glut_func Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 (edited) Ay parekoy, ikasa mo! Andito din ako sa stage ng buhay ko na I am enjoying singlehood. Sarap yung wala kang tinatago dahil wala ka naman kelangan itago. I don't need to be careful about text messages sent sakin, I don't need to explain myself to anyone, and I sleep well at night knowing there are no consequences I have to deal with in the morning. Sinabi mo pa pre! sure it can be boring from time to time pero atleast walang kunsumisyon at walang humahabol na karma. At this point, I don't want to take sides lalo pa't hindi ko alam ang puno't dulo ng buong kwento ng bawat panig. Pasalamat na lang ako hindi sa kin nangyari to. oh, yeah, inb4dlock Edited January 22, 2015 by glut_func Quote Link to comment
markjoycehailey Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 Meron nagpapadelete ng post ko eh wala naman akong pinost na pangalan. Tsk tsk tsk 😄😄😄😄 Quote Link to comment
markjoycehailey Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 You may want to make your FB profile private. Just a suggestion.White hats and black hats lurk in this forum. Be careful. Quote Link to comment
startsaulo Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 Tama na po yan please! .... Forgive but not forget....Let time heals both ur wounds. Quote Link to comment
danielwtf Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 No glove, no love kasi. hihi Kidding aside. Hope the posts above serves as a reminder para dun sa mga nag-iisip gumawa ng kalokohan behind the backs of their significant others. Quote Link to comment
thespywhoshags Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 (edited) http://s30.postimg.org/5voedltvx/images_1.jpgNot my opinion on the topic, but I just remembered GOT because of everything we're discussing here. Anyway I've been sleeping better since my first posts. Something happened, I won't share for now Edited January 22, 2015 by hooplos Quote Link to comment
DDL Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 Almost....i got a GF before which is an MPA sa GL.We parted ways after 1 year of on-off relationship. Now I believe she's happily married with a fil-am in the US and she finished her college study. So proud of her. Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted January 23, 2015 Share Posted January 23, 2015 Always observe the RULES OF THE GAME. Dont be a daredevil. Going outside the rules is what gets you seriously fukced up. Mabuti sana kung kayo lang maapektohan, eh pano kung tulad dito sa nangyari umaabot na sa demandahan at may mga pamilya na nasasaktan na. See, in cases like this, I feel really sorry sa mga anak magulang na sobrang naapektuhan gayong sila nga itong walang kinalaman. I used to tell my students rules are fences that while restrict you, protect you as well. And consequences? They are like cancer. They take time to build up and once they start taking effect they usually affect more than one part of you. Magsilbi na sanang aral ang nasaksihan natin na gamitin naman KUKOTE at huwag yang Ahmor Ahmor na yan. KNOW WHAT YOUR LIMITS SHOULD BE. Sa lalake, be discreet kasi. Huwag basta basta ititiwala sarili sa babae nasa kalakaran man o wala. Hindi komo binigyan ka ng konting emotional validation eh sapat na ito para pagkatiwalaan ng lubusan and risk everything you worked so hard for (i.e reputation, money, family etc.). Huwag kasi papagamit. Kung alam mong ginagamit ka para matakasan trabaho nya, di umalma ka na dapat. Kaya nga its good to keep it professional na lang. Sa mga babae, tandaan nyo, hindi basta basta itong pinapasok nyo. Kung kayo kaya nyo harapin yung consequences para sa sarili nyo, isipin nyo yung ibang buhay na nasa paligid nyo. Mahirap maeskandalo at umabot sa demandahan. Apektado mga pamilya at kaibigan nyo na walang kasalanan. Kung kasama pambobola sa trabaho nyo, alalahanin nyo din na maraming lalake dyan ang magaling din mambola. Mamaya nyan di nyo alam may asawa palang eskandalosa yung lalake. Tapos after 3 years nyo malalaman. Again its good to keep it professional. And finally, huwag nyo iatang sa lalake ang responsibilidad na maialis kayo sa pinasok nyo. Responsibilidad nyo yan. 1 Quote Link to comment
Georgeben Posted January 23, 2015 Share Posted January 23, 2015 Tama. Bottom line.... Keep it professional. Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted January 23, 2015 Share Posted January 23, 2015 Sinabi mo pa pre! sure it can be boring from time to time pero atleast walang kunsumisyon at walang humahabol na karma. At this point, I don't want to take sides lalo pa't hindi ko alam ang puno't dulo ng buong kwento ng bawat panig. Pasalamat na lang ako hindi sa kin nangyari to. oh, yeah, inb4dlock Naku pre, tayo dapat maginuman.... ay teka di na pala ako pwede nyan dahil reformed alcohol addict ako (seriously). Pero tama ka, eh ano kung walang love o sex life? As you grow older naman you find those things to be overrated naman. Sabi ko nga, maraming manly endaevors na pwede mo pagkaabalahan at makakadagdag pa sa self-improvement mo. Most people underestimate the idea of having a relationship with yourself Dun naman sa kwento, well oo mahirap kumampi. Kasi nga sabi ang bawat kwento ay may 3 panig. Panig mo, panig nya, at panig ng pawang katotohanan. Isang masaklap lang na nangyari dito, it would take 5 years bago umepekto ng ganito! And boom! ang daming buhay ang nagulo. Pati yung mga di naman dapat. Quote Link to comment
glut_func Posted January 23, 2015 Share Posted January 23, 2015 (edited) Naku pre, tayo dapat maginuman.... ay teka di na pala ako pwede nyan dahil reformed alcohol addict ako (seriously). Pero tama ka, eh ano kung walang love o sex life? As you grow older naman you find those things to be overrated naman. Sabi ko nga, maraming manly endaevors na pwede mo pagkaabalahan at makakadagdag pa sa self-improvement mo. Most people underestimate the idea of having a relationship with yourself Dun naman sa kwento, well oo mahirap kumampi. Kasi nga sabi ang bawat kwento ay may 3 panig. Panig mo, panig nya, at panig ng pawang katotohanan. Isang masaklap lang na nangyari dito, it would take 5 years bago umepekto ng ganito! And boom! ang daming buhay ang nagulo. Pati yung mga di naman dapat. haha...same here brad. I would love to take you up on your offer pero I no longer drink as much as I used to. Being out of the dating scene does have its perks, mas masarap uminom for casual relaxation lang, yung tipong coming home after a days work tapos day off mo pa kinabukasan at hindi dahil sa basag ka sa problema bec of some bimbo - unnecessary expense kasi yan. Sure you get the "high" pero we all know na as soon as the hangover subsides, andyan pa rin yung problema mo dun sa tao. And just like any other bisyo, the more you rely on it to get your fix, wala na lulong ka na. Going back to topic, honestly, everytime I come across topics like this I can't help but shake my head in distaste. Hindi naman sa nagmamalinis ako or what pero kasi sometimes it's pointless to give advice kasi we all know na hindi titigil yung tao hanggat hindi nagkakahulihan. Parang kahit anong gabay mo sa kanila na umiwas sa bawal, patuloy pa rin sila sa gawain nila. Matatauhan lang ang mga yan pag nakarma na just like what happened. Just like what you said, this applies not just in this LOB but also in getting into any other potential relationships. Hindi porke pinakitaan ka ng lambing or pina-iskor ka eh may something "special" na between you and the girl or vice versa tapos basta ka na lang magpapadala para sa taong yun without thinking of the implications of your actions. Both genders know how to flirt and play too. Uulitin ko, gamitin kasi ang utak, talasan ang pakiramdam and never, ever assume. Payo ko sa ibang lalake, wag puro libog lang ang pairalin. Bawas-bawasan din po ang panonood ng mga telenobela, hindi lahat ng format ng "relasyon" na natutunghayan natin sa iba ay may potential na happy ending para sa inyo. Eto pa, the only way you'll be deemed innocent is if you never done it at all. Edited January 23, 2015 by glut_func Quote Link to comment
narcprick Posted January 23, 2015 Share Posted January 23, 2015 wala pa akong nagugustuhang thera so far. baka sa MP may magustuhan ako. Quote Link to comment
50ShadesMan Posted January 23, 2015 Share Posted January 23, 2015 "It can't be avoided. Falling for a girl is not planned, regardless of her profession." -50ShadesMan Quote Link to comment
kali7 Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 "It can't be avoided. Falling for a girl is not planned, regardless of her profession." -50ShadesMan I agree, but how to deal with it is a different matter. Quote Link to comment
silverwind Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 Bro, think twice think thrice. Quote Link to comment
divergentjay Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 ...so easy to fall because of the positive contributing factors but so hard once you get into a serious relationship because of so many complications Quote Link to comment
vkalbos Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 Always observe the RULES OF THE GAME. Dont be a daredevil. Going outside the rules is what gets you seriously fukced up. Mabuti sana kung kayo lang maapektohan, eh pano kung tulad dito sa nangyari umaabot na sa demandahan at may mga pamilya na nasasaktan na. See, in cases like this, I feel really sorry sa mga anak magulang na sobrang naapektuhan gayong sila nga itong walang kinalaman. I used to tell my students rules are fences that while restrict you, protect you as well. And consequences? They are like cancer. They take time to build up and once they start taking effect they usually affect more than one part of you. Magsilbi na sanang aral ang nasaksihan natin na gamitin naman KUKOTE at huwag yang Ahmor Ahmor na yan. KNOW WHAT YOUR LIMITS SHOULD BE. Sa lalake, be discreet kasi. Huwag basta basta ititiwala sarili sa babae nasa kalakaran man o wala. Hindi komo binigyan ka ng konting emotional validation eh sapat na ito para pagkatiwalaan ng lubusan and risk everything you worked so hard for (i.e reputation, money, family etc.). Huwag kasi papagamit. Kung alam mong ginagamit ka para matakasan trabaho nya, di umalma ka na dapat. Kaya nga its good to keep it professional na lang. Sa mga babae, tandaan nyo, hindi basta basta itong pinapasok nyo. Kung kayo kaya nyo harapin yung consequences para sa sarili nyo, isipin nyo yung ibang buhay na nasa paligid nyo. Mahirap maeskandalo at umabot sa demandahan. Apektado mga pamilya at kaibigan nyo na walang kasalanan. Kung kasama pambobola sa trabaho nyo, alalahanin nyo din na maraming lalake dyan ang magaling din mambola. Mamaya nyan di nyo alam may asawa palang eskandalosa yung lalake. Tapos after 3 years nyo malalaman. Again its good to keep it professional. And finally, huwag nyo iatang sa lalake ang responsibilidad na maialis kayo sa pinasok nyo. Responsibilidad nyo yan. The feeling should be smart and mutual. Don't trust love and lust with this kind of set-up. Many people get fooled by their emotions because they somehow found a better place to stay or it could be new to their emotional environment. I've been in the situation like this - my weapon of choice was being responsible. Be responsible and everything else shall follow. Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 I agree, but how to deal with it is a different matter. Tama ka talaga dyan, I always say hindi masama ang magkaroon ka ng nararamdaman para sa isang tao. Tama na kung minsan hindi mo nadidiktahan nararamdaman mo. Pero ang kinikilos pwede madiktahan. Hindi dapat laging emosyon magdidikta sa mga desisyon. Gingamitan yan ng konting pagiisip. Bro, think twice think thrice. Thats the problem when people easily fall in love. IMO its a sign of lack of emotional maturity. Any idiot can fall in love, but on intelligent and mature people can make a healthy relationship work. Ang relasyon hindi lang naman yan puro ahmor at lib0g. Kelangan handa din kayo sa mga araw na alam nyong di masyado masaya. Ngayon oo handa magtiis kasi masaya pa, eh pano kung wala na yung novelty? Tapos na honeymoon period? Kung puro lang kayo Ahmor lib0g collapse din relasyon nyo. ...so easy to fall because of the positive contributing factors but so hard once you get into a serious relationship because of so many complications Yeah tama ka dyan, I whole-heartedly agree. Eto nga eh, pano kung dumating yung panahon na masyado na lang kayo sanay sa isat isa, wala na yung kilig, wala na yung excitement, wala na yung honeymoon period? Mas magiging matindi for sure mga away nyo. Mamaya in a fit of rage, maungkat mo pa nakaraan ng partner mo at gamitin mo pa itong bala sa kanya. 1 Quote Link to comment
CardingTigas Posted January 25, 2015 Share Posted January 25, 2015 Tama ka talaga dyan, I always say hindi masama ang magkaroon ka ng nararamdaman para sa isang tao. Tama na kung minsan hindi mo nadidiktahan nararamdaman mo. Pero ang kinikilos pwede madiktahan. Hindi dapat laging emosyon magdidikta sa mga desisyon. Gingamitan yan ng konting pagiisip. Thats the problem when people easily fall in love. IMO its a sign of lack of emotional maturity. Any idiot can fall in love, but on intelligent and mature people can make a healthy relationship work. Ang relasyon hindi lang naman yan puro ahmor at lib0g. Kelangan handa din kayo sa mga araw na alam nyong di masyado masaya. Ngayon oo handa magtiis kasi masaya pa, eh pano kung wala na yung novelty? Tapos na honeymoon period? Kung puro lang kayo Ahmor lib0g collapse din relasyon nyo. Yeah tama ka dyan, I whole-heartedly agree. Eto nga eh, pano kung dumating yung panahon na masyado na lang kayo sanay sa isat isa, wala na yung kilig, wala na yung excitement, wala na yung honeymoon period? Mas magiging matindi for sure mga away nyo. Mamaya in a fit of rage, maungkat mo pa nakaraan ng partner mo at gamitin mo pa itong bala sa kanya. pwede ka na mag release ng book Quote Link to comment
chessboxin Posted January 25, 2015 Share Posted January 25, 2015 Natutunan ko na rin na hindi talaga maiiwasang maghanap ka ng girlfriend/asawa. Natural lang kasi talaga na naghahanap tayo ng company sa buhay. Yan ang nakaprogram sa genetics of survival natin. Pag lonely ka, hinding hindi ka talaga makakamoveon kasi babalikan mo talaga ang greatest love mo sa buhay. If I learned anything sa last decades or so, ang best way to move on ay accept na hindi siya nag work out as most importantly e mageffort/tumuloy sa socializing with people. Quote Link to comment
pedroz Posted January 25, 2015 Share Posted January 25, 2015 Natutunan ko na rin na hindi talaga maiiwasang maghanap ka ng girlfriend/asawa. Natural lang kasi talaga na naghahanap tayo ng company sa buhay. Yan ang nakaprogram sa genetics of survival natin. Pag lonely ka, hinding hindi ka talaga makakamoveon kasi babalikan mo talaga ang greatest love mo sa buhay. If I learned anything sa last decades or so, ang best way to move on ay accept na hindi siya nag work out as most importantly e mageffort/tumuloy sa socializing with people. Or start a hobby that you been wanting to do for long time. Don't dwell on what if's.... Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted January 26, 2015 Share Posted January 26, 2015 Or start a hobby that you been wanting to do for long time. Don't dwell on what if's.... Yes, sabi ko nga, huwag gawing career ang bisyo. Nakakatawa pa dito, marami ang gusto magmalaki na "matagal na sila sa industriya" na marami na silang kilalang thera MP ES whatever. Isa lang ibig sabihin nyan, lulong na masyado sa bisyo. Masama pa nito, ang hilig magyabang ng galing sa chicks eh puros naman taga sa "industryang" ito ang pinagmamalaki. 1 Quote Link to comment
CardingTigas Posted January 26, 2015 Share Posted January 26, 2015 (edited) Yes, sabi ko nga, huwag gawing career ang bisyo. Nakakatawa pa dito, marami ang gusto magmalaki na "matagal na sila sa industriya" na marami na silang kilalang thera MP ES whatever. Isa lang ibig sabihin nyan, lulong na masyado sa bisyo. Masama pa nito, ang hilig magyabang ng galing sa chicks eh puros naman taga sa "industryang" ito ang pinagmamalaki. ok lang yan..try mo minsan =) Edited January 26, 2015 by cardingtigas Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted January 26, 2015 Share Posted January 26, 2015 ok lang yan..try mo minsan =) Lol, thanks but this is not exactly at the top of my to-do list or anything I am dying to try soon . Hindi ako nagmamalinis dito, siguro naman lahat tayo may konting bisyo sa katawan. But having survived alcohol addiction, I learned na ang bisyo dapat pinipili mabuti at di ka nagpapaalipin dyan. Kahit sabihin mong marami kang pera, makakaapekto din ito sayo sa ibang bagay. Sa kalusugan, at higit sa lahat sa social skills mo at perception sa maraming bagay tungkol sa totoong realidad. The same I think can be true for both women or any substance. Quote Link to comment
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