Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[barretm82]

 

Good Point! But how can we determine actually the Right Therapist from the Wrong Therapist if majority of them are Known Players?

well i think it applies sa lahat ng gusto natin maka relasyon whether thera or not. we will only know in the end if magsisi ka o tagumpay ka. the problem is walang reset button in life. talagang risky especially pag thera mas mataas ang risk rating 😁

[ricomamsuave]

 

Good Point! But how can we determine actually the Right Therapist from the Wrong Therapist if majority of them are Known Players?

bottomline, they are all in this industry to earn money and support their families and their needs. i dont think they are here to find love.

[ricomamsuave]

what if a thera regularly texts you and asks to meet her. even if there is no money involve? exact words would be kahit hindi mo na ako abutan basta magkasama lang tayo

[mikemurphy0305]

kung tanders kn its impossible for a thera to love u tander meat k lng na after ng service at pag alis mo eh pinagkwekwentuhan kn at pinang didirihan at pinagtatawanan ng mga thera at tawag syo eh uto uto

[Kingkongphils]

what if a thera regularly texts you and asks to meet her. even if there is no money involve? exact words would be kahit hindi mo na ako abutan basta magkasama lang tayo

Palagay ko double blade yan. Yes makalibre ka, yes maaring mahal ka nga nya pero sa tingin mo pano cya magkakapera kung hindi nya tatanggapin ang pera mo? Cyempre kikimpis ng madami yan. I doubt youll be willing to accept that. Personally id rather give her the money at maging exclusive kmi or at least controlled ko ang lakad nya. Meaning at least kung may i sex sya limited hindi ung kahit sino pumasok e kikimpisin nya.

 

I did however experienced ung almost zero binibigay ko minsan kht 500 lng. Pero yun naman e "pinautang" ko sya ng pang dp nya sa bahay nila. Went on for almost a year na ganun. Minsan bago pumasok sa spa nag bibigay pa sakin ng lunch ko na luto nya. Door to door delivery Kaya ung mga security namin parang boss batang bata hehehe.. Nung una nahihiya ako pro eventually pag nakita mo na iniidolo ka ng mga naka babata e medyo proud na dn. Parang gusto mo sabihin maganda ba totoy? e magpa pogi ka pa para maka dagit ka kht matanda ka na... Hahahaha.... Kung alam lng nila how much that cost... Hahaha...

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

what if a thera regularly texts you and asks to meet her. even if there is no money involve? exact words would be kahit hindi mo na ako abutan basta magkasama lang tayo

 

Ang swerte mo naman kung ganun.

 

Kaso ang tanong is Exclusive lang ba sya sayo? Let's say ganun yung scenario niong dalawa, hindi mo alam may iba pa syang minemeet na possibleng yun ang pinagkukunan nya ng extra income and probably yung ganyang case ay may something special na nga siguro kung maituturing.

[babymaker]

what if a thera regularly texts you and asks to meet her. even if there is no money involve? exact words would be kahit hindi mo na ako abutan basta magkasama lang tayo

 

In your dreams only.

No money no honey ang buhay.

Unless kumuha ka ng sugar mommy.

Karamihan ng babae are with you kasi provider ka.

[pearsonspectrelitt]

masarap mafall sa theras at masarap din silang makalive at putok sa loob

 

yung mga ayaw mafall at ayaw maglive, eh wala rin namang problema, kanya kanya naman yan

 

everytime i “fall” for a thera, my energy is always through the roof, and same when we both agree to do it live, unfortunately, this feeling will be gone after a while (few months) and the cycle starts again

 

yung iba naman sasabihin na “libog lang yan”, but for me, halos walang pinagkaiba ang feeling of falling and libog, kaya nga marami tayong mga joseph estrada, ramon revilla, vic sotto, pwede namang magsabay ang pagmamahal at libog

 

kanya kanya naman yan

[ricomamsuave]

i only give her money when i avail of her services inside the spa. there was one time i met her outside but still gave her money. she never asks for monetary when we are texting.

 

im sure we are not exclusive and i am not affected either.

[Kingkongphils]

yung iba naman sasabihin na libog lang yan, but for me, halos walang pinagkaiba ang feeling of falling and libog, kaya nga marami tayong mga joseph estrada, ramon revilla, vic sotto, pwede namang magsabay ang pagmamahal at libog

 

kanya kanya naman yan

I actually never really thought of it this way but this really made sense. It holds true with the opposite sex. Minsan may mga babae dn na sex lng ang tingin nila and thats the only way they can express their love. Kaya may mga angelu de leon, kris aquinos, dn dyn. We cant say na malandi sila its just that sex is their only way to express their love.

[Iceman7]

When you meet a thera for the first time and she keeps yapping about her burdens in life, it's a danger sign. If she hints to you about meeting you outside of work then common sense will dictate you need to be extra cynical of her motives.

Once again good advice from Billy H! 👍🏼

[mrbig86]

Never fall in love with a thera. Be cautious sa mga ganyang situation.

 

First, alam mo kung anong ginagawa niya for a living - most of them are just being nice to you kasi client ka nila. Trabaho nila maging mabait sayo.

Second, pagisipan mong mabuti kung ano ba talaga ang nararamdaman mo - love ba talaga or just infatuation lang?

Third, if hindi talaga maiiwasan, make sure na hindi ka seloso - remember, alam mo ang nature ng trabaho nila, and your mind will play tricks on you kapag alam mong nasa trabaho sila that time. Alam mo ang ginagawa nila kasi ginawa din nila sayo yun when you first hired them as your thera.

 

In short, as much as possible, wag maiinlove sa thera.

[Iceman7]

Never fall in love with a thera. Be cautious sa mga ganyang situation.

 

First, alam mo kung anong ginagawa niya for a living - most of them are just being nice to you kasi client ka nila. Trabaho nila maging mabait sayo.

Second, pagisipan mong mabuti kung ano ba talaga ang nararamdaman mo - love ba talaga or just infatuation lang?

Third, if hindi talaga maiiwasan, make sure na hindi ka seloso - remember, alam mo ang nature ng trabaho nila, and your mind will play tricks on you kapag alam mong nasa trabaho sila that time. Alam mo ang ginagawa nila kasi ginawa din nila sayo yun when you first hired them as your thera.

 

In short, as much as possible, wag maiinlove sa thera.

Yup because the only winners in this game are the boy-toys or true loves. Because they get sex for free and receive an allowance for their Thera GF

[barretm82]

Never fall in love with a thera. Be cautious sa mga ganyang situation.

 

First, alam mo kung anong ginagawa niya for a living - most of them are just being nice to you kasi client ka nila. Trabaho nila maging mabait sayo.

Second, pagisipan mong mabuti kung ano ba talaga ang nararamdaman mo - love ba talaga or just infatuation lang?

Third, if hindi talaga maiiwasan, make sure na hindi ka seloso - remember, alam mo ang nature ng trabaho nila, and your mind will play tricks on you kapag alam mong nasa trabaho sila that time. Alam mo ang ginagawa nila kasi ginawa din nila sayo yun when you first hired them as your thera.

 

In short, as much as possible, wag maiinlove sa thera.

this for me are good guidelines whenever one will decide to pursue a thera. you have to think reeeaaallllyyy hard and wag papadaig sa nararamdaman mo. be objective and weigh the consequences.

[Jackson45]

Falling inlove for a therapist is good only if it is true and the feeling is mutual. No judgement. Both moving on from the past. Closing the old chapter of your lives for good and turning new pages together for a bright future. It is not easy but nothing is impossible. Someone may disagree on this and it is okay because that is what others believe. Surely I also believe others may agree on this because they have faith and know the real meaning of "Love"..

Edited September 18, 2019 by Jackson45