Howdy Doody Posted July 6, 2022 Share Posted July 6, 2022 Theras know how to compartmentalize their relationships with all their guest and even with their private lives, such as husband's, boyfriend's or special someone that you may feel you're very special to her. She doesn't discuss what she does in private with any of her relationship. You're totally ignorant of what is going on between her and the others. All you know are the moments and experience you have with her. That's the time you may even fool yourself that you're someone very special to her. And in reality, you're just like the rest of them. Quote Link to comment
Cestut Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 Hello fellow GMs. Gusto ko lang share yung pinagdadaanan ko ngayon. After 7 years ng walang visit dito (MTC) tinry ko mag book ulit. (Haha welcome back to me). So etong thera na ito is sobrang hindi ko alam kung bakit pero after our session, sobrang nag click kami, like bestfriends. Kwentuhan about her life and cheating ex. We shared many smiles and laughs, quality time talaga and sobrang natuwa ako kasi this is the first time na maka kuha ako ng ganun na thera. Then it suddenly hit me na why am I feeling this kind of excitement na gusto ko na siya makasama ulit? Bakit bigla kong naisip na I want her to be a part of my life all of a sudden. Kahit na first time lang namin mag meet? Is this love? Am I in love? Lagi ko siya naiisip sa pag gising ko, bago matulog and everytime I'm driving pinapakinggan ko yung playlist na ginawa ko for her sa Spotify. (Ha ha ha) I keep on imagining myself being with her. So ayun, I always try to communicate with her outside the spa. Pero sobrang bihira na makakuha ng response maybe because she is busy? Or maybe with another GM. Tbh, naisip ko yung risks and consequences and PAIN na pwede ko mafeel pag na-inlove sa isang thera. But for me, love is accepting someone for who they are and hindi mo titingnan ang estado ng buhay niya or kung ano man ang pinag daanan niya, diba? Naisip ko yung everyday may mga clients siya but I believe na kaya kong tanggapin yung pain na yon kasi mahal ko talaga yung tao. I've been with a girl who worked in a GM's Club around QC. And it worked out well until yun nga, nalulon sa bisyo. Money was not a problem. Lagi ko iniisip na mag ttrabaho ako ng mabuti para mawala yung pangalan niya sa listahan. Pero as of now, graduating palang kasi ako kaya takot ako na baka shempre, kaya siya nag thera because she needs money talaga. Until now, I still try to communicate with her. I'm always trying to ask her out for a wholesome date because I'd kick my self If I wouldn't try. Ayaw ko maging "I'm one of those GMs" sa kanya. So fellow GMs, ask ko lang sa inyo, what should I do? Should I still pursue this girl? Is this love? Or I'm just longing for that affection that she gave me. Hope to get a response from you guys cause I'm having sleepless nights thinking about this girl. Quote Link to comment
Ice Lover Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 (edited) 8 minutes ago, Cestut said: Hello fellow GMs. Gusto ko lang share yung pinagdadaanan ko ngayon. After 7 years ng walang visit dito (MTC) tinry ko mag book ulit. (Haha welcome back to me). So etong thera na ito is sobrang hindi ko alam kung bakit pero after our session, sobrang nag click kami, like bestfriends. Kwentuhan about her life and cheating ex. We shared many smiles and laughs, quality time talaga and sobrang natuwa ako kasi this is the first time na maka kuha ako ng ganun na thera. Then it suddenly hit me na why am I feeling this kind of excitement na gusto ko na siya makasama ulit? Bakit bigla kong naisip na I want her to be a part of my life all of a sudden. Kahit na first time lang namin mag meet? Is this love? Am I in love? Lagi ko siya naiisip sa pag gising ko, bago matulog and everytime I'm driving pinapakinggan ko yung playlist na ginawa ko for her sa Spotify. (Ha ha ha) I keep on imagining myself being with her. So ayun, I always try to communicate with her outside the spa. Pero sobrang bihira na makakuha ng response maybe because she is busy? Or maybe with another GM. Tbh, naisip ko yung risks and consequences and PAIN na pwede ko mafeel pag na-inlove sa isang thera. But for me, love is accepting someone for who they are and hindi mo titingnan ang estado ng buhay niya or kung ano man ang pinag daanan niya, diba? Naisip ko yung everyday may mga clients siya but I believe na kaya kong tanggapin yung pain na yon kasi mahal ko talaga yung tao. I've been with a girl who worked in a GM's Club around QC. And it worked out well until yun nga, nalulon sa bisyo. Money was not a problem. Lagi ko iniisip na mag ttrabaho ako ng mabuti para mawala yung pangalan niya sa listahan. Pero as of now, graduating palang kasi ako kaya takot ako na baka shempre, kaya siya nag thera because she needs money talaga. Until now, I still try to communicate with her. I'm always trying to ask her out for a wholesome date because I'd kick my self If I wouldn't try. Ayaw ko maging "I'm one of those GMs" sa kanya. So fellow GMs, ask ko lang sa inyo, what should I do? Should I still pursue this girl? Is this love? Or I'm just longing for that affection that she gave me. Hope to get a response from you guys cause I'm having sleepless nights thinking about this girl. One time mo palang nakuha? Baka nauhaw ka lang sa companionship/intimacy give it time bago ka magpadalos dalos, you're looking way ahead in the future brad. If feel mo may something special kunin mo lang ng kunin yung services nya, pag di ka nagsawa or di nagbago feelings mo tsaka mo i pursue sabe mo nga alam mo naman yung consequences. Goodluck Edited July 7, 2022 by Ice Lover 1 Quote Link to comment
Ice Lover Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 One thing pa pala try to read some FR's para dun sa thera na u like. If parehas ng experience mo yung mga nag FR's sa kanya most likely ganun lang talaga sya ka-GFE sa mga guest nya. Sorry to burst your bubble brad im just saving you from tons of headaches/heartaches. LOL. HTH Quote Link to comment
handsomebob Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 @Cestut kung graduating ka pa lang bro, save yourself the heartache and learn to separate the LOVE from the transaction na ginagawa niyo (i am sure you paid for her services, di ba??) ikaw lang kawawa sa huli, I do believe there are some theras talaga na hindi mukhang pera but 98% of them are and that is just the reality. my advise is work on yourself, get fit, get your money, work on yourself whatever it may be...then, I am sure you will attract the girl you desire in the end... I learned this too late na kasi... pwede mo pa naman siya kunin pero wag ka magka emotion, talo ka sa huli bro.... Quote Link to comment
takasu Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 learned a hard lesson sa ganito , yung hindi naman mutual yung nararamdam niyo. sobrang thankful ko finally naka move na ko sa kanya 😞 Quote Link to comment
Cestut Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 36 minutes ago, Ice Lover said: One time mo palang nakuha? Baka nauhaw ka lang sa companionship/intimacy give it time bago ka magpadalos dalos, you're looking way ahead in the future brad. If feel mo may something special kunin mo lang ng kunin yung services nya, pag di ka nagsawa or di nagbago feelings mo tsaka mo i pursue sabe mo nga alam mo naman yung consequences. Goodluck Thank you sir. Tama nga siguro na nauhaw lang siguro ako. Maybe spend more time/sessions and we'll see how it goes Quote Link to comment
Cestut Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 4 minutes ago, handsomebob said: @Cestut kung graduating ka pa lang bro, save yourself the heartache and learn to separate the LOVE from the transaction na ginagawa niyo (i am sure you paid for her services, di ba??) ikaw lang kawawa sa huli, I do believe there are some theras talaga na hindi mukhang pera but 98% of them are and that is just the reality. my advise is work on yourself, get fit, get your money, work on yourself whatever it may be...then, I am sure you will attract the girl you desire in the end... I learned this too late na kasi... pwede mo pa naman siya kunin pero wag ka magka emotion, talo ka sa huli bro.... Thank you for this sir. Will do work on myself and be better. As a professional palamunin siguro this is not the right time. Haha! Quote Link to comment
Cestut Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 Back reading really helped a lot. Siguro nga falling in love with a thera is a big challenge. Mentally, emotionally and financially. Hope to read more experiences mga GMs Quote Link to comment
handsomebob Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 4 minutes ago, Cestut said: Thank you for this sir. Will do work on myself and be better. As a professional palamunin siguro this is not the right time. Haha! there will always be someone better than you, yan palagi mindset ko when dealing with a thera, pwede mo naman enjoy company nila and you can gauge naman kung talagang gusto ka niya......there are signs (like hindi siya nagdedemand ng pera sayo or hindi na nag presyo, she gives you her time wholeheartedly pag inaaya mo siya lumabas, she will be the one to text you first good am and good night) when you find a job and you can take the pain (asses mo sarili mo) then maybe you can dive into this head first! I'm in my 40s na bro so I knew the ropes and madaming thera na ako naka fling, naging GF, naging tropa etc...hahaha 1 Quote Link to comment
Ice Lover Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 7 minutes ago, Cestut said: Back reading really helped a lot. Siguro nga falling in love with a thera is a big challenge. Mentally, emotionally and financially. Hope to read more experiences mga GMs Oo malaking tulong tong thread if feeling mo nahuhulog ka na sa thera backread ka dito para masampal ka ng katotohanan. Hahahaha. Oo nga nasabe mo pala graduating ka palang. My advice is dont pursue love muna, dont chase women, chase moolah. Biggest challenge when falling for a thera is kung pano papatunayan na genuine yung feelings nya sayo kung madami kayo na same exp sa kanya, kaya kelangan mailabas mo talaga sya sa industry na to and if financially di kaya wag na ipilit baka parehas lang masira buhay nyo, just enjoy the moments na lang. Quote Link to comment
tonyboy2 Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 25 minutes ago, Cestut said: Back reading really helped a lot. Siguro nga falling in love with a thera is a big challenge. Mentally, emotionally and financially. Hope to read more experiences mga GMs My experience in life is TO BE THE RIGHT GUY, before falling in love. This would lessen the challenges and probably over come them easily. I believe, The RIGHT GUY is mentally, emotionally, and financially prepared to fall in love with a thera. Graduate first, bro. Try to earn your keep, meet more people and learn from your experiences. Quote Link to comment
Lewis Wilson Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 Don't look for love sa mga spas and mps. You are in a wrong place. Quote Link to comment
Santiagowalker Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 21 hours ago, K0RN - RETIR3D said: Ramdam kita Idol. Ganyan din ako dati. Hehe Hahaha I learned na idol past few months ganun gawain ko haha iba Kasi pag naexp mo yung 20/10 service haha at yung chemistry pag kasama mo siya, kaya wag na wag mafall make them fall nalang Sayo hehe Quote Link to comment
Cestut Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 6 hours ago, handsomebob said: there will always be someone better than you, yan palagi mindset ko when dealing with a thera, pwede mo naman enjoy company nila and you can gauge naman kung talagang gusto ka niya......there are signs (like hindi siya nagdedemand ng pera sayo or hindi na nag presyo, she gives you her time wholeheartedly pag inaaya mo siya lumabas, she will be the one to text you first good am and good night) when you find a job and you can take the pain (asses mo sarili mo) then maybe you can dive into this head first! I'm in my 40s na bro so I knew the ropes and madaming thera na ako naka fling, naging GF, naging tropa etc...hahaha Tama ka bro, we're all replaceable ika nga. I'll keep that in mind bro. Thank you for this Quote Link to comment
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