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How would you know if you really, genuinely love someone?


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When you compromise, when you listen, when you try your best to be a better man.

When you want to make sure you are fulfilling your obligations. When you look after his needs, support his ambition, stay loyal in spite of the heavy storm.

When you make him feel sexy, attractive and desirable even after all these years - the flabs, wrinkles, grey hair, aging. You still find yourself wanting to kiss him.in public.

When his opinion of you matters to you.

When the moment you wake up, you still think of him first thing in the morning.

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Just two points:

 

1. Time will tell. The longer you stay with the individual, the better you will know. There's no particular time limit, but the longer the time frame is, the better is the knowledge.

 

2. Easy come easy go. This is the opposite side of the spectrum of No. 1 above. The faster you forget about the person you separate with, the less love there is. (Hardly perhaps there was any.) The longer it takes to forget him/her, the better you know your love for him/her was true!

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When you compromise, when you listen, when you try your best to be a better man.

When you want to make sure you are fulfilling your obligations. When you look after his needs, support his ambition, stay loyal in spite of the heavy storm.

When you make him feel sexy, attractive and desirable even after all these years - the flabs, wrinkles, grey hair, aging. You still find yourself wanting to kiss him.in public.

When his opinion of you matters to you.

When the moment you wake up, you still think of him first thing in the morning.

 

 

+1 :rolleyes:

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...when she cheated on you twice and you take her back...

 

...when you pay for her hospital bill after her new found lover beat her up and ended up in a miscarriage..

 

...when you really wanted to end things..but still worries that she might end up with some stupid shitheads after...

 

...when you call overseas cops (korean police department) to check if shes fine (phone was dead for 3 days)...

 

...when after all the s@%t things she had done to you..to ruin you as human being...still,you wanted her to be happy...

 

...................but my patience is slowly dying now....when this madness stops.....you will be alone and lonely........

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Parang ganito iyon e. Natutulog kayo na magkatabi, tapos nakaunan siya sa braso mo. Magigising after a while kasi nangingimay na yung braso mo sa bigat ng ulo niya. Pero titiisin mo yung sakit, di mo ikikilos yung bwakananginang braso na parang tinutusok ng nagbabagang mga pako. Kasi magigising siya. At titiisin mo ang sakit at di ka na makakatulog para di maistorbo ang kanyang mahimbing na pagtulog. Kahit na puyat ka nung nakaraang gabi. Kahit na maaga pa ang pasok mo mamaya. Titiisin mo yun. Kasi nga mahal mo siya.

 

Kung di mo siya mahal, kanina mo pa tinulak yang gagang yan. Andami namang unan, braso mo pa ang ginamit :)

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When you think of her every now and then.

 

When you try your best to be a better man.

 

When you really want your family and friends to meet and like her.

 

When you think of her safety.

 

When you really miss her, when you're apart.

 

When you like her to be happy.

 

When you become honest with her

 

When you leave your past vices and focus only to her

 

And most of all when you accepted who she is and whatever her past may be ( you will fight for her)

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Heart palpitations, pimples, loss of sleep, appetite and fireworks aside, these ones topped mine:

 

- I don't feel like dating others

- I'll be more willing to go somewhere or do something I hate

- Even if we do nothing but stare at each other, I won't feel bored

- I'm willing to take the risk of being vulnerable

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If you see yourself with him in the future :)

 

When you think of her every now and then.

When you try your best to be a better man.

When you really want your family and friends to meet and like her.

When you think of her safety.

When you really miss her, when you're apart.

When you like her to be happy.

When you become honest with her

When you leave your past vices and focus only to her

And most of all when you accepted who she is and whatever her past may be ( you will fight for her)

 

Agree ✌✌✌

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You'll know it when you are at a point when you can choose the path of anger and you don't. When you can submit to the greater good of the relationship without feeling degraded. When you can be the best version of yourself freely and without force. All the rest might just be familiarity. And with the passage of time you know it's real only when that familiarity does not breed contempt but acts as a springboard to mutual satisfaction.

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