Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[ferwy shaw]

i was bocked from her FB thread and i was devastated....I have to move on...have to deal with it...

[ferwy shaw]

retired na.... but you said earlier YUNG PARAMDAM....HOW ARE YOU GOING TO DEAL WITH IT PAG NAG PARAMDAM NA?

[ferwy shaw]

SI MA'AM KEIJI ATA ANG NAS EXPERT DITO AH,,,

[BlackLabel61997]

Ayokong may na-realize ako sa sinabi mo Sir at the expense of your misery.. pero tama ka. Silver lining. Thanks.

 

Tanong sa lahat ng madalas tumambay dito tsaka kasi walang 'fallen for a thera' thread haha.. kung di kayo nagkatuluyan ni theralabs at active pa siya sa industry, would you still visit her strictly as a GM?

 

Interesado ako sa magiging sagot ng mga GMs sa katanungan na ito. Especially if you admit your feelings to your theralabs.

[BRAIN FOR HIRE]

Ayokong may na-realize ako sa sinabi mo Sir at the expense of your misery.. pero tama ka. Silver lining. Thanks.

 

Tanong sa lahat ng madalas tumambay dito tsaka kasi walang 'fallen for a thera' thread haha.. kung di kayo nagkatuluyan ni theralabs at active pa siya sa industry, would you still visit her strictly as a GM?

 

I remember a top thera, who I got twice, and who I met socially a few times, told me of one of her ex-BFs who, after they broke up, would still visit her at the MP and f&*k her while saying "I love you, I love you..." She said she found it weird and pathetic, but needing the money just let him spend himself until he tired of it. Well, that's really where it will end up I think, you f&*k her and in the end realize what she is, and you're never getting her out, or never getting the whore out of her. Better to just not play the emotions game, it is a losing proposition.

 

(Oh yeah that "when there's a way there's a will" thing triggered a memory)

 

Anyway, on a slightly off tangent note, in my early years when I was still going to GL a lot, I got this really nice morena beauty several times, and powered by Rhino tea supplied by my Fil-Chinese friend, had some really intense multi-pop action with her, and I could tell she liked me since the second and third pop were free. Anyway, there was this one time when she texted me that there was an event and they would wear "bathing shout". Wow, that turned me off so fast, and forgive my elitism since I couldn't stick my dick into something that dumb. But I have grown, I no longer denigrate, since it is hard finding the super PSE performers now, especially lookers, I keep my opinions tucked away and bang with abandon. :-)

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

paramdam na ba sa yo?

No. She didnt. Im just one of her GMs anyway.

Edited March 3, 2019 by 手塚

[Loganz]

 

Especially don't let her control your finances.

i totally agree with you bro.

gawin ka nyang ATM, ok lang sana kung laging ATW!

[BlackHoleSun]

Curious lang ako.. Kung yung thera na nainlove kayo eh di nyo nameet sa spa or naavail sa spa eh ganun pa rin kaya ang mangyayari? Would you still fell for her?

This is a yes, so long as she does not hide her line of work from me. Which would probably go the other way around given your proposed situation.

 

I remember a top thera, who I got twice, and who I met socially a few times, told me of one of her ex-BFs who, after they broke up, would still visit her at the MP and f&*k her while saying "I love you, I love you..." She said she found it weird and pathetic, but needing the money just let him spend himself until he tired of it. Well, that's really where it will end up I think, you f&*k her and in the end realize what she is, and you're never getting her out, or never getting the whore out of her. Better to just not play the emotions game, it is a losing proposition.

This is clearly a visit that is not strictly as a GM. I agree with your thera-friend that such an act is pathetic.

 

 

I ask again gents - assuming emotions will not be involved, would you still visit your active theralabs as a GM after all that has happened between the both of you?

[Tepz 3.0]

I ask again gents - assuming emotions will not be involved, would you still visit your active theralabs as a GM after all that has happened between the both of you?

For me, this is a YES! since she requested to be friend still and will set aside what has loves we made and jsut plain friendship. Its hard, but it worth a try! Edited March 4, 2019 by Tepz 3.0

[PauljohnMD]

Very interesting talaga mga post dito sa thread ng falling for a thera. Parang nasabi na lahat ng fellow GMs everything that needs to be said, mostly how risky it is to fall in love with your thera, and how other GMs still cant help it, and how others have learned the hard way (ubos savings, heartbroken, etc.)

One unique observation is that some of our idol GMs here are referring to just this one legendary therA. di naman lahat pero sabihin natin 70%? Or even more. Not more than once her name has been dropped here already.

Question for the GMs, why her? I mean, you can get attracted physically and sexually, but fall hard? Like i said, 70% even more.

Another question is, seems that you know very well youre in love with one and the same thera. But, it seems very supportive kayo with each other? No rivalry? May the best GM wins?

Again, just curious. Peace brothers.

Because she's one of a kind if you will get to know her better lalo mo syang mamahalin ang pag ka sweet niya at yung personality niya. May sense sya kausap or lets say masarap sya kausap hindi mo aakalaing thera siya pag nakasalubong mo sa labas because the way she dress lalo na yung smile niya that captured many hearts.

Pero unti unti ko ng tinatanggap na may napili na sya and I know she's happy right now. Wherever you are sana ok ka at masaya ka thank you for all the memories that we've had

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

Tanong sa lahat ng madalas tumambay dito tsaka kasi walang 'fallen for a thera' thread haha.. kung di kayo nagkatuluyan ni theralabs at active pa siya sa industry, would you still visit her strictly as a GM?

 

Siguro. Pero I don't think she'll be coming back so best to move on and hanap na lang ng iba.

[BlackHoleSun]

Oh, I'm with the 30% by the way. All of my posts here do not pertain to the same thera of the 70%. Just putting it out there haha.

[제이크]

na curious ako sa question. hindi ko magets

 

as per my understanding bro...

 

Normally, before you fall in love with someone, you need to:

meet, get interested, get to know, courtship then become intimate... last yung pagiging intimate

 

Pag sa spa, you fall in love differently:

meet, get to know, become intimate, get interested, get to know AGAIN, courtship... may baliktad hahaha

 

Apply mo yung question with these factors bro... ma-gets mo na yan!

Edited March 4, 2019 by 제이크

[PenetrayShawn]

Curious lang ako.. Kung yung thera na nainlove kayo eh di nyo nameet sa spa or naavail sa spa eh ganun pa rin kaya ang mangyayari? Would you still fell for her?

 

tingin ko isa yan sa ok na isipin when considering kung may something more between you and the thera aside from what happens during ES. which brings me to...

 

 

 

as per my understanding bro...

 

Normally, before you fall in love with someone, you need to:

meet, get interested, get to know, courtship then become intimate... last yung pagiging intimate

 

Pag sa spa, you fall in love differently:

meet, get to know, become intimate, get interested, get to know AGAIN, courtship... may baliktad hahaha

 

Apply mo yung question with these factors bro... ma-gets mo na yan!

 

kaya siguro may nangyayari after ng intimacy (interest, getting to know, etc) dahil sa oxytocin. i dont have a medical/chem/bio background but i think the difference in the order of what happens is what makes gm-thera matters of the heart interesting haha. it's more like one night stands na sa dating app/site mo nakikilala tapos tumatagal yung thing niyo

 

i don't really give much thought to the question though, at this stage in my life nasa enjoy mode ako and wala pa naman akong sparks na naeexperience sa thera. so yung mga insights ko based sa dating app/site experience, which as i said is what i think to be more similar to gm-thera matters of the heart. silver lining na lang siguro, i have had friends nagkarelasyon like boyfriend girlfriend yung nakikilala nila sa dating app, and may nakuwento na rin sa akin ang isa kong naging thera na may co-thera sila na kinasal sa GM so making this work is not impossible

[TOPpie.1]

I still remember the very first time i had a chance to be with her.

it suprised me that she was at the door 5mins after i was assisted inside the room.

asked me if i really got 2 hours for her, and my only reply was " for you it's worth it".

Everytime we meet are special...and really are worth it!

 

they say it's hard to fall in love in this kind of business, but the work does not define her.

I learned a lot from her too. to be more patient, understanding, willing to sacrifice, to be motivated and

to be hurt... to the point that I told myself, is this worth it?

YES it is!

I thank her, for making me more creative in expressing my feelings

and making me fall even deeper in love with her.

Edited March 4, 2019 by TOPpie.1