Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[will robie]

I usually decline such invitations but if I do get invited it's usually just dinner, coffee or just chit chat but I make sure to cover her travel expenses and such. Safer this way.

I decline spa calls let alone coffee calls. However, I invited two regular therapists to dinner but to a place nearby the spa after the session.

 

The gullibility of a spa customer is proportional to his dick's necessity for the therapist. I am saying this with all due respect to the decent therapists. Decent meaning they are not hustlers or are out to pull a fast one on you.

Edited September 18, 2019 by will robie

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

When you meet a thera for the first time and she keeps yapping about her burdens in life, it's a danger sign. If she hints to you about meeting you outside of work then common sense will dictate you need to be extra cynical of her motives.

 

Red Flag na sa akin yan. So far, less than 5 Theras yung nameet ko na ganyan.

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

I usually decline such invitations but if I do get invited it's usually just dinner, coffee or just chit chat but I make sure to cover her travel expenses and such. Safer this way.

 

Buti nga sayo may invites. Hehehe. Never reached that far. Panay sa Loob lang kami ng Spa palagi. Hehe.

[King Inaño]

Yup because the only winners in this game are the boy-toys or true loves. Because they get sex for free and receive an allowance for their Thera GF

I agree with you bro. I've seen it with my own very eyes. They will make all the effort to keep their trulababels to stay.

[pearsonspectrelitt]

I actually never really thought of it this way but this really made sense. It holds true with the opposite sex. Minsan may mga babae dn na sex lng ang tingin nila and thats the only way they can express their love. Kaya may mga angelu de leon, kris aquinos, dn dyn. We cant say na malandi sila its just that sex is their only way to express their love.

Tama ka jan brada, kaya enjoy lang pag nagkaroon ng thera loves, wag masyado magiinvest at puro libog lang ang iinvest kc madali rin naman maubos yun lalo na kung ilang putok sa isang araw gagawin nyo

 

Pag inaaya ako ng thera lumabas, game lang, kantot kung sa kantot, pero pag nanghihingi na ng pera, nagbibigay din naman ako pero maliit lang, yung tipong pangfacial or pangrelax ng hair, mga ganun lang, more than that iniiwan ko na, so in a sense parang binayaran ko lang din yung mga libreng sex na nakuha ko, but of course medyo unlimited sex nakukuha ko sa ganito

 

pero pag di ko type ang thera at sa tingin ko di rin naman ako malilibugan ng todo, i simply decline, sayang lang oras namin

 

sayang lang talaga yung 2 spa chains na sabay naraid, dun ako maraming nakukuhang theras na madaling ma”fall” ang libog ko

[plug]

How would you know ba if a thera likes a gm?

Most likely si thera ang dumidiskarte or she tries to prepare and convince you to like her. Isine-set up ka may be the term.

Subukan mong huwag magbigay ng tip pero magpaalam ka ng maayos. She might even offer her number or magtanong kung kailan mo siya babalikan. Once you have her number wala ng tigil ang text messages sa iyo. It will be used to remind you to get her always and to make you feel guilty pag nakaligtaan mo siya. Matatali ka na sa kanya.

Then sa next meeting magdala ka naman ng food or beverages para naman may pakunsuelo. What will happen next is all up to you kung saan pupunta. Bahala ka na sa sarili mo kung bakit naman kasi pinasok mo ang spakol.

I used to bring at least something pag naisipan kong bumisita kay thera though hindi ko siya regular and I don't maintain one. Nangamusta sa text so sabi pasyal ako at ano gusto niyang dalhin ko para sa kanya. Ang sagot "ikaw lang sapat na". Interpret this as she just need a customer dahil NG (no guests) for a few days.

When a thera suggested agad na mag-do kayo without the usual question "ano ES mo?" then gusto lang niyang magparaos at hindi ibig sabihin gusto ka niya. May pahabol pang "huwag mo akong ibitin ha".

Minsan naman thera mag suggest to do it pero nagdahilan ka say wala ka sa kundisyon pero sasabihin niya "ako bahala" and she will start her moves na di ka naman makatanggi. Pakitaan ka pa ng evidence " o ayan ang tigas na sabi sa iyo e". Interpret this as she needed money badly.

Yung live action or more may role din si thera kasi pag naroroon na sa akto ang sasabihin lang ni thera "basta huwag mo lang ipuputok sa loob" instead na pigilan or sabihin magsoot ng CD.

Yung willing to please, GFE, PSE pati na yung pag uto sa customer are all part of the strategy ni thera to get the best from a tander or not. Yung thera na hustler or mapaglaro sa customer di magtatagal mawawalan na ng kumukuha unlike the normal or disciplined one tuloy pa rin na may guest. Yung mapaglaro na thera are there para masunod ang bisyo o luho compared those who wants to improve their life or to support their family yung nga lang thru spakol. Mismong co-thera can telll kung sino ang madaling makasundo o respected pa nila compared doon sa pasaway including kung sino may mabahong hininga.

Naguusap sila kaya alam nila ang customer na desirable at ang hindi pati na rin ang madaling utuin. May spakol nga na "pinapagpag" ni thera ang tip na kanyang natanggap lalo na kung may kalakihan. Kaya lakihan ninyo ang tip para makilala. Minsan yung number one sa Top of the Week nagtataka kung bakit yung isang thera nakatanggap ng highest single tip. Hindi naman kasi being on the top she is supposed to get the highest tip kundi siya lang ang may pinakamaraming guests.

Just recently I tried a newbie then nakilala ko siya sa another spakol who diaappeared because she got a married sponsor. Bagito yung guy so nahuli sila ng wife kaya balik uli sa spakol work. Kaya tama better be with her boy toy if she has one kaysa pumatol pa sa iba.

But come to think of these tanders and a poster admitted being one pero baka mahirap maging karibal ang tulad niya inside and outside of spakol. Critical to tanders marahil karibal nga.

Sa pag FALL siguradong di ka mawawalan ng karibal.

Edited September 19, 2019 by plug

[Duel of Fate]

I do not know that all therapists don't do French-kissing. If you are her type even if it's only the first time you get her, she will kiss you torridly. Of this, I am absolutely certain.

ayoko isipin to. id like to think na pera and onting sextrip lang habol sakin ng theras, even those who, kahit sa first time nyong magmeet, kiss before, during and after our sessions. esp ung may mga pahabol na goodbye kiss. mahirap isipin ba "above" ka sa mga gms nya, might force u to be a certain type of man she hopes you would be for her (bfe, sponsor, fubu, whatever. pag di ka na "gm lang", yari ka".)

[H1Tman]

Kapag walang bayad, siguro naman type ka. But don't fall kasi complicated.

[will robie]

ayoko isipin to. id like to think na pera and onting sextrip lang habol sakin ng theras, even those who, kahit sa first time nyong magmeet, kiss before, during and after our sessions. esp ung may mga pahabol na goodbye kiss. mahirap isipin ba "above" ka sa mga gms nya, might force u to be a certain type of man she hopes you would be for her (bfe, sponsor, fubu, whatever. pag di ka na "gm lang", yari ka".)

I didn't say anything regarding a customer being above all other customers just because a therapist kissed them even if it's only the first time the guest had her. The crux of what I am saying is you are the therapist's type if she kisses the first time you had her. If she kissed you does not mean that she wants you to be her bf.

 

There is a difference between being someone's type and wanting to be her bf. That is why there is such a thing called "fling" or what millennials term as "fubu".

Edited September 20, 2019 by will robie

[royflirty]

friends/ business/ pleasure nalang talaga dapat. got burned already

[royflirty]

friends/ business/ pleasure nalang talaga dapat. got burned already

[pearsonspectrelitt]

I didn't say anything regarding a customer being above all other customers just because a therapist kissed them even if it's only the first time the guest had her. The crux of what I am saying is you are the therapist's type if she kisses the first time you had her. If she kissed you does not mean that she wants you to be her bf.

 

There is a difference between being someone's type to being her bf. That is why there is such a thing called "fling" or what millennials term as "fubu".

nasa 50/50 yung chance ko na may french kissing during my first meeting (halos lahat ng visits ko first meeting, rarely do i get a thera twice), pakiramdaman kung anong klaseng girl si thera, kahit pa sabihin natin na they are there for the money, may libido pa rin mga yan, yung iba gusto bola-bolahin muna sila, yung iba, gusto ng intellectual conversations, yung iba talagang malibog lang, kung makuha mo kung anong klaseng girl si thera, makakatikim ka talaga ng matinding GFE

 

yung iba gusto umulit, kukunin number ko, or magpapaantay tapos ng shift, etc, syempre game lang basta type ko, ang importante lang talaga try tayo ng maraming ibat-ibang theras, para libog lang ang ma”fall” sa atin, yung karamihan kc focus talaga sa isang thera basta makaranas ng GFE, she’s the one na kagad

 

kung talagang titiyagain nating mga brada gms, madali lang makuha yung GFE nila, at malalaman natin, na isa lang naman pala tong laro at wag ibibigay ang buong puso at bank accout

[barretm82]

friends/ business/ pleasure nalang talaga dapat. got burned already

100% agree. highly recommended. no emotions and no attachments.

 

enter at your own risk if gusto makipag relasyon sa kanila

[Duel of Fate]

I didn't say anything regarding a customer being above all other customers just because a therapist kissed them even if it's only the first time the guest had her. The crux of what I am saying is you are the therapist's type if she kisses the first time you had her. If she kissed you does not mean that she wants you to be her bf.

 

There is a difference between being someone's type and wanting to be her bf. That is why there is such a thing called "fling" or what millennials term as "fubu".

I know. what I meant was even that thought na type ka or kinilig si thera sayo on the onset, I k*ll that thought immediately.

 

if a thera kisses me immediately, my first notion is she really gives that as part of her service.

 

the moment na you allow yourself to entertain the thought na type ka nya, that's one foot forward vs the other gms.

[King Inaño]

friends/ business/ pleasure nalang talaga dapat. got burned already

Yup! I agree with you bro. You will really get burned once you entered their mind boggling world. Glad I'm out.