Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Palakol]

well actually im not really into clubbing, since college , my friends were very fond of it, but i wasnt..it was just by accident in that i met her at that club since me and a friend was looking for a place to drink, i didnt like clubs, but i liked her so she was the only reason im going there(alone), clubbing aint really my hobby even though ive been going to clubs since highschool with friends, i said "i just accept the fact that i wont see her again"... because as i said i was banned from the club, and i dont know if it was her or the management's decision or both, isa pa alam ko napahiya na sya sa nangyari, ayoko rin naman na magmukha akong stalker...i dont plan to go to any clubs just to find someone else, actually my girl was already offered, according to her to be a bold star, 2 years ago and many rich guys proposed to her, im not surprised ,she is pretty but she declined...she is just simply doing this for her grandma who has taken of her since she was a kid and for her sisters, bottom line ,its poverty...a f#&king irresponsible father who left them since she was a kid caused her to work in these environment ...its what i liked about her, she is different although its hard to trust her, partida lahat na ng signs nakita ko na iba nga sya but still i didnt trust her and i guess thats my fault or because of her job, how i wish nakilala ko cya sa ibang lugar , how i hated her job ,kya ako na confuse kase masyado ko ginamit ang utak ko over my feelings for her, its like im thinking she is a whore but i love her, hindi ko matanggap na she is every mans fantasy to f#&k while on the other hand i only wanna love her,i know i didnt treated her right lately and its because hindi ko matanggap na mahal ko na cya and i cant do anything about it , i guess i learned my lesson, love is a gamble, u should just love someone no matter what she is and just hope for the best....

that's love. it just happens. you don't choose when, where, or who. it happens and there's nothing we can do about it. what we choose is how we act upon it. do we bite the bullet, endure the pain, and choose to be with that person? or do we stay away, avoid the conflict, and grow old talking about "the one that got away" for the rest of our lives?

 

i do know what i'm talking about here. one way or another. there was this girl. she was a whore. but she was MY whore. and she accepted that. "mahal kita, pero hanggang dito na lang tayo." she once said. how ironic that she was the only person who never ever lied to me. she told the truth as it was, or she simply kept her mouth shut and said that i would eventually understand. someday. there's actually a lot to this story, spanning about two years. i think i posted it somewhere in this thread. :goatee:

[brownrichard]

well actually im not really into clubbing, since college , my friends were very fond of it, but i wasnt..it was just by accident in that i met her at that club since me and a friend was looking for a place to drink, i didnt like clubs, but i liked her so she was the only reason im going there(alone), clubbing aint really my hobby even though ive been going to clubs since highschool with friends, i said "i just accept the fact that i wont see her again"... because as i said i was banned from the club, and i dont know if it was her or the management's decision or both, isa pa alam ko napahiya na sya sa nangyari, ayoko rin naman na magmukha akong stalker...i dont plan to go to any clubs just to find someone else, actually my girl was already offered, according to her to be a bold star, 2 years ago and many rich guys proposed to her, im not surprised ,she is pretty but she declined...she is just simply doing this for her grandma who has taken of her since she was a kid and for her sisters, bottom line ,its poverty...a f#&king irresponsible father who left them since she was a kid caused her to work in these environment ...its what i liked about her, she is different although its hard to trust her, partida lahat na ng signs nakita ko na iba nga sya but still i didnt trust her and i guess thats my fault or because of her job, how i wish nakilala ko cya sa ibang lugar , how i hated her job ,kya ako na confuse kase masyado ko ginamit ang utak ko over my feelings for her, its like im thinking she is a whore but i love her, hindi ko matanggap na she is every mans fantasy to f#&k while on the other hand i only wanna love her,i know i didnt treated her right lately and its because hindi ko matanggap na mahal ko na cya and i cant do anything about it , i guess i learned my lesson, love is a gamble, u should just love someone no matter what she is and just hope for the best....

 

Good on you!, on that last sentence Sir cristo606...

 

I guess you've been thru a lot as well...

 

To me things always work out fine... once I...

give my feelings the upper hand and let my head wonder around the feelings...

 

Why dont you try saying the words I LOVE YOU to her kung magkita kayo...

Test your self kung kayo mo... Powerful words yan sa girls like her...

 

To most it is easy to say I love you...

but to persons like you... my vibes eh parang hirap ka...

 

Tingnan mo ang mangyayari...

Edited November 27, 2008 by brownrichard

[Palakol]

Good on you!, on that last sentence Sir cristo606...

 

I guess you've been thru a lot as well...

 

To me things always work out fine... once I...

give my feelings the upper hand and let my head wonder around the feelings...

 

Why dont you try saying the words I LOVE YOU to her kung magkita kayo...

Test your self kung kayo mo... Powerful words yan sa girls like her...

 

To most it is easy to say I love you...

but to persons like you... my vibes eh parang hirap ka...

 

Tingnan mo ang mangyayari...

"i love you." ang problema roon, kung hindi totoo... :cry:

[lancelot69]

im in love with this MPA, grabe kasi yung sex na ginawa namin..nakatatak na talaga sa isipan ko, even her angelic face and that awesome body, tpos sobrang bait pa, always smiling when were having conversation, grabe! siguro feeling nya hindi ko sya seseryosohin, pero i dunno, bsta ako im very much in love with her, pero time will come na bka mag fade din yun..

 

im confused right now..

 

 

who cares... the most important thing is that u are happy... people change so if u think shes the one.... go for her... richard gere fell for pretty woman . forgot her name though.

[cristo606]

Good on you!, on that last sentence Sir cristo606...

 

I guess you've been thru a lot as well...

 

To me things always work out fine... once I...

give my feelings the upper hand and let my head wonder around the feelings...

 

Why dont you try saying the words I LOVE YOU to her kung magkita kayo...

Test your self kung kayo mo... Powerful words yan sa girls like her...

 

To most it is easy to say I love you...

but to persons like you... my vibes eh parang hirap ka...

 

Tingnan mo ang mangyayari...

 

tnx for the advice, personally i think this will be the end of my clubbing days, not because im traumatized by the incident with the 2 hags but because i know that everytime i enter a club , it will only remind me of her...specially when i see dancers on stage...im trying to move on actually ...i guess ok na rin at least wala na ako gastos, wala na ako iisipin at aalalahanin na tao , maybe we are not meant to be, well i dont believe in fate but i love her so much and im hoping i can see her even if its for the last time but im scared, i know it wont be good for me, if only i knew what she is feeling right now then maybe i can make a move, coz im afraid to take that chance and get hurt again coz maybe she already has moved on , you know women they move on easier than men, specially women in her field, sanay na sila e kaya nga pumasok sila sa ganon kase in one point of their lives may nanloko sa kanila, i remember what she told me before na karamihan ng pumapasok doon e ang katwiran is kesa malaspag lang sila at lokohin ng boypren nila at least doon kumikita sila and i guess its also their chance to get even with men, parang sila naman ang mang uuto...i used to ask her kung customer/guest lang ba tingin nya sa akin, she refuses to answer the question and just say "marami na ako iniisip sa buhay ko ngaun, wag ko na raw dagdagan" and then she'll tell me" un rin naman ang gusto mo diba? gro mo lang ako guest kita" anyway i miss her , its hard and depressing at times but im ok..i guess time can heal me and maybe ill just laugh about this one day, hopefully....

[xXMasterPogiXx]

kasi kaya kau na iinlab dahil maganda ung GRO na ka table nyo. hehe

[tagalupa]

kasi kaya kau na iinlab dahil maganda ung GRO na ka table nyo. hehe

 

 

Oo naman pero nde lang un ang dahilan kaya may naiinlab..Maganda nga kung saksakan naman ng mukang pera..Maiinlab ka ba sa ganun..Beauty and personality din...TAASE!

[sandygon]

I want to share my story.

I have an officemate na nirecommend ang isang spa sa parañaque. Its near in AF1. Since na mahilig akong magpamassage i went there. The receptionist allowed me to choose the therapist i want. Then I saw a girl from the back of the reception area and i find her eyes very attractive tho medyo suplada ang tingin sa akin. In short sya ang pinili ko (i'll just keep her name na lang for her privacy). During our exchanging of conversations napansin ko na smart sya and very straight forward. Nagtry akong hingiin ang number nya pero hindi nya binigay. Naiintindihan ko naman dahil sinabi nya na may boyfriend na sya. Sayang.

 

Sabi nga ng iba sana "Nuon pa kita nakilala". I start liking her for so many reasons even at first time i talked to her.

I think im inlove with her already..hehehe

 

I miss you Miss A.

[senestroring]

have some fun if you must. boys will always be boys. but don't make the mistake of falling in love coz someone is bound to get hurt in the end---either her or you.

 

just my two cents worth.

 

i agree, nicely said... one way not to fall in love is huwag babalik balikan kasi na de develop din ang feelings somehow pag ganoon, tama na cguro ang makatikim lang, lagi kasi iniisip na kaya nating dalhin ang feelings until one day nag fall in love na nga... lagot pag nagka-ganoon....

[senestroring]

i prefer a different approach. the secret to loving a whore is not trust, but love. you don't have to trust her. you need only to love her with everything you've got. true, pure, unconditional love. and everything will fall into place. love is never logical.

 

if sucking 600 dicks in a row, and f#&king the boston celtics in groups of 5 will make your woman happy, then why would you stop her? you love her, don't you? when you love someone, you want to make her happy. you don't say "i love you because i'm the only guy you f#&k." you say "i love you." that's it. nothing attached. it's unconditional. otherwise it wouldn't be true.

 

if it's unrequited, so be it. you love her. you don't say "i love you because you love me." you say "i love you." that's it.

 

after that day of bukkakae, who does she come home to? maybe not you, but she was probably thinking about you when the hundred or so guys were splattering semen all over her face. she may f#&k every guy and girl (wait, that's a good thing) on the planet, but you won't care. you love her. and you won't let possessiveness and jealousy get in the way of that. your love is stronger than that.

 

if you love someone truly, with all of you, trust, or work, or anything else is not an issue. it does not matter. what matters is that you love her. you love your whore. damn, i'm romantic...

 

i agree with what you've said, naiisip ko na tama ang ganito though hindi ito madali ang sa akin kasi pumapasok din ang jealousy and possessiveness... but to have a love stronger than that and nothing is not an issue and to really not care but to love fully... wow talaga... sana mabigyan mo ako ng advise kung paano maging ganoong ka strong ang emotions ko, yung pagiging jealous and possessive admittedly ay nakakasira ng relationship with any girl but much more to MPAs/PSPs/GROs since they are much more exposed to clients, and kung mahal mo(this is only based on my opinion), the feelings tends to sink in...

[angereyes]

have some fun if you must. boys will always be boys. but don't make the mistake of falling in love coz someone is bound to get hurt in the end---either her or you.

 

just my two cents worth.

 

Yup, I partly agree with you on this that is when either one of the guys or gals are in a relationship, and only then, one of them is bound to get hurt.

[cristo606]

Yup, I partly agree with you on this that is when either one of the guys or gals are in a relationship, and only then, one of them is bound to get hurt.

 

ok , i agree also but what if both parties got hurt because both parties dont trust each other, ang babae ..iniisip na lolokohin din sya someday at magsasawa din ung guy and the guy will also think na magaling lang manloko girl nya even if they both love each other, it happens , coz it even happens to normal and legit relationships

[tagalupa]

ok , i agree also but what if both parties got hurt because both parties dont trust each other, ang babae ..iniisip na lolokohin din sya someday at magsasawa din ung guy and the guy will also think na magaling lang manloko girl nya even if they both love each other, it happens , coz it even happens to normal and legit relationships

 

 

Agree..Kaya nde lang love ang kailangan sa ganito relasyon..Remember this is an extraordinary relationship kaya kailangan ng extraordinary effort..

Edited December 1, 2008 by tagalupa

[soft grunge]

pwede naman! that's the power of love! gawin mo punta kayo usa or canada or sa ibang bansa! at least mababawasan ang iisipin mo!

[logandakma]

Pag nauntog na ulo niyo wala na yan tapos na rin ang affair. Yan ang tutoo.

[mmp0gi]

What's the difference with an escort and your date?

 

an escort, you pre pay

a date, you pay after.

 

hehahehahehaheha

[tagalupa]

 

hindi totoo yan,,

we cant fall in love with our clients..

niloko/iniwan nio nga asawa/gf nio

kami pa MPA???

si superman hindi totoo,,

so.. yang love-love na yan

sex lang yan..sows! kayo talaga,,

 

stop convincing yourself that you are bound to change this girls' life

you are not a super hero-

people change,,, flavor of the month lang yan

parang samen,, favorite guest kayo..

 

 

 

 

Hahaha..Sis baka ayaw mo lang tanggapin sa sarili mo na PWEDE magmahal ang isang MPA/PSP/GRO sa isang CLIENT/GUEST..or ang isang GUEST/CLIENT sa isang MPA/PSP/GRO. You deserve to be love,care and be respect..Hindi nga 22o si SUPERMAN pero kami totoo..BELIEVE me sis.. Peace po tayo sis and gandang hapon sayo..

[TheRealDeal]

hmmm.....

 

Its a crime or a sin to fall in love with a MPA/GRO/PSP, everyone has the right to love and to be love.....

their jobs will never be a downfall for them.... for us clients, we need to exert our effort and our trust in this kind of relationship..... when all is taken away, all is equal..... love and understand them thoroughly.....

and I think they will love you more than you'll ever know.....

 

I know coz i'm into this kind of relationship and I'm proud of it.....

 

CHEERS!!!!!

[jong]

The question si about love.... everybody entitles to love and be loved, no matter what she/ he is.... there is always we called destiny... its boundless..... its magic.... its love!

[punisherxxx]

 

hindi totoo yan,,

we cant fall in love with our clients..

niloko/iniwan nio nga asawa/gf nio

kami pa MPA???

si superman hindi totoo,,

so.. yang love-love na yan

sex lang yan..sows! kayo talaga,,

 

stop convincing yourself that you are bound to change this girls' life

you are not a super hero-

people change,,, flavor of the month lang yan

parang samen,, favorite guest kayo..

 

 

WHAT IF A GUEST WAS THE ONE NA NILOKO NG GF NYA AND TO THINK NA HE KNOWS HOW IT FEELS TO GET HURT, I FELL IN LOVE WITH MY GRO BECAUSE I THOUGHT SHE WAS MORE THAN MY LEGIT GF BEFORE, THEY SAY THERE ARE TWO SIDES TO A COIN... GO FIGURE

[Palakol]

 

hindi totoo yan,,

we cant fall in love with our clients..

niloko/iniwan nio nga asawa/gf nio

kami pa MPA???

si superman hindi totoo,,

so.. yang love-love na yan

sex lang yan..sows! kayo talaga,,

 

stop convincing yourself that you are bound to change this girls' life

you are not a super hero-

people change,,, flavor of the month lang yan

parang samen,, favorite guest kayo..

 

 

wow. so cynical. so bitter.

 

well if it is indeed true that a professional cannot fall in love with a client, a client can still fall in love with a working girl/guy. i know a lot of guys here who can attest to that. (can i hear a "hell yeah?") you don't need to be a superhero to change someone. in fact, you don't need to change anyone at all. you fell in love with her as she was. why change her? she would be a different person then. will she be the same person you fell in love with? she likes to f#&k. so what? we get over it. we find a way to make it work.

 

and people don't change. they learn, but they don't change.

 

take note that some guys see their whore not as a whore, but just another normal human being who happens to have a profession in human resources and customer relations. also note that some guys NEVER cheat on their women, be she a whore or not.

 

What's the difference with an escort and your date?

 

an escort, you pre pay

a date, you pay after.

 

hehahehahehaheha

:thumbsupsmiley: agreed. you always pay for sex. one way or another.

Edited December 5, 2008 by Palakol

[tagalupa]

I agree with sir palakol..U dont need to be a superhero sa ganito situation and tinanggap mo cia kung ano cia and san cia galing kaya un pagbabago nasa knya na un..In my case ganun ginawa ko never ko nagsabi na pede baguhin mo un ganito o ganyan..Tinanggap ko kung ano meron and ano lang kaya nya ipakita..unfortunately nde rin nagwork out un relasyon namen.."NOT ALL WILL ENDS WELL" Tinanggap mo cia sa kabila ng kanya kahapon pero naging mahina ako,sabi nga ng iba naging duwag ako..

 

Si superman pisikal lang malakas baka pag dating sa ganito..mahina din cia..Hindi nga cla nagkatuluyan ni Louise Lane haha Kaya nde rin kailangan maging superhero ka..Kung kayo talaga ang nakatadhana kahit wala ka extra ordinary powe..magiging kayo pa rin sa bandang huli.."HAPPY ENDING" ika nga..

Edited December 5, 2008 by tagalupa

[kingarthurII]

romance is overrated ...sa umpisa lang yan ..pag naligo wala na hahaha ...sweet na sweet pero after magkaroon ng 2-3 anak eh nagsasapakan na hehehe and it doesnt mean na im talking from experience ha hehehe @RD at TL ayusin nyo grammar nyong dalawa ha hehehehe

[Palakol]

romance is overrated ...sa umpisa lang yan ..pag naligo wala na hahaha ...sweet na sweet pero after magkaroon ng 2-3 anak eh nagsasapakan na hehehe and it doesnt mean na im talking from experience ha hehehe @RD at TL ayusin nyo grammar nyong dalawa ha hehehehe

the chemical reactions in our brain that produce the feeling of "love" last no more than two years. that's when "commitment" kicks in.

 

passion and intimacy. that's romance. no commitment whatsoever.

[kingarthurII]

ehehehe can you really measure the span in which chemical hormones last ...two years huh ...ok given...but still passion and intimacy ---overrated