Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Wyld]

Thanks for the redirect YoMikee... can we all pick up the discussion from there?

 

Also, may I please request y'all to use your PM functions for chitchat/requests for info and other non thread related stuff? Thanks!

[BossV]

siguro lahat ng nagbabasa ng thread na ito alam na if you can love an mpa or if they can love you back, nasa tao lang naman yan if they can accept it di ba?

why not change the topic na lang and share your experiences about loving an mpa or mpa's can share their experience about loving a guest to make it more interesting... don't you think?

 

ako i can share my experience siguro since tapos na naman....

i recently fell for an mpa, yeah i admit, i fell din, i didn't meet her in an mp, i met her sa gimikan, although nalaman ko din na she was an mpa after a while, i got to know the person and she was really nice and worth loving, she's really sweet and caring, pala text sya and pala tawag just to check on me if i'm ok, dumadalaw din ako sa kanila once in a while just to hangout with her relatives, and i've brought her home na din and kilala sya ng mga relatives and friends ko...

we enjoyed our company and had a blast everytime we hang out, it was a pretty unforgettable experience for me....

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Good for you YoMikee. Had a similar experience too... although I must admit it's really hard to fall for one. You'll always end up arguing about her work or she will always put on the topic of her being a MPA whenever you get into fights... that's the sad reality of it. For me, I accept the fact that my girl is in this flesh business pero medyo nakakahalata na rinyata na walang patutunguhan...

 

I salute those MTC guys who really got into this already and are brutally frank about their thoughts on falling for a MPA. As the saying goes, "experience is the best teacher." So let's not disregard their advise. I must admit, before I did not subscribe to the idea that one cannot truly love a MPA but after giving it some thought and have gone through a relationship with one, I can truly say that it's true.

 

So here are some reality checks why we fall in love with a MPA (for the nth time... no hard feelings bros, just want to get your feet on the ground before it's too late... you may add yours to share with us):

 

1. Usually happens after a great sex at the MP

2. Absorbs the story of the MPA why she got into this kind of work

3. Guy wanting to have free sex outside the MP (again listen to the experts... you may think it's cheaper but it'll cost you more... common guys, accept it)

3. Guy trying to become a savior of a lost soul but ends up using/abusing the girl to satisfy sexual urges

4. MPA pretends to fall for you and not for your money, car, gifts, or what have you that she likes...

5. How's a free sex with just a text or call away?

6. Sex becomes less and friendship continues but at the end of the day guy still wants to have sex with the MPA.

7. Quitting the MP for the guy... but ooppps wait a minute... MPA needs more money for her material needs... need to get back... (continuation on #8)

8. Guy accepts the comeback and justifies his reason for loving (and having sex with) the MPA...

9......

10......

 

As one MTC guy said, "it's an endless cycle."

 

My two cents worth...

[xxxpert]

judging from the different point of views from different personalities here in the board... i may say that in conclusion, loving an mpa is possible for some people and a hell no for several of the male gender out there.

people are so different in many ways in accepting things, so there is no definite answer to the topic, i guess when you are into this kind of situation, you have to ask yourself, which of the kind of person do i belong?

1. from people who are brave enough to accept and face all the odds in loving an mpa despite the humiliation, pain, jealosy, doubt name it all...

2. or from people who doesn't want to torture himself with all the facts and risk of loving an mpa.

maybe, with these questions, you will now the know, if you would love or not an mpa.   

just a thought...

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Boss Tsinito's posting sums it all up!

 

1. from people who are brave enough to accept and face all the odds in loving an mpa despite the humiliation, pain, jealosy, doubt name it all... --> example nito: friends who already screwed the girl, friends who went nasty with the girl and who would tell you in detail what happened, parents/family who would obviously give the thumbs down on this idea, going to a mall and accidentally bumping into a regular customer,etc.. ang dami.. hehe

 

kung matino kayong tao.. siguro wake-up before its too late. iwasan nyo kung kaya nyo. yan lang.

[Guest Smith!]

tama yung mga nagmamahal lang sa mpa di rin matino coz alam mong p*tatsing

kaharap mo iibigin mo ibig sabihin me sayad ka hehehehehe :evil: :evil:

[BossV]

tama yung mga nagmamahal lang sa mpa di rin matino coz alam mong p*tatsing

kaharap mo iibigin mo ibig sabihin me sayad ka hehehehehe :evil:  :evil:

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Meron lang akong naisip kanina while I was driving going to work. Let's admit it guys, most of us fall for MPAs because of sex... as in FREE SEX (if there's such a thing). So, why should we fall for them pa? Hindi ba pwede na kaibiganin na lang natin sila na parang regular customer nila tayo. Ang pinagkaiba lang kasi, dapat payag na yung MPA na sa labas na lang tayo makikipag-sex at hindi na sa sa MP. Malaki din ang matitipid nating mga menyaks. Say 1K ang tip mo everytime na kukunin mo siya plus mga P500 sa motel. Eh di total of 1.5K lang yun. Kahit na sunduin mo pa siya sa house nila. 3 hours pa kayo sa motel. Not bad d ba? Ang kailangan lang mapaintindi natin sa mga MPA prospects natin that this kind of set up is better. At least regular na natin yung MPA at walang emotional attachment na kasama. I think papayag din yun kung talagang mabait ka sa kanila. Also, mas madali para sa kanila yun. Hindi rin ganun kadali kumuha na 1K a day. Ano sa tingin niyo guys? Alam ko meron nang nag post ng ganitong idea. Let's hear it from the experts.

[BossV]

tama yung mga nagmamahal lang sa mpa di rin matino coz alam mong p*tatsing

kaharap mo iibigin mo ibig sabihin me sayad ka hehehehehe :evil:  :evil:

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Meron lang akong naisip kanina while I was driving going to work. Let's admit it guys, most of us fall for MPAs because of sex... as in FREE SEX (if there's such a thing). So, why should we fall for them pa? Hindi ba pwede na kaibiganin na lang natin sila na parang regular customer nila tayo. Ang pinagkaiba lang kasi, dapat payag na yung MPA na sa labas na lang tayo makikipag-sex at hindi na sa sa MP. Malaki din ang matitipid nating mga menyaks. Say 1K ang tip mo everytime na kukunin mo siya plus mga P500 sa motel. Eh di total of 1.5K lang yun. Kahit na sunduin mo pa siya sa house nila. 3 hours pa kayo sa motel. Not bad d ba? Ang kailangan lang mapaintindi natin sa mga MPA prospects natin that this kind of set up is better. At least regular na natin yung MPA at walang emotional attachment na kasama. I think papayag din yun kung talagang mabait ka sa kanila. Also, mas madali para sa kanila yun. Hindi rin ganun kadali kumuha na 1K a day. Ano sa tingin niyo guys? Alam ko meron nang nag post ng ganitong idea. Let's hear it from the experts.

[darkcornersX]

lets admit it guys..pag the main factor forthe relationship is sex..

mind boggling free sex anytime anywhere till you get tired of course.

after all its a physical thing only...so loving an MPA is just for sex.

 

if thAts the common idea among guys..imagine what the girls on the other end of the relationship hopes to achieve through the setup...

to have financial security fast and furious before the guys dump them if they get too comfy and clingy...

 

do unto others what they want to do unto you...

 

you get what you get depending on what you put into it.

[choice452000]

i think its something else. if its just sex, you can always go to where she work. if its outside the saving is not too significant to matter, considering your time. maybe its the male ego. which clouds the mind into thinking its love.

 

the savior mentality, beating the other guys . of course if the girls say you,re the best in sex, ego boosting yan. (wonder how many guys they said the same thing) - imho.

 

how about story you heard of people who enter into one and what happen in the end. it would help as a reality check .

[hhhhhmmmmmph]

Meron lang akong naisip kanina while I was driving going to work.  Let's admit it guys, most of us fall for MPAs because of sex... as in FREE SEX (if there's such a thing).  So, why should we fall for them pa?  Hindi ba pwede na kaibiganin na lang natin sila na parang regular customer nila tayo.  Ang pinagkaiba lang kasi, dapat payag na yung MPA na sa labas na lang tayo makikipag-sex at hindi na sa sa MP.  Malaki din ang matitipid nating mga menyaks.  Say 1K ang tip mo everytime na kukunin mo siya plus mga P500 sa motel.  Eh di total of 1.5K lang yun.  Kahit na sunduin mo pa siya sa house nila.  3 hours pa kayo sa motel.  Not bad d ba?  Ang kailangan lang mapaintindi natin sa mga MPA prospects natin that this kind of set up is better.  At least regular na natin yung MPA at walang emotional attachment na kasama.  I think papayag din yun kung talagang mabait ka sa kanila.  Also, mas madali para sa kanila yun.  Hindi rin ganun kadali kumuha na 1K a day.  Ano sa tingin niyo guys?  Alam ko meron nang nag post ng ganitong idea.  Let's hear it from the experts.

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Well mass enjoy sa labas.. 3hrs ba naman at pwede ka pang mag extend!

sympre style dyan kunin nyo muna yung prospect nyo sa MP. then kausapin nyo kung pwede sa labas para naman makatipid ka.. pero wag mo sasabihin na makaka tipid ka. sabihin mo nalang na sige papasyal kayo kakain or mag lalamierda. yung mga yan tandaan nyo bihira maka labas during the day. kaya tsempuhan nyo kung kelan ang day off nila then ayun na... tapos pag mag kasama na kayo at nag kakasawaan na kayo pa tanong mo sa kanya sino pa ibang MPA na ka dayoff nya, ma iintindihan naman nila kung bakit friends nya ang dapat kasama at hindi friends mo. ayun yayain mo at mag sama sama na kayo.

 

well paano ko nalaman to, been there done that. nag ka sawaan kami kaka meet sa labas ayun nag ka yayaan ng iba. ayan panay twin ang inaabot. best part of it... no more tips na kailangan bayaran. :thumbsupsmiley:

[darius_underhill]

huhu.. same tau!!!! pro aq, im on the middle of dat situation.. palibhasa kc, kpg mpa ka, u dnt have the right to fall in love and to live normal juz like other grls outder... siempre ano k nga b nman isa k ln masahista na napapa sextra.. and even the dad of ur uests and other relatives pwede kan tikman bsta babayaran k lng tma po ba... msakit mang icpn pro yan tlga an tingin ng karamihang attendant sa srili nla, and u cant blame us, ganyan ksi ang trato na pnapkita ng uest smen eh

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Hi am just a silent lurker here but i also believe that the situation of a lot (but not all) MPA's are really glum so they need to shall we say "kumapit sa patalim". I know how it feels since I used to be in the flesh trade when I was in college. True i get gays, matronas and sometimes girls also. And believe me it feels pathetic to be "used like a rag" but thats the way the cookie crumbles. Now that i have graduated and have my own job, i am not ashamed of what I did, although there are ways. well its just a matter of decision.

 

my 2 cents

[batnball2005]

have to admit i am falling in love with a mpa. at first it was just great sex. i donot usually get a mpa over and over again pero iba itong isa. at first di ko nga siya type sa showroom but eventually i found myself getting her everytime i go there

 

di na ako nagshowroom ngayon i just call her up and she would be there. sometimes kung medyo gipit siya she calls me and bam i there in a jiffy.

 

she text and calls me also very often. that what endeared her to me. pero i tried datingher i could not hangang mp lang kami magkita. takot akong makita sa labas with her kasi i am a married man. pero iba siya talaga.

 

i told her about how i feel pero got to hand it to her siya pa ang magsasabi na huwag kasi it might ruin my marriage. pero ako ang may problema. naiinlove ako sa kanya.

 

we practically know each other in and out so to speak. i can take her for what she is pero mahirap din.

 

let just see where this heads for

[checkline_princess]

try 2 read dis...

 

 

Mahal mo xa..

Mahal ka nia..

bakit mo xa pinakawalan?

dahit ba sa isang misunderstanding?

dahil ba sa distance?

dahil ba sa mga taong nakapaligid seo?

o dahil ba nde mo makaya ung mga araw na nde

mo xa naki2ta.. miss mo na xa maxado so you try

to find another girl na maki2ta mo araw2 para dun

ibuhos ung dapat mong feelings sa mahal mo..?

the distance is just another bump on both of your

roads.

pede maayos yan.

bakit xa pumayag na pakawalan mo xa?

dahil ba xe nasaktan xa nung malaman mo na

naghahanap ka ng iba?

dahil ba naisip isip nia na gus2 nia rin ung malapit

seo?

dahil ba sabi ng friends nia maghanap na xa ng

iba?

o dahil ba mahal ka nia maxado para humarang sa

kinagu2stuhan mo tsaka ayaw nia maging hadlang

para maging masaya ka..?

kung ung dahilan mo.. ung dalawang nahuli.. eh

anu problem nio?

suwerte mo nga't nakita mo xa.. tapos

papakawalan mo pa.

minsan sa isang relationship.. kelangan nio

xempre

magparaya.

kelangan nde lang ikaw.. xempre pati xa.

kelangan nde lang puro kau.. xempre pati ung mga

taong concern senyo.

pero that doesn't mean na makinig kau ng makinig

sa mga sabi sabi.

xempre.. if you trust the one you love, ala kang

doubts.

make your loved one feel you trust him/her

comlpetely.

make him/her feel that you'd never listen to critics

that aren't true.

ngaun.. anu na?

wala na kau?

wala nang masabihan ng 'i love you'

wala ng makulit..

wla ng malambing..

wla ng maisip..kundi ung stupid mistake..

hay nako.

kung ako seo..

do whatever you can..

as soon as possible..

to get him/her back.

xe if you don't and s/he finally found someone

other than you,

baka malabuan ka ng maibalik xa.

baka nde na xa bumalik seo.

baka makita sa kanya ng pinalit seo ung reason

kung bakit mo xa minahal ng todo.

baka malaman mo na lang..

seryoso na talaga cla sa isa't isa.

masakit man isipin..

it can be the outcome..

masakit man sabihin..

pro baka mangyari talaga yan.

masakit para seo makita ung minamahal mo na

mei

iba.. especially kung nde na kau..

xe ala ka ng right mag selos..

xe ala ka ng maga2wa.. gus2 nia un eh..

kung mahal mo isang tao..

at mahal ka rin nia..

wag mong papakawalan for the slightest reason.

because it can be the worst.

 

"Smiles, tears, for all my life--and if God choose,

I shall but love thee better after death."

- SONNETS OF THE PORTUGUESE

[MTCBabes]

tama yung mga nagmamahal lang sa mpa di rin matino coz alam mong p*tatsing

kaharap mo iibigin mo ibig sabihin me sayad ka hehehehehe :evil:  :evil:

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awwww i dont think theres some guys na masyadong makitid ang utak... anyway nasa tao na lang yan.. :thumbsdownsmiley: dont judge the person thru her/his skin ika nga, and never doubt some ones love for u, if you find some imperfctions let it be, if you survived the pain, the happiness is satisfying.. never fing d perfect love, coz love without pain is impossible... beside not all mpa's has same point of view in life.. dont judge them just bcoz of the nature of the work.

[rich beem]

love is love..

kasama sa pagibig ang sacrifice at pagtangap...kung willing kang maurat dahil alam mong tuwing papasok sya sa trabaho malaki ang tsansang she will sleep with her guest at matangap mo ito..eh in love ka nga. sa mga mpa naman kung kaya niyang iwanan yung trabaho nya para duon sa guy..eh in love din talaga sya..pero mahirap at hindi mag tutuloy tuloy yung relationship nila ng guy kung hindi sya aalis sa trabaho nya as mpa.. yun ang sakripisyong kaylangan nilang gawin...

[MTBCommuter]

awwww  i dont think theres some guys na masyadong makitid ang utak... anyway nasa tao na lang yan.. :thumbsdownsmiley: dont judge the person thru her/his skin ika nga,  and never doubt some ones love for u, if you find some imperfctions let it be, if you survived the pain, the happiness is satisfying.. never fing d perfect love, coz love without pain is impossible... beside not all mpa's has same point of view in life.. dont judge them just bcoz of the nature of the work.

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Amen to that