How to continue a conversation with a girl you like on chat or in pers

[Sevenshot]

Just let it flow. In case magustuhan ka rin niya, it will be good kasi you're not pretending.

[black cat]

As for me, I dont like a very inquisitive guy (not unless I already like him). I get hooked if the topic is interesting.. he should share his experience then ask follow up interesting questions (definitely not how are you or do you want a massage? Lol!)

Edited March 3, 2016 by black cat

[Viola]

I agree with Black Cat... please stop asking if you want a massage, breakfast in bed or just plain sex.

 

If you are stumped after the usual small talk, then you are probably not that interesting.

 

Ang daming pwedeng follow up question na mag originate from the usual topic. lets say you ask them about their job, you can ask for details. For example the girl is a call center agent, you can ask which one? so do you find the graveyard shift difficult? Kwento naman about a funny or irritating call you handled? do you get a lot of calls like that? what do you do to relax after a toxic call/day? oh you watching movies pala? what is your favorite movie? do you know that this movie is coming soon? ah do you have plans of watching that movie ba? maybe we could watch it together?

[Spades]

When you meet someone new.. dun pa lang sa initial info... find something familiar... eventually makakita ka nang something na in common na both of you enjoy.... topic could be from anything... point is to build rapport... snap a joke or two.... masaya ang babae pag napapatawa mo sya... pero gauge mo yung personality nang kausap mo para alam mo saan yung limits mo.... if the conversation flows smoothly... then good for you... kaso kung wala talaga don't force it...

 

iwas lang sa sobrang aggressive... kse you will look like too desperate... too held back naman... parang boring naman.... wag masyadong emo at stalker(hi, saan ka ngayon? hi, kumain ka na?... etc)

[pinpoint015]

It depends din kasi dun sa kachat mo. I had a chatmate before na 6 years younger than me, still studying. So ang topic namin, medyo pang teenager. Nakakasabay naman kahit papaano.

[BRAIN FOR HIRE]

Ask questions; let the answers lead to more questions. Do a bit of research on the answers. Take a genuine interest in the answers. Intersperse with humor.

[Angel on Top]

Babasahn ko nlng at iintindihn laht mg sinsabi niya chaka ko mag rereply .

[lone23]

Dapat malawak ang topic

[Sickretwo]

Babasahn ko nlng at iintindihn laht mg sinsabi niya chaka ko mag rereply .

Hahahaha.. Hmmm

[mfm1014]

Try asking mga interest nya, if you have in common it would be a start..

ano sports nya..or anything..

[Solaryan]

i am not sure. Usually I go with flow. If I'm into her, anything new I find out about her, feels like a treasure (that I cherish)...

[theheartdoc]

Depends on what type of person you are courting so your approach differs. Just be intellectual listen carefully to your conversations understand so you would know what to say.

 

Compliment gives plus points

 

Observe subtle hints and cues research on this coz every person has their habits so you should know when they're uncomfortable or at ease

 

Once you could practice this just be yourself and respond appropriately and she will be yours in no time.

[lone23]

Kontrahin mo para humaba ang usapan.

[JFK]

Try talking on things she likes, her interests and not yours.

[blue+george]

tell her that you'd love to spend time with her doing the things that she love to do. whatever it is. whether its 4 hours in a salon, or sunday worship or 12 hours non stop sex whatever. just suck it up and spend time with her. I'm sure your conversation will last. if you can find a common interest is another, that's where you can spend hours and day discussing, maybe you can ask her to have coffee while discussing it further