Titikim ka pa rin ba?

[Droidz1979]

I think it's human nature na hindi tayo marunong makuntento. At natural sa atin na ma-curious or magsawa or maumay. Best example ay yung palipat lipat nang trabaho only to move to another company with the same job but of almost the same payscale. Funny, we just really needed to breathe once in a while.

 

Pero alam mo, sa mga nag-aabroad, common ang ganyan. Sa tingin ko, nangyayari din yun sa mga naiiwan. What I meant is I've seen long distance relationships where the one abroad became closer to his/her partner. Siguro kasi dahil kanya kanya tayong ng reaction sa paglabas ng comfort zone ntin. Kaya ang tendency, mas nakikipacommunicate - skype, ym ym, viber, chaton, kakaotalk (lol) , bbm etc.

 

Well, nakakatuwang di ka nagsasalita ng tapos. Pero base sa statement mo, masasabi ko na at some point, open ka pa rin talaga sa thought na yun. Hindi ka naman nag-iisa.

 

Agree with your work analogy, at times you never really get to appreciate that you already had and only get to find out afterwards in a point of no return circumstance na.

 

Also, its a personal belief of mine that its pointless to have an open-ended outlook at things in life since what is ahead an infinite world of possibilities. As you've earlier raised, looking back at your views a decade or 2 decades ago, it has changed in leaps and bounds so moving forward, its probably bound to change. No point in saying no now and only to break your word after a couple of years based on the ready justification you'll have and depending on the circumstance that you'd be in.

 

You have a good thread down here by the way, to think that the question seem very simply enough.

[*Jessie*]

Hey there, yes, you didn't say that, I just felt like you two are implying me as such. But anyways, it's all good, I just need to get it out there. As far as what your office mate said, well, that's one way of looking at it. Parang salita ng dad ko sa mom ko nung nawitness ko away nila nuon, "Kahit anong mangyari, sa iyo pa din ako umuuwi." We interact with people kasi e, we need to be friendly in order to build our professional network and friends, hindi naman lahat ng tao e pinili maging ermitanyo or ermitanya na ikukulong lang ang mga sarili nila. Sure, may flirting na nagaganap from time to time, lalo na kung towards the opposite sex, pero kung alam naman ang limitations e atska alam mo sa puso mo na may tao ka nang minamahal at nagmamahal sa iyo, e kahit maghubad pa iyan, hindi mo papatusin--unless kung may nararamdaman ka sa kanya, e tutukain mo yang pagkain na nakahain... anjan na e. I think flirting is one way of being friendly din e, pero kung magiging intense na ang flirting, e ibang usapan na yan... para sa akin, trap na un.

 

Lemme put it this way: To me flirting is like fire; it can make you feel nice because it gives you warmth but it can burn and hurt you at the same time. Know your distance to the fire and you'll be fine.

 

 

Hi Vic, that's a good point. I know that only with a moderate amount, it should be fine. Minsan nga lang yung iba, they tend to get more curious how it would be kung aabante pa ng konti. Kaso yung iba hindi na mapigilan hanggang sa nagiging all out na.

[*Jessie*]

Agree with your work analogy, at times you never really get to appreciate that you already had and only get to find out afterwards in a point of no return circumstance na.

 

Also, its a personal belief of mine that its pointless to have an open-ended outlook at things in life since what is ahead an infinite world of possibilities. As you've earlier raised, looking back at your views a decade or 2 decades ago, it has changed in leaps and bounds so moving forward, its probably bound to change. No point in saying no now and only to break your word after a couple of years based on the ready justification you'll have and depending on the circumstance that you'd be in.

 

You have a good thread down here by the way, to think that the question seem very simply enough.

 

That is true. Changing and learning is a lifelong process. Even if we sometimes feel that we are a mediocre, I believe that the state of realizing that you're a mediocre is still considered learning as you are introspecting, you create a standard that distinguish between mediocrity and progress. As life throws us certain events and people in our lives, we get to some crossroads and make decisions every day. Sometimes, we don't realize we're changing, but in other times, when we really burned a lot, we make big decision points in our lives whether in finance, career, health, home and even relationships. Actually sometimes, too, a big decision we made years back will be scrapped and replaced with the exact opposite decision depending on the recent event that caused a huge impact in our lives.

 

Thanks. I really wanted a question for the member to pose their practical answers (what they will really do) supported by their perspectives instead of just presenting their opinions alone. It's good to underestand this pattern in reverse - belief, thoughts processes, attitudes towards this topic, decisions, words, actions and how life answered back to them, how they absorbed what life threw them and start with the cycle again and see if cycle 2 is different from cycle 1.

Edited November 23, 2013 by *Jessie*

[*Jessie*]

Naalala ko dito ung lumang biro ng dati kong boss, "SLN: Sa libog namatay"

 

Hahaha! I heard about it too.

[*Jessie*]

Hi foxxxxyyyyyy,,

 

uy. pwede. haha! get a room!

[OMEGAnun]

“It is much more difficult to judge oneself than to judge others. If you succeed in judging yourself rightly, then you are indeed a man of true wisdom.

 

― Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Little Prince

[*Jessie*]

mahirap iwasan, lalo na kung ikaw ang lalapitan

 

I agree. We all have our weak points.

[*Jessie*]

"It is much more difficult to judge oneself than to judge others. If you succeed in judging yourself rightly, then you are indeed a man of true wisdom.

 

― Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Little Prince

 

One of my favorite books. Thanks jaguar-x for sharing.

I must be slow but of all the quotes, why share this one?

[neville]

I'm a very loyal partner. Before, when my ex cheated on me, I was just wondering why he changed. Now that I know better, whoever my bf or husband-will-be will be warned:

 

I'm loyal, but if you cheat on me, I will return the favor.

[admark]

the correct answer should be -- NO

 

but in reality, especially to those who are adventurous and weak, i think, their answers would be different

[*Jessie*]

I'm a very loyal partner. Before, when my ex cheated on me, I was just wondering why he changed. Now that I know better, whoever my bf or husband-will-be will be warned:

 

I'm loyal, but if you cheat on me, I will return the favor.

 

Now that is scary. Thanks for sharing Neville

 

the correct answer should be -- NO

 

but in reality, especially to those who are adventurous and weak, i think, their answers would be different

[*Jessie*]

pretty girl is my weakness

 

No doubt!

[neville]

Now that is scary. Thanks for sharing Neville

 

That's the intention: warn and scare the guy. But the warning is never empty, that he has to understand. MTC alone is a gold mine of men willing to engage in NSA setups. :-)

 

AFAIK, a man's worst fear in a relationship is the fact that his woman will cheat on him. Double the pain if she cheats because he can't make her happy in bed. Territorial instincts at its insane peak.

Edited November 26, 2013 by neville

[silvervic]

That's the intention: warn and scare the guy. But the warning is never empty, that he has to understand. MTC alone is a gold mine of men willing to engage in NSA setups. :-)

 

AFAIK, a man's worst fear in a relationship is the fact that his woman will cheat on him. Double the pain if she cheats because he can't make her happy in bed. Territorial instincts at its insane peak.

 

I have to +1 on this one. As the adage goes: "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned." I googled and found its complete line: "Heaven has no rage like love to hatred turned, Nor hell a fury like a woman scorned." spoken by Perez in Act 3, Scene 2, The Mourning Bride (1697) by William Congreve (Geek mode: on. Sorry about that. ')

[• Jiraiya-san]

Siguro sa henerasyon ngayon, its better to use your head before putting yourself sa isang alanganing situation. ESPECIALLY IF MAY ASAWA AT ANAK KA NA.

 

Imagine the consequences na pwedeng mangyare IF and ONLY IF nahuli ka ng asawa mo or nakakuha ka ng sakit galing sa mga naka "t00t" mo?

 

I'm sure ayaw mo mawala lahat ng iyan sayo, so if that happens to me, i'd say NO or iiwas nalang ako