Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Lorkan03]

tama ka jan. kadalasan kase you need to think with your head (with brain) before falling for a thera. minsan kase ung head sa baba nauuna eh. hindi naten naiisip na part talaga ng trabaho nila yung maging super lambing, close, etc... sa mga clients. mga clients naman namimisinterpret nila ung ganung approach - lalo na pag baguhan sa Espa ang client.

Agree. Then the GM will wake up with an empty wallet. Hehehe

[Iceman7]

Mostly its all about how much you can give

Pera pera lang talaga

If that where true, then why are the Theras chasing the guys with no money and even giving those guys financial assistance.

 

I use to think it was all about the money, but now I dont know what to think.

 

But I know one thing Theras like feeling loved just like any other woman out there

[Denniz]

tanggapin na nating lahat na hindi pwede dito sa spa industry kung ang hanap natin ay isang matino at masayang relationship.

 

sakit sa ulo, sakit sa puso at most esp sakit sa bulsa ang mararanasan kung kaw ay magkakagf ng isang thera.

 

full of deceit and lies ang alam nila.

very true! so the real challenge here is make her fall for you and turn the tide. heh parang impossible naman yata haha

[PROJECTCADMUS]

very true! so the real challenge here is make her fall for you and turn the tide. heh parang impossible naman yata haha

we go to spa mainly

 

we skip courting

we have low self confident

we need someone to talk to who doesn't know us at all

we just need a different appetite

we needed someone who appreciate us

and the rest so on so forth

[Iceman7]

There are never any set ironclad rules for a thera -GM relationship but to address your question this is my personal POV:

You were right about the money. Most theras are in it for the money. Why the boy toy? Reality. Theras know most gms are married and are not exactly forever after material. The married gm is just a the best solution in a bad situation. He is a source of money in exchange for some semblance of intimacy.

The boy toy is usually someone almost identical to the thera in social standing. He could be a neighbor, kababata or tropa thus they have a closer bond or some kind of kindred spirit. You are also right about theras liking the feeling of being loved. That is where my POV of reality comes in. The boy toy usually has no money so the thera stupidly works herself to death milking the married gm then gives the cash to her boy toy who then squanders it on liquor, drugs, other women. Hehehe you know the stories.

 

My question would be: What for? What would one hope to gain by making a thera fall in love with him? Usually he can't keep her forever.

Billy H u are a genius!

 

This is the best explanation I have heard about the vicious cycle that exists between the Thera and GM relationship.

 

The fact that I have been nothing but nice and kind to Ms. K and she attempted to take advantage of me so her boytoy and her can live better or eat better was really hurtful

 

I never known what it felt like to be a fool. Now I do ☹️

 

But from what you said it all makes more sense and I will use this knowledge in the future if I ever decide to play with fire 😂

 

Hopefully less chance of getting burned

[will robie]

If that where true, then why are the Theras chasing the guys with no money and even giving those guys financial assistance.

 

I use to think it was all about the money, but now I dont know what to think.

 

But I know one thing Theras like feeling loved just like any other woman out there

The guy posted in the context of being a guest of the therapist.

Edited August 9, 2019 by will robie

[BRAIN FOR HIRE]

In our continuing saga of tales of top theras and the complications of any kind of relationship...

 

So anyway Top Thera got invited on a group tour to an exotic locale with friends and members of a certain franchise, a whole passel of p%$$y was invited, and everyone was getting paid for what-not plus shopping. Anyway, the group got to touring various night spots, and Top Thera's partner, a really rich dude got one of the local beauties and proceeded to do the nasty, much to Top Thera's chagrin. Top Thera retaliated by getting really drunk and started enticing and inviting the other male members of the group to bang her irritation away, and she was quite successful or so I was told. This in turn irritated and annoyed the other Top Theras along for the ride.

 

Anyway, maybe Top Thera thought she and rich guy were a thing, or that he was her ticket away from the constant grind (many of the top theras are tired of work at a certain age and long for less of that and more of money, but whatever) and as has been stated they come from a certain social standing and are likely to act that out to the full (fool?). So I guess one take away from this is that it takes a certain modicum of understanding to be in a relationship of any kind with them, or other people for that matter, ha ha ha. Love is all you need.

[royflirty]

really sad sad stories 😟

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

been there. . . . still here . . . LOL

 

Good for you Bro.

[will robie]

Sometimes it would be better to just be friends/tropa with the thera instead of being a BF/sponsor/sugar daddy.

Pag friends/tropa walang commitment kasi and you won't be obligated to be her milking cow/ATM , if she approaches you asking for help because the neighbor of her cousin's godbrother's friend who lives in another baranggay needs emergency surgery or if her grandmother who died last year died again yesterday then you can always say NO. You can disappear and there won't be a GD thing she can do about it.

You can always play with fire but I would always say take fire prevention measures. Hehehehee

Padre, I had a good laugh at the convoluted scenario that you just posted: the neighbor of her cousin's godbrother's friend who lives in another barangay needs emergency surgery. Haha!

 

Madami na nauto ng mga tusong therapist. Getting fooled by a therapist is a choice.

[happybloke]

Cant really say that I 100% fell for the thera, but it was close. Had been there before and Ive learned my lesson.

 

Excuse this long post, but I just had to get it off my chest

 

Hey fellow gms, mods, theras. Im happybloke, just wanted to share my thoughts and feelings here.

 

For the past few months it has been a challenge for me, my daily regimen has taken a toll on me physically and now Im emotionally tired as well. Getting married 2 years ago and having a baby currently at a few months old. Its been a roller coaster ride. Long commute hours, having heavy workloads at the gym at times, but sometimes I could just play ML for a long time. Being the breadwinner not just for my family, but also helping out with my parents. Pushing hard to take care of the needs of my son so hell be taken care of. Its just tiring, sleeping late at 12mn, waking up at 4am, and having to donthis 7 days a week.

 

I started going to spa around 2011/2012 then stopped 2017 and I think snook one in between 2017-2019. So I was going to spa even before meeting my wife, she knows nothing of it which is a good thing.

I recently just came back to the spa scene maybe around end of June. With the weight on my shoulders I was wanted to have this feeling reduced. Having tried a few theras, and finally going to stay with one. It was all fun and I got to connect with them atleast for the time being, but Im hooked to one. She really got me. I know the things just limited to a guest-thera connection, but it hasnt stopped me from caring for her and her family. Not really knowing the details of her partner, if theyre good or not, but still I believe I truly care for her.

 

To add to everything, Just recently found out that my mother needs an operation costing more than a 100k, hopefully the health card will take care of it, if not then its again time to keep pushing.

I have no regrets with the people I met during my almost 2 months splurge, probably costing me 20-25k. I chose to and am happy as well for the people I helped.

 

I guess its time for me to end my post.

I just wanted to release the tension, having found myself having a heavy heart of emotions and bursting out crying a few times. I was like, wtf is wrong with me. Am I going crazy. Its just one of those times in our lives where we face a lot of challenges.

[DJ Love]

If that where true, then why are the Theras chasing the guys with no money and even giving those guys financial assistance.

I use to think it was all about the money, but now I dont know what to think.

But I know one thing Theras like feeling loved just like any other woman out there

I guess nasagot ka na ni bro billy

But im not saying naman 100%

Ganun lahat ng thera

I had a relationship before na wala talaga me nilabas

Besides its like a fairy tale for them theras

But it may come true. .like dyan sa may area ng qv

At mayrun din nman hindi. .like dyan din sa may area ng qv. .hahaha if you know what i mean. .

[Kingkongphils]

If that where true, then why are the Theras chasing the guys with no money and even giving those guys financial assistance.

 

I use to think it was all about the money, but now I dont know what to think.

 

But I know one thing Theras like feeling loved just like any other woman out there

Usually, the boy toy does not know where or what the theras job is.. Thus there is the feeling of romance on the part of the thera. Because they themselves think that their job does not make them lovable.

[Iceman7]

Because they themselves think that their job does not make them lovable.

Makes me wonder sometimes if the top top Theras really feel that way since they have guys worshipping them buying them gifts and making offers to take them out of the spa and to take care of them. Or maybe they feel to much love? Hmmmm

[Iceman7]

Usually, the boy toy does not know where or what the theras job is.

I remember this one time I went to Bellagio Spa a Thera came in with her BF(boytoy) and child. The milf Theras would always bring their kids to work and that place was like a nursery sometimes haha. Anyways the boytoy was holding their child and when he saw me he was like Hi Sir and started making motions towards her GF Thera for me to try her out. I was thinking to myself is this guy her pimp or her boyfriend 😂 I didnt available even though she was quite attractive. But I thought that was interesting