Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[dominickcruise]

12 hours ago, Ynos said:

I have a short story..

Nag book ako for massage in hotel and nagkita kami ni ma’am agad ako nahumali sa kanyang kagandahan at napaka bait nya sakin syempre sa mga naging customer nya din pero that time para akong niyaya sa isang church na subrang smooth ng way ng pagkakasalita nya na para bang napaka pogi ko kahit hindi naman tapos nagkwkwentuhan kami na parang subrang tagal nanamin magkausap tawanan and nakauwi na kami parehas haggang ngaun hindi kona sya makalimutan ayaw ko magsabi. Saknya ng nararamdaman ko kase part ng work nila un sainyo guys yayain koba lumabas or nah forget the past ika nga ?….

ayain mo na lang bro, worse case scenario is she would reject you and you will know the answer!!

as what the basketball players say, you certainly would miss the shots you definitely did not take, hahaha

just be prepared for every answer!

[Animatrix]

11 hours ago, AngGwapo said:

Question to those in this thread:

Who would win in case the woman has to choose between the love of her life who is married (but can support her somehow) or the sponsor who is single but older than the boyfriend?

The boyfriend has not met the family due to his baggage but the sponsor has and is accepted by the family. The sponsor has asked her to marry but she has turned her down and will do so if asked again. 

Seems the less complicated choice for the lady is the sponsor. I mean age is not even an issue and the support is > probably. While with the married BF, time, finances and the affected party will be the difficult metrics.

The question is if the sponsor is the easier choice then why the turn down on the proposal. My opinion, true emotion is resilient it will thrive no matter how difficult the situation is. Only the lady can answer your question and she probably needs more time.

Edited January 29 by Animatrix

[socratesaristotle]

12 hours ago, AD3 said:

Update: I reached out to her before Christmas. One time as I was cleaning my phonebook, my heart skipped a beat when I reached her name in my entries. Should I delete or should I try to see if she still has the same digits? I chose the latter and dialled her work number, it was already unreachable. Then, i tried her personal line, it rang. 

When she picked up the phone, all I could say was "Hi". I did not expect her reaction, she immediately recognized my voice and blurted out my 1st name twice. 

Me:"How did you know it was me? Iba # gamit ko ngaun".

Her:"How can i forget? kmsta kna?"

We began to catch up on our personal lives. She totally quit the industry after paying of her families debts brought about by her sisters sickness and eventual passing. Her family sold their house and paid in full a condo unit in Pasig to be their new home. She went back to her corporate career she put on pause when she became a walker. 

Then I asked the question I have been meaning to ask:

Me:"Are you with someone now?"

Her:"Yes, I am...You?"

Me:"Yes, there is someone as well."

Silence. Dead silence. It took awhile before I finally spoke:

Me:"I hope you are happy?"

Her:" I am. He doesnt know my past. Perhaps, thats for the best."

Me:"Good, thats all I wanted to hear. You deserv to be happy after what you have been through."

We have been speaking for 30 minutes or so but the convo was getting awkward when this topic came up. I was about to say goodbye and wish her well but she spoke first before I can do so:

Her:" Maybe we can meet sometime, coffee or lunch...would be nice to see you again."

Me:"Yes, maybe we can do that."

Afterwhich, i ended the convo. I havent contacted her since for a couple of reasons, one she said she was happy and I did not want to complicate that. Second, I wanted to giv her a chance to completely leave her past behind. I was a remnant of a stage in her life she would rather forget, and I feel her seeing me would remind her of what she had done.

 

Thank you for sharing your experience @AD3. Here's to unrequited love!

[socratesaristotle]

10 hours ago, AngGwapo said:

Question to those in this thread:

Who would win in case the woman has to choose between the love of her life who is married (but can support her somehow) or the sponsor who is single but older than the boyfriend?

The boyfriend has not met the family due to his baggage but the sponsor has and is accepted by the family. The sponsor has asked her to marry but she has turned her down and will do so if asked again. 

Depends on the lady. The emotional type will go for the boyfriend while the practical one will choose the sponsor. The adventurous one will choose the sponsor while fucking the bf on the side.

[AngGwapo]

On 1/29/2024 at 8:28 PM, socratesaristotle said:

Depends on the lady. The emotional type will go for the boyfriend while the practical one will choose the sponsor. The adventurous one will choose the sponsor while fucking the bf on the side.

I think you're on to something there. 

Thanks @socratesaristotle.

Safe travels!

[Rolf.go.06]

Mag mahalan lang kayo. 

[Dancingking]

On 1/29/2024 at 7:41 AM, AD3 said:

Update: I reached out to her before Christmas. One time as I was cleaning my phonebook, my heart skipped a beat when I reached her name in my entries. Should I delete or should I try to see if she still has the same digits? I chose the latter and dialled her work number, it was already unreachable. Then, i tried her personal line, it rang. 

When she picked up the phone, all I could say was "Hi". I did not expect her reaction, she immediately recognized my voice and blurted out my 1st name twice. 

Me:"How did you know it was me? Iba # gamit ko ngaun".

Her:"How can i forget? kmsta kna?"

We began to catch up on our personal lives. She totally quit the industry after paying of her families debts brought about by her sisters sickness and eventual passing. Her family sold their house and paid in full a condo unit in Pasig to be their new home. She went back to her corporate career she put on pause when she became a walker. 

Then I asked the question I have been meaning to ask:

Me:"Are you with someone now?"

Her:"Yes, I am...You?"

Me:"Yes, there is someone as well."

Silence. Dead silence. It took awhile before I finally spoke:

Me:"I hope you are happy?"

Her:" I am. He doesnt know my past. Perhaps, thats for the best."

Me:"Good, thats all I wanted to hear. You deserv to be happy after what you have been through."

We have been speaking for 30 minutes or so but the convo was getting awkward when this topic came up. I was about to say goodbye and wish her well but she spoke first before I can do so:

Her:" Maybe we can meet sometime, coffee or lunch...would be nice to see you again."

Me:"Yes, maybe we can do that."

Afterwhich, i ended the convo. I havent contacted her since for a couple of reasons, one she said she was happy and I did not want to complicate that. Second, I wanted to giv her a chance to completely leave her past behind. I was a remnant of a stage in her life she would rather forget, and I feel her seeing me would remind her of what she had done.

 

I'm glad she didn't come back.

[papagur0]

On 1/29/2024 at 9:56 AM, AngGwapo said:

Question to those in this thread:

Who would win in case the woman has to choose between the love of her life who is married (but can support her somehow) or the sponsor who is single but older than the boyfriend?

The boyfriend has not met the family due to his baggage but the sponsor has and is accepted by the family. The sponsor has asked her to marry but she has turned her down and will do so if asked again. 

It depends how old is the sponsor if he is around 50's or 60's the woman probably marry him, the guy is already in death's door in a few years. After that having the money of the sponsor either she return to the boyfriend or seek other option. youth probably wins in this scenario.

[Schtolteheim]

About to make a mistake tonight, iba talaga pag tinamaan 😅

[pentaxc0]

6 hours ago, Schtolteheim said:

About to make a mistake tonight, iba talaga pag tinamaan 😅

Ramdam ko ito, parang tinamaan na rin ako. hindi ma-alis sa isip ko habang pauwi ako. 

 

Siguro isa pang visit, mag kukwento na ako dito 😆 

[HappyPill]

Well...kung ano man mangyari...goodluck sir. Pakatatag ka.

[Xsist77]

12 hours ago, pentaxc0 said:

Ramdam ko ito, parang tinamaan na rin ako. hindi ma-alis sa isip ko habang pauwi ako. 

 

Siguro isa pang visit, mag kukwento na ako dito 😆 

Ganyan tlg sa umpisa. Akala mo inlove ka. Magsasawa ka. Then after all that, marealized mo di pala worth it hehe.

[ENINAJ]

On 8/28/2005 at 4:45 PM, salbahe88 said:

For me, I truly admire a woman that will use whatever she has to get ahead or just plainly survive in life... There are those too who we might find decent but resort to a different kind of strategies. I recently read an autobiography of a famous US news anchor woman for "screwed" her way up the corporate ladder, eventually becoming America's top news woman. Diba, pareho din yun?

 

I really don't want to judge people. Trust your gut feel... Everyone deserves a break in life... but just be ready for the consequences dahil maraming taong makitid ang pagiisip.

 

Hope this helps...

🥰

[Prinsloo]

On 1/31/2024 at 10:39 PM, pentaxc0 said:

Ramdam ko ito, parang tinamaan na rin ako. hindi ma-alis sa isip ko habang pauwi ako. 

 

Siguro isa pang visit, mag kukwento na ako dito 😆 

Plot twist sa same thera kayo tinamaan 🤣

[Santiagowalker]

What if yung attendant/therapist yung na FALL sainyo kaya lang bawal? 🤐😅