Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Hassan Jamaal]

Yes Sir! Its best to set a stop loss. Especially since most of the relationships between the GM and Thera are based on how much the GM can offer.

 

Also for those who are willing to play the fools game, my advice to you is have another. Most Theras are going to have multiple guys in their life. The regulars, the fubu, the true love etc. If you know this it will lessen your chance of feeling devastated when things go sour. And the other can comfort you when things go sour

 

Tru dat. From experience had a relationship with an ex-MPA turned student. Unbeknownst to myself, she was spinning plates and monkey branching and eventually let go of my branch when she got a good hold on another.

 

Fell bad, devastated. Should have found this piece of advice earlier.

[Nacht Faust]

if a prostitute becomes your girlfriend, are you gonna introduce her to your relatives? they're gonna lose respect for you

 

Depende sa pamilya mo at kamag anak. Basta tanggap nila for having a good heart. Di tulad ng iba jan parang pineperahan lang lalo na kung mayaman kayo.

[Iceman7]

 

Tru dat. From experience had a relationship with an ex-MPA turned student. Unbeknownst to myself, she was spinning plates and monkey branching and eventually let go of my branch when she got a good hold on another.

 

Fell bad, devastated. Should have found this piece of advice earlier.

Sorry to hear about that bro, time will heal wounds and if you want to heal faster best find another to get your mind off her.

 

And just learn from the past so it will never again

Edited March 20, 2021 by Iceman7

[FF]

I find amusing really... What the duck are you doing in this board any way ? Just to fck girls and thinking you are the king of the world ? In the first place it's disgusting if you have to pay if you are so good then what the fck are you doing here ?

 

These girls are human too who gave you the right to judge them and the guys who fall in love with them

 

You are an idiot if you don't even converse with one or probably a robot

 

Sundot kalimot style this is disgusting because you have to pay just to get laid

amigo hellmarch ... this guy ed atwan and his twin sirjojo50 have been trolling all over mtc.

 

the best revenge (from a sensible MTC member:)

 

May option ho kayo na iignore yung mga troll. Nasa settings lang ho ng profile niyo. Hindi niyo na makikita mga posts ng kinaiinisan niyo, masaya pa ang visit niyo sa MTC.

Edited March 23, 2021 by FF

[Psari19]

Isa lang natutunan ko na wag mag stick to one sa Thera haha

[AelfricDrowne]

In this industry, mahirap na. Tried it before pero di Lang meant to be. Mahirap magtiwala for both sides. Reading all the FRs, the way na mag message sila for client calls. To each their own naman. Not for me lang.

Edited March 30, 2021 by AelfricDrowne

[chessboxin]

There are sucess stories na exceptions but therapists are like angels. They keep you company and comfort you in your darkest times. But still, they won't be around forever. You still have to move on and find a soulmate who loves you for who you are, not what you can give.

 

I have a long time friend who is a therapist. How long? Longer than most relationships. Whenever I am single, we go out and meet. We have fun like friends do. We talk about our lives, our happiness and our problems. When I get into a serious relationship I tell her that, but I also tell her that I am her friend and she can always contact me when she needs company or help.

 

I think if you can develop some semblance of long term sincere friendship with a therapist, you are blessed already. Not many GMs have those.

 

You don't court all girls you fall in love with. Sometimes circumstances just force you to be friends, and thats ok. I fell in love with many girls before, and now we're still friends despite us having our own lives and relationships. On the other hand, my past girlfriends, we're all not talking anymore.

[DNA_Helix]

I am a new member of MTC, I would like to believe that I am a novice. It was probably due to the mental health or boredome issue as a result of pandemic that led me to this site. As I explore the site, there are a lot of forums like this one that provided leanings and good insights, as well at some point entertaining. Some of the posts/comments are scathing though.

 

IMHO, I do not see any wrong for a GM to fall in love for a Thera and vice versa. They have all the rights to their feelings. As long as they fell in love for the right reasons and that it is really a true love then all the best to them. At the end of the day, they are also humans like us with feelings and emotions. As for the Theras, based on my limited knowledge, they were driven to this profession due to poverty, the need to augment family income, incest, victim of rape, teenage pregnancy etc with only a very few them really wanted or enjoy the work. Sorry I am already digressing but my point is, we do not have the rights to judge them.

 

For the GMs and Theras who eventually got married congratulations! It is truly admirable!

[Jasper1801]

I fell for my therapist too hahaha. The best kasi mag alaga mga thera

[Toushiro]

This is why I don't go back sa iisang thera haha. Mahirap ma-attach kasi para sakanila its part of their work na maging malambing sa mga gm

[PROJECTCADMUS]

invest on memories not on heartache

Edited April 3, 2021 by PROJECTCADMUS

[golpidegolat]

I don't mind falling in love with a therapist basta mutual kami. Hindi ko rin siya patitigilin sa trabaho, so as long as she should always put "our" safety in mind sa work niya, so to speak. Alam naman natin kung ano yun.

 

Ako ang pumasok sa buhay niya during the time that she's a therapist, wala ako karapatan husgahan siya let alone paalisin siya sa work na 'yun. But if it is okay with her leaving her work at financially stable ako, mas okay.

[Hellspawn_r]

Talk about being persistently annoying!!!! starving for attention!

someone who falls in love with a prostitute, has very LOW standards

 

 

"let he who has not sinned cast the first stone."...Judging people by whatever cards they were dealt with in life is not fair. yes there may be a couple who does it for fun but for most, they do it because of an important need. They are people too.

[infrasound]

Talk about being persistently annoying!!!! starving for attention!

 

 

"let he who has not sinned cast the first stone."...Judging people by whatever cards they were dealt with in life is not fair. yes there may be a couple who does it for fun but for most, they do it because of an important need. They are people too.

 

Don't feed the troll.

[Desensitize]

Soon youll be listening to marmar oso’s ruthless song, trust me