Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[criticco]

21 hours ago, Billy Hope said:

Hindi lang bugbog, bro. Kwento ko sa yo pag kita natin. Mahabahabang kwento ito. Kulang ang dalawang large coffee.  

Ano real story ni Vhong at Deniece? Pls share hahaha

[SAGITTARIAN]

3 hours ago, FF said:

Pag nanligaw ka ng babae ( say office mate / classmate ) with the objective na jowain mo affection leads to sexual intimacy . Sa thera its the other way around. Sexual intimacy may develop into affection lalo na if you and and the thera have good sex and connect in other non -sexual ways.

This is as i have said a dangerous path ( but not impossible if you backread this thread ). Dangerous as you have to navigate through many  rocky shoals that may make it difficult to sustain a relationship. And there are many  to consider.

For some men its  not just the the dick that "dicktates" the wanting to have the girl all to yourself. Its also the EGO where a woman offers to be your sole sexual property. Its that feeling of solo ownership ( and denying the other males desirous of your woman ) that feeds the male EGO ( the  feeling of power and control ) .  As you will not be with her 24 x 7 ( kahit na live in kayo you may be away for work etc) how sure are you that she will remain faithful and exclusive ? 

Money is also a critical issue. Many of the theras are in this to support themselves as well as their families. Can you financially support a thera + her family in the long term?

Time issues are difficult to manage. How much time can u spend with your woman ? Aside from money , BOTH of you also need physical and emotional affection / attention  ( the non-sexual needs )  as well as sex.  Infrequent visits ( like mga 1x a week ) maybe  unhealthy for the relationship.

Marami pa rin sigurong issues na dapat pagisipan. I am sure there are GMs and theras out there (who fell in and fell out of love with their respective partners ) you can learn from.

 

WELL SAID BOSS @FF, MARAMI TALAGA DAPAT PAG ISIPAN PAG PAPASUKIN ANG GANITO...KAYA PWEDE RIN NA CASE TO CASE BASIS NA SABI NI @FrostytheSnowMan

Edited March 2, 2022 by SAGITTARIAN

[Vladimir Putin]

On 3/1/2022 at 5:05 PM, FF said:

sir boss @kidfighter  ... 40 k tapos sabihin nating 20 k ang condo = P 60 k a  month ba yun ? If u have money to burn that can translate to about about 9  diff theras a month @ 7 k average with a little left over pa . hmmm mapapaisip ka din . tapos hindi mo maalis ung lingering doubt na pwede siyang mag entertain ng  ibang guys ( kasi naman boring magisa ing jowa mo dba ). Ayoko ng ganito dahil; bukod sa mahal ... iwas din ako sa karma ( please refer to my previous post hahahaha). Kumain ka na lang ng kumain   ng favorite ulam sa isa o dalawang carinderia pero iwas wag tayong mag-uwi  ng kaldero 🤣

 

ahhhh...wow... tama kayo sir!

 

[FF]

On 3/1/2022 at 5:13 PM, Billy Hope said:

Agreed. Basta, I always follow a simple rule of "Yun kay Juan, kay Juan. Yun kay Pedro, kay Pedro."

minsan lang kasi mas masarap ung ulam ni Juan at ni Pedro kaysa ulam mo. hindi mo naman aagawin titikim ka lang. to minimize risk siguro wag na kayo sa condo ni girl. labas mo na lang .

[InsomniacNinja]

On 2/12/2022 at 2:43 PM, PedroPaterno said:

Ok so nagbackread ako ng konti and natripan ko mag contribute in a small way.

Medyo general yung ilalagay ko dito and this is meant for no one in particular, that being said.

First, The very reason kung bakit marami pangit tingin sa konsepto ng pag "fall" sa isang thera is because of the job not the person, the job itself lang talaga. Bakit? Kasi sa panahon ngayon, marami rin namang babae (o kahit lalake; no generalization) that knows how to push your buttons, leave you wanting for more, give you the experience you're looking for only for them to leave you hanging with your dicks in your hands. Regardless of the profession, may ganyang tao. Sorry pero yan ang katotohanan kahapon, ngayon, at bukas magpakailanman. 

Second, I've backread stories here na and common themes are unrequited feelings and relationships of convenience (pinaganda ko lang yung term pero alam niyo na yun), tanong, hindi ba nangyayari rin yan sa normal na relationships/pseudo-relationships? (ie. panoorin niyo nalang yung mga nagpatulfo for the past year or two haha)

ok namnamin niyo muna hehe

Third, now, considering what I've previously said, regardless of the nature of the relationship or the profession of the person you're falling for, ang tanong, why expect things? When someone falls in love, one should not expect anything, one should give, not take (obviously magtira sa sarili, and when I say give, feelings, hindi pera). Kung nanliligaw ka and nafall ka, bakit ka mageexpect? Kung kayo na and todo ka magmahal tapos siya hindi? Bakit ka manghihinayang? E nagmahal ka eh, wag ka magmahal kung di ka handa masaktan. Simple diba? (obviously hindi, pero ganun dapat, yun yung mindset kasi ng karamihan, palagi may expectations na kaakibat, kung mageexpect ka lang din ng kapalit, wag ka nalang makipagrelasyon, bayaran mo nalang.)

Lastly, eto tip sa peg talaga ang thera (and I bear no judgement kung thera talaga trip mo na babae na maging karelasyon, I'll explain why.),
1 - look past the job (this is very difficult dahil wired tayo na kailangan exclusive satin when it comes to intimate activities) if you can do that, proceed to the next one, if hindi, stop.
2 - treat the person as an equal, applicable ito sa lahat ng bagay, and when I say sa lahat, LAHAT, just like in any "normal" relationship (magagawa mo to kung  nagawa mo yung 1, kaya ko sinabi pag di mo kaya yung 1, di talaga pwede sayo to.)
2.5 -  always remember na nakilala mo yan na thera siya, so kung napamahal ka sakanya ng thera siya, wag mo ipressure na tumigil sa trabaho (even if you have the means to support her, kasi nilalagyan mo ng condition yung pagmamahal mo eh. this is also applicable que-se-joda ano pa trabaho nyan)
3 - just like in any other relationships, be clear with your intentions. (taragis pag eto kailangan ko pa iexplain ewan ko nalang hehe)
So bakit wala ako judgement sayo kung thera talaga trip mo, kasi see point 1, para saakin since trabaho lang yan, wala yan pinagkaiba sa mga tao na trip ang nurses, flight attendants, salespeople, etc etc. May perks kasi if you're dating someone from a specific field, kaya understandable if you're into therapists. 

Ayun lang pero para panapos bigyan ko kayo sample ng isang tropa ko, eto polar opposite talaga sila from estado ng buhay hanggang sa personality (pati sa ichura, sorry men, di mo naman mababasa to eh wahaha)

Premise, guy 22 years old is from a pretty much well-off chinese family (well-off hindi ultra rich, hindi rin rich, well off yung sakto lang kaya mabuhay kahit walang pumasok na pera ngayong pandemic, pero hindi yung tipong kaya bumili ng Ferrari maya't maya) girl is a 24 year old is a single independent guest relations officer and is the sole breadwinner.

X years ago they met sa workplace nung girl, nahumaling si guy, inaraw araw yung workplace, niligiwan, nagkainlove-an, naging sila. The end. 

CHARIZ

The guy decided to take things further and introduce her to his family, pero bago nya ipakilala, ikinwento muna nya sa parents nya ano nangyari to gauge their reaction, surprisingly, sabi ng parents, ok anak, basta importante tao trato sayo, tao trato mo sakanya.

So kung ano man mapupulot niyo dyan kayo na bahala.

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In conclusion, how bout me? Would I date one? Yeah puta why not. Not keeping my doors closed. Would I apply what I just said? Would try my very best to siyempre. Easier said than done, palagi applicable yun sa lahat ng bagay. Iba kasi pag feelings na involved eh.

Anyways, happy afternoon gents. Good luck sa lovelife, sensya napahaba. and this is where I end my TED Talk, don't forget to like, share and subscribe, chariiiz!

gusto ko sana mag heart react pero walang option sakin kaya quote ko nalang hahaha ♥️♥️♥️

Very well said sir @PedroPaterno. Salamat sa words of wisdom, naliwanagan ako kung ano na next move ko haha

btw mukang masarap ka kakwentuhan sa inuman, may laman ang mga salita haha

 

[InsomniacNinja]

🍻

39 minutes ago, Doobydobap said:

Totoo solid magbitaw ng mga salita inom na tayo 🍻

 

[KID FIGHTER]

My best friend (as in super best friend - we were classmates and roomates in college and also later on classmates again in California) is a lawyer who owns a hospital in Davao. Half Chinese too. Coincidentally both of us got married to Chinese doctors (pedia sa kanya; endo & gastro sakin). Una silang nag separate. After 2 years ako naman. Two years ago, pinakilala nya sakin yung pretty girl. Former thera! Smart girl. Parang si Yassi or Ara of TV Spa mag isip. Last year nagka baby sila nung thera. Syempre, I went to Davao para mag ninong sa binyag. Pina aral niya si thera ngayon ng business management. They seem to be happier!☺👍 Lawyer (owner of a hospital) now living happily with a former thera. That's my number 1 best friend. Will I fall for a thera just like my best friend? Or should I go back to my pretty ex-wifey who is also a doctor? Di ko alam eh.

 

[KID FIGHTER]

I also ask myself: "kung gusto mo si thera, gusto ka rin ba niya?" Sa totoo lang, marami kong nakilala na thera na ang taas ng standard. Yeah, honestly! I'm a good listener kasi. So dun ko nalalaman. 

And the thera, just like any beautiful girl, has the right to choose. Nagka crush na rin ako sa isang thera in 2018 for about 11 months.  Masyado siyang selosa. Nawala din. Lately, nagka crush naman ako sa isang pretty thera. Ok nung una. She gave me nice advice. Pero napansin ko, di nya ako gusto. Di ko na lang tinuloy. 

Lahat kc ng naging ex ko (my first GF is the niece of a former governor and congressman of Albay) parang meron na kagad attraction on day one. Wala ng ligawan. Is it because of my being American-born? Yun first jowa ko. Pareho kaming virgin. Sabay nag experiment! Ayun grabe, kahit saan na kami nag sex. Sa UP Sunken Garden grabe at least 4x week. Dun sa condo (owned by her mom) minsan gabi gabi nandun ako. Yun 2nd ko, ganun din. Meron kagad attraction. Pagdating sa thera, ganun din ako. Pag di nya ko gusto, wag na! Hehehe. Hanap na lang ng iba. 

There are two guys (in previous pages) who posted their experiences na "niloko daw sila ng thera". Sa tingin ko po, hindi kayo niloko. Hindi nyo lang kagad napansin na walang gusto si thera sa inyo. Aminin!!!😁😁😂😂😂

 

 

 

 

[KID FIGHTER]

 

"Bakit kasi pinagsama-sama ng Diyos ang daming magagandang thera sa iilang spa? Sobrang ganda na, sobrang sexy pa, ang kikinis, ang bango ng hininga, at lahat gagawin para sisigaw ka sa sarap! Meron pa dyan ang sikip ng femfem, parang virgin lagi. Meron din ang tamis ng laway at sarap sipsipin ang tongue kahit 20 minutes straight! Meron din ang bango ng femfem at sarap ng femfem juice nya. Gusto mong higupin lahat habang kumikisay kisay naman si pretty girl sa sarap. Meron din na parang honeymoon kayo lagi. Habang nagpa pump ka, yakap sya ng mahigpit sayo at nakadikit sa chest mo yung malaman niyang boobs na parang di pa nahawakan ng ibang boys. Four ladies dyan sa isang spa, I describe them as having virginal boobs. Sobrang malaman, ang tayong tayo ng nips. Sarap pisil pisilin! Pero kahit naka 5x or more na kayo lovemaking, ganun pa rin kaganda boobs. Tapos mala Virgin Mary pa ang mukha. Kulang na lang luluhod ako at magdasal ng Rosaryo bago mag 2nd pop. Buhay nga naman. Bakit ba kasi maraming thera merong perfect beauty?"

Hehehe. I'd like to believe that such a situation is the beginning of your predicament and eventual dilemma. Tapos syempre, dahil mabait ka, you're a nice businessman, with great educational background. Day one nyo pa lang, bigay na bigay si thera. No restrictions! Inulit mo kagad after 2 days. This time extended. Double the time. Nagpa deliver ka pa ng Dark Mocha Frap Venti sa kanya at sa mga friends nya the day before kayo maglampungan uli. Syempre, kung ako yung thera, especial talaga treatment ko sayo. Marespeto ka pa. Tinatrato mo si thera na para talagang nililigawan. Baka nga gwapo, matangkad, matipuno at very refined ka pa. Tapos single! (Di ako yun- separated ako eh)

What do you think will happen next?

[tinylurker]

1 hour ago, KID FIGHTER said:

 

"Bakit kasi pinagsama-sama ng Diyos ang daming magagandang thera sa iilang spa? Sobrang ganda na, sobrang sexy pa, ang kikinis, ang bango ng hininga, at lahat gagawin para sisigaw ka sa sarap! Meron pa dyan ang sikip ng femfem, parang virgin lagi. Meron din ang tamis ng laway at sarap sipsipin ang tongue kahit 20 minutes straight! Meron din ang bango ng femfem at sarap ng femfem juice nya. Gusto mong higupin lahat habang kumikisay kisay naman si pretty girl sa sarap. Meron din na parang honeymoon kayo lagi. Habang nagpa pump ka, yakap sya ng mahigpit sayo at nakadikit sa chest mo yung malaman niyang boobs na parang di pa nahawakan ng ibang boys. Four ladies dyan sa isang spa, I describe them as having virginal boobs. Sobrang malaman, ang tayong tayo ng nips. Sarap pisil pisilin! Pero kahit naka 5x or more na kayo lovemaking, ganun pa rin kaganda boobs. Tapos mala Virgin Mary pa ang mukha. Kulang na lang luluhod ako at magdasal ng Rosaryo bago mag 2nd pop. Buhay nga naman. Bakit ba kasi maraming thera merong perfect beauty?"

Hehehe. I'd like to believe that such a situation is the beginning of your predicament and eventual dilemma. Tapos syempre, dahil mabait ka, you're a nice businessman, with great educational background. Day one nyo pa lang, bigay na bigay si thera. No restrictions! Inulit mo kagad after 2 days. This time extended. Double the time. Nagpa deliver ka pa ng Dark Mocha Frap Venti sa kanya at sa mga friends nya the day before kayo maglampungan uli. Syempre, kung ako yung thera, especial talaga treatment ko sayo. Marespeto ka pa. Tinatrato mo si thera na para talagang nililigawan. Baka nga gwapo, matangkad, matipuno at very refined ka pa. Tapos single! (Di ako yun- separated ako eh)

What do you think will happen next?

Super happy na relationship pero short-lived though may mga rare occurrences na nagkakatuluyan talaga, whether swerte talaga, destiny kuno or compatible sila sa isa't isa.

Sa side ng thera, marami siyang clients everyday. Finding someone with the same or much higher specs is possible kaya malaki pa rin yung chance na mapalitan ka or hindi mag push through yung relationship.

Sa side naman ng GM, kung nakukuha na niya highest mileage ng thera, masaya sa simula pero eventually, hahanap at hahanap siya ng higher mileage or magsasawa to the point na aayawan na niya or maghahanap na siya ng iba.

 

[tinylurker]

13 hours ago, KID FIGHTER said:

I also ask myself: "kung gusto mo si thera, gusto ka rin ba niya?" Sa totoo lang, marami kong nakilala na thera na ang taas ng standard. Yeah, honestly! I'm a good listener kasi. So dun ko nalalaman. 

And the thera, just like any beautiful girl, has the right to choose. Nagka crush na rin ako sa isang thera in 2018 for about 11 months.  Masyado siyang selosa. Nawala din. Lately, nagka crush naman ako sa isang pretty thera. Ok nung una. She gave me nice advice. Pero napansin ko, di nya ako gusto. Di ko na lang tinuloy. 

Lahat kc ng naging ex ko (my first GF is the niece of a former governor and congressman of Albay) parang meron na kagad attraction on day one. Wala ng ligawan. Is it because of my being American-born? Yun first jowa ko. Pareho kaming virgin. Sabay nag experiment! Ayun grabe, kahit saan na kami nag sex. Sa UP Sunken Garden grabe at least 4x week. Dun sa condo (owned by her mom) minsan gabi gabi nandun ako. Yun 2nd ko, ganun din. Meron kagad attraction. Pagdating sa thera, ganun din ako. Pag di nya ko gusto, wag na! Hehehe. Hanap na lang ng iba. 

There are two guys (in previous pages) who posted their experiences na "niloko daw sila ng thera". Sa tingin ko po, hindi kayo niloko. Hindi nyo lang kagad napansin na walang gusto si thera sa inyo. Aminin!!!😁😁😂😂😂

 

 

 

 

Woaah, sa UP lagoon mas private HAHAHAHAHA

 

 

[Natal74]

Hayyss ang hirap iwasan, pero kailangan

[tinylurker]

1 hour ago, Qin Nan said:

Lately deliks na dun dinamihan na ikaw and laging umiikot dun SSb dami kasing ninanakawan dun na students haha 

Totoo hahahaha

Nakakamiss yung old days na Dami nagmomomol sa gilid, and yung rare chance na may maapakan kang nag eeme kapag sobrang dilim.

 

 

[johnlove]

Their life is miserable enough to drive them into this line of work, just avail of their service more often. 

Falling for them will only mean additional emotional baggage.

[Astraea of Geisha]

On 3/1/2022 at 3:48 PM, handsomebob said:

I won't recommend ladies with children.....lalong lalo na din yung mga dalaga, they are looking for the richest man they could possibly get, so if you're not really really rich, it's best to stay away...

it's best to just get them once and find another one and another one and another one..

life is meant to be enjoyed not get stressed....

 

Grabe naman kau mga bosing sa mga single mother... di naman lahat ng thera na single mother rich guy ang hanap... my ibang mga single mother na thera na nag wwork para makaipon sa future ng anak nila..hindi para humanap ng mag aahon sa kanila sa kinasadlakan nilang mundo...

Pasenya napo at nakikisabat ako sa topic.. medyo nakakahurt lang kase yung parang discrimination ng mga gm sa mga single mother na thera.... 

Ganto na nga yung work namen na napiling pasukin para mas mapabilis yung pag iipon namen for the future of our baby...pero sana wag nyo naman lahatin.. hindi rin nman kase biro maging isang single mom tas gantong klase pa napili nameng pasukin.... 

Pinaghihirapan din naman po namen yung kinikita namen... di rin naman ganun kadaling makipag doo sa kung sino sino na walang feelings at 1st time mo na meet... pero ginagawa prin namen ng maayos yung trabaho namen dahil sa kikitain namen...

..dahil dto sa gantong trabaho mas mabilis kumita ng pera at mas mabilis maka ipon..... 

 

 

Sorry again sa pakikisabat 😭😭😭

Isa pa po minsan my mga gm din na pa fall at mahilig ma ngako sa mga thera....

Pasensya na po uli...