can be thrown back at us in the middle of a fight or misunderstanding. Ang sakit isipin, pero totoo.🙈🙈Hearing your story reminded me of mine, and it feels comforting to know na may ibang naka experience din. In the end, we just have to be strong, make the best choice we can, and keep the lessons with us. Saludo ako sau, sis, for being brave and choosing yourself.😘😘

 

4 hours ago, Amour said:

Love makes us stronger and weaker at the same time. We just need to be confident and trust ourselves whatever path we want to choose.

Madaming thera ang depressed dahil sa pagiging thera or because they are in a relationship but they still need to continue being a thera. There are many reasons na hindi lahat maiintindihan. Thank you pa din sa ibang GMs kasi meron naman nag bibigay ng magandang advice to the theras how to handle the situation. 

Maybe it's not good to fall in love to a client but being friends to a client,  sometimes it's okay.. but always be cautious specially to the intention. 

Btw, I have Thera and GM friends until now. We still hang out as friends. 

After reading all your stories napapa isip din ako.

I am in Love with my regular thera. Going XXnth time na ko sa kanya. Got her more than anyone here at MTC and outside of MTC. At first it was all pleasure and companionship until one day it changed. Una she always had her walls up, not telling anything about herself at all, not even her age or even her favorite color. Then the day came when she opened up which surprised me. She was clinging to me, told me that she likes me and wished that we met in a different way then hugging me tightly like she was saying goodbye.

She told me how tired she is of her life. Paying off her familys' debts, sending her sibling to school and providing almost everything for them. After hearing that I wanted to help her. Let's say I am in a good position in life and that I can help her settle everything. But I am also afraid what comes next if I do that. I want her dreams to come true, Get her out of the responsibility that was forced on her and live the life she truly deserves.

Falling in love is really hard. I want to be with her every single day of my life but I am also afraid of the changes that can occur while we are together. Heart break is one of the most painful things we can experience in this life.
One of things I'm really afraid of is that after I help her, ang ending ay mapunta lang sya sa iba. Like that one trend "Binuo mo sya pero para sa iba" or "Binuo mo sya pero para pala sya sa ibang tao"

Makes me question myself if I should help her or not? Should I risk it all because I love her? Both choices are painful in a way. Because it might work or it might not. Madaming what ifs na pwede mangyari.

Sorry if makalat ako mag kwento and contradicting myself. I just don't know what to do.

[Amour]

4 minutes ago, Unknown Hunter said:

 

 

 

After reading all your stories napapa isip din ako.

I am in Love with my regular thera. Going XXnth time na ko sa kanya. Got her more than anyone here at MTC and outside of MTC. At first it was all pleasure and companionship until one day it changed. Una she always had her walls up, not telling anything about herself at all, not even her age or even her favorite color. Then the day came when she opened up which surprised me. She was clinging to me, told me that she likes me and wished that we met in a different way then hugging me tightly like she was saying goodbye.

She told me how tired she is of her life. Paying off her familys' debts, sending her sibling to school and providing almost everything for them. After hearing that I wanted to help her. Let's say I am in a good position in life and that I can help her settle everything. But I am also afraid what comes next if I do that. I want her dreams to come true, Get her out of the responsibility that was forced on her and live the life she truly deserves.

Falling in love is really hard. I want to be with her every single day of my life but I am also afraid of the changes that can occur while we are together. Heart break is one of the most painful things we can experience in this life.
One of things I'm really afraid of is that after I help her, ang ending ay mapunta lang sya sa iba. Like that one trend "Binuo mo sya pero para sa iba" or "Binuo mo sya pero para pala sya sa ibang tao"

Makes me question myself if I should help her or not? Should I risk it all because I love her? Both choices are painful in a way. Because it might work or it might not. Madaming what ifs na pwede mangyari.

Sorry if makalat ako mag kwento and contradicting myself. I just don't know what to do.

If you want to help her because you think you're in love with her, then better to help without expecting anything in return. Mas masakit kasi talaga mag mahal lalo na if you're expecting na dapat or sana ganito, ganyan tapos in the end iba.... 

We always have a choice even if in difficult times. Madalas nahihirapan tayo mag isip or mag decide. Madaling sabihin pero mahirap gawin.. We need to pray and ask for help or signs. 

We are not perfect, we all made mistakes and difficult decisions. As much as possible, we should know the consequences before we do whatever we want to. And if we finally made a decision, whatever outcomes good or bad, let's be responsible and don't blame others.

In this industry, sobrang dali o bilis ma in love, pero sobrang hirap mag decide kung ano dapat gawin.. 

Maybe let's just be positive, strong and enjoy what we have now as long as we can and everyone's happy 😊

[Andy chai 2023]

12 hours ago, Amour said:

Love makes us stronger and weaker at the same time. We just need to be confident and trust ourselves whatever path we want to choose.

Madaming thera ang depressed dahil sa pagiging thera or because they are in a relationship but they still need to continue being a thera. There are many reasons na hindi lahat maiintindihan. Thank you pa din sa ibang GMs kasi meron naman nag bibigay ng magandang advice to the theras how to handle the situation. 

Maybe it's not good to fall in love to a client but being friends to a client,  sometimes it's okay.. but always be cautious specially to the intention. 

Btw, I have Thera and GM friends until now. We still hang out as friends. 

Super relate ako sa sinabi mo sis. 🙏 Totoo na love can make us stronger and weaker, kaya importante talaga yung balance at tiwala sa sarili. Hindi madali yung pinagdadaanan ng mga thera, lalo na kung may relationship issues pa, kaya sobrang nakakatulong kapag may GMs at co theras na nagbibigay ng tamang advice. 
Glad to hear that  meron k parin n friends n Gms and theras.💕

[Andy chai 2023]

7 hours ago, Unknown Hunter said:

 

 

 

After reading all your stories napapa isip din ako.

I am in Love with my regular thera. Going XXnth time na ko sa kanya. Got her more than anyone here at MTC and outside of MTC. At first it was all pleasure and companionship until one day it changed. Una she always had her walls up, not telling anything about herself at all, not even her age or even her favorite color. Then the day came when she opened up which surprised me. She was clinging to me, told me that she likes me and wished that we met in a different way then hugging me tightly like she was saying goodbye.

She told me how tired she is of her life. Paying off her familys' debts, sending her sibling to school and providing almost everything for them. After hearing that I wanted to help her. Let's say I am in a good position in life and that I can help her settle everything. But I am also afraid what comes next if I do that. I want her dreams to come true, Get her out of the responsibility that was forced on her and live the life she truly deserves.

Falling in love is really hard. I want to be with her every single day of my life but I am also afraid of the changes that can occur while we are together. Heart break is one of the most painful things we can experience in this life.
One of things I'm really afraid of is that after I help her, ang ending ay mapunta lang sya sa iba. Like that one trend "Binuo mo sya pero para sa iba" or "Binuo mo sya pero para pala sya sa ibang tao"

Makes me question myself if I should help her or not? Should I risk it all because I love her? Both choices are painful in a way. Because it might work or it might not. Madaming what ifs na pwede mangyari.

Sorry if makalat ako mag kwento and contradicting myself. I just don't know what to do.

Thank you for sharing your story. ♥️♥️♥️ Love talaga is never simple, lalo na kapag may halong sacrifices, fears, at uncertainties. Totoo na mahirap mag decide kung susugal ba o hindi, kasi pareho may possible pain. What matters most is that you are aware of your feelings and also her situation

Pero sa ganitong sitwasyon, importante rin na i assess mo kung anong kaya at willing mong ibigay, at kung hanggang saan ka magiging okay regardless ng outcome. Kasi love should not only be about saving someone, but also about respecting their journey and protecting your own heart. ❤️♥️

. 

[Amour]

15 hours ago, Andy chai 2023 said:

Super relate ako sa sinabi mo sis. 🙏 Totoo na love can make us stronger and weaker, kaya importante talaga yung balance at tiwala sa sarili. Hindi madali yung pinagdadaanan ng mga thera, lalo na kung may relationship issues pa, kaya sobrang nakakatulong kapag may GMs at co theras na nagbibigay ng tamang advice. 
Glad to hear that  meron k parin n friends n Gms and theras.💕

 

If both Thera and GM are really in love with each other and wanted to have a serious relationship, Maybe, it's still okay as long as BOTH of you are WILLING to accept the truth, accept each others flaws, make sacrifices, be faithful, loyal and respect each other, etc.. 

 

Sometimes we also need to put boundaries or limitations para di tayo masaktan or mahirapan..

Well depende pa rin naman kasi sa tao yan, kung paano magdala ng relationship. We have our differences.

Yes sis, I still have Thera and GM friends. We hung out for years. Yung ibang Thera friends ko, mga inaanak ko yung mga anak nila, yung iba naman they're like my sisters na so when they reached out ayun tuloy tuloy na..

Yung mga GM friends ko, sila yung hinagilap ako kung kanikanino just to talk to me.. they agreed not to take advantage of me, just pure friendship. 

Until now, we're enjoying being friends, di nagsasawa mag usap o makinig sa isat isa..

Di naman lahat kasama lang sa kama ang gusto 😅 madami pa din ang gentleman at yung iba they only need someone to talk to and who will listen.. 

 

 

 

 

[Lambanog21]

Fell in love with a newbie performer of Eve's Venom before. A club in Timog near GMA7. This was pre-pandemic. Last I saw her she has changed a lot. With boob job and performing like a vet in Lanai.

[SM98]

Love reading all your heartfelt stories…

[Chinoy250]

Damn, the feels on this thread 

[Nano road]

That your crush that is friendly with you doesn't mean that she wants to go into a relationship with you.

That a woman smiles at you or is nice to you doesn't automatically translate to her loving you.

Most women know most men fall for these things, and they have utilized them to destroy gullible men and exploit men for their hard-earned resources. 

A manipulative woman, after sensing that you are interested in her, will want to go with the flow, not necessarily because she loves you, but because she understands that her being nice to you will make you vulnerable for her to use you.

They will lead you on only for you to ask them out, and instead of them to reject you harshly, they will reject you politely, telling you that you can be friends with them.

The reason for this is because they know that rejecting you disrespectfully might result in them losing their manipulative hold on you. 

So they want to keep you close and make sure you have that thing called HOPE, it's through that hope that they build their nest to finish you.

They know that you want them badly, and even if they reject you and are nice to you, they know that you will still have hope that they feel the same way about you and might change their mind if you do more for them.

So they keep throwing bills at you, and you keep chesting it in the hope that if you do more for them, she will change her mind, but the bad news is that it's all a game.

She will never accept you; she's keeping you just to enrich her life. She already has someone she loves, and that's it.

This is why you must never be in a woman's friendzone, and again, this is why you should not fall in love too quickly.

Be wise. Stay Focused!!

[Amour]

16 hours ago, Nano road said:

That your crush that is friendly with you doesn't mean that she wants to go into a relationship with you.

That a woman smiles at you or is nice to you doesn't automatically translate to her loving you.

Most women know most men fall for these things, and they have utilized them to destroy gullible men and exploit men for their hard-earned resources. 

A manipulative woman, after sensing that you are interested in her, will want to go with the flow, not necessarily because she loves you, but because she understands that her being nice to you will make you vulnerable for her to use you.

They will lead you on only for you to ask them out, and instead of them to reject you harshly, they will reject you politely, telling you that you can be friends with them.

The reason for this is because they know that rejecting you disrespectfully might result in them losing their manipulative hold on you. 

So they want to keep you close and make sure you have that thing called HOPE, it's through that hope that they build their nest to finish you.

They know that you want them badly, and even if they reject you and are nice to you, they know that you will still have hope that they feel the same way about you and might change their mind if you do more for them.

So they keep throwing bills at you, and you keep chesting it in the hope that if you do more for them, she will change her mind, but the bad news is that it's all a game.

She will never accept you; she's keeping you just to enrich her life. She already has someone she loves, and that's it.

This is why you must never be in a woman's friendzone, and again, this is why you should not fall in love too quickly.

Be wise. Stay Focused!!

not sure if you or someone you know experienced it, but it's sad to know that.. 

Men should also know when to stop even if you really love the woman, lalo na pag feeling nyo naaabuso na kayo or nasasamantala.. same din sa mga babae..

One sided love is really hard and it's harder when you're expecting something in return that you're not sure if that person can really give it to you.. but since you genuinely love that person, just be happy for her/him at wag mo pagsisihan na minahal mo at binigay o ginawa mo yung kaya mo to make her/him happy. It's your decision, your choice and I'm sure it made you happy too, it's just that it didn't last forever..

Let's also remember that even we gave our all, we still can't force love.. 

Sometimes heartaches and mistakes makes us more wiser and more focused 😉 

Let's all live and love happily and freely 😊

Edited September 15 by Amour

[MRROUGHSEX]

May suswertehing thera na ma-iinlove sa akin one of these days.  Sa kin kasi, I respect their job.  I'm mature about it.  Tapos, walang problema with my family.  I am not that close naman sa kanila as they have their own lives na.  Bunso ako so wala ng inaalagaan.  We can buy our own condo proportionately with the deed in both our names para fair.  Hindi yung sa lalaki lang nakapangalan.  I'm okay for her to continue working as thera to pay for her part, or if she wants to leave and do something else, pwede din.  What she wants I can accommodate.   Napapansin ko kasi pag niloko ng guy si girl, after 5 years of sexing her up for free, palalayasin kasi sa kanya yung place.

Right  now, just still enjoying my freedom.  But I'm also thinking of being emotionally attached after 3 years.  Target ko yan dati pa...enjoy muna with different flavors then settle down.  Time-ingan din kasi kelangan with clients like me.   At least with me, I pay and don't fool theras like many do just to get free.  Check the thread here about how to stop MP addiction and you'll find many writing about finding a girl just for sex so that one does not have to pay.  To them, it's a game to play.  Sad for the girls but true.  

Hindi ako ganun.  I'd rather pay now and love later when I'm ready para fare sa lahat ng girls.  So marami na akong pinalampas kasi hindi pa ako ready.  Mabilis ang turnover ng girls sa industry, yung lang ang downside.   Pabago-bago ng regulars.  Ideally kasi, me regular ako and then gawin kong true GF after 3 years.  

Edited September 15 by MRROUGHSEX