Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Ernest Ty]

13 minutes ago, Billy Hope smallest penis said:

Nagpaloko ka pala sa thera brad. Salamat sa pag share.

Bata lang ako 21 years old. Maaga active sa spa. Muntik din ako diyan. Buti meron ako maganda gf. Bawas sa attraction.

Basta isipin natin di seryoso ang sa thera. Panandalian lang. Kasi sila din mismo di naman nagpakantot yan para magka jowa. Kadalasan sa kanila meron din jowa. Ewan ko kung meron tatagal. Baka after 1 or 2 months wala na rin sila jowa dahil sa selosan.

 

alaga ko sya d pa nag thera

[menyeks2]

Big NO

[plug]

On 11/1/2022 at 9:05 PM, dominickcruise said:

I think I am falling for a spa therapist, she really is sweet and i know this is a client - therapist relationship but i cannot help it she is too sweet and hindi mukhang pera (as she has a business while doing the spa thing on the side -- pambayad bills as what she says plus support sa kapatid niyang nag aaral) et us see how this goes, I hope to meet her again this week then we will have coffee really soon

 

Marahil kailangan mong ma evaluate si thera ng husto kung pwede siya sa magiging papel niya sa iyo. Gawin mong jowa, kabit, alaga o parausan pati na kung serious relation better pa rin na ilabas mo siya sa spa. Maiiwasan mong magselos o mag isip ng mga pwedeng mangyari at totoong nangyayari sa loob ng spa kahit na sabihin niyang di niya ginagawa. 

Kung determined kang fit siya sa gusto mo then nasa pagdadala mo na yan para maging faithful siya sa iyo.

Pero dapat determined ka rin na bitawan siya once di mo nagustuhan ang nangyayari. Dagdag pahirap manghinayang sa oras at pera na nawala unless may pera kang patapon.

[Gnem]

Yes why not if she is single and I'm single

[Tosscoin]

21 minutes ago, Gnem said:

Yes why not if she is single and I'm single

naku po.. wag mo na balakin

[notagarnmd]

So, anyone here who has/had a successful and long-lasting relationship with a therapist? Please share your experience 

[Tipreth]

Love cannot exist here.

We only see facets of who they are and not the whole picture. They always have their best foot forward, always smiling, always listening, always making you feel like the most important man in the world. Not saying they're wrong, its just the nature of the job.

I guess that's why so many of us keep coming back to these places because we get to experience the best part of any relationship and only the best part exclusively.

But this is not love, because by definition, love should be all encompassing. How can you love someone you haven't fully met? We don't see them in their low points, we don't see them when they're angry, we don't see them in "real life" situations, we don't see how they act in times of distress; that's where the mettle of love is tested. This is not the place for that, as by design, we will never experience those facets of their personalities.

So call it what you like, lust, longing, need for companionship, whatever suits you. But don't call it love, because you don't even know if the person you love is real.

So snap out of it, you're only fooling yourself with the illusion of being in love

Edited November 12, 2022 by Tipreth
correct sentence

[handsomebob]

8 hours ago, Tipreth said:

Love cannot exist here.

We only see facets of who they are and not the whole picture. They always have their best foot forward, always smiling, always listening, always making you feel like the most important man in the world. Not saying they're wrong, its just the nature of the job.

I guess that's why so many of us keep coming back to these places because we get to experience the best part of any relationship and only the best part exclusively.

But this is not love, because by definition, love should be all encompassing. How can you love someone you haven't fully met? We don't see them in their low points, we don't see them when they're angry, we don't see them in "real life" situations, we don't see how they act in times of distress; that's where the mettle of love is tested. This is not the place for that, as by design, we will never experience those facets of their personalities.

So call it what you like, lust, longing, need for companionship, whatever suits you. But don't call it love, because you don't even know if the person you love is real.

So snap out of it, you're only fooling yourself with the illusion of being in love

wise words bro....if you get to live with them, that's when you really know!

but really when Love hits you, it will hit different even if your mind tells you it is wrong!

Snapping out of it seems easier said than done!

[playitbyear21]

Basta magbagong buhay siya at magtulungan kayo moving forward (hindi lang one-sided). Pero kung thera pa rin siya, it's a big no.

[plug]

On 11/12/2022 at 7:57 PM, notagarnmd said:

So, anyone here who has/had a successful and long-lasting relationship with a therapist? Please share your experience 

Normally ginusto mo si thera for a purpose. Marahil that purpose will dictate kung maging successful o long lasting. Dalawang theras na ang inilabas ko sa spakol both for a different purpose.

The first one lasted a little more than two years and the second got her out before the pandemic so lagpas na kami ng 3 years.

One advantage parang pang balanse sa bisyo so tugma na rin sa purpose. Pwede rin gamitin siyang reference kung papatulan mo ang available na theras o girls sa flesh industry.

And maybe the best is to make her financially independent from you.

[Jejomar000]

Happens alot pero mahirap yannespecially alam mo kalakaran

[helpterms]

kahit pa mapera ka, magpacute ka, magpapogi, isakay mo sa kotse mo. mas gusto pa din ng mga thera yung 'mas kilala silang tunay'

[notagarnmd]

10 hours ago, plug said:

The first one lasted a little more than two years and the second got her out before the pandemic so lagpas na kami ng 3 years.

One advantage parang pang balanse sa bisyo so tugma na rin sa purpose. Pwede rin gamitin siyang reference kung papatulan mo ang available na theras o girls sa flesh industry.

Happy for you bro. I just wondered if such cases exist so I asked here in this thread. I'm just curious - do you mean she's still in the industry and you're still booking theras out there, while you two are in a relationship?

[plug]

11 hours ago, notagarnmd said:

Happy for you bro. I just wondered if such cases exist so I asked here in this thread. I'm just curious - do you mean she's still in the industry and you're still booking theras out there, while you two are in a relationship?

Wala na siya sa industry nang ilabas ko siya a few months before the pandemic. At marahil wala na rin siyang balak bumalik pa sa spakol dahil she's trying hard to be financially stable for her future. Di naman niya ako mapipigilan sa pagpunta ko pa ng spakol, mp and ktv kahit alam niya dahil sa spakol ko siya nakilala. Marahil nasa pagdadala na rin o how we treat each other.

Marahil kaya tumatagal dahil almost two years naging matumal ang relation dahil sa pandemic. So nagbabawi. But it was good to have her during those years dahil trusted and safe siya.

Kaya lang nahawa pa ng covid sa isang member ng family so na confine pa sila sa hospital. And after her first vaccine sa kasabikan marahil nagkita kami and took a hotel pero ayaw kaming tanggapin dahil yung vaccine niya di pa tumatagal ng two weeks.

Still it's good to have her for my purpose.

Edited November 14, 2022 by plug

[notagarnmd]

12 hours ago, plug said:

Wala na siya sa industry nang ilabas ko siya a few months before the pandemic. At marahil wala na rin siyang balak bumalik pa sa spakol dahil she's trying hard to be financially stable for her future. Di naman niya ako mapipigilan sa pagpunta ko pa ng spakol, mp and ktv kahit alam niya dahil sa spakol ko siya nakilala. Marahil nasa pagdadala na rin o how we treat each other.

Still it's good to have her for my purpose.

Ohh I see. So do you already see her as the woman you'll eventually marry and grow old with? Doesn't she find it unfair that she left the industry (at least partially, for you) while you continue to book other theras? What is your purpose in having her then?