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How To Keep Your Man Faithful, Loyal To Only You


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"Every man has needs; both emotional and physical. When these needs aren't met, men seek to fulfill them however they can. It may be a need for respect, affection, happiness, or intimacy that leads a man to cheat. It could be something that he never even mentions. Luckily, not every woman has to worry about the possibility of cheating in her relationship. Boyfriends and husbands stray when they don't feel fulfilled, so to keep your man faithful you just have to keep his emotional needs in mind."

- Stay affectionate

- Respect him

- Give him space

- Keep him on his toes

- Challenge him

- Take care of yourself

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Ladies, listen to this one advise about keeping your man faithful or loyal.

 

YOU CAN'T.

 

You can be the best woman in the world. You can be the best sex he's ever had. You can make all his dreams and fantasies come true, blow him like there's no tomorrow, perform acrobatics, and always spread your legs but if a man doesn't want to be faithful or loyal, he won't be.

 

You can be the prettiest, sexiest, or be the one always there and he will still stray. You can be his whore, mother, plaything, wife, mistress, girlfriend, or buddy and he would still cheat if he wants to. It's not your fault. It's your fault for picking such a loser but the only way to keep a man from straying is having a man who does not want to stray.

 

No amount of f#&king or loving is going to keep them in line. Only they can keep their tiny heads to themselves.

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The most common excuse (and the lamest actually) I've heard from a man: "Men are just polygamous by nature." It's a cop-out, since they can always choose to be monogamous.

 

A man can only be loyal IF he chooses to use his BRAIN and not his tiny head.

 

Only a man who respects his woman will do everything in his power to not stray from you. This I've heard from a woman: "A man who chooses to be faithful and loyal to his woman will not even TOUCH another woman even if she takes off all her clothes in front of him and spreads her legs wider than the expanse of the Grand Canyon." However, if a man subscribes to the archaic idea and thinking of "If the grain goes near the cock, peck it." Then no matter what you do, he will always find a way and an excuse to be unfaithful.

 

Great sex? What could be greater than a union, not just of bodies, but of mind and your entire being? But, if he views his needs are far greater than that, he will stray. If he equates manhood to the number of women who chase after him or sleep with him, he will stray. If a man thinks of his own selfish needs (in everything) all the time, he will stray. Because a faithful man, a loyal man will think of you, what it will do to your well being first and foremost, be willing to supress his desires, and would want to find out the reasons for any troubles first before even entertaining the idea of cheating.

 

f#&k, you can be vanilla in bed or a freak of a pornstar in performing, but if he wants to cheat, he will cheat still.

 

You can be the role model,running for saint-hood type of person in your treatment of him if he wants to cheat, he will cheat.

 

The truth is, if one (no matter the gender) wants to cheat, he/she will ALWAYS find a reason,a sob story to do so. Don't blame yourself (at least not entirely, it's a two-way street my dears) too much.

 

How to keep a man faithful? There's no way in hell you can do it. You can't help someone who does not want to be helped not by others but by himself.

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The most common excuse (and the lamest actually) I've heard from a man: "Men are just polygamous by nature." It's a cop-out, since they can always choose to be monogamous.

A man can only be loyal IF he chooses to use his BRAIN and not his tiny head.

Only a man who respects his woman will do everything in his power to not stray from you. This I've heard from a woman: "A man who chooses to be faithful and loyal to his woman will not even TOUCH another woman even if she takes off all her clothes in front of him and spreads her legs wider than the expanse of the Grand Canyon." However, if a man subscribes to the archaic idea and thinking of "If the grain goes near the cock, peck it." Then no matter what you do, he will always find a way and an excuse to be unfaithful.

Great sex? What could be greater than a union, not just of bodies, but of mind and your entire being? But, if he views his needs are far greater than that, he will stray. If he equates manhood to the number of women who chase after him or sleep with him, he will stray. If a man thinks of his own selfish needs (in everything) all the time, he will stray. Because a faithful man, a loyal man will think of you, what it will do to your well being first and foremost, be willing to supress his desires, and would want to find out the reasons for any troubles first before even entertaining the idea of cheating.

f#&k, you can be vanilla in bed or a freak of a pornstar in performing, but if he wants to cheat, he will cheat still.

You can be the role model,running for saint-hood type of person in your treatment of him if he wants to cheat, he will cheat.

The truth is, if one (no matter the gender) wants to cheat, he/she will ALWAYS find a reason,a sob story to do so. Don't blame yourself (at least not entirely, it's a two-way street my dears) too much.

How to keep a man faithful? There's no way in hell you can do it. You can't help someone who does not want to be helped not by others but by himself.

well said.

 

and i really love this part "The truth is, if one (no matter the gender) wants to cheat, he/she will ALWAYS find a reason,a sob story to do so. Don't blame yourself (at least not entirely, it's a two-way street my dears) too much."

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well said.

and i really love this part "The truth is, if one (no matter the gender) wants to cheat, he/she will ALWAYS find a reason,a sob story to do so. Don't blame yourself (at least not entirely, it's a two-way street my dears) too much."

thanks!

 

*****

 

anyway, here are other things that i have in mind.

 

you want to keep a man faithful to you? honestly,you can't.

 

they say don't get fat - fine! you work out and all, BUT nature does take its toll. you still get old, your boobs will sag with or without children. what can you do? biologically speaking, your BODY WILL CHANGE.

 

be the BEST f#&king LAY - a wife, a tigress, a mistress, a f#&k buddy, etc. Do everything he wants. REALITY - there will always be someone BETTER than you in bed. It doesn't matter if you've mastered all the badass things in the Kama Sutra, someone may have learned it 100times over and then some.

 

be a good MOTHER - you take care of the children, you make sure their homework is done, feed them,bathe them, etc. You will hear that you DON'T HAVE ENOUGH TIME FOR THEM.

 

be a GOOD LISTENER - don't ask questions too much. let them vent. Either way, it may seem like YOU DON'T CARE or you NAG when you ask.

 

give them ME time without getting paranoid - and you do without questions, Yet he goes home late smelling like cheap aftershave with the smell of a different shampoo on his hair.

 

the REALITIES

 

He says he UNDERSTANDS AND RESPECTS YOU, he will cheat because he will say, I DON'T WANT TO DO THIS TO MY WIFE/GF, I LOVE AND RESPECT HER. So, I'll just find someone okay with the porn movie sex that I want. f#&k ass reality, he doesn't respect women in general.

 

when you get older with a few lines on the face, some will use it as an EXCUSE to wanderbot juat with their eyes but their penises as well.

 

You can be respecting him, BUT if he lacks respect for himself and YOU, rest assured he will wander.

 

IF after doing everything in your power and he still cheats on you (excuses like technology, MTC, temptation), DUMP HIM LIKE A SACK OF POTATOES. There are still those who do not cheat, though rare. Have respect for yourself. Make him feel that the world does not revolve around him, he's not the sun which is the effing center of thia universe.

 

Forgive him in advance for being human prone to committing errors? BS! He should also forgive you and understand in advance that we are not all wired to forgive, that we keep grudges, etc.

 

In short, you wanna keep a man faithful? Find someone who respects you as much as he respects the women in his family. Find someone who sees the your value,your worth beyond sex, a good f#&k, a good lay; someone who sees your value as a HUMAN BEINGworthy of being kept safe from harm and hurt caused by his own actions, words, lustful desires,etc. Look for someone who KNOWS AND ACCEPTS THAT HE IS IMPERFECT, UNDERSTANDS THAT YOU ARE AND CANNOT EVERYTHING HE WANTS YOU TO BE, YET HE DECIDES TO BE FAITHFUL TO YOU. That's the way the world goes.Simple? Not really, because it takes a real man to make a man faithful to his partner.

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