Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Abdula]

Once we are falling to each other, we go out elsewhere, but i decided not to pursue into it coz I’m married, ouch sorry i didn’t mean to hurt her… peace!

[Kingkongphils]

Kung mahal mo nmn talaga e d Go lng ng Go. mararamdaman mo nmn kung mahal ka din. Basta kaya mo tanggapin. Kwento nga ng thera ko, ung isang handler na ngyn. Ung G tinyaga ung thera. Well d mo masabi kung mahal nga nya ung thera o okey na sa kanya ung LK paminsan minsa. Pero nung nag pandemic nauso ung outcall, e handler na ngyn ung 2. mantakin mo napaka swerte nmn ni mokong. ngyn may free taste and first taste na si mokong.

 

[Centurion328]

Interesting discussion here. Maganda to pag usapan over bottles of beer, hahahaha!

Muntik ng mangyari sa akin to but I controlled myself. It was not as easy as saying this as I struggled getting over her. Ang hirap pero ginamit ko utak ko. There are times na pinagjajakolan ko yung mga lugar sa bahay kung saan kami may session dati. Binata ako so I can do whatever I want sa bahay. I remember naka pekpek short sya preparing our dinner tapos ibaba ko yun and pasok right there and then. Or sa sala nag tumigas, pauupuin ko sya on my tool, hahaha!

To cut the story short, nagkamabutihan kami ni thera and sa bahay ko na nag-iistay pag day off nya. At some point, she is already hinting to level up our "relationship" by introducing me to her family after nya pagbakasyon ng probinsya.

I understood the signal. I did not agree to meet her family kasi alam ko na ano implication nun. Nanlamig na sya pagkatapos nun.

My reason? I dismissed it na baka libog lang ang attachment ko sa kanya. I also thought of long-term. I am aware that after a while, mawawala na ang libog and duon na lalabas kung compatible ba talaga kami or mahal ba talaga namin ang isat isa? Hindi ako sigurado. Masyado ring kumplikado na mga kaibigan ko kinakantot sya dati tapos magiging misis or partner ko. Also, the nagging question, pano pag nawalan ako ng pera? Will she still stay with me? 

It turns out na pwede pala sya wife material. Naghahanap na pala talaga ng paglalagyan nya ng tahimik. After us, bumalik ulit sya sa scene and less than a year, nakahanap ng seryoso (How did I know? Kasi ayaw nya na ng contact sa akin kasi meron na daw syang sineseryoso). Then nawala at nagsama na sila. Now, meron na silang dalawang anak and I think they are still together. Mukhang dedicated kasi sya na pumutol sa communication namin kasi may pamilya na daw sya.

Could have been me. Pero mahirap talaga pag galing sa ganitong industriya ang girl. I suppose for both parties kasi thera tingin din sa atin is maraming babae. I played safe. Naka get over na ako, pero nanghihinayang ako. 

 

P.S. hindi ko na pinagjajakolan yung mga lugar tornakan namin sa bahay. 

 

 

 

[cutiechavez]

18 hours ago, Centurion328 said:

Interesting discussion here. Maganda to pag usapan over bottles of beer, hahahaha!

Muntik ng mangyari sa akin to but I controlled myself. It was not as easy as saying this as I struggled getting over her. Ang hirap pero ginamit ko utak ko. There are times na pinagjajakolan ko yung mga lugar sa bahay kung saan kami may session dati. Binata ako so I can do whatever I want sa bahay. I remember naka pekpek short sya preparing our dinner tapos ibaba ko yun and pasok right there and then. Or sa sala nag tumigas, pauupuin ko sya on my tool, hahaha!

To cut the story short, nagkamabutihan kami ni thera and sa bahay ko na nag-iistay pag day off nya. At some point, she is already hinting to level up our "relationship" by introducing me to her family after nya pagbakasyon ng probinsya.

I understood the signal. I did not agree to meet her family kasi alam ko na ano implication nun. Nanlamig na sya pagkatapos nun.

My reason? I dismissed it na baka libog lang ang attachment ko sa kanya. I also thought of long-term. I am aware that after a while, mawawala na ang libog and duon na lalabas kung compatible ba talaga kami or mahal ba talaga namin ang isat isa? Hindi ako sigurado. Masyado ring kumplikado na mga kaibigan ko kinakantot sya dati tapos magiging misis or partner ko. Also, the nagging question, pano pag nawalan ako ng pera? Will she still stay with me? 

It turns out na pwede pala sya wife material. Naghahanap na pala talaga ng paglalagyan nya ng tahimik. After us, bumalik ulit sya sa scene and less than a year, nakahanap ng seryoso (How did I know? Kasi ayaw nya na ng contact sa akin kasi meron na daw syang sineseryoso). Then nawala at nagsama na sila. Now, meron na silang dalawang anak and I think they are still together. Mukhang dedicated kasi sya na pumutol sa communication namin kasi may pamilya na daw sya.

Could have been me. Pero mahirap talaga pag galing sa ganitong industriya ang girl. I suppose for both parties kasi thera tingin din sa atin is maraming babae. I played safe. Naka get over na ako, pero nanghihinayang ako. 

 

P.S. hindi ko na pinagjajakolan yung mga lugar tornakan namin sa bahay. 

nice story, salute.

 

 

 

[Globalsin]

Difficult to maintain and complicated 

[jasonvoorhees13]

If you can get over the thought na marami na syang kasex bukod sau i guess wla naman kaso, if you would marry someone and have her as a housewife mag bibigay ka dn naman ng financial support regardless of the industry they came from... I had nice theras in the past na kahit hnd super satisfied sa sex bawi naman sa small talks about their life even after a few days na kunuha mo cla,.. Just be nice and not overly into sex and you'll get to know them in real life outside of their chosen industry.... 👌Peace

[royflirty]

ok rin experience, malambing and game sa kahit anong out of town

[CHLE]

knya knya trip po yan... bakit naman ako halos lahat naging bf ko naging client ko..

 

its me the legendary teacher christine... - my second account di ko ma open old ko

[Zhu Ger Liang]

haha ako nga diko malilimutan ang isang thera wayback 2018 sa stargate spa her alias begins letter "O" last chat ko viber 2 years ago na, I dont know ano nangyari na sakanya.

[plug]

56 minutes ago, CHLE said:

knya knya trip po yan... bakit naman ako halos lahat naging bf ko naging client ko..

 

its me the legendary teacher christine... - my second account di ko ma open old ko

E bakit ako ibinagsak mo sa isang subject.

[Centurion328]

6 hours ago, SnoozySnoozy said:

I don't think merong client na pupuntang mtc spa looking for love. And vise-versa, ang theras pumasok yan dito, to work obviously, not looking for a partner.

But that doesn't mean hindi na pwedeng mangyari ito. There will come a time na you'll really hit it off with someone, and it will be really difficult not to acknowledge the chemistry. It will be logical to think that this isn't "real" because of the circumstances around you, in this "industry". But there really is no one who could tell you that what feel isn't love. Love doesn't only happen on a set of rules. 

There will be times that it will be really hard to keep your feelings at bay. I'm not gonna say do it or don't do it. But if it does happen, and you fall in love... Don't have any regrets.❤️

 

Nailed it and nicely said. 

Yes, its really hard not to acknowledge the chemistry and love does not happen on a set of rules and it could happen in circumstances like this.

[Anonymous]

in-love sa thera tapos may asawa at anak ka, you have to choose din kasi kawawa yung thera, degrading na nga yung trabaho tapos kabit pa! 🙄 tapos maka asta sa MTC in-love na in love (kuno)

[tonyboy2]

Tropahin muna... then, maybe... jowahin.

Love is a very complicated thing.

Falling for a thera, as a Gentleman, must be carried through as a Gentleman. RESPECT would be the operative word.

[Amancio O]

Thanks bros for ur insights, I’m still a work in progress, but I’m moving forward. Most of our lovely theras r here for the money, ika nga pera pera lang. 1 hour being with them, they can earn 1k or 2k even up to 6k.

[Amancio O]

Another thing I’ve learned is not to fall in love with them. Another, they r just waiting for someone to devour/ tempt, entice several gentlemen to get their services using this platform. Remember 1k up to 6k for 1 hour work. After 1 hour we r back to reality, then repeat  cycle.