Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Botajun]

If you fall in, leave that opportunity then move to a new style likewise I will do the same. 

[Jigzaw2021]

It's best to treat the engagement between you and the thera just like a business 

[BRAIN FOR HIRE]

9 hours ago, Jigzaw2021 said:

It's best to treat the engagement between you and the thera just like a business 

Well It is her business. Shes selling sex, and maybe some GFE or PSE, and fantasy. It is a commercial transaction, but humans throw all sorts of things into the brew that dont belong in the sweaty broth of paid intimacy. Because people are prone to mistake one thing for another. Smoke for steam, desperation for consent, love for lust, and a whore for a Queen. 

[handsomebob]

as long as you have EMOTIONAL CONTROL and leave your brain out the window when you are with the SPA THERAPIST or ATTENDANT then you should have no problem separating the lust from the LOVE....

but then again, when we lack something, say companionship and dun natin nakita sa thera (maalaga siya, always texts u kahit di kayu magkasama, good am, good night etc..) you will feel attached but then again, HUMANS are complex beings..

I try to leave my emotions out the window NOW...before I easily prey victim to them...I turned my life around!!!

[rosuvastatin]

Ganda ng mga insights dito

[wiperwan]

may success story nmn kya? 

[BRAIN FOR HIRE]

On 3/25/2022 at 2:20 PM, wiperwan said:

may success story nmn kya? 

There are actually many but the failures out number them 

[Eugene8888]

been there bro na-inlove na din ako sa isang therapist na na book ko online via facebook, nagandahan ako sa kanya sa picture nya kaya nagbook ako agad pero nung nakita ko sya sa personal sobrang ganda pala nya pagpasok pa lang nya sa room natulala agad ako. "Sya ba yung na-book ko?" yun ang nasa isip ko nun 😄 As in hindi ko inexpect na mas maganda pala sya sa personal. Dalawang beses ko rin syang inavail then pabiro kong tinanong sa kanya if pwede ko ba syang maging girlfriend (pero sa deep inside seryoso talaga ako), hindi lang sya kumibo 😅. So ayun after a week, a month di ko na makita yung picture nya sa FB sabi ng handler nya umuwi na raw sya sa province nila. Nalaman ko nalang na may asawa't anak na pala sya 😥 pero hindi pa rin nawala feelings ko sa kanya. Matagal din bago ako naka move on. Hanggang ngayon inistalk ko pa rin FB nya.

[KID FIGHTER]

Falling for a thera is much easier for a mature, secure, and financially-capable person. Like, kung maanakan mo si thera. Tapos kaya mo naman mag-iwan sa kanya (at sa baby nya) ng around or at least 15 million pesos, mas madali ma fall. Especially if na develop kayo after several sessions. Easier to strengthen the relationship. Maging loyal ka lang kay thera, wag ka na kumuha ng iba. For sure, 100%, magiging loyal din si thera sayo. Give and take lang yun. 

 

[KID FIGHTER]

Like I said above, I take all theras with 100% respect. Just like any other girl. Mas hanga pa nga ko sa thera kasi nag sacrifice sila for their family. Unlike yung ibang girl na nagkipag sex ng libre kahit sino-sino. At least si thera, alam niya na it is for her family.

Halos lahat ng GM-thera relationship na nasira, usually 2 lang dahilan. 1) Nambabae pa rin si GM kahit magkasama na sila ni thera. So umalis si thera at iniwan si GM. 2) Walang pera si GM. Or kakarampot ang pera. So bumalik na lang si thera sa spa. 

I think that is quite a familiar story. Tagalog para siguradong maintindihan ng lahat. 

Gumaling na nga din Tagalog ko hehehe. Unlike 2 years ago.

[tinylurker]

It's been a roller coaster ride, pero tuloy lang.

[Christian.Grey]

Don't fall hard 

[KID FIGHTER]

But sometimes you begin to doubt, right? Why would you fall for a thera if there's a doctor or a lawyer -- pretty, sexy, has some money, with great family, does not even care about your money, who also studied in USA just like you -- who is willing to welcome you to her family and friends just as you are unconditionally? Isn't it great? Of course, you can't go back to your favorite spa or MP anymore.

Or would you rather still fall for a thera while also getting other theras on the sideline? Isn't it more complicated? Will the thera not require you to be 100% fully loyal? Of course, she should! She must! 

So what's your dilemma now?

[GeorgeFranco]

For me, it's impossible. So many others out there.

[BRAIN FOR HIRE]

Money and livelihood are the basic challenge. IMO this is the lowest level since if the feelings are genuine, you adjust and make do. 

Personality and transitioning to “normalcy” are the advanced challenges. This is the meatier portion of biting off what you can actually chew. Many shall flounder on these shoals simply because you dont know each other until you finally live together and experience the farts and all. And knowing can lead to familiarity and that breeds gremlins if not contempt. 

Actually growing old together and not splitting up are the final and ultimate challenges. Though not exclusive to these relationships, there are many added wrinkles to get to the finish line.